calling all crossdressers

[bizel]

i introduced my hubby to my underwear drawer, and now he loooooves wearing women's knickers. i don't mind at all. have no problem with it. we enjoy his 'fetish'/preference and i buy some knickers specifically with him in mind. in fact, my bum has never seen them.

i'm curious though, while he's exploring his bi/gay side, he longs to find men who also enjoy crossdressing. i am completely puzzled by why this is so important for him. do cd's like to compare? do they get turned on seeing each other? or is it just a comfort thing? they feel comfortable around others that understand the longing? i've even tossed my sarongs at him. he loves wearing them around the house or when we travel long distance in the car but won't wear them outside the house. i was brought up with islander friends in nz, so men wearing sarongs is normal to me but he's very nervous about it. why am i so cursedly 'straight' cos i don't really understand these urges, i can only accomodate them!!?? thank goodness you guys are out here. i need another education class, dear family.

[Rough Trade]

I LOVE crossdressers. I don't dress up, but a guy wearing women's clothes, especially long skirts, is hot!

[ready5858]

I have been wearing womens under wear for sometime now including "G" string "T" backs stockings etc. It feels great and makes me sexy, hot and when my partner finds me wearing a pair wow what a night of great sex I'll never stop....

[bicuriouscd]

Hi Bizel,

Sorry your having a hard time trying to figure this all out.

My guess would be that your hubby would like to explore his bi-side with a cross-dresser for a couple of different reasons,
Maybe it would be that he wants to be with someone who is more feminine than just a normal guy and feels that a cross-dresser if less threatening but still a guy , or maybe he feels that he wants it to be a "girl on girl" type of thing even though they are both cross-dressed.

The best way in my opinion to find out about his desires would be to have a honest and open talk to him about what they are , and tell him how important it is to you to try to understand what he wants and needs , I'm sure it won't be an easy conversation but you do have a right to be comfortable with his choices too.

Best of luck to you.

[Michigan_cpl]

my husband is also a crossdresser, i still love him very much rather is male or dressed as a female.

he loves to wear panties,lingerie,nighties, bras heels make up all things that us women wear. he says that it wakes him feel all fem and sexy on the inside as well as on the inside. yes i have also seen my husband with another man dressed up as a women and i have watched them make love to one another, i must say that it was very hot watching them two go at it.

my husband has also been out in public fully dressed as a women, i find it a huge turn on for me to see my hubsand dressed , yes we do have great sex together as two women but with something a little extra.

i have bought my husband some panties, but what he does have he has bought him self. he has tons of panties and wears them 24/7/265.
when we go to the store for shoping, the first place that he goes is right to the ladies section to check out the hot and sexy panties & bras, & lingerie.
i as his understanding and loving wife love it.:bipride:

[Hoselvr]

I love crossdressing and I love other crossdressers. Best of both worlds.

[marysueiowacd]

Wow Bizel and Michigan couple you ladies are the tops of all women. To help and support and love your hubbies the way you do is so special. In my opinion no higher level of love for each other could ever be achieved. Now my wife is very supportive of my crossdressing but she doe's not know I am bi. I do prefer being with other cd's for the fact that it is the image of another women that I will be having fun with. Seems we are more docile when dressed and more loving. The feel of what they are wearing compared to a guy wearing blue jeans and saying on your knee's bitch. Thats never happened to me lol. The hugging and kissing is so passionate then going down and finding the prize. To feel him in silky panties is just wonderful. Hope this explains a little bit to you as to why I like other cd's. Any tips on how to tell my wife I am bi would be helpful too. Take care and hugs Robyncd

[bizel]

Wow Bizel and Michigan couple you ladies are the tops of all women. To help and support and love your hubbies the way you do is so special. In my opinion no higher level of love for each other could ever be achieved. Now my wife is very supportive of my crossdressing but she doe's not know I am bi. I do prefer being with other cd's for the fact that it is the image of another women that I will be having fun with. Seems we are more docile when dressed and more loving. The feel of what they are wearing compared to a guy wearing blue jeans and saying on your knee's bitch. Thats never happened to me lol. The hugging and kissing is so passionate then going down and finding the prize. To feel him in silky panties is just wonderful. Hope this explains a little bit to you as to why I like other cd's. Any tips on how to tell my wife I am bi would be helpful too. Take care and hugs Robyncd

big hug to you, robyncd. it's great she supports the cd'g. that's interesting. if my hubby had told me he was into all this when we first met, i don't know that i would have been able to accept it. i guess it would have depending on how he introduced it. all i know now is, i wouldn't have missed this education for anything in the world. it has made me a more open-thinking, respectful person and i thank him for that.

with your wife, you know what's she's like sexually. is she experimental? is she into porn? is she a communicator? does she like to talk about anything/ everything sexual? are you 'cheating' on her with men (i say that word but hate it, cos if you have an urge that's driving you mad and you aren't with women, it makes a difference to me)? if she's receptive to new ideas and loves you deeply (not just words, but actually cares about you), i would bring up the word - not in relation to you, but just the word in general. show her some porn, does she find it arousing? if the ground is safe, i think it would be better to be honest with her. i posted a thingo to r(can't remember all the numbers after the r). he wants to tell his wife also. your wife needs to know she is loved, you are not abandoning her and the marriage, she comes first but you need to tell her (i don't know if this means for you, that you want to explore the physical side, you don't mention that), she will need reassurance, and if she needs, we are here for her too. what we are, is not wrong - remember that! you can't help being bi. and it is nothing that needs to be excused! it's natural.

my hubby was almost in tears on the phone the other day saying it would have been easier to 'keep the genie in the bottle'. i told him that was bullshit!! he was so miserable, so confused. i hated seeing him like that. this was going to surface in some shape or form, as some stage. there have been a shitload of tears, i'm guessing not just from me. but we are slowly getting there. his journey needed to happen, it's time had come. he needed to live a life completely honest with himself (and me). i love him more for that. for you both, there will be tears, fears, guilt etc. that's perfectly natural.change brings all that. but if you two really love each other, really help each other, really listen to each other, your relationship will be stronger and more beautiful. i wish you luck. big hug, B

p.s. be mindful it's the middle of the holiday season. people are soooo stressed at this time of the year. keep the introduction of the idea low key until it's a little less stressful - for both your sakes. XX

[Bicuriousity]

Your support for him is so great to hear and he looks great in that picture...


my husband is also a crossdresser, i still love him very much rather is male or dressed as a female.

he loves to wear panties,lingerie,nighties, bras heels make up all things that us women wear. he says that it wakes him feel all fem and sexy on the inside as well as on the inside. yes i have also seen my husband with another man dressed up as a women and i have watched them make love to one another, i must say that it was very hot watching them two go at it.

my husband has also been out in public fully dressed as a women, i find it a huge turn on for me to see my hubsand dressed , yes we do have great sex together as two women but with something a little extra.

i have bought my husband some panties, but what he does have he has bought him self. he has tons of panties and wears them 24/7/265.
when we go to the store for shoping, the first place that he goes is right to the ladies section to check out the hot and sexy panties & bras, & lingerie.
i as his understanding and loving wife love it.:bipride:

[longtimemarriedguy]

Way to go Michigan couple - love that!

I too wear panties. It's the big turn on when my wife picks out the panties for me in the store. I've also ordered them through Xdress.com and a "sister" website of theirs. The cup portion of the panties are cut for men and give you a little more room. The material is like the womens panties so they are very comfortable. Hey guys, in the winter - nylons are warm. They are also a hell of a turn on! LOL.

[marysueiowacd]

Bizel thanks for your reply. My wife in general is pretty vanillia. She knows I want to do other things but she don't know I am bi. We have tried light bondage but it didn't do much for either of us. She will not watch porno but she has gone to porno stores with me.Like I said she is very ok with my crossdressing. As far as loving each other that is not a problem at all I know I have always loved her even after her affair. I know she loves me after she left her younger b/f. To this day she will never admit her affair they were just so called freinds. I found her birth control pills so that answeres any questions on how I knew. I think she is fairly open minded as we have both accepted and still love our gay son. Gee wonder where he got that from. So maybe I got more going for me than I thought. I should mention I have told her she needs another b/f but now she won't do it. She says I am all she needs. She is not bi or bi curious so that is out. We are getting older and I want to have some fun before we can't.Anyway maybe things will work out yet. Take care and hugs Robyncd

[kitchenerbimale]

I have been a crossdresser for over 40 years and to this day still love it!!!Although never enjoyed my "bi" side till i was in my 40's and enjoy that now too!!!:tongue:

[Thong lvr]

Kudos to all you wives who know and understand your hubby xdress's. Ive been a crossdresser for years and came out to my wife about it a couple years ago. She was very understanding and supportive. We have a ball buying lingerie together. I also have a bi side and the desires to be with another crossdresser. She does have trouble understanding that. I guess for me its that next level.
I will say it was this website that made me feel ok about myself and who I am.

[jackbirdjay]

Not sure why. I started dressing when I 14, was left home alone nights as My mom had to work.(dad died when I was 13) As with any 14 year old male, I couldn't keep my hands off my self. Being experimental, I started to go though mom's things. What I found was exciting and shocking. Mom had all kinds of toys and paper back books with expletive sex stories. The stories covered everything, from gang bangs to gay to cross dressing. There was well over 100 hundred of them. Then I found her large lingerie dresser. Don't know why, even to this day. The first time I rolled on a pair of her stockings made my heart pound with excitement. Still to this day, it's just something I can't explain. I think it's just the naughty thing of it. But the biggest thrill I got was between the ages 23 to 27 when I lived alone. I started to do the cd thing fully. I was totally smooth and did make up and every thing. Then I took the plunge at 24 went out in public dressed. Now at 53 only dress every now and then, it's not as thrilling as before. I think we go though stages of what's thrilling, taboo, naughty, sexy, u shouldn't do that, being caught excitement.

[BiJoe696]

In my teens and 20's I tried it just to see what it was like. Material feels good, helps with fantasy's but it just isn't a fetish. Never did it with another guy, except one who wanted me in lace panties before doing me. Have done role reverse play with both dressing with wife and a previous female partner on a couple occasions, it was very fun, but again, not a fetish. May do it again sometime if in mood, but who knows. Enjoy trying different things for fun and fantasy.

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[pantycouple]

Nice to meet another woman who enjoys seeing her man wearing panties. Don't worry guys there are lots of woman who do enjoy a man wearing panties. Just like with anything one is into its always much more fun enjoying it with someone else, same goes for crossdressing being able to enjoy that with others who crossdress makes it so much more fun and being around others who understand also helps. Its not unusual that your husband wants to be around others who dress. I love making my husband wear panties, making him wear satin panties is my favorite. We actually go shopping together for panties and often pick out matching ones. We get some funny smiles at the checkout when paying since we both wear a different size. Feeling him through the panties turns me on so much, and he loves being teased until he is twitching in his panties, I love bringing him to the edge by running my hands over the front of his panties and then letting him cool off before going back and doing it again. I also enjoy licking him through panties, he usually ends up exploding in the panties when I do this, I love how excited he gets when wearing panties, seems that more and more woman are realizing just how many men enjoy panties. Check out our profile for more about us.

[Insanityguru]

I love to crossdress. I am currently single and would love to meet supportive like yall. Its so hard to find women who accept it.

[Kirk4bi]

Hi NZ,

With you were closer and we could meet. I wsent with a female dominatrex few years ago and she introduced me to silky panties gradually then negliget (sp?) followed by the occasional dress all fun. She developed this submissive side in me which helps relaaxx as I later learned. Now Im still interesteed and not sure where to go with this.

You have some sympathy from me and I would like to hear more from you too.

Kirk

[Muddigger369]

I love to cross dress I wear thongs g strings and accaisually a dress or and outfit around the house when alone wish I had the support y'all have

[bonertone]

I luv crossdressing and wearing sexy lingerie i just luv spunking in my panties