Who became bi in their 20's?

[PrettyFlowingGown]

I'm just wondering cause my first gay encounter was when I was 26. I was alone with a freind one night, an older man who was 40. He was going through a seperation with his wife. We were watching lesbian movies together, and he was getting really agitated, and was getting closer to me and started to touch me. He knew of my crossdressing and asked if I had some lingerie. I said "I did", so without much hesitation I got some silk knickers out the draw. He said that he would change me, so he took off my shorts and singlet and made me lay on the bed and he put my knickers on. Then he gave me a full massage, and rolled me over, and started kissing me, then went down on me and gave me oral. I never gave him oral that night, but it was a beautiful experience and it was the start of my bisexual journey.

[bityme]

I'm just wondering cause my first gay encounter was when I was 26. I was alone with a freind one night, an older man who was 40. He was going through a seperation with his wife. We were watching lesbian movies together, and he was getting really agitated, and was getting closer to me and started to touch me. He knew of my crossdressing and asked if I had some lingerie. I said "I did", so without much hesitation I got some silk knickers out the draw. He said that he would change me, so he took off my shorts and singlet and made me lay on the bed and he put my knickers on. Then he gave me a full massage, and rolled me over, and started kissing me, then went down on me and gave me oral. I never gave him oral that night, but it was a beautiful experience and it was the start of my bisexual journey.

I was 20, just back from Viet Nam and my wife and I started swinging. We got very involved with another couple, both of whom turned out to be bi. Things started out slowly, but by the end of 1970 there was very little we hadn't done with or to each other. It was a wonderful 6 year relationship that ended only because they moved out of state. We saw them a couple of times over the next 10 years on vacations, but lost contact after my first wife passed away.

Have some great memories of those times.

Pappy

[taz321]

I was in my early twenties when I gave my first bj, I wrote about it in one of these threads a while back. It seems like alot of the people I know that are bi realized it in their late teens or twenties!! I am just glad I found out when I did so I have had the pleasure of twenty some years of wonderful blow jobs!! MMMMMMMMMM!!:tongue:

[Dog62]

I wish I had found out that young when I had more time to explore. I was in my mid 40's my first time.

[Thong lvr]

I was in my early teens when I discovered I liked to crossdress and had my first male encounter. While staying the night at a friends house we started confessing things we like. I told him I like to wear womens underwear. He confessed he liked boys. I gave him permission to play with me. That night started a long time relation and I've never felt guilty about being bi

[jackbirdjay]

I was always curious all though high school. In the gym showers use to take looks was so scared someone might find out. I was having sex with girls but wanted something more, but hide my feelings it was the 70's not as open like now. I got to suck my first cock at 20 a older guy in his 50's. I felt so guilty after, Like I said it was the 70's didn't want to get beat up. Of course I wanted more but was so guilty about it. Well at 22 I just went with the flow and didn't care anymore. between 22 to 34 I was only with one other women. (6 total over the years) I was with well over 10 guys by then.

[ocaladouglas]

I was in my early teens the first time I got to taste my first cock and have been loving it ever since.

[IndyBiFun]

Boy, I wish!

I was in my late 20's when I first started to even question my sexuality. I ignored what I call "that little inner voice" until my mid 30's. That voice just grew louder and louder until I had to stop and listen.

I finally allowed myself to experiment and once I did, I discovered how much I enjoyed it. But I was also scared.

In my 40's I met a guy that I really like and we have had some experiences together and that cemented the fact that I am bisexual but he has also let me know that it's "OK."

I just wish I had listened to that inner voice earlier.

[maxtor]

i much younger than my 20's when i discovered i like to play with men and love anal sex. i cut my teeth on my older brother and he used to play with me although i didnt have much at that time but i would jack him off till completion.... loved it and it took off from there but havent done it much in the last few years since i was involved with a woman but i am again getting hot to play and take some anal.

[bisexualcocklover]

I was 13 the first time I ever had sex...that was with another boy the same age. It wasn't until I was 16 that I had sex with a girl. I don't think it matters what age you are...if you want to experiment with your sexuality...do it!

[yanzeek]

I was always curious all though high school. In the gym showers use to take looks was so scared someone might find out. I was having sex with girls but wanted something more, but hide my feelings it was the 70's not as open like now. I got to suck my first cock at 20 a older guy in his 50's. I felt so guilty after, Like I said it was the 70's didn't want to get beat up. Of course I wanted more but was so guilty about it. Well at 22 I just went with the flow and didn't care anymore. between 22 to 34 I was only with one other women. (6 total over the years) I was with well over 10 guys by then.

It often makes me wonder what lifestyles and preferences would be acceptable after 40 years from now, which are really bad in sense of society and religion, frown upon, hush-hush, brings guilty feeling, fear of getting outcast?

[bityme]

I was 20, just back from Viet Nam and my wife and I started swinging. We got very involved with another couple, both of whom turned out to be bi. Things started out slowly, but by the end of 1970 there was very little we hadn't done with or to each other. It was a wonderful 6 year relationship that ended only because they moved out of state. We saw them a couple of times over the next 10 years on vacations, but lost contact after my first wife passed away.

Have some great memories of those times.

Pappy

I have to correct that. Actually I was 22 and just back from Viet Nam.

Pappy

[PrettyFlowingGown]

Boy, I wish!

I was in my late 20's when I first started to even question my sexuality. I ignored what I call "that little inner voice" until my mid 30's. That voice just grew louder and louder until I had to stop and listen.

I finally allowed myself to experiment and once I did, I discovered how much I enjoyed it. But I was also scared.

In my 40's I met a guy that I really like and we have had some experiences together and that cemented the fact that I am bisexual but he has also let me know that it's "OK."

I just wish I had listened to that inner voice earlier.I was the same for quite awhile. I thought that what I was doing was "wrong" cause i was homophobic for many years, but as soon as i discovered it, i realised how gentle another man could be.
After my first experience with him, he told me he had a holiday house and we went there one day and spent 2 hours with each other intimately. It still today stays in my memory. hE WAS BEAUTIFUL TO BE WITH...

[AsianDream]

I became BI at age 29 (last year) having previously always been gay only.

[smokey]

I had brief sexual encounters with both sexes in my mid teens (no penetration), lost my virginity at 18 and by the time I was 19 I'd had sex with both. That was 74/75. W

[smokey]

I had brief sexual encounters with both sexes in my mid teens (no penetration), lost my virginity at 18 and by the time I was 19 I'd had sex with both. That was 74/75.

[evilscottsman]

I did. but i guess thats obvious since im 21, started right after i turned 21

[frontierman2011]

Boy, I wish!

I was in my late 20's when I first started to even question my sexuality. I ignored what I call "that little inner voice" until my mid 30's. That voice just grew louder and louder until I had to stop and listen.

I finally allowed myself to experiment and once I did, I discovered how much I enjoyed it. But I was also scared.

In my 40's I met a guy that I really like and we have had some experiences together and that cemented the fact that I am bisexual but he has also let me know that it's "OK."

I just wish I had listened to that inner voice earlier.

This is exactly how it worked out for me as well, and now I'm stuck out here, growing old in the desert where I can't find anyone for a hundred miles... lol

[tvoyemat]

I was a young surfer hitching up the coast and got picked up by a guy in a suit, who came up with some laughable pseudo-medical pretext for pulling to the side of the road and rubbing my cock through my shorts. Didn't go any further than that that day, but I seemed to encounter bi/gay guys while hitching, who liked what they saw and rather than being repulsed, as I thought I was supposed to be, I was incredibly turned on.

Fully consummating it all was a long, slow process, but my worship of cock gradually won me over.

[imway2wild4you]

I was 27 and had went to a party for some friends. My wife and had went but when the party was over she went home to get the kids and I stayed to help clean up. We drank some and cleaned up and then I went to get another drink and noticed some cards on top of the fridge. I grabed them and returned to the kitchen table when my friend and his wife were. They were horrified when they saw I had the cards. I thought they were normal cards and we could play some hands of poker but they were cards to a new sex game they had purchased. Initially the actions required by the cards were all performed on her, but with each article of clothing coming off he slowly started to touch me, kiss me, lick my nipple. At first I was taken back but was getting to have some fun with his hot wife so it was cool. Then we moved to the living room, stopped playing cards and just started foreplay with all three of us. She started sucking my cock while he ate her pussy and ass. I layed back on the couch and closed my eyes enjoying the oral performance she was giving. Then I felt two mouths on my cock and thought that was hot. We both fucked and suck on her till she had came several times. She was totally drunk and as the alcohol hit she started to get sick so she excused herself and left him and I in the living room alone. We initially just started jacking and well one thing led to another and before long I was sucking my first cock and that night would fuck my first man hole. It was hot and I was hooked.

[manhatten]

Me, in Austin Texas. I was a broke ass musician, took a job for an "Escort" agency, answering the phone, delivering and picking up the girls from the hotels.One night a guy called and wanted a guy, which we didn't supply. My boss said go ahead and keep all the money. It was a little scary but I was curious enough so I went. He wanted me to do anal and I tried but went limp.It sure didn't help when there was a football game on TV and these cheerleaders were shouting come on and shit like that. So he jerked off while I helped a little and that was it.He still paid me $90. Wow. I was officially a prostitute now?
Went on another similar call weeks later. This was much better. He wanted to rim me and lick me while I jerked off.The he took some pictures as I came, spreading open my legs and hole for him.He got off, I got off, and I got money for this.Too cool.Haven't gotten in a paid situation since, but still have had a half dozen good times just going with the flow.Why not? Glad I'm not actually a girl or I'd be dangerous! Love chance encounters or how do they say it,blo-and-go? Love women still, but as I've gotten older there's still plenty of guys that will do stuff girls won't do.

[manhatten]

I was 27 and had went to a party for some friends. My wife and had went but when the party was over she went home to get the kids and I stayed to help clean up. We drank some and cleaned up and then I went to get another drink and noticed some cards on top of the fridge. I grabed them and returned to the kitchen table when my friend and his wife were. They were horrified when they saw I had the cards. I thought they were normal cards and we could play some hands of poker but they were cards to a new sex game they had purchased. Initially the actions required by the cards were all performed on her, but with each article of clothing coming off he slowly started to touch me, kiss me, lick my nipple. At first I was taken back but was getting to have some fun with his hot wife so it was cool. Then we moved to the living room, stopped playing cards and just started foreplay with all three of us. She started sucking my cock while he ate her pussy and ass. I layed back on the couch and closed my eyes enjoying the oral performance she was giving. Then I felt two mouths on my cock and thought that was hot. We both fucked and suck on her till she had came several times. She was totally drunk and as the alcohol hit she started to get sick so she excused herself and left him and I in the living room alone. We initially just started jacking and well one thing led to another and before long I was sucking my first cock and that night would fuck my first man hole. It was hot and I was hooked.
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Nice story. I can picture the whole night.Things just happen and you go with what feels right at the time.Nice when people leave their baggage elsewhere and just enjoy themselves in situations without clothes, isn't it?

[foreverbi]

I think I've been bi all my life as I used to love to play with some younger (my age) neighbors both girls & boys, but when I was in my late 20's or early 30's I had my first M/M sex as an adult & that "affair" lasted 2-3 years. I have been married three times, so it's obvious (at least to me) that I like girls/women, but I also I love to have Gay/Bi sex. Guys just have something (alright two or three somethings) to give me that girls (try as they might) simply can NOT give me. ;):male:

[csreef]

For me my first sex was when I was 11 or so he was 13...

I started to strongly get Bi feelings when I was 15 ...

It wasn't untill I was in my 30's that I fully became sexual with a man & felt comfortable with it :flag1:

[bim469ky]

I was about 23, was first time I gave a guy oral and loved it. Felt so natural and from then on I knew who I was sexually.

[jem_is_bi]

I never became bisexual I just always knew I was from a young age.

Same for me. I do not have any memory of ever being straight. When, I was about 5 yrs old, I convinced another boy to let me suck his dick, it was wonderful fun. Because of circumstances, I did not do that again. Also, I do love women too. Now, I have a male lover and sex is so much better than even that first time.

[Bicuriousity]

I had fantasies of being with guys in my teens. Of course at the same time i fantasized about all the usual hot girls at school. I was a virign at that time though. I even used to fantasize about one of my friends parents. They were both hot and wanted the dad to do me and his wife.

I didnt actually have a bi experience until i was 27. Met another bi guy on gay.com and had an incredible time. First time doing oral with a guy and it was still the best!

[matutum]

I wish I had found out that young when I had more time to explore. I was in my mid 40's my first time.

i was born bi...played with pussy and cocks whenever the oportunity arose..got hard..was available

[maxtor]

had sex with my brother when i was exceptionaly young. he made me jack him off every chance he got and that continued for a few years and then it quit when i got a bit older. i knew i liked to handle a mans cock then but never did suck any till i was older. i lost my anal virginity when i was 27 to a guy i met in germany during my first military tour in the 70's. i sucked him and jacked him some and he had a huge cock and he asked me if i thought i would like to take it and i had been drinking and i told him that i would try it. well, didnt take long and he had it buried to the hilt and turning me inside out and caused me to walk funny and couldnt sit just right the next day but really wanted it again so i have never looked back when i get a chance to take some cock i enjoy every inch i can get. it has been a while since i have had any and getting very horny for some. i have a girlfriend and we have anal sex and she fucks me with a strap on but it is not like the real thing. i like to suck the cock before i let him ride me. nothing like it in the world.

[matutum]

I had brief sexual encounters with both sexes in my mid teens (no penetration), lost my virginity at 18 and by the time I was 19 I'd had sex with both. That was 74/75. W

i started touching as far back as i an remember,was born that way,can't remember a time when I never had someone to play with, man or women,sometimes2 women or men,it was always there for me,as I got older is when peeps developed hangups,i still have a few childhood friends who will recall the time when we did something and we will laugh and look at each other and say wanna do it again...

[open2both]

Jeez, why wait til your 20's?:tongue:

[victorKC]

I've probably been a full-fledged bi male since I was 17. I'm 49 now. Any in -shape guys in Kansas City want to contact me I'd love to hear from you. DDF like me please.

[Realist]

My GF and I both began young. I was 14, my first time...what a revelation!

Like some others who have posted, I don't remember a time when I wasn't attracted to both genders. Actually, being young, not having mature pressure to conform, morals, and religious pressure, made that an idyllic time......for me, anyway. I probably would have begun sooner, if I'd had someone to show me the way.

Luckily, I was never traumatized, or abused. We just had fun, with no worries; life was thrilling and there were no hassles.