what do you consider what happened with me please !!!

[select8090]

ok my friend was over one day, very good looking guy.. i never knew he was bi, he brought over a porn movie, as we started watching it he started jacking off, i couldnt help but to look, then i started doing the same thing, suddenly he moves over, goes on his knees and started sucking my cock, i was shocked but didnt stop him, i was so turned on, then after i he was done ( i didnt cum) i wanted to try it , so i went down and sucked his cock for about 5 minutes until he cumed in my mouth, i swallowed just a tiny bit accidently then i spit out the rest, since that time i only done it once with a married couple ( thats another long story ) but i totally love women and dont check out men , does this mean bi sexual cause i consider my self straight no offence to anyone ofcourse.

[bityme]

ok my friend was over one day, very good looking guy.. i never knew he was bi, he brought over a porn movie, as we started watching it he started jacking off, i couldnt help but to look, then i started doing the same thing, suddenly he moves over, goes on his knees and started sucking my cock, i was shocked but didnt stop him, i was so turned on, then after i he was done ( i didnt cum) i wanted to try it , so i went down and sucked his cock for about 5 minutes until he cumed in my mouth, i swallowed just a tiny bit accidently then i spit out the rest, since that time i only done it once with a married couple ( thats another long story ) but i totally love women and dont check out men , does this mean bi sexual cause i consider my self straight no offence to anyone ofcourse.

Just take it for what it is. You had two encounters where you went with the flow of what was happening and apparently enjoyed it. If you are concerned about a label, try "Bi-Curious" or "Situationally Bi."

Don't get hung up on a label. Being Bi does not give you a new set of "have to dos." It just means that a some point you enjoyed some same-sex pleasure. I doesn't mean that now you have to go out an search for more encounters. Just be content being you.

Pappy

[Realist]

I agree....don't make a big deal out of it...it happened twice, now it's over with.

If you didn't like it, you don't have to do it again.

Don't worry about the cum.....it's mostly protein, won't hurt you one bit....ask almost everyone here.

[select8090]

Just take it for what it is. You had two encounters where you went with the flow of what was happening and apparently enjoyed it. If you are concerned about a label, try "Bi-Curious" or "Situationally Bi."

Don't get hung up on a label. Being Bi does not give you a new set of "have to dos." It just means that a some point you enjoyed some same-sex pleasure. I doesn't mean that now you have to go out an search for more encounters. Just be content being you.

Pappy

Thanks for the reply, and in regards to you saying i dont have to go out searching well the problem is that i enjoyed both encounters very much that i find myself wanting more oral...i enjoyed being with the married couple even more, and the things that she made me do to her husband...i find it very hot and sexy especially when both were very attractive.

[elian]

I agree with other responses, sometimes people just get horny so one or two experiences don't necessarily set anything in stone. I think for most people there is a whole spectrum of attraction ranging from not interested at one extreme to very attracted on the other. You may also feel different levels of attraction on emotional/romantic vs. physical level.

Sex is very powerful, the idea of tension and release, it's probably more about control on some fundamental level - Being vulnerable, yet able to bring pleasure - I'm not so sure it's all about the actual physical genitals to be honest.

I'm not entirely sure what I'm getting at but I'm sure everyone has their own thoughts about it.

Personally when dealing with folks who are married I like to make sure everyone is aware of what is going on as a condition of being involved. You will find threads on here debating the ethics of married men having liaison with other men without their spouse's knowledge. While I can empathize with someone who has been in a marriage and is trying to come to terms with something they didn't know about themselves I personally do not want to be the reason for any hurtful, deceitful or insecure feelings.

[mikey3000]

Just go with the flow and enjoy yourself. You've got lots of time to decide what you want to be labelled with. Just enjoy it. :bigrin: Just play safe.

[bityme]

Thanks for the reply, and in regards to you saying i dont have to go out searching well the problem is that i enjoyed both encounters very much that i find myself wanting more oral...i enjoyed being with the married couple even more, and the things that she made me do to her husband...i find it very hot and sexy especially when both were very attractive.

Having enjoyed what you did and wanting more is not a problem. I made my comment in response to my understanding that you felt if you were bi you had to check out guys and try to find more experiences. Given the expression of enjoyment you have made, I see no problem is your looking for more experiences should you desire them.

You have, like many of us, found that being with a with a couple is indeed an exciting time. Of course, my opinion may be biased since that is my personal favorite.

Like the others have said, don't worry about labels, just have a good time.

Pappy

[Cherokee_Mountaincat]

Dont go putting yourself into a catagory, Darlin. If you enjoy oral with a man, dont sweat it. If you like playing with couples, more power to ya. :} Just relax and have fun with your sexuality. It doesnt mean to have to fit into a label now, it just means you are a person enjoying the pleasures that being sexually open has to offer.
Have fun, but play safe, and clean, at all times. ;)
Cat

[goldenfinger]

I think you hit the JACKPOT, enjoy the pay out:bigrin:

[Drkluvtheory99]

Just take it for what it is. You had two encounters where you went with the flow of what was happening and apparently enjoyed it. If you are concerned about a label, try "Bi-Curious" or "Situationally Bi."

Don't get hung up on a label. Being Bi does not give you a new set of "have to dos." It just means that a some point you enjoyed some same-sex pleasure. I doesn't mean that now you have to go out an search for more encounters. Just be content being you.

Pappy

I like that "situationally bi" great way to mindfuck society with there crack pot labels

[Tulsatomcat]

Glad you had a good time! My prefered line in this case is,"BI friendly". Really cracked me up the first time I read it. Good luck!