Flip Flopping

[Papelucho]

Feels like I'm going from a straight phase to a gay one, always an interesting transition, like coming out for the first time again. Anyone else go through this? What's it like for you?

[Realist]

If you'll look back through the archives, you'll see this subject has been done and re-done many times.

And yes, many of us have gone through the same thing, before. It seems normal for some of us to have our highs and lows...the pendulum swings back and forth......we run hot and cold.

Sometimes, I used to feel torn in two, between one gender and then another. Not so much, now, but there was a time when I was very confused if I was bi, or not.

I finally learned to accept myself and go with the flow....seemed to work out just fine. I'm happy.

Good luck...just try to do what makes you feel the most natural, at the time.

[tvoyemat]

I swing back and forth, too.

I'm predominantly straight, but love male contact now and then. Have recently had a romantic relationship end and am contemplating moving out into the carnal world again, and am really looking forward to having sex with a guy or guys again, whether that's with a woman involved or not.

[binjlooking]

I go for long periods where I just don't feel or think about having sex....it's nice to have the option of being Bi....have met two nice males online....it was mutually gratifying and sensuous!

[morandi]

Yes, I got the same and i don't understand it of myself. Sometimes i'm gay as hell. Vaginas on that moment are kind off repulsive to me. I feel really gay and wish on those moments it would stay forever. Penis are never repulsive to me.
But it can change in a split second and i hate that. It seems i can only like one or the other. In the morning i can feel gay in the afternoon i'm hetero. I hate it.

[Realist]

You'll probably never change...just learn to live with it.

I have.......once you accept it, it's not all that bad at all.

Really, as my GF pointed out to me, it's kinda fun and you have twice the choices!

[Papelucho]

If you'll look back through the archives, you'll see this subject has been done and re-done many times.

And yes, many of us have gone through the same thing, before. It seems normal for some of us to have our highs and lows...the pendulum swings back and forth......we run hot and cold.

Sometimes, I used to feel torn in two, between one gender and then another. Not so much, now, but there was a time when I was very confused if I was bi, or not.

I finally learned to accept myself and go with the flow....seemed to work out just fine. I'm happy.

Good luck...just try to do what makes you feel the most natural, at the time.

I was hoping for more of a discussion than a lecture...but, thanks for your advice.

I'm past the point of getting depressed about being bi, but it's still an interesting thing to swing from one phase to another. Occasionally, I have a more dramatic swing, and that's really remarkable. I'm happy to say that my bi skills are sharp, and I transitioned from more hetero to more homo pretty smoothly this time. Human sexuality can be quite a ride.

[cliffml]

I use to get very depressed about flip floppin as it has happen to me several times. I think it's normal. For me I believe i'm on the biggest wave so far, my last 5 encounters have been all men and since i stopped worring about flip flopping i've been much happier. Now i just embrass whoever i'm with and enjoy it to the fulliest.