So confused!

[mind967]

I'm a 24 year old male and have never had a bi-sexual experience before. Growing up I never once thought about guys. I mean the thought of girls consumed me and I was obsessed. Somewhere around 19 that excitement just died. I'm still very much attracted to women but its not the same. It's like I'm just bored. Now I seem to get off on thinking about sexual acts with a guy. Although when ever I picture a face or body I get turned off. There is only one part of a guy that gets me very excited. I try watching gay porn and its kind of hot but I always end up finishing with straight porn. So now I'm stuck in this world of confusion. Women are so beautiful but the intimacy just isn't there and I've never been turned on by a guys face or body. This problem is consuming me and taking control of my life. I don't know what to do.

[punkpelfrey]

i was the same for a while too honey, but after same time you find yourself going out and just trying it out. that is how i found out and now i have been bi for 5 years and i am loving every minute of it. just a little tip when you go to try it out made it a 3 some with a female that why if it is not for you, you can still have fun and so can the others. good luck and if you need more help you can e-mail me here or at me yahoo acoount it is punkpelfry@yahoo.com:bigrin:

[morandi]

Don't watch porn anymore That's not the real life.
A lot of people are confused because they develop sexual prefernces by watching porn wich doesn't compare with their real life experiences.
I don't say here that porn is dangerous for everybody. A lot of bisexual people are very sexual and sexual active, but some of them are going subconcious over there own borders. They discover attracions for them self whit out connecting to their real feelings an possibilities. For example i reed here a lot that some men like penis very much but not the rest of manhood. So they start to get problems they want for example a shemale. But who's gone find one.
Don't worry you will found out what you like and need.
be open to fall in love with a men or a women and sexuallity will follows.
But never feel guilty about your needs.

[bisexualcocklover]

Everyone is different and everyone has their own level of speed and comfort that they move at...particularly as it regards to sexuality.

While there is not so much of a stigma associated with gay, big or lesbian sex...the feelings of guilt that some people experience...especially when you're just now experiencing feelings of sexual attraction to other men...are common to most. Try looking at it this way...there are millions if not billions of people in this world who either all the time or at least at one time or another...find themselves attracted to someone of the same sex. None of them are bad people because of their feelings. A lot of heterosexual people don't show open displays of affection in public...that doesn't mean they are ashamed to be straight. You shouldn't feel ashamed if you get turned on my a guy or just his cock. Most people...straight or otherwise would find it flattering to have someone attracted to them. If at some point you decide to act on your feelings and experiment with another guy....look at it as what it is...an experiment. Sex doesn't label you.

[xxxcjs]

Im in the exact same situation , all i can say is just roll with it if the time and situation is right god with it. Personally my ideal situation would be a bi couple ,but who know you run into the right persona and who can tell what will happen.