ebb and flow feelings, problems with that?

[morandi]

We can read here a lot about the ebb and flow feelings from bisexuals. Their attractions come and go. A lot of people advise to take it as comes and go with the flow. But although i think you have to take it as it comes out to you I have this problem. The differnce between ebb and flow are so big that one moment when i'm in to men you can say you're absolute 100% Gay. On certain moments I really don't want have sex with a women and even seems to me as repulsive. But it can change in a moment and than it change and it seems i like women very much for what they are. But than its always more emotional.
I think I can say that the bigger the gap between emotinal and sexual attraction is the bigger the problems are. If the flow comes that hard that even your behavior change, like more feminine, its disturbing. I found this problems after my divorce. Sometimes i think my changes are given in by a change or lack of hormones. Its driven me crazy! Often i think i'm gay and leave the women for what they are " Nice creations but sexually not for me anymore. Who got the same experience?

[Bluebiyou]

Normal.
Gay biased in the bisexual spectrum, but not totally, completely gay.

I doubt anyone is.

Good luck.

[Realist]

I suspect we all have fluctuating feelings, similar, but maybe with differing severity. What you describe is much more acute than my own actions.

You may have hit on a problem, though. There may be a chemical/hormonal imbalance that is causing your widely swinging pendulum.

If I were you, I would go to a good doctor and explain the mood swings and how they affect you.

[19biman61]

I am the same way. When I am in the mood for men, I will shave my body and wear womens underwear under my clothes. I will be totally submissive. This could go on for a few weeks. Later on I will see a sexy woman and flip back. I will let my body hair grow back and only have sex with women only until one day I will get the urge for cock.