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myschyfnmayhem

Nov 11, 2011, 12:15 AM

We're crammed into the Cuckold category but are actually a Hotwife couple. Before the Cuckold scene got rolling couples who shared the wife without humiliation,deprivation,etc being part of it but now every single guy expects the hubby to be a sissy. I am Bi Bottom and willingly let Tops fuck me but it has nothing to do with not pleasing my wife(I can and do) or sitting in the corner while she gets fucked,she insists on MFM and that means I take an active roll in pleasing her not fluffing the fuck buddy or letting him treat me like less a man. Not knocking Cucks just explaining the difference.

DrBimind

Nov 11, 2011, 12:55 AM

Yep I with you myschyfnmayhem, I've been known to share me wifey when SHE wants to be shared and we've done str8 MFM, & bi MMF but never any the Humiliation Cuckold stuff either so guess that puts us in the Hot Wife category too...but what it's really about is enjoying whatever your bag may be...
Peace Love Dove :rolleyes::cool:;)

bikiniman

Nov 11, 2011, 4:32 AM

We're crammed into the Cuckold category but are actually a Hotwife couple.

Interesting distinction. I fantasise about watching my wife having sex with another man and then having sex with her afterwards including licking his cum from her pussy. I guess if you were not bi that this might be humiliating? For me its not about humiliation but about mutual sexual pleasure.

Does that make me a cuckold or Hotwife couple?

CumlvrJohn

Nov 11, 2011, 11:10 AM

MMMM well I have been cucked and ejoyed that lifestyle but not she is gone we have gone our sep ways, but during the cuckold enjoyment I loved it, serving her lover and most of all the cum and cleaning I got. But what really turned me on was wearing her panties and nylons and bra and her putting lipstick on me and then her watching me enjoy the Bull...redlips and black cock....nice site. So for now I am a cum lover as I was mainly trained to enjoy cock and come. I always watched...her and her lovers.

So any couples out here who want a cuckold guy let me know...love sucking and eating creampies.....other things to...but I must wear your panties , nylons and bra...you put the lipstick on me.......

dm330

Nov 11, 2011, 12:05 PM

Wow, I've wanted to try this for sometime now. I would gladly do it with the right couple too!

othercat

Nov 11, 2011, 3:08 PM

i would like to do it with a couple also. i wish there was a websute of cuckoldress's looking for cuckolds, perhaps there is iv just havnt seen any. i would live to be a cuckold for a hot sexy cuckoldress, or a cuckold couple.

mikey3000

Nov 11, 2011, 3:20 PM

Sorry for sounding stupid, but not quite clear on what cockold is? Explain please?

want2havefun

Nov 11, 2011, 3:29 PM

Sorry for sounding stupid, but not quite clear on what cockold is? Explain please?

Typically its a guy who is denied sex while other guys fuck his wife.
It can also involve various forms of verbal and physical humiliation.

I dont personally get it, but thats okay, I dont have to. :)
I would be happy to share my wife with a lover but if some dude tried a humiliation thing with me he would be wearing his ass for a hat. But then again, I am not into being ordered around by my wife either. ;)

DuckiesDarling

Nov 11, 2011, 4:20 PM

Sorry for sounding stupid, but not quite clear on what cockold is? Explain please?

Mikey, it's on fetlife as a fetish where other men get off on letting their wife be fucked by another man. In older terms it's when a married spouse has an affair when the other is away, like the Lady of the Manor might get fucked silly by the master of arms while the Lord is off at the Crusades.

darkeyes

Nov 11, 2011, 4:26 PM

Typically its a guy who is denied sex while other guys fuck his wife.
It can also involve various forms of verbal and physical humiliation.

I dont personally get it, but thats okay, I dont have to. :)
I would be happy to share my wife with a lover but if some dude tried a humiliation thing with me he would be wearing his ass for a hat. But then again, I am not into being ordered around by my wife either. ;)

A cuckold is actually the husband of an adultress. He may or may not be aware of his wife's adultery.

It is an old English word deriving from the French cucuault from cucu and the way in which the cuckoo lays its egg in the nest of another bird type.

want2havefun

Nov 11, 2011, 4:41 PM

A cuckold is actually the husband of an adultress. He may or may not be aware of his wife's adultery.

It is an old English word deriving from the French cucuault from cucu and the way in which the cuckoo lays its egg in the nest of another bird type.

Thanks, I am familiar with the dictionary and origins. :rolleyes:

However, in modern sexual terms regarding fetish activity in this country its much more along the line of what I described previously.

12voltman59

Nov 11, 2011, 4:44 PM

I was not quite exactly sure what the term meant myself--I sorta figured it was basically what was described.

To borrow from the response of a favorite character from fiction---all I have to say is:

"Fascinating!!!"

darkeyes

Nov 11, 2011, 5:03 PM

Thanks, I am familiar with the dictionary and origins. :rolleyes:

However, in modern sexual terms regarding fetish activity in this country its much more along the line of what I described previously.

I am aware of the modern usage of the term, but as far as I know it isn't used very commonly over here, but since I have bugger all to do sexually with married guys, or indeed guys at all, and it has been quite some time since I did, I am quite happy to be proven in error..:)

want2havefun

Nov 11, 2011, 5:19 PM

In this country most cuckolding among m/f couples involves some type of denial, humiliation, or servitude etc

Example 1: Wife goes out as she pleases, leaves hubby at home to clean house and babysit, she goes to hotel & fucks other guy(s) as she sees fit.

Example 2: Wife brings guy(or has hubby fetch one) home, fucks him in front of hubby. Hubby may be told his cock is too small, strangers more satisfying etc and/or denied sexual pleasure...other than whatever pleasure he derives from the humiliation etc

These are ONLY random examples, the actual specifics can vary. The hubby may be dressed up in fem attire and asked to orally clean up both wife and friend after sex, fluff her lover, etc etc and on and on. Sometimes a hubby will be absolutely controlled as far as when/where/if he can masturbate etc.
Other times he is just made to watch, nothing more.

But, generally if a guy just shares his wife that is referred to as a "hotwife" scenario as indicated by others in this thread, even though by a straight old fashioned English dictionary that could possibly be considered cuckolding as well. Its all a matter of use of language/word.

Trinity-Fl

Nov 11, 2011, 6:10 PM

Interesting thread. Thank to all who contribute(d.)

I'm bi and I like sharing my fem partner with other men! I don't like humiliation. I don't think my cock is too small and I don't wear her underwear.

She is free to go out on a date if she wants to. She likes the attention and "newness" of the situation. When she gets home I can hardly wait to enjoy her body as I ask her the details of the evening. (How big is he? Did you suck him? etc)

When we have a 3sum, it is usually an equally shared sexual event. I suck him. He goes down on her. She sucks me. She gets great orgasms with the two of us working together... I'll lick her clit while our partner tweaks her nipples and she sucks him. I like to lick her clit as she has sex with our partner. A perfect scenario for me would be for him to go ahead and cum in her then kneel by her head so we could share has cock as I get silky seconds.

Recently we were recalling how one night at a swingers club we found a nicely hung young man to enjoy. He as sitting on a sofa while she sucked him and I kneeled behind her. He was close to coming and I heard him ask if he could cum in her mouth. She just nodded and kept on sucking. I leaned over her shoulder and watched as he unloaded in her mouth and I came in her pussy. It was very erotic and we still remember the evening after more than 5 years.

There have been several explanations of the term "cuckold" and I think that more often than not, it's derogatory. "Bi guy who likes to share cock with his significant other" is a little cumbersome. :) We can use "cuckold." It's just convenient.

Thanks for the input from other posters.

CC

want2havefun

Nov 11, 2011, 6:25 PM

I wouldnt say using the term cuckold in your case is absolutely 'wrong' from the English dictionary standpoint, but in normal street vernacular it would be misleading. You used a more accurate term in your own post...'swinger'. :)
Enjoying a 3-some does not a cuckold make in the typical vernacular.

BTW, you are very lucky to have a partner that enjoys such play. Thanks for sharing your story.

Hephaestion

Nov 12, 2011, 6:18 AM

A cuckold is actually the husband of an adultress. He may or may not be aware of his wife's adultery.

It is an old English word deriving from the French cucuault from cucu and the way in which the cuckoo lays its egg in the nest of another bird type.

Definiton and etymology agreed. There is also the common european concept of 'putting horns' on the husband.

"...In Shakespeare's day, horns and antlers were a common symbol of a "cuckolded" husband, a.k.a. a man whose wife has cheated on him....."

The terminology goes back in antiquity to the Greco-Roman Empire(s). It is retained to this day in Greek (keratas, from which we get the scientific term keratin for the stuff that hair, horns and nails are made of) but there seems to be no translation in Italian for cuckold - curious that. Normality implied? Maybe one needs to look harder.

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Nov 12, 2011, 8:00 AM

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othercat

Nov 12, 2011, 9:30 AM

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jackbirdjay

Nov 12, 2011, 12:52 PM

Yes had a girl friend when I was about 22 she was older than me about 29 at the time. She didn't live with me but use to sleep over a lot and had her clothes there. She lived in another state with her parents but was about a hour and half drive away. Well one night she was not supose to sleep over she thought she would surprise me and walked in on me wearing her panties bra and thigh highs. Well she was more mad that I didn't tell her about my cross dressing than anything. After we talked and things were kool she started buying me my own stuff and let me wear around the apartment. She started getting aggressive in bed. She knew I had been with guys before her. One saturday she came over with a bag and said lets play today. My eyes light up when I looked in the bag. She bought me real stockings black with a line up the back black lace panties a sheer bra and a black mini dress. She said lets go into the shower as she got undress I followed like a lost puppy. In the shower she shaved all my hair off. I never felt my legs so smooth. She then shaved her pussy as I watched. (she has done that before). Well she dressed me up even putting make up on me. She then pulled out of the closet black 5 in heels. She said these should fit got them last week. She then got dressed in a red corset black stockings and black thigh high boots. She said go get us drinks. I had a hard time walking in heels for the first time. I heard a knock on the door started going in to the bedroom she grabbed my arm said where do u think your going and pulled me and said come in. A guy in his 30's walked in . I was so embarrassed. He said this the sissy you told me about. she said yes and he walked over to her and started kissing her. She pushed me to my knees. I must admit I was getting turn on. As they were kissing she was taking his shirt off. She looked down at me and said well get him naked. I took his shoes socks off then his pants then his boxers. He was finger fucking her as they kissed. His cock was uncut thick not very long flaccid with lots of hair big set of nuts. She said get him hard your going to watch him fuck me. My hand was shaking from excitement. I started sucking him till he got hard then watched as they fucked like rabbits. He shot deep in her then pulled out said to me come here clean me up. I did as he said he got dressed and left. She then made me eat her cleaning his cum out of her I was in heaven. We talked latter and both of us enjoyed it.

12voltman59

Nov 12, 2011, 2:57 PM

I don't really see the appeal of this sort of thing, guess it kind of goes along with other things like BDSM, domination and submission, master and slave stuff---it seems that this stuff is also pretty common in 'the gay world" and that kinda freaks and creeps me out.

I like to look at a relationship, emotional and sexual ones as a partnership where each side is respected, cared for, valued, etc.

Guess that is just the knee jerk, godless communist/socialist, liberal in me that feels this way.

Its one thing to role play such things as this once in awhile to "spice things" up, but it seems that some people actually live this way.

At another site I go to--I have this one guy on my "friends" list there--whenever I am on---he IMs me so we talk---he has a picture on his profile of his small cock being bound up and tells me how his wife humilitates him over his small cock, that he has to watch other guys fuck his wife and that he will get fucked by those guys--always with bigger cocks.

I don't know if that guy is BSing me or not--but if what he says is true---I just don't get it myself---what a fucking way to live if that is really the case----kinda sad and pathetic if ya ask me.

I just listen to him and don't really respond----I am interested in hearing what he has to say---sorta like the appeal of gawking at a bad car wreck or something, I guess.

I gotta say---navigating through all the permutations of human sexuality away from the "straight and narrow path" is both interesting and kinda creepy.

othercat

Nov 12, 2011, 5:12 PM

oh hush. you know you love it. lol. (j/k) :)

uounkhkl

Nov 14, 2011, 7:21 AM

I thing men like cuckold because:

-this is live porn.
-he could tell his wife what to do (film director).
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-after he cum, he could watch his wife with another men, so he is very fast hard.
-he gives her wife double penetraiton- vaginal and anal.
-if he likes cocks, he could put another cock in his wife pussy.
-he can bring someone different:
bbc, young men, another women/ girl

ckman314

Nov 14, 2011, 9:25 PM

:bipride:
I am very much a cuckold with my gf..I have watched many guys and friends fuck her ..cleaned her up afterwards..sometimes rubbing my cock and watching them other times joining..I have been in closets..watched on cam..been in person and even listened on the phone while she is being sexed by one of her lovers..I absolutely love it..She even had me get her x and her ready to fuck..mmmmmmm the hottest yet!!

I have not been a cuckold yet and I cant wait till it happens but I'm not sure I could handle the x boyfriend I think too much emotion would be involved there God bless you for finding a great girl like that too give you your fantasies Im still waiting on my wife but I bring it up everyday in some little way I'll get her eventually right now we just role play during sex but I'll get her

dafydd

Nov 15, 2011, 3:01 AM

Definiton and etymology agreed. There is also the common european concept of 'putting horns' on the husband.

"...In Shakespeare's day, horns and antlers were a common symbol of a "cuckolded" husband, a.k.a. a man whose wife has cheated on him....."

The terminology goes back in antiquity to the Greco-Roman Empire(s). It is retained to this day in Greek (keratas, from which we get the scientific term keratin for the stuff that hair, horns and nails are made of) but there seems to be no translation in Italian for cuckold - curious that. Normality implied? Maybe one needs to look harder.

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cuckold? i thought it was 'cockold', like she's not interested in his old cock anymore, wants younger guys.

d

darkeyes

Nov 15, 2011, 6:50 AM

cuckold? i thought it was 'cockold', like she's not interested in his old cock anymore, wants younger guys.

d

Not necessarily Daffy..sometimes maybe just a bit of variety..;)

dafydd

Nov 15, 2011, 6:59 AM

Not necessarily Daffy..sometimes maybe just a bit of variety..;)

variety? in bed?! with a long term partner? what is this thing u talk of? ;)

12voltman59

Nov 15, 2011, 1:48 PM

oh hush. you know you love it. lol. (j/k) :)

There is some pretty sick shit out there---at this one site I go to--this dude from the UK sent me some links to stuff he is into----and apparently many guys are too----they do things like shoot their cocks and balls with chemicals and such that make them blow up far beyond normal size.

Like I said--it is kinda interesting that people get into all sorts of permutations of sexuality---but its still kinda weird and disconcerting that people feel compelled to go off in directions like that----I don't know why people just cannot enjoy the pleasure of being with someone else and sharing some good sex---that is good enough for me.

sammie19

Nov 15, 2011, 3:14 PM

variety? in bed?! with a long term partner? what is this thing u talk of? ;)

I don't think she means variety in bed with a long time partner, of that I am sure.:)

mikey3000

Nov 15, 2011, 5:20 PM

Thanks everyone. Interesting but definitely not up our isle.

foreverbi

Nov 15, 2011, 7:17 PM

This happened some 40 years ago when I was married to my first wife. For lack of another word I just called it "cheating". I guess cuckolds know for certain what is going on as they sometimes recruit the lover for their wife.

My ex was always extremely wet when I got off work, but I didn't think too much about it. I kind of figured it out when I thought about it. There was just "too much" for it all too be girl cum. I just knew I loved the taste. I still do.

After about 4-5 years we divorced & shortly after the divorce my ex & I decided to get together & relive the good old days. She confirmed what I already "knew or thought". I told her what I thought was happening, and she told me she was with
many different guys over the years.

I had to feign being very pissed off, but in actuality I was delighted as I now knew for sure that I was eating several different guys cum. God I miss the warm snacks she used bring me.

She is now the focus of my greatest fantasy. In one of my fantasy "she" gathers all of her lovers to to a party. It turns out to be a circle jerk & I am to be the "clean-up man". I am "forced" to suck all their cum from her well used pussy, then suck all the mens dicks clean.

Another fantasy she created is I would eat her pussy while her "friends" fuck her & while doing this for "her" I couldn't help but "accidentally" lick their dick while I was trying to eat her pussy.

In yet another she tells me I know you like to eat my guys cum from my pussy, so I would now like to see you take the cum straight from the spigot, and don't act shy as we all know you "love" the taste of cum. Soups on!

othercat

Nov 15, 2011, 11:48 PM

foreverbi, i like the way you think! i have those sae fantasies. :)

dafydd

Nov 16, 2011, 1:38 AM

I don't think she means variety in bed with a long time partner, of that I am sure.:)

see cartoon below in response
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bikiniman

Nov 16, 2011, 1:40 AM

Another fantasy she created is I would eat her pussy while her "friends" fuck her & while doing this for "her" I couldn't help but "accidentally" lick their dick while I was trying to eat her pussy.

I Love the idea of licking my wife's pussy while she is being fucked by another man. Hot!

Boats

Nov 16, 2011, 10:50 AM

I Love the idea of licking my wife's pussy while she is being fucked by another man. Hot!

Me Too:2cents::2cents:

cuttin2dachase

Nov 20, 2011, 1:42 PM

In my 1st marriage, I was hubby to the ultimate "Hot Wife". We were monogamous while we dated and in the 1st couple years of marriage. We were both very sexually adventurous and there was hardly a sexual variation or roleplay a monogamous couple could try that we hadn't tried and enjoyed together. We subscribed to Penthouse & Playboy and other erotic magazines and we both enjoyed perusing the pics and reading the erotic letters and articles. One night as we were going to bed, she told me that she'd read a Penthouse letter earlier that day that had made her particularly hot and horny and asked me if I would read it aloud to her. I read it to her and found that it explicitly described a young couple's 1st swinging experience with another couple. I had secret fantasies of our extending our wild sex life to periodically include couples and men in our sexual play/adventures. I was intrigued that she might have similar naughty fantasies. As it turned out "might" was an understatement! She became very hot, wet and turned on as I read the letter (so did I !) After our usual hot makeout/kiss/touch/ oral foreplay, she climbed onto my cock (her fave position and mine, too), looked me directly in my eyes with very lustful eyes and asked me directly "Baby, do you want to watch me suck and fuck other men while I watch you suck and fuck their women?" I grabbed her hips and began thrusting and told her "Yes Baby, I want you to suck them and fuck them just the same way you're sucking and fucking me tonight! I want you to be my naughty little whore !". She began fucking me harder and harder and asked "Like this?" We both came explosively and in our aftercuddle she promised she'd always save the best & hottest sex and all her love for me and I promised her the same.

Well folks, that's all it took for us to begin planning "hot wife" activities! There were quite a few of them over the next few years until our daughter was born and not so many afterwards. It was never our lifestyle, just another hot variation we enjoyed together periodically. As for cuckholding, the humiliation and forced aspects of it would not have occurred or appealed to either of us. When she was in the mood and desired another lover or lovers in our bed, her "codeword" to me was "Pimp me, Baby !". Maybe that in itself was cuckolding LOL. BTW, neither of us were bi at the time, but we both discovered bi desires very early on in our swinging experiences and pursued them together as well.

P H Stone

Nov 30, 2011, 1:26 PM

I have always been attracted to women who were known to be "easy" so during each of my three long term relationships my wives were shared with others. My first wife was 22, my second 36 and my present wife 50 when I watched as they were had by other men.
My first wife was a bit of a flirt but often had misgivings the next day, my second wife was only shared once because (although she was a great fuck) she was too nervous to live the life - my present wife is a true cock lover and get excited when I tell her I have arranged for another man to meet her.

My present wife was pushed into the arms of her first other man by her first husband(he was after the other man's girlfriend) and from that time forward she has seldom been able to turn down the advances of another man.

A couple of years ago in the Marriot in Times Square she fed me my first cock while we were in a 3sum. Since that time I often suck cock while she is kissing the other man and look forward to cleaning cummy cocks.

We enjoy being around horny people and like meeting cuckolding couples