what does it feel like to bottom?

[Ewerton]

so...when he's at it, what do you feel like? Being dominated by him and being pounded without your control.... do you feel feminine in any way, or in other words, submissive? it must really be awesome to be in all that situation feeling him fucking your ass so nicely... I mean how is it like? ...can't wait to loose my V to men..thanks have a nice day!

[magic669]

I have fucked men and it has been utterly wonderful, and other times it has been excruciating. When a guy knows how to do it, takes his time, and does it right, I love it. It helps if the top knows what he's doing and wants the experience to be good. And, yes, it does make me feel feminine and submissive, and I really enjoy that.

[cornholejoe]

being took in the ass feels great if done right and while i am being buttfucked i do feel a little on the sub side since most of the time i do the topping its does feel great to bottom everyonce in a while

[LiberatedBiGuy]

As the other guys have said, with a guy who understands and cares it is wonderful. The feeling of being "taken" is just mind blowing.

[reneboy]

I never felt "femenine" or "being taken". Just enjoyed the sensations that a cock produces when it is is pumping your ass.:tongue:

[bttmguy2]

I never felt "femenine" or "being taken". Just enjoyed the sensations that a cock produces when it is is pumping your ass.:tongue:

Although I am masculine acting and looking it's an awesome feeling
especially when you have a top who enjoys making love. It's like a
switch is flipped and I feel very feminine and it is so hot for me to
reach that state. I just can't get enough of that feeling.........

[bttmguy2]

I never felt "femenine" or "being taken". Just enjoyed the sensations that a cock produces when it is is pumping your ass.:tongue:

Although I am masculine acting and looking it's an awesome feeling to be fucked
especially when you have a top who enjoys making love. It's like a
switch is flipped and I feel very feminine and it is so hot for me to
reach that state. I just can't get enough of that feeling.........

[sexual26]

Like those before me stated to take it from someone who cares and knows what there doing is awesome. It does make me feel feminine and submissive once he is in and I'm loosened up I like for the guy to really take control of me and work me over real nice mmm goodness just the thought of it.

[justmelonely]

I have been wanting to experience the feeling of being a bottom, just wish I could find a man that would like to take his time. I have never done this be for but watch videos of guys doing it and I have to say it looks like it feels so good to have a cock in the ass.

[tomishere]

I really enjoyed it when I was able to relax, which was the key for me. I feel submissive when being fucked, it's one of the things I like about it. I also like the sensation of a cock inside of me, they all feel so long. I like the spooning position best.

[FunE1]

Have only started bottoming recently but I have to say: I cannot get enough of it. As I get more comfortable with it and being able to take large cocks, the more I love the way it feels.

It definitely helps having a top who knows what they're doing and who listens to you... taking it slow when you ask him to or really driving it home when you start begging for it.

I don't feel feminine or submissive every time... it really depends on my mood and the partner, have had 1 partner who was really strong & dominant and that was pretty hot.

[bcvegas4u]

I have always enjoyed being a bottom, since the first time I was fucked. I was always interested in things anal. When I finally got a cock in my ass I loved the feeling. The feel of it sliding in & out is incredible. The feeling is usually so intense that I become a slut, willing to do just about anything to prolong the feeling. I don't necessarily feel feminine but I do feel submissive.

[celticmagic]

This is what's it is all about: To be fucked by a men is to
submit to him and feel, oooh...so feminine. This is the reason I allways dress up for him, panties,wig and all.
Nothing will ever compare the sensation of him pulling down my panties and showing it all up my pussyhole.
lulu

[*pan*]

:cool: well i guess it's all been said here already, from people a lot smarter then me,i think it depends on the person doing the topping, if they do it with feeling and care about who they are topping it is great no matter how big they are, they will be concerned about your feelings too. the receiver is always the submissive whether they realize it or not they are submitting to being penetrated as for the fem feelings that to me is the individual letting out their other side, all people whether or not they realize it have both masculine :male: and fem :female: energy's and feelings, :eek: just that some more then others are aware of them. ;) even the alpha male has them but refuses to acknowledge them for fear they will become gay or something. :flag2: and this can lead to aggressive acts and inhibitions and a degradation and disrespect :eek: of the reciever. :( hence the phrase (bull queer). and this is my :2cents:

P.S. I DONT WANT YOU TO BECOME A BOTTOM. BE A TOP , TOO MANY BOTTOMS OUT THERE NEED MORE TOPS. LOL :tong:

[bi4asplay]

:cool: well i guess it's all been said here already, from people a lot smarter then me,i think it depends on the person doing the topping, if they do it with feeling and care about who they are topping it is great no matter how big they are, they will be concerned about your feelings too. the receiver is always the submissive whether they realize it or not they are submitting to being penetrated as for the fem feelings that to me is the individual letting out their other side, all people whether or not they realize it have both masculine :male: and fem :female: energy's and feelings, :eek: just that some more then others are aware of them. ;) even the alpha male has them but refuses to acknowledge them for fear they will become gay or something. :flag2: and this can lead to aggressive acts and inhibitions and a degradation and disrespect :eek: of the reciever. :( hence the phrase (bull queer). and this is my :2cents:

P.S. I DONT WANT YOU TO BECOME A BOTTOM. BE A TOP , TOO MANY BOTTOMS OUT THERE NEED MORE TOPS. LOL :tong:

You are right about one thing. There are not enough tops. As far as the submission is concerned for most it is true. There are then people like me. Even when taking it in the ass I normally control the action, rhythm, depth. I like to straddle him while he is on his back and ride his cock. I know where the spots are that can cause pain if it is forced too quickly. I know how to use my muscles to pull him past those spots. I also use them to milk him while he lays still. I like to use toys on myself at times. Who would I be submitting to then? My P-spot is very sensitive and the head of a cock pushing against it will make me cum.

[pole_smoker]

You are right about one thing. There are not enough tops. As far as the submission is concerned for most it is true. There are then people like me. Even when taking it in the ass I normally control the action, rhythm, depth. I like to straddle him while he is on his back and ride his cock. I know where the spots are that can cause pain if it is forced too quickly. I know how to use my muscles to pull him past those spots. I also use them to milk him while he lays still. I like to use toys on myself at times. Who would I be submitting to then? My P-spot is very sensitive and the head of a cock pushing against it will make me cum.
So you bumped up a long dead thread from about 3-4 years ago just to say this? :rolleyes: You're taking it up the ass...that's basically the ultimate form of submission, and it does not matter if you ride the guy's cock or not.

[void()]

A lot of perspective in this thread. I often wonder though if someone
chooses to submit, does that not garner them control? They are making a
proactive choice after all. They could choose not submitting. :2cents:

[pole_smoker]

A lot of perspective in this thread. I often wonder though if someone
chooses to submit, does that not garner them control? They are making a
proactive choice after all. They could choose not submitting. :2cents:
It does not work that way.

[void()]

It does not work that way.

A choice is a choice, is it not?

If so, then one choosing retains control. If a choice is not a choice, what then is it?

Oh, rape then? Well, that is not the context of the discussion here. The context
suggests a choice being had. Ergo, a choice is a choice.

[pole_smoker]

A choice is a choice, is it not?

If so, then one choosing retains control. If a choice is not a choice, what then is it?

Oh, rape then? Well, that is not the context of the discussion here. The context
suggests a choice being had. Ergo, a choice is a choice.
I wrote nothing about rape. If someone bottoms or takes it up the ass they're being submissive even if they ride a dick. :rolleyes: But the same goes for men who only or mainly give oral sex, they're also submissive.

[void()]

I wrote nothing about rape. If someone bottoms or takes it up the ass they're being submissive even if they ride a dick. :rolleyes: But the same goes for men who only or mainly give oral sex, they're also submissive.

Fair enough, yet you're failing to admit they are choosing to do that. That was the point of my opinion. They are retaining control, ergo to my mode of thinking, they are being dominate via retaining control by choosing. Then, you suggest "it doesn't work like that", so, I have to ask then are you suggesting rape? That's the only situation I'm aware of that choice becomes moot. Choice is choice, it implies one has control. And that's what I was opining, maybe even the submissive is dominate by choosing?

[sysper]

if u choose not to decide u still have made a choice :)

[pepperjack]

Fair enough, yet you're failing to admit they are choosing to do that. That was the point of my opinion. They are retaining control, ergo to my mode of thinking, they are being dominate via retaining control by choosing. Then, you suggest "it doesn't work like that", so, I have to ask then are you suggesting rape? That's the only situation I'm aware of that choice becomes moot. Choice is choice, it implies one has control. And that's what I was opining, maybe even the submissive is dominate by choosing?

Good argument, Void. I think you've tapped into a profound truth here. http://www.brainyquote.com/quotes/quotes/l/laotzu151143.html

[void()]

Good argument, Void. I think you've tapped into a profound truth here. http://www.brainyquote.com/quotes/quotes/l/laotzu151143.html

Now, you comprehend the philosophy and axiom, gentle streams crumble strong mountains. :)
Also learned a long while back, the greatest tell of strength lies in being gentle, vulnerable.

[void()]

if u choose not to decide u still have made a choice :)

:bigrin::suave:




There is unrest in the forest
There is trouble with the trees
For the maples want more sunlight
And the oaks ignore their pleas


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I am not quite as into Ayn Rand, more favor Ursula K. Le Guin, Sir Terry Pratchett, Frank Miller ( Sin City ), Dashiell Hammett, Jules Verne, Victor Hugo, Sydney Sheldon, Anne Rice, Poppy Z. Brite, H.P. Lovecraft. I intentionally do try to avoid reading anything by Stephen King, or any of his pen names. Kind of proved to myself he *ahem* borrows my story ideas, grinds them into pure formula for the spam mill.

Case in point, an idea about a killer who left dead girls in trunks of classic cars, shoved into a deep lake. I had a notion it was an insurance agent killing as means to collect payouts. He was caught by a clairvoyant who remote viewed him in the act. I amble with the idea for a week, King releases the exact idea in a story the next week.

Yes, maybe the first finished is the first started. There is also much said to not rushing the good, and not distilling fine wine into swill. So, I am a lot more aware of what I emit online as to avoid discussing story ideas, seeing them snatched and destroyed. At present I am in a minor lurch over restarting a horror manuscript from word one. It may well be a completely different story upon this rewrite. The core of it remains the same.

Also been rather busy otherwise. Not a lot of freely available slots of planned writing time. Sure, I know a writer always makes time. :) Some of us are still fumbling over how to add another 36 hours to a day. Life is hectic and affords no planning here. Once me and wife decide a plan, everything goes against it and we ditch it. We are left no other real choice. Yes, it is real frustrating. Ah well, it's life, 'whachya' do?

And no, not complaining, whining. I'm only stating fact. Life is life for all of us. All any of us may do, is to do the best we're capable with, or without what have. Doing it without is when the real fun happens. :) :wacko::cutelaugh

[pepperjack]

Now, you comprehend the philosophy and axiom, gentle streams crumble strong mountains. :)
Also learned a long while back, the greatest tell of strength lies in being gentle, vulnerable.

No, I'm not just now comprehending this. Have known it for a long time and have made mention of it here before. ;)

[void()]

No, I'm not just now comprehending this. Have known it for a long time and have made mention of it here before. ;)

Yes, I'm recalling. At times what is said, is not said. Some big cheeses can send out talk over E.S.P.N. :) (Extremely. Selective. People. Network) That can be like smoke signals. I vape and make clouds. Smoke it looks fuzzy, need glasses on to read it. *chuckles*

By the by, feed in my closet any time. I'll give you all the extra added drama, free of charge, too. ;)

[mrcumsalot]

I am a submissive in every way so it does not bother me in the least to be called on it. When with a man, or men, I give them everything they ask or demand of me without fail. It is my duty to do so and I pride myself for my ability to be as submissive as is necessary to make the man completely happy to have been with me.

There really is not a shortage of male toppers. If you're willing to go to a gay bar, you will find as many toppers as your heart desires. I do so often and have never failed to find a partner or partners. Going to public places is always better than any on line meeting place.

[mrcumsalot]

It feels WONDERFULLLLL

[pole_smoker]

I am a submissive in every way so it does not bother me in the least to be called on it. When with a man, or men, I give them everything they ask or demand of me without fail. It is my duty to do so and I pride myself for my ability to be as submissive as is necessary to make the man completely happy to have been with me.

There really is not a shortage of male toppers. If you're willing to go to a gay bar, you will find as many toppers as your heart desires. I do so often and have never failed to find a partner or partners. Going to public places is always better than any on line meeting place.
Agreed, if you take it up the ass, or pussy for the ladies, suck dick-or prefer to suck dick, then you're submissive. It's not that complicated...yet we have these silly navel gazers who do not live in reality who would rather sit around and mentally masturbate and pretend they're not submissive when they get fucked up the ass or suck a cock. ;) :rolleyes: :smilies15 They're also total hypocrites and are total nasty pigs even if they lie and deny it. :bibounce:

[pepperjack]

Well,shit .....u of all people should know since u're the bitch in ur so-called relationship. :rolleyes: :smilies15

[pole_smoker]

Well,shit .....u of all people should know since u're the bitch in ur so-called relationship. :rolleyes: :smilies15

LMAO!!! :rolleyes: You're projecting yourself and your own "relationship" issues, or lack of relationship, issues onto me. ;) :rolleyes: Since you obsess about me and stalk me on here you should already know that we're not into this. Neither of us are into the whole Dominant/submissive thing, or having one partner take control over the other person in the "relationship", since that's not a relationship. The relationship my husband and I have with each other is a marriage, and relationship is based on love, and equality...but I can understand why this confuses you pepperjack, as you have never had a healthy and loving relationship with anyone. ;) :rolleyes: :smilies15

[BiCuriousVAN]

It feels WONDERFULLLLL

Absolutely! It is hard to describe how it feels, but it feels amazing. I have only bottomed once, but it was an incredible feeling and would love to do it again and again...

[jimisbi]

So you bumped up a long dead thread from about 3-4 years ago just to say this? :rolleyes: You're taking it up the ass...that's basically the ultimate form of submission, and it does not matter if you ride the guy's cock or not.

Yeah, it's the ultimate form of submission and I love to submit. Taking a cock up my ass is one of the most wonderful feelings there is.

[Tibsey]

I loved being fucked especially when I'm dressed fem. Most times I don't get an erection or cum. I feel totally satisfied being fucked

[kinkylittledick]

I luv the feeling as the head first starts in opening my ass wider as it goes deeper. That first few seconds of entry makes me feel like I imagine a woman feels having her cherry popped the first time. Yes I do feel a bit submissive and fem. Also there's is for me one perfect spot where every thing comes together, the perfect deepth, perfect angle where the head of that cock hits my prostate just right. I seldom get that but when I do my orgasim is off the chart.

[Bimmga]

I don't use the word submissive in regard receiving a cock. It is a term used to describe the BDSM partner who is being dominated. The correct word for non-BDSM sex is passive. But even active and passive are inadequate to describe the complex psychology or being the receiving partner.

im still working on learning to bottom. It has been problematic for me. My guy says I have the tightest hole he has ever tried to get into. He is gentle and patient, but so far, we've got him completely into me only once and then I could not take it for long. It always hurts if he goes in more than a couple of inches, even with some pre-insertion rimming and stretching. We're gonna continue working on it though. ;).

Having said that, if he doesn't insert too deep, his fucking me feels fantastic and not just in a physical sense. It is emotionally very gratifying to be taken by a man. I don't feel "feminine" because I am not a woman and I have no idea of what femininity feels like. But I do feel as if I am letting him have some control over me and he is having his way with me. I get to experience masculinity externally and this is a welcome change for a man who has spent his whole life being the one in sexual control.

[sysper]

I don't use the word submissive in regard receiving a cock. It is a term used to describe the BDSM partner who is being dominated. The correct word for non-BDSM sex is passive. But even active and passive are inadequate to describe the complex psychology or being the receiving partner.

im still working on learning to bottom. It has been problematic for me. My guy says I have the tightest hole he has ever tried to get into. He is gentle and patient, but so far, we've got him completely into me only once and then I could not take it for long. It always hurts if he goes in more than a couple of inches, even with some pre-insertion rimming and stretching. We're gonna continue working on it though. ;).

Having said that, if he doesn't insert too deep, his fucking me feels fantastic and not just in a physical sense. It is emotionally very gratifying to be taken by a man. I don't feel "feminine" because I am not a woman and I have no idea of what femininity feels like. But I do feel as if I am letting him have some control over me and he is having his way with me. I get to experience masculinity externally and this is a welcome change for a man who has spent his whole life being the one in sexual control.
interesting observation i have yet to experiance anal sex with a man, or anything with a man. i'm pretty eager to find out if this is how i will feel about being with a man.

[Bimmga]

interesting observation i have yet to experiance anal sex with a man, or anything with a man. i'm pretty eager to find out if this is how i will feel about being with a man.

It all depends on what you want. Many guys here aren't really bisexual. They are straight and have a cock fetish. They objective the cock and/or ass disregarding the man to which these are a part. For others, a quick suck or fuck is only option available to them and they don't have the opportunity for much more. There's nothing wrong with this, of course, and sometimes all I want from a guy is mutual physical release.

but with my friend, it is very different. For each of us it is the first time we have allowed ourselves to develop a relationship with another man. We have become dear friends. We have slowly allowed our relationship to become quite intimate. In many ways our sex is similar to heterosexual sex. It can be hot and passionate or it can be sweet and low key. I love the feel of his manhood; not just his cock, but his body, his smell and his manly regard for me. We don't kiss a lot, since neither of us are really into this. But sometimes it just feels right and we kiss very passionately. We do hold each other and explore our bodies, especially after sex. It's similar to cuddling with a woman after sex, but has a different dynamic that's hard to describe. The great part is that we can dress, go out and to the world, and we are just a couple of friends having a beer together.

i wish I had found the courage to do this year's ago.

[sysper]

i have got so much to learn, so much to experiance. i know i'm interested in more than the cock or at least that's the idea i got. what comes out in real life is yet to be seen.

[James72]

Feels realy,realy good40155

[~Joe~]

For me i have experienced both top and bottom and i do much prefer to be bottom to be penetrated is the feeling i do like.
I have only once had someone with no condom and he shot deep inside of me Silly i know but at the time it just happened in some woodlands.
I have not gone bare back ever again but only last month a guy did try to while i was at a club, but i told him cover up or no can do.

The feeling of being taken by someone who wants to please and be pleased is so much better but for me being pushed into the cushion and fucked was outstanding.
The other side of that being bottom you can turn around and take a great mouthful of spunk .... I really do like a guy to spunk in my mouth.

[sisboy]

Once you do it you will never stop!

[j4u42]

Being still at the curious stage, I imagine a scenario where my bf is laying on his back and enjoying me doing some cock worship and orally stimulating his entire package and surrounding sensitive areas. Tasting his taint and sucking his nuts one at a time and back and forth pulling and tugging on them with my lips as his nice cock hardens into a very stiff boner. So my face leaves the nits and I slowly lick from the base on the underside all the way to the top and bob all the way down to where I bury my nose in his musky pubes. I slowly pull up and off that now stiff bone then surprise him by crawling up and get in position to sit on and ride that structure. This way I control the speed and depth but eventually ride that poker and use my ass muscles to squeeze and relax back and forth as he enjoys what my warm body is doing to his dick and I enjoying what that very stiff boner is doing to my bottom. I like the idea and wan this to be reality soon. After that initial deflowering he can come back from time to time experiencing different positions of ass-fucking.

[sysper]

i'm still at the curious stage too.....that does sound hot & i hope to experiance that someday too. something about u doing the action gives it a bigger degree of acceptance. but i dream more about taking it missionary style, letting him get on top of me, me giving him control over my body, while he enters me. hopefully sharing a deep passionate kiss with my legs in the air..........mmmmmmmm!!!!!!!!

[Superbtm53]

i'm still at the curious stage too.....that does sound hot & i hope to experiance that someday too. something about u doing the action gives it a bigger degree of acceptance. but i dream more about taking it missionary style, letting him get on top of me, me giving him control over my body, while he enters me. hopefully sharing a deep passionate kiss with my legs in the air..........mmmmmmmm!!!!!!!!

That's my favorite position for receiving. When I was with my first "partner, we did this a lot and it always felt so good. I also loved the feeling of his cum shooting into me as he climaxed, it always amazed him that I knew when he came, but it just felt so good, I really don't know how to explain it.

[romer]

can't comment. never recieved a 'top's offer.............

[bpcast]

I've done it a handful of times and is by far the most satisfying.

I've never met a guy with the condition that I was going to get topped. It's always been a "let's meet, make out, suck, and see where things go" type situation. The best part is when things heat up and my partner starts to indicate where he wants things to go, and in the moment of passion making the decision that I want it to happen. Once he's in and I'm relaxed, the physical feeling is amazing. Beyond the physical, the psychological sense of having a guy between my legs thrusting and enjoying himself is beyond anything.

[hung4you]

I don't feel feminine at all. Both my bud and I are in very long term marriages and our wives would not understand. Both our wives love anal sex, and I often wondered why. My bud and I have been servicing each other for a couple of years now. Yesterday during the Super Bowl, I had him come over for some man fun since the wife was out of town. It has been about a month since the last time he topped me. It is the most awesome feeling when he rides my ass nice and slow. I love watching his face as he gets ready to cum, his big hairy body twitches and then he thrust it all the way in just as he cums. Feeling his throbbing cock unload is unreal. After a shower we sat around naked and resting a minute before the 2nd round. My ass is a little sore but feels good at the same time.

[KevsBi]

I don't feel feminine at all either. To see another man that has a hard on for me and to see his face as he is cumming is a huge turn on in itself but it does sting a little as your partner slides it in. The key is to take your time and use plenty of lube. You control the speed and depth. Once your ass has accepted the penis and you feel comfortable your partner can begin pumping and it will feel wonderful for both of you. You will be a little sore afterwards but that's normal and it will go away.

[mickitv]

First and foremost it feels wonderful especially with the right person. When he takes his or her time and enters you in a loving manner wanting you to enjoy it as much as they are.

[elian]

I think the safest thing to say is that every time has the potential to be different Ewerton - the people involved, the state of arousal, hormones, emotions, setting, smells, sounds, lube (or not), patience (or not) - it can be seductive, it can be quick, it can seem like it's taking forever, it can hurt, it can be pleasurable, it can be submissive or dominating for each partner. The few times I have, I've tried to anticipate the desires of my partner - might start out being submissive and end up being a bit more controlling..

[abc123jd]

i bet it does who ever is getting fucked looks like they are leaking from the cock in them.

[Oztrich]

I do not feel submissive when I am on the bottom. So long as the guy is good, and does it well, I almost always orgasm when I am having anal. The last two men that took care of that for me both hit the right spot consistently and made me cum. To me it feels spectacular. I would guess this is why many women enjoy anal, though the feeling would be different. An anal orgasm is unbelievable.

[hung4you]

I do not feel submissive when I am on the bottom. So long as the guy is good, and does it well, I almost always orgasm when I am having anal. The last two men that took care of that for me both hit the right spot consistently and made me cum. To me it feels spectacular. I would guess this is why many women enjoy anal, though the feeling would be different. An anal orgasm is unbelievable.

I couldn't agree more. More times than not I too experience the most sought after anal orgasm. When he hits a certain spot, my cock shoots heavy and hard sometimes hitting me in the chin . Nothing feels better than that.

[idabiho]

I lost my anal virginity yesterday and I think I am hooked! I live in a small town and had been looking for a regular suck buddy and I have very minimal experience.I met a guy about a month ago off CL. I have never been interested in anything other than sucking cock. On my second visit with him a few weeks ago he asked me to fuck him. He straddled my cock dry and it was actually quite painful to me but he came hard and fast moments into it. I didn't get to cum that day as he lost interest after he shot his load on my stomach.
We met up again yesterday and during our 69 he started rimming me. It felt so fucking amazing! I soon had my legs up over my head and lifting my tight virgin ass to his tongue. He then got in front of me and slid his cock against mine and stroking our cocks together. He would tease me and rub the head of his cock against my asshole for a few seconds at a time. It was so intense! I reached down and grabbed his cock and pressed it against my ass while lifting my hips to get closer to it. I was begging for him to fuck me at that point. He grabbed to baby oil he had on his night stand and lubed up my ass. He took his time working his cock into my tight ass...too much time. I was lifting my hips toward him to get that cock inside me. It was a little painful at first but it turned to pure pleasure. Before I knew it his cock was buried all the way inside me and he started pounding my ass hard and fast. I became a nasty little slut. Moaning uncontrollably and screaming at him to fuck me harder and to give me his cock as I grabbed the back of my legs holding my knees to my chest. It didn't last nearly long enough as he came within a minute. He pulled his cock out as soon as he shot his load deep inside me and he instantly lost his desire. I laid there on my back lifting my hips as if his cock was still pounding my ass and stroking my cock moaning until I shot a huge load right over my head and on to my face!
It was by far the best experience with a guy I have ever had ! I now consider myself a bottom and can't wait for him to fuck me again!

[DomBot61]

I have had anal twice. The first was brutal and, as explained by a close friend, I had been raped. Lots of blood and crap. The second time the top was slow and gentle; he primed my rosebud with fingers and probes; gave me an enema; and was quite an anal lover. Sadly, he stopped :(

[bi4asplay]

I never felt "femenine" or "being taken". Just enjoyed the sensations that a cock produces when it is is pumping your ass.:tongue:

I have never felt fem or sub while I am taking it in the ass. I prefer to ride it. When I am on top I control how deep ,how fast, and hard hard. I can also milk a cock while sitting all of the way down on it. That way when he start to get hotter, harder, and his cock starts to pulse I will cum when he does. Maybe a few times before he does.

[hung4you]

Having topped my bud and enjoy it, i would rather bottom for him. That intense pleasure of felling him slide in and out and throbbing as he unloads his cream deep in me is nothing short of amazing. He says he never cums harder than when he is buried in my ass.

[Luvthewater]

Feels amazing. I do get a submissive feeling and just want to please!!!

[Radlatino]

I have only done a dildo, and thought it took some getting used to. Once I did it often, it got easier going in each time. But hitting the G spot and cuming with out touching my self. It was amazing!
I looked forward to it again and again.
Now my virgin ass would like to try a real cock! Maybe a FWBs type thing. I find my self getting hard watching M2M videos. And wanting to feel a real cock regularly. Where could I find one?
Message me and let me know, here or on Kik- Up2Nog

[Tight1-4u]

so...when he's at it, what do you feel like? Being dominated by him and being pounded without your control.... do you feel feminine in any way, or in other words, submissive? it must really be awesome to be in all that situation feeling him fucking your ass so nicely... I mean how is it like? ...can't wait to loose my V to men..thanks have a nice day!


ok so for me and I am only speaking for me.. in real life I am very alpha male🧐 my world is very alpha male driven.. so being what I call submissive is really just a chance to relax and go with the flow sexually.. not really being dominated but simply letting my guy be in charge and me giving him what he wants and getting what I want..🤪🧐 letting him call the shots and just enjoying his cock being in me!! Doing the things he wants and giving him pleasure and getting pleasure out of the things that we do together.. I do not feel feminine or that I am submissive in the bdsm definition.. more in a relaxed I don’t have to be in charge sort of way..

[Smoothtanbttm1]

There are so many variables to it. Is he big or small? Passionate or porn star? Mental chemistry? And of course my mood.
I love the attentive, passionate and well hung lol. When they pay attention to every moan you make and every move you make for cues it can be bliss. I'm outwardly a very masculine guy ( except for being totally smooth everywhere but the little strip over my cock) but it does make me feel VERY femme while I'm being fucked especially in certain positions. I feel most femme when I'm on my back with my thighs spread and I'll usually end up wrapping my legs around him to pull him into me after things get really hot. Reverse cowgirl is another favorite femme position for me. For the guys that think they are porn stars that just wanna bend you over and jackhammer your ass till they cum it's just not that pleasant. Sure I enjoy some good hard fucking but in between long deep rhythmic strokes working me slowly into a frenzy and after a while of that I'll be riding and grinding like it might be the last dick I get.

[hung4you]

I am 100 percent a bottom for 1 reason, it feels awesome. My regular has come to expect it almost daily. I don’t mind though, the thought that my ass turns him on and gets a man hard as a rock is incredible.

[Radlatino]

45, Bi M, westmont IL, would like to find a FWBs who enjoys clean fun. Enjoys, foreplay, 69, making out, Jo. And can help de-virinizing my ass. Is that you?
I've done a dildo but never had the real thing. And wondering if a real cock can be just as good. And enjoyable?

[ghw132]

I like the feeling of being undressed, my panties,taken off and getting lubbed, of having a finger or two used to stretch me out. It is a form of fore play. I like sucking his cock as he calls me his bitch and whore. I like being dominated, and taking a feminine role. As his cock is stiffening in my mouth, I know it is for me. Him dragging my ass to the edge of the bed, then making me lube his cock. He then runs it up down my ass until I beg for it and he slides it in. I love the feeling of him cuming deep inside me. As he reaches around me and jacks me off. Girls like to get screwed, so for him I am a girl and I like to be screwed.

[hardhats]

I can't think of a better feeling than having a hard cock inside of me. I just love it.

[hung4you]

As I read some of these asking if getting a cock up your ass makes you feel feminine, there’s nothing feminine about it, just a couple of well at least in my case a couple of alpha males enjoying our man to man desires. I am a very submissive man that enjoys every aspect of man sex. I have cultivated some very tight friendships based not only on sex but other interest as well. Of my group of friends we play outside the sexual realm , fishing ,hunting, motorcycles, and everything else.

Theres a comfort factor involved when you have people you trust and are comfortable with, nothing better than knowing what your partner likes and enjoys. In the bedroom I know what they like and they know what I want. I have topped but prefer to bottom and at least in the bedroom being submissive to their needs.

[bikurinpa]

This is what I would like to find , someone who we can also enjoy friendship and going out fishing and just doing things together as regular friends. But this area here in the very central Pa area, no one wants anything to do with being regular friends, this is just a blo n go area.

As I read some of these asking if getting a cock up your ass makes you feel feminine, there’s nothing feminine about it, just a couple of well at least in my case a couple of alpha males enjoying our man to man desires. I am a very submissive man that enjoys every aspect of man sex. I have cultivated some very tight friendships based not only on sex but other interest as well. Of my group of friends we play outside the sexual realm , fishing ,hunting, motorcycles, and everything else.

Theres a comfort factor involved when you have people you trust and are comfortable with, nothing better than knowing what your partner likes and enjoys. In the bedroom I know what they like and they know what I want. I have topped but prefer to bottom and at least in the bedroom being submissive to their needs.

[BobbyBiMarried]

I have fucked men and it has been utterly wonderful, and other times it has been excruciating. When a guy knows how to do it, takes his time, and does it right, I love it. It helps if the top knows what he's doing and wants the experience to be good. And, yes, it does make me feel feminine and submissive, and I really enjoy that.

That sounds wonderful. Feminine and submissive. Yes.