Why So Difficult Finding a Girl Turned on Bi M-M Play?

[Mike Smith]

I've found a few women online into M-M and M-W-M play, but few & far between.

Thing is, I know they're out there. I had an old GF who loved the idea (we never did it, unfortunately), and she and several other women have told me there are more females into it then one might think.
My guess is it has a lot to do with social stigmas and potential stds, but that's just a theory.
Plus you know how secretive the ladies can be!

Anyway, they're tough to find online or in-person. I've had a few email/chat buddies and the back-n-forth was hot as hell! They were frankly also good emotionally as they have a hundred times the understanding of guys (not that Id ever discuss this with straight friends!)

I'd love to get together with one for real, or even a cool couple, but even just to be online buddies with a girl/lady would be so cool.

I'm bi and LUV cock, and luv to talk about taking it, something mostly ladies only know!

[Realist]

Welcome to the site, Mike.

Although I don't think of this site as a hook-up place, people do meet, here.

There's a lot of brilliant members here who will gladly respond to your comments, questions, and thoughts. Some may be able to help your search, help you develop your focus...or get on your nerves! Anyway, surely they will make you think.

Don't give up, there's someone, somewhere, who thinks just as you do and wants the same things.


You might start by doing a little work on a viable profile. I met someone, here, soon after posting my own profile; we've been together for a few years, now.

Good luck!

[Jobelorocks]

I think way more ladies are into it then are willing to admit it. I know I like seeing two men together and I have had many close female friends admit they like it as well, but most aren't willing to openly admit it. The problem is socially it isn't as acceptable for women to be as open about sex and sexual fantasies as men are, although men are also limited by social norms of what it is okay for them to be into sexually. I think it is just a matter of time before things start changing in this regard.

There are women who are into this and I think your best bet is trying to look for a fully bi couple to fulfill this fantasy. It may be hard to find, but not impossible. Good luck man!

[darkrainbow]

I for one love watching my husband and our boyfriend together. I like to get involved as well. Sometimes I like to pretend to be a gay male and other times I am content being female. When meeting new people I find that the best way to find what your looking for is to be a blunt as possible and just come out and ask about what that person is into. Then ask her if she likes watching man on man action if she says yes, then you are good to go, if she says no then perhaps you should consider finding someone else who will get just as much enjoyment out of M/M sex as you do.

[FinkDoodle]

I've known quite a few women in the NYC area that made no secret of their interest in bi men, so I know they're out there. My suggestion would be to keep looking on bi (and possibly swing) sites, since they can anonymously explore that interest there. I've also found that if you're actively searching for female companionship, it helps to post a face pic rather than the ubiquitous weenie photos that most guys seem to flaunt. . . the former will make you look like far less of a pervert :) (and, yes, I know I have a dick pic up myself with nary a face pic in sight, but I never said I was actively looking for a girl on here, did I? :) )

Keep looking . . you'll find them. :)

[ErosUrge]

Oh they are most definitely out there. I go to these bi social gatherings that end up in an orgy. Most people there are married or committed couples with a few single bi men and women; I being one of them. Anyhow, I find it fascinating since they are committed to one another but are open to play with others of both sexes. It's quite the community. I've been going now for 6 years and have made friendships with some of them. Naturally, I too would like to meet a single woman who would be interested in this kind of situation. I know there are single women who are interested in such situations, but it is a mystery to me as to why it's difficult to find them. I enjoy my experiences with couples, but it would be wonderful to have a situation with a woman who would want to be involved with the openess of sharing others. I suppose we both just need to hang in there. In the meantime I will continue to enjoy the couples whenver they want me to join in. Good luck.

[Cherokee_Mountaincat]

Well this old Cat Loves to watch MM play, and loves to participate and direct as well. :} A passion of mine. :tongue:
Cat

[The Bisexual Virgin]

Sometimes I really think, bisexual men need to stop trying to force women into liking mmf sexual encounters. I hate to say this but a lot of women don't like to know that their men like dick as much as they do. But I am pretty positive there are some out there that might enjoy it. You are going to have a hard time finding that special lady sir, good luck.

[Mike Smith]

I never meant to even suggest forcing anything on anyone. It's good you make that point, because I know the yuck factor is real with many women. I appreciate everyone's words of wisdom.

[cbj4162]

my lady was into it when we played with a bi-guy friend on several occasions when we lived in VA. We Loved it !!!!

[Dog62]

Sometimes I really think, bisexual men need to stop trying to force women into liking mmf sexual encounters. I hate to say this but a lot of women don't like to know that their men like dick as much as they do. But I am pretty positive there are some out there that might enjoy it. You are going to have a hard time finding that special lady sir, good luck.
Wow, where did that come from? I have read and re-read Mike's original post and no where do I see him asking why women didn't like to be forced into something. He asked a very specific question about a very specific interest that some women do have. The fact that it appears you do not share his desire does not mean that he is interested in forcing his desires on you or any other woman. There are many women out there that are interested in what Mike asked about and your attitude does not change that. Since you can not answer the man's question or supply any relevant response, why do you think it necessary to interject your inappropriate and irrelevant nonsense about men "forcing" their desires onto others?

[Searchingfortwo]

There are women who are into this and I think your best bet is trying to look for a fully bi couple to fulfill this fantasy. It may be hard to find, but not impossible. Good luck man!

This.

In 4-5 years of on/off seeking out bi men and women I've found that the easiest way to meet women is to hook up with couples. I don't know the reasons nor do I over-analyze why, it's just how it is. I've met two fully bi-couples this year just through answering CL ads, being patient, and going out of my way to establish a good relationship with them. The payoff has been, well, some of the most incredible sex I've ever had with some of the best people I've ever been fortunate enough to share myself with.

If I met a woman who was fully comfortable with me being bi and liked to share I'd be thrilled. As it is, I don't see that happening. But you never know, I didn't think I'd ever find any like minded couples either.

[swmnkdinthervr]

My wife is hugely turned on by watching guys play...well... watching ladies and couples too!

[sexual26]

It maybe a tough search to find a woman that likes it can't say myself because I haven't really looked I met my wife and new she was bi and everything and as I have come out to her I have found she has most of the same sexual interest that I have. I have been seeing a guy I met here for a couple of months and after talking to both of them we all decided to get together mainly for them to meet but it turned into a very fun night. Now she was very into m/m oral and found very hot and she says she finds m/m sex hot but I haven't tested it yet to see if she feels the same way after seeing her man get taken. Though I believe it will possibly send her over the top.


So I know there are women out there who are into it just keep searching and maybe try finding a bi woman who has some of the same interest and desires you do

[tommyswing]

I've know a few women who where into it or at least neutral. But most tend to be appalled, it goes against thier idea of manliness. I've know bi-sexual women who won't go out with a bi guy. It would be great to find one, but I'm not holding my breath.

[bieyeswideopen]

well said Dog... I just shake my head at the attitude so many women have... "I can be Bi and do what I like... but M-M is gross!" the response reeks of this.

Rob

[bieyeswideopen]

Tommy, you're absolutely right.. especially if the woman in question is over the age of 25-30... the stigma of "gay" is far stronger with women over 30. Additionally, the "fear" of a man marrying for comfort and then "catting-about" with other men is something that is a bigger issue for women 40-up.. its a social stigma that we all endure daily...

Rob

[Cherokee_Mountaincat]

Not all women are open minded enough to find this as sensual and as alluring as I do. I personally, Adore watching men playing together--wheter I'm sitting back and watching or am right in the middle of it. Its very exciting to watch people having sex and giving pleasure Period...but theres just something soo hot about watching men. Maybe its the old stigma of it being so "Taboo" or unknown of, or maybe I'm just one of the weird ones who adore Bi Men...lol Either way, its all good..:}
Cat

[The Bisexual Virgin]

Wow, where did that come from? I have read and re-read Mike's original post and no where do I see him asking why women didn't like to be forced into something. He asked a very specific question about a very specific interest that some women do have. The fact that it appears you do not share his desire does not mean that he is interested in forcing his desires on you or any other woman. There are many women out there that are interested in what Mike asked about and your attitude does not change that. Since you can not answer the man's question or supply any relevant response, why do you think it necessary to interject your inappropriate and irrelevant nonsense about men "forcing" their desires onto others?

Because men do that. I been on many forums discussing male bisexuality, and have read men comment on how their wives are not open to the idea of male on male play, and might have to look else where to get satisfaction because their wives are not interested which means he might end the relationship, and seek what they truly desire, so therefore the wife have to bend to please her husband. Mike Smith, in this society, most women in general are already insecure, now you add your bisexuality to the mix when you are dating a woman, you will find a lot of women might have fear, and disgust in their eyes of even bothering with you in the first place. I know because most women that I talked too, even the bisexual women would not have anything to do with a bisexual man. It's the sad truth, for some bi men but a majority of women are like that, and there are some that's out there, but you have to look reeaaaaaaaallllllllllly hard. It's almost like a needle in a hack stack thing. So good luck with your journey, sir.

[Dog62]

I know because most women that I talked too, even the bisexual women would not have anything to do with a bisexual man. It's the sad truth, for some bi men but a majority of women are like that, and there are some that's out there, but you have to look reeaaaaaaaallllllllllly hard. It's almost like a needle in a hack stack thing. So good luck with your journey, sir.
Thank God you were here to provide us with the facts of life. Surely the "women you have talked to" have provided the full and complete story and now you are the bearer of all that is true and correct. And these "facts" from someone who calls them self a "bisexual virgin"....wow.
Just because your friends won't do it does not mean that "most" other women won't. The first bi sex I had was at the request of a woman. Since that day I have met several others that are also into watching their husband/boyfriend with another man. While I agree that they may be a minority, they do exist. Your condemnation of what men "do", even though there had been no mention of it until you brought it up, makes you sound like some sort of frigid prude. Please go lose your bisexual virginity and enjoy yourself instead of whining about what you only perceive, rather than actually know.

[The Bisexual Virgin]

Thank God you were here to provide us with the facts of life. Surely the "women you have talked to" have provided the full and complete story and now you are the bearer of all that is true and correct. And these "facts" from someone who calls them self a "bisexual virgin"....wow.
Just because your friends won't do it does not mean that "most" other women won't. The first bi sex I had was at the request of a woman. Since that day I have met several others that are also into watching their husband/boyfriend with another man. While I agree that they may be a minority, they do exist. Your condemnation of what men "do", even though there had been no mention of it until you brought it up, makes you sound like some sort of frigid prude. Please go lose your bisexual virginity and enjoy yourself instead of whining about what you only perceive, rather than actually know.

Well that's the woman that you meet. Me and you run in different circles, and just because that woman, and the others enjoy it, does not mean the rest of the female population do. I am only stating whats to be true, sweetheart, and can you please stop repeating what I said in the first place and putting them in your own words, so please stop doing that. this I will put it in caps. THERE ARE SOME WOMEN THAT MIGHT ENJOY IT BUT IT'S A SMALL NUMBER OF THEM, AND THE OTHERS DON'T

And I am perfectly fine with being a frigid if that means I will refuse to be involve in a sex act that bothers me, or that I am uncomfortable with. Tell me, sir did that lady ever pressure you into having sex with another man for her own enjoyment?if she did that's the same thing with women, well some of them. Why should I feel pressured into something that I know will not like?

[Dog62]

If YOU feel pressured by the topic in this thread then stay out of it...duh!

[art0711]

I've known quite a few women in the NYC area that made no secret of their interest in bi men, so I know they're out there. My suggestion would be to keep looking on bi (and possibly swing) sites, since they can anonymously explore that interest there. I've also found that if you're actively searching for female companionship, it helps to post a face pic rather than the ubiquitous weenie photos that most guys seem to flaunt. . . the former will make you look like far less of a pervert :) (and, yes, I know I have a dick pic up myself with nary a face pic in sight, but I never said I was actively looking for a girl on here, did I? :) )

Keep looking . . you'll find them. :)

I would love to find those women in the NYC area!

[Dog62]

I am only stating whats to be true, THERE ARE SOME WOMEN THAT MIGHT ENJOY IT BUT IT'S A SMALL NUMBER OF THEM.
Maybe your "truth" is in your imagination. Try checking out this poll. http://forum.literotica.com/poll.php?do=showresults&pollid=17521
Obviously there are more women out there that enjoy it than you know. You claim that all of the women you talk to are not into it, but what does that prove? You could be talking to a bunch of nuns, or lesbians or some other group that isn't into bisexual men but who is to say that your test group is an accurate sampling? Oh that's right! You did so it must be true. Thank God you were here to tell of morons what is and isn't the way life is.

[The Bisexual Virgin]

Maybe your "truth" is in your imagination. Try checking out this poll. http://forum.literotica.com/poll.php?do=showresults&pollid=17521
Obviously there are more women out there that enjoy it than you know. You claim that all of the women you talk to are not into it, but what does that prove? You could be talking to a bunch of nuns, or lesbians or some other group that isn't into bisexual men but who is to say that your test group is an accurate sampling? Oh that's right! You did so it must be true. Thank God you were here to tell of morons what is and isn't the way life is.

Umm excuse me the hell of of me, but that's one little forum of people on a story porn site. You can go to any search engine, and type in "Will a woman date a bisexual man?" or "what do women think of bisexual men?" click on a few links then you will get your answer.

[Dog62]

Umm excuse me the hell of of me, but that's one little forum of people on a story porn site. And you are one little paranoid "virgin" with how many friends? You have surveyed more people than they have? Yeah, I bet everyone here believes that.

No one in this thread ever mentioned forcing their belief or desires on anyone else, but you sure set off on your imaginary tangent. Your arrogance and your "I am right. Y'all are all wrong" attitude is amazing. Have fun, I'm done with you. Wow, no wonder you are a bisexual "virgin".

[The Bisexual Virgin]

And you are one little paranoid "virgin" with how many friends? You have surveyed more people than they have? Yeah, I bet everyone here believes that.

No one in this thread ever mentioned forcing their belief or desires on anyone else, but you sure set off on your imaginary tangent. Your arrogance and your "I am right. Y'all are all wrong" attitude is amazing. Have fun, I'm done with you. Wow, no wonder you are a bisexual "virgin".

Did I say that porn site is bad? In fact I have written few stories for that site, and one of which I am writing right now, but what do you care? And another there's nothing with me being a virgin when I run into jackasses that are more than happy to take it from me. Why should I give something to someone would not give a damn about me? And I never said I was right you just assumed something so you can pick a fight with me for some odd reason. But I guess it's mainly my fault because I should never responded back to you in the first place.

[æonpax]

I've found a few women online into M-M and M-W-M play, but few & far between.

Thing is, I know they're out there. I had an old GF who loved the idea (we never did it, unfortunately), and she and several other women have told me there are more females into it then one might think. My guess is it has a lot to do with social stigmas and potential stds, but that's just a theory. Plus you know how secretive the ladies can be!

Anyway, they're tough to find online or in-person. I've had a few email/chat buddies and the back-n-forth was hot as hell! They were frankly also good emotionally as they have a hundred times the understanding of guys (not that Id ever discuss this with straight friends!)

I'd love to get together with one for real, or even a cool couple, but even just to be online buddies with a girl/lady would be so cool.

I'm bi and LUV cock, and luv to talk about taking it, something mostly ladies only know!
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I have been in threesomes with married couples and male couples. I do not know if they were bi or hetero. However, that was (for a lack of a better word) a phase I went through, but even then, unless I was involved, I had no interest in just watching. It’s just not my thing.

I also cannot say I know of any females (lesbian, bi or hetero) whom have expressed an overriding desire to involve themselves in it either. Most are like me insofar that if they did it, it was done more out of curiosity than carnal desire.

I do wish you success in looking through. I’ve always believed there is someone for everyone.

[Bayoubear9]

Speaking for myself here I think the "all women are into it" thing is pure myth. Yes there are those that dig it but I dont think their number is as high as the rumor-mill would lead one to believe. Just about every female lover I've ever had I would at some point casually mention it in conversation to see their reaction... this usually was the lead in to the conversation where I would decide rather or not to come out to them. Most had no desire even after realizing it could happen with just a phone call. A couple were even repulsed by the idea with only a very few really into the idea. One friend of mine tho got wayyyyyy excited and was as giddy as a kid before christmas at the idea.

[cbb83]

Two quick observations of mine:

1) A lot of women are afraid that you will leave them for a man if you have ANY homosexual tendencies. To the average woman, this is the ultimate disgrace - losing a man to another man. The fear of that will prevent many women (even some who are interested) from ever being down with this - or for that matter ever dating a bisexual man.

2) If a woman likes to play with your ass, chances are she'd love to see you with another guy. So playfully encourage a finger there or something and give it some time. Before you know it you may soon find she's purchased a strap-on and is hinting that she likes to watch gay porn. When shes ready, just ask directly if she'd like to see it.

[ExSailor]

It's easy to find a woman who is into having MMF 3 ways with bisexual men. My partner is like this and while I don't do anal sex with her and we don't use strapon dildos. I have a male lover and my partner knows about him. I have been with her for decades so she knows I'm not going to leave her. She's bisexual and while she has female lovers I know she's not going to leave me for one of them since we are partnered to each other.

[sam4542]

Personally I would like to find out about "these bi social gatherings" are there any i Chicago?

[SexyBiMakayla]

Hey babe, your not the only one. I am sexy as hell but no one likes girls that are Bisexual.

[falcondfw]

Hey babe, your not the only one. I am sexy as hell but no one likes girls that are Bisexual.

Seriously? Did you really say that? You are on a web site with bisexuals and the people who love them. Of course there are people that love bisexual men and/or women. It is just harder to find in real life, because of what society tells everyone they should think of us. But there are plenty of people who do love us.

[indenver_indenver]

I have known a half dozen women who liked MM sex. Most thought a man giving head to another guy was very sexy. My wife likes the idea of my being submissive to another guy and having him "force" me to my knees or straddle my chest and fuck me in the mouth. And so, I have really gotten to like it as well. I have a very well hung partner who loves working his big cock into my throat and seeing me struggle to take all of him.

So, there are women out there who thinks it's sexy. Keep looking.

[rb6161]

i know me too!!!!!

[jimdawg]

Did I say that porn site is bad? In fact I have written few stories for that site, and one of which I am writing right now, but what do you care? And another there's nothing with me being a virgin when I run into jackasses that are more than happy to take it from me. Why should I give something to someone would not give a damn about me? And I never said I was right you just assumed something so you can pick a fight with me for some odd reason. But I guess it's mainly my fault because I should never responded back to you in the first place.

The reason you're wrong is because you're assuming men are closet cases. With women I date, I tend to be upfront. If they feel pressured later, that's their fault. If they're not into bi men, they should end it early, or at least, get a promise out of me that I won't pursue that behavior.

The only way a man can force it on a woman like you've described is if he was dishonest. Guess what: Men and women lie.

As far as "Jackasses more than happy to take it from you"-I don't understand your hostility. Of course men want to sleep with you. So do women. What about women who are more than happy to take it from you? Your posting seems horribly anti-men. I'm not reading from you that women don't like bi men, I'm reading YOU don't like bi men, and that you don't particularly like men, and your input about women liking bi men...should be taken with a grain of salt, as if from the opinion of a woman who doesn't particularly like most men. And of course, double the dislike won't be sexy.

And that's why it doesn't matter if you assume "I never said I was right, you just assumed something so you can pick a fight..." you said most men force women into doing things that they don't want to do by threatening to leave them. How about this: If a man blackmails you like that, LEAVE HIM. If a woman feels pressured to the point of extreme distaste and nervousness, that's not a healthy relationship. This statement again implies that men do something that to you that you are uncomfortable with (along with "jackasses that are more than happy.") Subsequently your post is insulting to bisexual men due to the fact that...we don't view ourselves as negatively as you view us. If we (men) weren't seen as the powerful members of society and dare posted something like this about women, people would be screaming sexism. And they'd be right. (To demonstrate my distaste for that content, I believe ENJOYFUL sex...as opposed to bad or fearful sex...and the ability to get it...is MUCH more valuable than being a virgin. I place no fetish or value on virginity. I think doing so is an archaic concept that predates birth control and reflects higher social risk of low moral standing and the possibility of cuckolding.)

Back to the relevant part of the subject-the question-I think there are two parts. In speaking with my grandmother about her rather homophobic and views of couples having sex, and relating it to more modern thoughts, it isn't so much that women aren't into it at all. My grandmother puts a high value on herself, which she used to measure by the ability to ignore sexual advance. She openly complains about women "giving it away for free" for being stupid and underneath what she was. And gays? They're just "horrible" because they're so promiscuous (translation: Some men openly brag about the fun they had having sex with men who were "beneath" them socially). So I think there's a point of view that's very old fashioned at play here: that men who sleep with men are a joke and beneath you socially, if you turn sex into a commodity. And without a doubt, some women do. That's not to say men are innocent at all in this-many men are way too eager to impress women with money and power and believe-wrongly-that that's the only way to bring a woman into bed (in other words, women as property). If you play this game in choosing a mate, there is NO room for bisexual men due to the fact they don't value your sex in monetary terms and you have to compete with people who have a right to have more power and wealth due to societal inequality, and if you view sex terms of moving up...

I think that, as bisexual women have become more common place, bisexual men will too. I think the bisexual impulse is pretty darned strong, and attitudes (since birth control) have come to see threesomes as not causing unwanted pregnancy and thus we can tell the truth about them as men: They are sexy and will not result in wedlock. Subsequently, men these days LOVE bisexual women (whereas if you compare it to writings from more ancient times, lesbianism resulted in death in harems-when the women were completely property). But if a woman is attracted to money, there again is no room for a bisexual man. I think though with feminism...women can get money on their own much better than 50 or 100 years ago. And women I know who make a lot of money (sufficiently much that they don't care what I make) or who have tremendous economic stability (in other words, women that like paying for themselves on dates) also find the idea of playing with my ass sexy in particular, but letting others do that, hot, due to the fact that I seem to care about similar pleasures as them. There's a sense of trust and empathy there-even if the woman isn't into anal on herself. Nonetheless, these women are rare who know that about themselves.

My last point is why I don't like dating straight women too often. I was in my bedroom with a very straight girl and I'm very ambiguous about my sexuality. We were talking about sex toys and gay men, and I mentioned I had a dildo. She asked to see it, so I took it out, and she ran out of the room screaming "Eww, gay!" and, as if that weren't bad enough, she calmed down a few minutes later and started asking the fantasy questions...what does it feel like, do you want a woman to do this to you, etc.; it was if her homophobic annoying reaction WAS FORCED, and when she settled down and noticed no one would judge her, she expressed her curiousness.

[æonpax]

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Personally, I am not "turned on" by watching male sex, bi or gay. It just doesn't trip my sexual trigger. If a male makes it a term or condition of our relationship that I watch him with other guys, I tell him to get lost. There are certain M/M situations that I consider erotic but a lot of that is situational. I once bumped into two guys at a party having anal sex, one giving and receiving. But they were so into each other, they never noticed I was there. It was erotic seeing the guy receiving; cum, but it was also a novelty to me at the time. It was titillating the first time but after that, nothing I would go out of my way to see again.

While I respect and accept my bisexual male and gay brothers sexual desires, that does not logically mean I enjoy or get sexually excited watching it. I have yet to meet a bisexual female who looks for M/M sex but my scope is limited.

There are extenuating circumstances involved here, some taboo, but to each their own. There are a myriad of sexual proclivities out there and finding those who fill such niches is what sites like this are all about.

[darkeyes]

I'm with u here Joan. Even in the days when men did rock my boat the thought of 2 guys getting it on never exactly got the juices flowing... and tbh, of even the bisexual women I know, of which there are quite a few, for only one or two does it do so, and only one straight women admits to it.. should that be? I don't know.. logic tells me no, yet it is a reality I suspect born of society's greater resistance to mm sex, and the misconception that all men who do have sex with each other have anal sex.. it is this which I think turns people cold on the issue to some extent.. and I suspect I am infected by that societal taboo also and if I have released myself of most of society's sexual chains, that holds me fast even still, just as the taboo of having anal sex even with my partner holds me just as tightly in its grip..

Yet a contradiction, particularly in the heterosexual male community is just how many want to fuck their female partner or partners anally while continuing to disapprove of men doing it to each other or at least claiming disapproval and even among many of the greatest male supporters of the lgbt, while they accept that it goes on and do not publicly disapprove, and indeed to their credit claim that it is a right, it is this one act which gives around such men such an air of iffyness even now .. there is power thing involved here and one which I never fell for however many guys tried to wield and impose it save once which is illustrative of that need for power within some guys.... I suspect that until men of all sexualities come to terms completely and are comfortable with the idea of anal sex, even if it is not for them, I very much doubt women will and so guys will still find that women in the main don't get that worked up by the thought or sight of 2 guys getting it together in the same way for instance that guys do about 2 women....

[kidgloves12]

Typical "entitlement" attitude. Don't let this discourage you.


Sometimes I really think, bisexual men need to stop trying to force women into liking mmf sexual encounters. I hate to say this but a lot of women don't like to know that their men like dick as much as they do. But I am pretty positive there are some out there that might enjoy it. You are going to have a hard time finding that special lady sir, good luck.

[kidgloves12]

I KNOW A LOT of women who hate lesbians...so circles evolve also. I guess "lesbians" are "hot" and gays should be not seen or heard I guess. Funny. Nobody is "pressured" on anything. Sir.


Well that's the woman that you meet. Me and you run in different circles, and just because that woman, and the others enjoy it, does not mean the rest of the female population do. I am only stating whats to be true, sweetheart, and can you please stop repeating what I said in the first place and putting them in your own words, so please stop doing that. this I will put it in caps. THERE ARE SOME WOMEN THAT MIGHT ENJOY IT BUT IT'S A SMALL NUMBER OF THEM, AND THE OTHERS DON'T

And I am perfectly fine with being a frigid if that means I will refuse to be involve in a sex act that bothers me, or that I am uncomfortable with. Tell me, sir did that lady ever pressure you into having sex with another man for her own enjoyment?if she did that's the same thing with women, well some of them. Why should I feel pressured into something that I know will not like?