What was your first time like????

[i_shoot_blanks]

I'm sure this has been asked before, but I'm relatively new here.

What was your first gay/lesbian/bi experience like??? Was it an enjoyable experience??

[i_shoot_blanks]

I'll start. I was in Albuquerque in the early 80's and I noticed an add in the newspaper personals (how did we live without the internet). We talked a few times and he finally invited me to come to his home for a "visit". When I got there, he ushered me to the back yard where an old garage had been converted to a party room, complete with over stuffed furuniture, bar and hot tub. We talked for a bit, then got naked and climbed into the tub. I was shocked at how close he sat to me, but soon relaxed as the water bubbled and he began playing with my cock and balls. I returned the favor and we were soon masturbating each other. When he was sufficiently hard, he stood and I was staring at a large, hard penis, the first I had ever seen other than mine. As he stepped closer, I took it into my mouth and began moving my head back and forth and licking around the head. Apparently I was doing something right because he got even harder, began moaning and was suddenly cumming in my mouth. To my surprise, I was not repulsed and enjoyed the feeling as I swallowed all he had to offer. I recall the taste was similar to mine, which I had sampled a few times. After a little recovery time, we adjourned from the tub, dried off and he dropped to his knees and returned the favor. He was good, knew what he was doing and with only a few strokes I was cumming in his mouth.
It was an enjoyable experience, one that I still enjoy all these years later.

[Jobelorocks]

My first time with a girl kind of sucked actually. She seemed bored and disinterested. When she fingered me she only stuck one finger in and didn't even give me a wiggle just straight in and out. When she gave me oral she licked in all the wrong places. She wouldn't take off her bra so I couldn't suck her nipples. She seemed really bored when kissing and just kept giving half-hearted pecs.She was very enthusiastic when I rubbed her g-spot and licked her. Needless to say I never did anything with her again. By the way, I did communicate and ask her for the things I wanted, but she just ignored all my requests.

[Cherokee_Mountaincat]

lol I'd tell you mine, but it would sound like bad porn...lol
Cat

[darkeyes]

lol I'd tell you mine, but it would sound like bad porn...lol
Cat
My first time wiv a girl wudnta made ver gud porn either Cat.. bit borin for the viewer me wud think.. but for the lil skinny squirt whose 1st time it wos? It wos heaven an' confirmed 2 'er everything she had always felt for an' bout 'er own gender!!!

[i_shoot_blanks]

lol I'd tell you mine, but it would sound like bad porn...lol
Cat

I love bad porn, Miss Kitty

[NakedInSeattle]

Cum on kitty...i'll tell you mine if you tell me yours.

[Bisexual Explorer]

Though I've responded to this question before, remembering the experience is such a turn on that I'll respond again. I finally decided to act on my fantasy of having sex with a man and went to a gay bath in NYC. Walking aroung, I saw guys sucking and fucking everywhere I looked. It was unbelievably exciting. Then guy, who must have seen my erection under the towel I had wrapped around my waist, gently took my hand, led me over to a couch, and starting sucking my cock. His cock was near my mouth so I started sucking him. I had 69ed with women; this was something totally different. He was much better at sucking than any woman I had ever been with. And even though this was my first time, I fell in love with having a cock in my mouth. I exploded in his mouth and a few minutes later his cum filled up my mouth. It tasted good; I swallowed. I then went to shower and another guy came over and grabbed my cock. He sucked me off right there in front of everyone. What else could I do but suck him off?
Bisexual Explorer

[innaminka]

First time - (not counting the odd drunken fumble at Uni parties) was enjoyable and an awakeing.
Didn't go the whole way, but certainly far enough for me to realize what i was doing was far more than titillation.
The other woman was also having her first experience too.

Result - I've kept going. I now major in it.
She retired gracefully from the field, and that was that.

[redngoldpride]

my first time was long time ago but it still gets me hard thinking about it and them, i was 14 and had a gf and we were at her house when a girl i had never met came into the room a very sexy girl dressed in thigh highs a very short skirt and blouse tied at the waist my gf introduced us and started to laugh i thought it was because she had noticed i got hard right away, turned out it was because it was her brother and i did not even know it he was 16 at the time i couldn't believe it and reached out to feel her ass under the short skirt and they both laughed and she said if i want proof i need to feel this side and put my hand on her cock and balls tucked in her panties it was still hard to tell because she tucked so well she stepped close and just looked in my eyes as i felt her didn't know why but i just leaned in and kissed her it was long and deep,well we all went into my gf's room and i had a bisexual experience and a 3way and my first but never my last transgender experience and to this day it is one of my best memories..........and yes now i am rock hard just from reliving this and am so fucking horny......WOW..... i just love this life i am living

[darkeyes]

What I remember most is standing with my head against her chest and making little whimpery noises... told u.. it wouldn't make good porn.. but it wos ver nice..:)

[Gearbox]

What I remember most is standing with my head against her chest and making little whimpery noises... told u.. it wouldn't make good porn.. but it wos ver nice..:)
Was that from a previous life as a Labrador?:tongue:

[darkeyes]

Was that from a previous life as a Labrador?:tongue:
I am many things Gear, and may not quite be the most beautiful girl on the planet, but I more than pass muster and trust me.. I have never been any kind of dog!!!;):tongue: .. an' trust me on this too... neither was she...:tongue::love:

[Bisexual Explorer]

I would have been wimpering my first time as well had my mouth not been full of cock. You know, I still wimper if it's really good. Believe me no body confuses me with a labrador. I'm not nearly that cute.
Bisexual Explorer

[Gearbox]

LOL! Fran&BisEx I've met a few who I'd swear were Jack Russell's in former lives, in their behaviour, not looks.
I was a Lab/hyena cross-breed. I hump legs and laugh when I cum.:oh: Yes, I actually laugh! Em-fekin-barrassing? Oh yes!lol

[Eldred]

I don't really post, but ok i'll go..

This is actually a copy-pasta from telling the story to a close friend of mine through an email in 2006'ish.
My first time happened in 2002 or '03..
---Brace yourselves, wall of text is coming.






Well, before I found out he was gay, I guess you could say he had little ways of trying to tell me.

1 weekend he and I were out Driving around in his PT cruiser, when he decided to go to a park by the riverfront.
there were 2 guys there, a Latino, and a really tall black guy.
We drove up to them, but didn't get out of the car.

We noticed they were acting funny, or had strange mannerisms.

Well, turns out they were both gay.
Luis (my friend) wanted to try something.
We were both Local actors in a Live theatre at the time, and he suggested we try "acting" gay, and see if we were good enough actors to pull it off.

Well, we did, we talked to them for a little while, seeing what they were up to, and then we left and went back to the studio.

I only tell you that part, because it makes sense at the end of the story.
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1 week before Luis and I had sex, we auditioned for a Show at the Theatre; Camelot.

We both got parts at the Kings personal Bodyguards or some shit..

Anyway, it was the night of our 2nd or 3rd rehearsal, and we were in Luis' studio.
Mind you, this studio space is rented in an old 1930's hotel, where everything is antique looking.
His studio space i actually fixed up for him, laminated the floors, moved in furniture .. painted, added an Air Conditioning Unit, the works.
Well, we were up there about 2 hours from rehearsal when we started talking shit to each other, just playfully, what friends do.

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Me: I don't want to be late for this rehearsal, bitch!

Luis: Stfu!

Me: Suck my dick, bitch!

Luis: Ok, well?

Me: "Well" what?

Luis: Whip it out?!


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Right now, im thinking "riiiiiiight" he's really going to give me head, so not wanting the back down to him, I tried to call his bluff and started fiddling with my pants button and zipper ...

He's slouching back on the Couch in the studio, and before i could say anything else, he sits up, unbuttons and unzips my pants and has half my dick in his mouth.
right now, im in complete shock that he's doing this, and my eyes are wide, and im just staring at him.
He looks up at me, Smiles, then goes back to work down there.

I wont lie .. I was thinking this feels so good, and after about 5 minutes of doing this, he leans back, and pulls of his pants.
My eyes are still wide, but then i start to smirk a bit as well.
I'm thinking "what the fuck does he think is about to happen?!"

Well, he's only wearing a A&F shirt (subtle clue, huh) and his boxer-briefs.
He tells me to F*ck him .. I look at him like he's crazy, but he says it in a challenging way, because he's doing that reverse psychology shit on me again.
I didn't know it at the time.

So, not wanting to back down, Im like "yeah, I'm not scared"
He lays back on the couch, pulls his Boxer-briefs half off, to just above his knee.
I kneel down on the couch, and next thing i know .. I'M HAVING SEX WITH A GUY!!
... and it is great!

We finish up in about 10mins or so and he's smiling, Im in shock, and we have to head out to rehearsal now.



We're in the car, sitting at a stop-light .. and he asks me:
"So, what should we call this?"

I ask him what he's talking about...

"What should we call this little thing... we just did now?
are you gay, are you going to come out?"

I actually stopped him there, I told him


"NO IM NOT GAY!!
We wont call it anything! wtf are you talking about?"

He tells me I'm gay, or at least Gay-straight, and i explain to him there is no such thing.

He's crazy silly, and yells really loud: "WELL BITCH, IF YOU AINT GAY, YOU'RE SOMETHING!! .. YOU'RE BISEXUAL OR SOMETHING!!" .. Mind you, he's smiling the whole time. He's a silly-ass like that.

Now, as i roll up the windows at this stop-light to keep my secrets SECRETS, I tell him, I'm not bisexual, i dont even fully know what that means, and that we can just say this is a test, or a tryout, or a curiosity .. but still keep it a secret.

He gives me a smirking "Whatever!"
and we drive on to rehearsal.


Well, we ended up doing it maybe 6-7 more times over a period of about 5 months, maybe less time.
Let me just say, the 3rd time (i think) .. was so freaking good, I have no idea what it was about that day but OMG, it was good!!
we were on the couch in all sorts of positions, and Im a stronger guy, i was then becuase I was a wrestler, so i was lifting him up, and moving him around.

It was fucking HOTT!! man ..
I mean, not that it sucked other times, because we did it around 7 times or so, and he really is great in bed, like seriously.
.. but something about that time, we were getting into it!!

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Now, the reason i told you the first part, is because those guys at the park were sort of his way of telling me he is gay.
He knew them, and was testing my reaction around gay people.

He was actually dating the Latino guy later on, by the way.

It's just that when I look back, I see little hints he tried to give me.
He wasn't going to just tell me, I guess he wanted me to work for the truth.
To this day, and i think i told him this a few months ago, I really thank him for SEXIN' me that night. He showed me who i truly was .. He knew it the whole time, Gaydar or something i guess, and he was just helping me to realize I think..

[Realist]

Eldred, that was one of the best posts I've ever read, here...great job!

[Eldred]

Eldred, that was one of the best posts I've ever read, here...great job!

Well, thank you very much, Realist. :oh:

[darkeyes]

LOL! Fran&BisEx I've met a few who I'd swear were Jack Russell's in former lives, in their behaviour, not looks.
I was a Lab/hyena cross-breed. I hump legs and laugh when I cum.:oh: Yes, I actually laugh! Em-fekin-barrassing? Oh yes!lol
1ce went out wiv a ver pretty girl from Bathgate.. 2 weeks of fun and she wos ver wild...did enjoy mesel gr8ly.. then I went home with her and met her flatm8.. a 6yo cocker Spaniel.. looked at dog an looked at 'er... a shiver went down me spine as I realised the truth of the ole sayin'.. the 1 'bout a dog owner growin' 2 look like 'er pet... she wos still ver pretty.. just likes the dog wos luffly.. but somehow 'er sexiness seemed 2 disappear over the hill ver quickly.. me knows... shallow... sue me!!

[Gearbox]

1ce went out wiv a ver pretty girl from Bathgate.. 2 weeks of fun and she wos ver wild...did enjoy mesel gr8ly.. then I went home with her and met her flatm8.. a 6yo cocker Spaniel.. looked at dog an looked at 'er... a shiver went down me spine as I realised the truth of the ole sayin'.. the 1 'bout a dog owner growin' 2 look like 'er pet... she wos still ver pretty.. just likes the dog wos luffly.. but somehow 'er sexiness seemed 2 disappear over the hill ver quickly.. me knows... shallow... sue me!!
:yikes2: In all my years I've never heard of such an extreme case of dogowneraphobia.lol That poor girl! "Love me. Love my dog!", was lost on you. Oh the misery!:paw:
I have cats instead of a dog now, (thank fek!) and a few male hookups had allergies. Saints they were! SAINTS! They looked beyond their streaming eyes and hatred of all things feline, and accepted me as I am. A balls deep dirty bas**rd.lol
Men are far too shallow to aspire to shallowness.:bowdown:

[darkeyes]

:yikes2: In all my years I've never heard of such an extreme case of dogowneraphobia.lol That poor girl! "Love me. Love my dog!", was lost on you. Oh the misery!:paw:
I have cats instead of a dog now, (thank fek!) and a few male hookups had allergies. Saints they were! SAINTS! They looked beyond their streaming eyes and hatred of all things feline, and accepted me as I am. A balls deep dirty bas**rd.lol
Men are far too shallow to aspire to shallowness.:bowdown:
'Fraid I 2 suffer the dreaded pussy (of the 4 legged miaow kind) allergy.. if 1 has been in a room within the previous month the eyes go an if 1 is up close it is not unknown for me 2 get breathin' probs an' all...isn't nice, Gear.. don't hate them.. just regret I can't huggle them like normal peeps.. an don't have dogowneraphobia.. used 2 own a luffly lil border collie called Mist.. an' no.. don't look like she did God rest 'er lil cotton sox.. but did luff 'er.. every year on anniversary of 'er death go 2 me mum's an talk 2 'er an tell 'er alla me news... kids want a dog... no doggie.. not fair when no 1 is in all day... an besides... dread 2 think of all of us endin' up lookin' like our pet!! How do we kno who is who and who is the bloody family pet? They want a lil puss an' all... am not campin' out in garden for ne 1.. least of all a lil puss however adorable an happy it makes the kids...

...men shallow??? Perish the thought, Gear, dear.. tee hee;)

[lilychen]

My first experience with a girl is really amazing well she has plenty of experience so she took care of me I still remember every detail o the things she did to make me squirt for the first time, after that moment we had been friends with benefits although we are both married now we just laugh about these stuffs whenever we talked about it.

[Cherokee_Mountaincat]

I dont know if I can, Darlings. We were pretty young and I know the site has an age limit on sexual things. I can understand if Drew says no...We were both 14 at the time. Is that too young to relate to, Drew-Honey?
Cat

[ExSailor]

The first time I was with a guy I was very young, and with a male peer. It was not anything special or life changing. The first time I was with a woman I was 19 and we kissed each other, explored each other's bodies slowly, she sucked my dick, and I slowly and gently inserted my penis into her wet pussy, and we had sex all that afternoon.

[Bigc69]

I was scanning an online personals list, mostly for women. But I used to look at the ads from men seeking men too. I began to like the pictures posted of male bodies. After a few beers I answered an ad. We traded a couple of e mails and I was off the 3 miles to his house. As I walked in the door we kissed. I had never kissed a man before! I was hard. We went straight the the bedroom and got naked. We lay down in a sideways 69 style and next thing I knew my mouth was on his cock and his on mine. I just did what I thought would feel good.Soon I felt him tense up and a warm liquid punmed into my mouth,and down my chin. I came hard then and we both sat up. He handed me a towel and I wiped off my chin........I get that ache often and hope to find a regular!

[Cherokee_Mountaincat]

Ok be warned..I Told you it was going to sound like bad porn...
Condensed versioon.



My first time with sex wasnt good. I was raped at 12. But 2 years later I met a young girl in jr high who turned out to be a Hermorphidite, possessing the sex organs of both male And female. She was considered a freak by her own family, a shameful thing, and her self esteem was horribly low because of them. I discovered her in the shower room one day on accident. She was always showering away from the rest of us in Gym class, and I found out Why. She was under the hot water and I didnt want to scare her, so I waited for her to turn around. When she did, I saw that she had both organs. Part of me was like "Whoa! WTF??" and the other part of me thought, "OMG, thats beautiful"



She had a nice large cock already at 15, and a tiiiny little pussy. The balls were mono-orchid(Being up inside) She opened her eyes and saw me, then burst into tears. She just Knew I was going to be like the others who knew about her or her parents, judge her, and think she was a freak. I assured her that it didnt bother me one bit. We became friends, and three months later, began experimenting with our bodies, thus became lovers.
Everything on her was fully functional, all for the fact that she was sterile...which was a Very good thing for us..lol We fucked everyway that we could imagine and a few ways we Didnt..lol
We were lovers for almost a year til her Dad was transfered from the base. We were both heartbroken. :( We didnt see each other for many years, until we ran into each other in the Mall is San Bernardino. It was great to sit and talk to her, and if we both had had time, and my chikldren hadnt been with me, I'm sure we would have pounced on one another and headed for her hotel....lol.

[Swuch]

I was 14 and he was my cousin and was 15. I spent the night at his house and we shared his bed. He asked me if I wanted to have some fun and I agreed. Soon he was sucking my cock and he moved my hand to his hard cock. As he sucked me I began sucking him. It felt very good and I came hard in his mouth. He then rolled me over and lubed my ass with my cum. He then mounted me and slowly worked his cock into my ass. He fucked me slow while French kissing me until I had loosen up. He then finished hard and rough shooting his warm cum in me. Thinking of that night is still such a turn on.

[BiJoe696]

I made a recording a few years ago about my first time that is still up on a web site. Just hit the play button and listen. Comments most Well-Cum.

http://www.5on1.com/Audio/AudioSample.asp