So, do you like being watched, or watching?

[lolguy]

When you have the opportunity to have sex with multiple folks in the room, what is your pleasure?

[ohbimale]

I think I would rather be watched. Once in my late 20s I participated in a threesome with a m/f couple. She watched while I sucked her boyfriends cock. It was a huge turn on!

[Bisexual Explorer]

I love having an audience - male, female, both. Just watching is too passive for me. Though watching and then joining in is great.
Bisexual Explorer

[countryman3874228]

I like watching other people having sex. I never had anyone watch me befor but it would be a big turn on for me.

[DiamondDog]

I've watched friends of mine have sex but I'm not that big into voyeurism. I'd rather have sex and it doesn't matter if someone is watching or not.

[i_shoot_blanks]

In my younger days, I was a musician and loved to perform. As for watching or being watched, I think I would prefer being watched. But then I enjoy watching too.

[wanderingrichard]

been on both sides of that. have been watched by small groups at swing parties when engaged with another guy or a lady..... learned to ignore it and concentrate of what we were doing....

then again, i've actively watched, tooo.... you can learn a lot more about people when they are in the throes of passion if you are allowed to watch them. which helps you be a better partner if you ever end up physically involved with that person since you somewhat know what turns them on.

plus, there is a sort of artistic erotic beauty of watching people engaged in sex. honestly i do not consider myself a voyeur because i don't get excited all that much watching, for me it's appreciation of the human body and more importantly the eroticism of the human mind. i mean, sure, there's just straight up wham bam fucking which is ususally over in just a few minutes, but have you ever really appreciated the people who take thier time and really make it memorable for themselves and their partners?? that's the beauty i'm attempting to describe.

[fredtyg]

Being watched is fun.

[darkeyes]

Kate and I were watched ver intently on the dance floor last night and in our little dimly lit corner...by loadsa guys, girls 2 but much less letchily, as we danced and canoodled.. do I like teasing the buggers by my affectionate snogging an' canoodling with the girl I luff? Course I do.. I love being watched... I have her.. they don't.. and knowing what is going through their minds doesn't haff turn me on for when I get the cow 'ome...:tongue:

[bityme]

In group situations we like to have fun. Watching and being watched are enjoyable and it can be a blast when there is running commentary.

Being watched is the best, because you are already involved. Watching doesn't last for long before we want to get involved and being watched most often results in prompting the watchers to join in.

Gotta love the possibilities of group dynamics.

Mrs Tiff & Pappy

[Randypan]

YES, all of the above.

[MyTimeNow]

I've both watched and been watched. Both have their appeals, though watching will undoubtedly make me want to join (or jerk off right there - or later, since I'll be hard for a long time). All in all, I'd probably rather be watched, since it has that porn-ish feeling that someone is watching me and whomever I'm with. I would take both at the end of the day, but I'd rather be watched if given a choice.

[NjbiGuy01]

I enjoy both....discussing both watching and/or filming a local couple at play....very hot. I have enjoyed when a woman watches her man and I play too....it's all good !

[cbj4162]

um .... i wd have to say both

[Waylon]

I really enjoy both. I have watched a guy giving another guy head in a parking lot, a hot chick giving a guy head in a beach house window across from mine, and I know for a fact that other men have watched me giving a blow job to other men every now and then, usually at night at a cruising place or sometimes during the day. I love it when I pop my head up when I finish and see their reactions.

[bifemme]

Watching, no doubt. LOL!!!! But then, I like being watched while I'm masturbating and watching the other person(s). Most of the enjoyment is from watching though. :bigrin:

[falcondfw]

Obviously, I like watching, because porn is such a turn on, but being watched or even the risk of being watched is an INCREDIBLE turn on. I love being watched, but love to watch too.

[Cherokee_Mountaincat]

LOL After watching folks live, porn just pales. I Love watching people engaging in intense pleasures, its a very large turn on for me. I also love having folks watch me do want Cat's and Minx's do best....suck a sweet hard cock. I love to look up at them as if to say, "See what could be yours if you play your cards right?" Looove seeing the arousal in someone's eyes as they watch me bring someone right to the edge, then stop. Or speed up my sucking until he yells out in completion. Verrry erotic to me.
And sometimes its wonderful to be invited in if you stroll by a sex scene, and have someone hold out their hand to invies you in.....:}
Which ever, its all good..;)

[Warrior Poet 69]

They each have their place if you ask me. Once had a threesome that lasted about six hours. Obviously couldn't participate the whole time. Sometimes was all three of us sometimes one sat back to watch and recuperate! Was amazing either way!

[merboi]

Definitely both!!

[BLUELITE]

Back in the late 80's my best griend and his (FUTURE WIFE) , myself and one of her friends double dated. We ended up at my place playing strip poker and eventually we were side byside fucking our respective partners. His wife has huge tits and i enjoyed watching them bounce all over while he fucked her. J had her friend on all fours and.was sliding my cock in and out of her cunt whiel my friends wife watched (we were inches away). She reached over and grabbed mg balls and I even goy to feel of those big tits. I like to be watched while i jack off or suck. It is all good

[biguy71]

I definitely enjoy being watched. Actually, the bigger the audience, the better. I do like watching others as well, though. I especially like watching my wife with another man or woman. It's a huge turn on. She says that she also enjoys watching me with another man or woman. I think the best is when we are both having sex with soomeone else in the same room and can exchange looks with one another. It definitely gets us both off.

[louther]

Love to watch! I've never had a watcher, but I think it would be great too.

[cornholejoe]

like it both ways

[dickhand]

I enjoy both also . The first few times I had sex with a woman , who became my wife , was with another couple in the room of the little hotel he and I were able to afford on pass from Fort Bliss . He dragged me downtown to meet this girl . I did not want to go . Well , down in the town of El Paso , I fell in love with a Mexican girl ! But I digress , sorry !