What am I?

[always curious]

I'm so confused! I have desires to be with another man. But, I'm not interested in a relationship. I don't want touchy feely. No kissing or rubbing. I'm just interested in a mans dick. I don't have any desire to be a bottom. I'm not even sure about being a top. Seems I'm just interested in mutual masterbation and oral. I think if I did find someone to play with, I would probably top if things went well. At this point, I don't see me being a bottom. But you just never know. I love seeing a dick blow its load. I would like to see it first-hand. I want to make it happen and watch the glory with my own two eyes. Now my question is...would I be considered bisexual or something else?

[Long Duck Dong]

you are whatever what you want to be... its merely a label that helps other people get a better idea about you.....

are you looking for answers for yourself or labels from others ?

[jackbirdjay]

At 14 started fantasizing about cock as well as pussy. At 15 a best buddy and I started to watch each other jerk-off. I enjoyed watching him shoot a big load. We did that for a few months. I was confused to, it was 1973 not as open like now. I started dreaming of sucking him and wanted to but was scared to bring it up. One night I just said with out thinking nice would love to jerk u. He gave me a funny look said really? He walked over to me stuck his cock out said here. I just reached over started to give him a hand job. At that time I knew I was bisexual and never looked back.

[Cherokee_Mountaincat]

Hon, at this point, you are more'n likely Bi-Curious. You like the whole ideal of having some man-play but you havent quite worked up the nerve to act on it yet. You do what's best for you. If you want to experiment and Top, then by all means do so. Have fun. Explore. Play, but do it smart, and do it safely..:}
Good luck.
Cat

[tenni]

The truth of the matter does seem to be to self define yourself. Are you attracted to men? You write that you are sexually attracted to a man's genitals and enjoy helping and seeing him shoot his load. You seem sexually attracted to sexual acts with another man. Does that fit the definition of bisexual? Yes it fits at least one definition. To be attracted sexually physically and/or emotionally to the same sex. You don't have to want every aspect of attraction for both genders equally. Over time, you may change in the attraction. If you do find yourself changing in what acts excite you(even feelings) or being "fluid" in your attraction to both genders that is another sign that you are bisexual. Time will tell.

So, what do you want to call yourself?

[void()]

Well, at first blush I'd think it safe to say you're a human being. As much as I may disagree with tenni at times, seems he and LDD both hit the nail on the head. You are what you choose to be. Not really any need to have others define you.

[Gearbox]

Yes you could call yourself whatever you want, but a false label is still a label.lolI'm with Cat's bicuriouse. It's a kind of 'safe' label for those who have certain desires but don't yet know how they'd feel if they were realised.As you very wisely said, you just don't know untill you try.We can not choose our sexuality, but we can choose to explore our sexual desires. Whatever you discover yourself to be, just be happy with it. May aswell be.

[mas8092]

Hon, at this point, you are more'n likely Bi-Curious. You like the whole ideal of having some man-play but you havent quite worked up the nerve to act on it yet. You do what's best for you. If you want to experiment and Top, then by all means do so. Have fun. Explore. Play, but do it smart, and do it safely..:}
Good luck.
Cat

I join Cat's opinion. I first sucked a man when I was separated and 46. Was only married 4 years. Had thought about having sex with a man well before then. To be fair, I should have acted on it before I got married. In the last 2 1/2 years, I have had about 19 sexual encounters, 16 of which have been with men. I like stroking and blowing other men. I like receiving anal. I only know that from doing it. At some point, you will feel a need to try what you are thinking about. I did and liked it. You may not like it, but you should try it so you know.

[ExSailor]

You are bisexual. If you were heterosexual you would not want to have sex with men at all. Bi-curious is just another term for being bisexual that people who are closeted about their sexuality use when they know damn well they are bisexual. You do not have to have sex or be sexually active with one or both genders in order to be bisexual. You can be a virgin to both genders and still be bisexual.

[elian]

If you are looking for affirmation I can tell you it seems to me that there are lots of men who want JO buddies, a lot of them are too shy or afraid to admit it but they are certainly out there. The thing I don't like about it is they end up meeting in awkward places - shame there wasn't some place you could go.. but that is just the way our culture is.. My one gay friend says that things were a lot more open in the 70's. It seems now that the only real "safe" place to do it is in private with some friends you already know.

I dunno, I would much rather people relieve tension and aggression in a positive way rather than pull out a rifle and start blasting away..