"bi men don't like to kiss other men"

[DiamondDog]

I have lots of gay male friends. We'll talk about sexuality and my one friend told me how he was chatting online with this bi guy who wanted to hook up with him, and how this guy basically said "we could suck the same cock and you'd be gay because you like to kiss men and I don't".

I was talking to another gay man and he told me how in his experience bi men generally don't like to kiss other men.

Keep in mind, these men are just going by THEIR experiences or what they've encountered and they generalize this to the entire population. We've all done this at one point in our lives.

I personally love kissing men and if there is chemistry between us it's even better. The more I get to know a person or fall for them the more likely that the stuff I'll describe next will happen.

Waves of euphoria/sensuality can travel down my body and it's a great feeling! Even just kissing the right man on the lips can give me a *spark* as well. Kisssing doesn't have to be coupled with sex either. I've kissed men in public and there's a liberating/powerful feeling about it.

I've even had dreams about kissing men and woke up rather aroused by them.

I just do not like it when the person is too pushy and wants to french kiss me immediatley without a few small pecks/sensual lip kisses, or reeks of tobacco/alcohol, or hasn't used mouthwash or something to take away bad breath for awhile.

How about you men, do you enjoy kissing other men?
If you don't that's fine, I'm just curious to know why not.

[glantern954]

A bisexual guy we were involved with at one point was like this. He viewed the kiss as a romantic or loving thing, something he had no desire for with a guy. I explained that to me kissing was also a sexual thing that helps fuel desire and passion and didn't have to have anything to do with love. Once he understood that he seemed more comfortable with it and then actually pursued kissing me on a couple occasions.

Some of my best same sex experiences were just kissing and mutual masterbation.

[Daytonman]

I personally think that kissing is a necessary part of sex..be it male or female. It turns me on quickly.

[billy_campbell]

I like kissing both women and men. I do agree that some men get hung up on kissing, as do some women. I know women who will have sex and do everything but kiss. They are either married or have boyfriend and that is one thing they don't do with other guys.

I do wonder where some men get the logic that it is ok if I am sucking your cock but man I just cannot kiss you, that would just be too gay. Then again I am still trying to figure how why guys who like to have other guys suck their cocks don't think that is bisexual activity. Or they fuck another guy but then don't see it as sex with another man, just downloading.

[smokey]

I don't know I am not especially fond of kissing other men...it may sound weird but men kiss differently than women in ways that I cannot define at this moment, but at least for me it is nowhere near as erotic. That being said, I have kissed men, the cavet being, when they wanted to.

[glantern954]

I suspect that it is a way of compartmentalizing our fear of being considered less masculine.


I like kissing both women and men. I do agree that some men get hung up on kissing, as do some women. I know women who will have sex and do everything but kiss. They are either married or have boyfriend and that is one thing they don't do with other guys.

I do wonder where some men get the logic that it is ok if I am sucking your cock but man I just cannot kiss you, that would just be too gay. Then again I am still trying to figure how why guys who like to have other guys suck their cocks don't think that is bisexual activity. Or they fuck another guy but then don't see it as sex with another man, just downloading.

[glantern954]

It really is quite different and that is one of the things that is a turn on for me. When kissing a woman she always becomes submissive and I kiss her. When kissing a guy it sometimes almost feels like a competition for control. Sometimes we are both on the same level, sometimes I submit to being kissed by him, sometimes he submits to being kissed by me.



I don't know I am not especially fond of kissing other men...it may sound weird but men kiss differently than women in ways that I cannot define at this moment, but at least for me it is nowhere near as erotic. That being said, I have kissed men, the cavet being, when they wanted to.

[Mrs.F]

I don't have much to say about man/man kissing but it was mentioned that some people will do anything but kiss.
I remember watching the movie "Pretty Woman" and Julia Roberts who played the prostitute told Richard Gere that she would do anything but kiss on the lips. To me it was because kissing on the lips brings in romance and feelings/emotions and if you don't kiss, it's just raw sex.
Maybe I am wrong but I know what kissing means to me. And I do think that a good kiss/kissing really brings your feelings and emotions into it and after that sex is just great! :)

[clubber]

I believe this is very much a personal preference and "one shoe doesn't necessarily fit all". I consider myself bi with my preference still being that of my wife but I do enjoy the occassional company of a male friend. We both enjoy kissing very much but certainly others who I have chatted with over time have indicated a difference of opinion. Some are quite willing and some have no interest whatsoever. I believe the situation at the time will dictate the outcome.

[Azrael]

Um- I was kissing a guy last night so, um, yeah :cool:

[Mykie]

For me kissing another man is as natural as kissing a women before making love with them.For me it is like having no foreplay and i like touching,holding,stroking,kissing etc. :male:

[Azrael]

I consider the kiss to be a very crucial element to intimate contact in general, regardless of gender. Hell, I could just kiss for days I find it that intense, but that's me. For me, intimacy is impossible without affection. I've had empty or casual sex in the past and can't say I cared for it much. Plus it gives one an idea of how skilled a tongue they're dealing with :bigrin:

[jedinudist]

I NEVER liked kissing until I met my wife. She is the only person I have ever enjoyed kissing, so- if I were to be with a guy, I wouldn't go for kissing. It's a special thing between my wife and I.

[mistymockingbird]

mmm, kissing is a wonderful activity that is largely underrated these days. Everyone should be doing it more, regardless of the gender mix. lol

[IndyBiFun]

MMmmmmmm.....k-i-s-s-i-n-g!! I love to kiss; male or female.

Kissing is foreplay and sex all in one for me. A great kisser is a great turnon!

Mmmmmmmmmmm..........

[wifeandibi]

I fall into that category of not wanting to kiss another man. Will I suck him, yes, with enthusiasm, and swallow too. I'll fuck him too and allow all of the same things done to me in return. Kissing a man just does absolutely nothing for me. It's a personal thing, like nipple play or other similar activities. It's good for some people, not for others.

I agree with the person that said that men just kiss different . . . .its just not something I enjoy. I'll kiss women all day and all night and thoroughly enjoy it. I've kissed other women besides my wife while in front of her, and she knows how excited it makes me and it adds to our experience, and she enjoys kissing other men as well, but kissing men is just not for me, and we usually all know that going in to the situation. It certainly doesn't take away from how much fun we can all have regardless.

[citystyleguy]

kissing another man?; one of the supreme blissful experiences of life! without the absolute intimacy of kissing, it is downhill from there! kissing is mandatory with me, man or woman.

and thanks be to god, men and women kiss radically different! that is one of the great things about being bisexual, twice as many different approaches!

[breakmedownbaby]

Love to do it. Why not?

Ill kiss everywhere and anywhere.

[BI BOYTOY]

i like to kiss other men, but they have to be the right one,or i should say i need to be involved with them. i agree that it has alot to do with sex. although i have had expeiences with guys that dont like it.they felt it would somehow make them gay.i didnt hang around long after that, nothing worse than a homophobic bisexual.if their is such a thang.he he he heanyway im starting to babble better go :bigrin: :bigrin: :bigrin: :bibounce:

[miamiuu]

I'd be more willing to spend time kissing another guy than just hopping in bed with them.

[skyscanning]

For me, personally, it is simply a matter of desire. I desire the taboo nature and sexuality with a man. I leave the sensuality of the kiss to the female gender...

It's funny, I have desire to interact sexually with a guy, but no desire to kiss him.

With a woman, the kiss must come first...

No fear, no masculine attributes. Just feelings and desires. And that's what matters, right?

[Kuragxo]

I was always so disappointed with those men who wouldn't kiss... :( I love kissing! :)

[open2both]

Are you kidding me??? I prefer hot making-out over everything!
Maybe it's just my feminine side but bring on a GOOD KISSER!!
Those who don't indulge are soooo missing out. :cutelaugh :flag3:

[deepbluejamie]

I have never understood men who don't like to kiss another man if they are gay or bi. If you want to experence the joy of what is in my jeans than you best kiss me to warm me up to you.
If all I wanted was a blowjob, I could go to the park.

i.e I never go to the park, I love kissing, it is the most sensual way to get to know the person you are going to make love to. MAYBE?

What I would love to know is, what watermelon some guys and girls for that matter used when they to learned to kiss?

Sorry, But there are some rotten kissers out there :(

[shameless agitator]

For me kissing is an essential part of foreplay. Without it I just don't really get interested except maybe in some BDSM scenarios ; ) I am having a hard time adjusting to the difference in the way men kiss though. So far it just doesn't seem as intimate somehow.

[chulainn2]

As Doctor Dean O'Dale says, "everything in moderation". I personally don't just want to start kissing a guy. I enjoy a small intimate amount of kissing when the time warrants, to get things going and a slip of the tounge at the right moment is pretty intoxicating.
I quit seeing a man whom that I had had sex with a few times only because he just loved to shove his tounge down my throat whenever possible. He just got worked up and frenched and slobbered his way out of future sex. I felt groped at the end of the day. The difference may have been that he was very gay and I am very bi. But it just got old.

[Buck Naked]

In my younger years when dating girls I would at least expect a kiss goodnight and once we got to know each other better, making out would be on the agenda. Now, for me I recognize that kissing has more emotional attachments to it. Therefore, though I have not kissed a man before, to desire it would require that I have deep feelings for him. I’ve only had a few friends that I would include in the group of men I would have kissed. So, I'm not certain that I would have to be “in love” with a man to kiss him but I would definitely have to have a strong affection for him. So, would I kiss a man good night after a date or get into a heavy make out session with him? Maybe, I guess it would depend on how much I liked him

[Reprob8]

For me kissing is an essential part of foreplay. Without it I just don't really get interested except maybe in some BDSM scenarios ; ) I am having a hard time adjusting to the difference in the way men kiss though. So far it just doesn't seem as intimate somehow.


Hey Bro!

[nycMan51]

kissing, for me, is one of the best parts about sex. If his mouth tastes good, and if he uses his tongue for communication, I know that we're on the right track. Kissing is like foreplay except kissing goes on and on and on. yeah, I love kissing a guy who also likes to kiss a guy.

[nick3635]

I'm new to this and have limited experience with a guy .. but there is nothing more sensual or that can you on than a passionate kiss ... and I'm saying that from a m/f perspective and I have no doubt that m/m is just as (if not more) of a turn on.

[lovesmmf]

not a big fan of kissinng guys here either. I love to suck dick and take in the ass but no kissing..even I find that strange, but I don't get alot out of kissing other women we swing with either..my wife and I kiss and is is fireworks..not sure what makes the diiference.

[Philbert]

as my mum said when i came out to her the other week, "try everything once except insest and morris dancing." i used to say that i didn't want a full on relationship with girls until i had one, maybe it'll be the same with guys, i'll let you all know when i find out

[Luston]

I'm still waiting for my first male kiss so I can't say for sure. I suspect I'm going to like it, but find it a little strange at first.

Kissing was actually the last thing for me to accept about the idea of a gay relationship. Anal and oral sex were much more acceptable, but kissing seemed more intimate. It seemed to reveal a bond. It's difficult to pretent a kiss is just physiological.

I think kissing is a bit like an emotional conversation. You communicate what you feel with it, developing a rapport as you learn more about each other. So to me each kiss will be different. And each partner will be especially different. If you are in love, it will communicate love. If you are not, it won't. If you are in lust, it will communicate that. If you are just trying to get off, that's what the kiss will say.

There is no way I would have sex with anyone without first kissing them. It's like crossing the road without looking both ways.

[Mrs.F]

[QUOTE=Luston]
I think kissing is a bit like an emotional conversation. You communicate what you feel with it, developing a rapport as you learn more about each other. So to me each kiss will be different. And each partner will be especially different. If you are in love, it will communicate love. If you are not, it won't. If you are in lust, it will communicate that. If you are just trying to get off, that's what the kiss will say.

Exactly how I feel. Kissing is such a huge part of a relationship. To me if you have no kissing then it is just sex. But the kissing brings in emotions and feelings inwhich can make the whole thing beautiful. :)

Very well said Luston! ;)

[atopia]

For me kissing is the most erotic thing one can do. I mean erotic, not sexual.
But when it's combined with sex there's nothing better. I love kissing women and men, but there's something particularly exciting about kissing a man. It's that intimacy with someone of my own sex. Passionate, hungry, tongue-probing kisses with a man make my nipples hard, not to mention my cock. And three-way kissing with a woman involved is very special.

[AndrogynousLuv]

Well that use to be my feelings also...I can speak for myself on this. I remember that the first time I kissed a male, I only thought it strange because all my life I had been so use to kissing girls/women and hadn't with males....with males it was always sex only. I have been sexual all my life with both, but it was just women that I had kissed. So, when the moment finally arrived when I first kissed a man, it felt strange because I wasn't use to whiskers or a sandpaper texture for a face around the mouth....I was conditioned already to the oppsite sex when it came to kissing. However, that's all changed now. For me, it is quite important to kiss whether it's male or female. But I must admit that I do prefer kissing women. In fact, it has to be a certain type of male for me to get into kissing....it's a certain type of passion that the man has for me to want to kiss him. Like the one I was with yesterday....my my.....lots of passion and I didn't mind it though our kissing was very brief .....too much oral going on ......lol. Yes, kissing is integral but for me, it does depend. With women for me however, it's an absolute must.

[atopia]

Yes, I understand and agree. I didn't mention that it does indeed depend on the man, whereas that's not an issue with women. These days I probably wouldn't have sex with a man I didn't want to kiss. I do see women who I would not particularly want to kiss, but then I probably wouldn't want sex with them either.

[willbeyours2]

I personally love to kiss another man. I feel it heightens the whole expierece. Just like with a woman slow and sensual brings up the whole excitment level.


Bill

[tinman714]

I like all the same stuff with men that I enjoy with women. And that would definatly include making out and kissing on the lips and all over. I have been with men and women who do not enjoy kissing and it is just not as enjoyable. Nothing gets me as worked up or in the mood as rolling around in a bed making out with someone who enjoys it, male or female.

Tony

[wanderingrichard]

cant and wont say i havent done that. my most favorite male lover and i share kisses all the time. and yeah he's a good kisser, too.

guess it depends where you're at and where you're raised. then again, sometimes fleeing a backwards place that has men kissing as a macho taboo isnt enough, you actually have to unlearn the social engineering that has been ingrained into you.

comes down to: some will, some won't, so what?, NEXT!

[siraussietosser]

This is a personal area for me. The idea of kissing another man acually makes me feel ill. I don't know why, I love sucking and licking and masturbating and fucking. But kissing - hell no!

I kiss women and love it. I think I cant kiss guys as I do not ever want to be in a loving realationship with another man, when it comes to guys its all sexual NO love, I have no trouble helping a guy get off, and it gets me off seeing another guy enjoying himself, but could never kiss them.

I am not speaking on any other bi guys behalf, but I though I would ad my :2cents:

Cheers

[canuckotter]

I definitely enjoy kissing men (and women). Really, really enjoy. I can damn near get off just kissing. :)

[SWGABi]

I am a bi married guy here. I love kissing guys more than I do females. I think its so sexy when guys kiss!!!!!

[Lee in TN]

Like it myself. Kissing and the other things leading up to sex are as, if not more, important than the actual act, to me at least. Of course I'm not going to just hop into bed with anyone, need a "connection".

[joxbear69]

I currently do kiss the guy I hook up with , but then again, we have been seeing each other for several months now. I usually do not enjoy kissing other guys----especially ones that like to jam their tongues down my throat right from the start. With increased level of trust and intimacy, then I am more open to kissing the guy I am with.
I do, however, on a regular basis enjoy kissing my wife---all over (lips, hands, back of neck, ears, inner thigh, etc.)

[Slot_a_Fun]

Personally I'm not attracted to guys 'romantically', and only sexually attracted to cocks and balls. I've 'kissed' gay guys in gay bars before, but just don't feel 'romantic' (kissing, cuddling, etc) towards men. Even though I love and crave sucking dick hard or hard dick, I don't even really consider myself 'bisexual', although I suppose most in American society would surely 'label' me as bisexual. I see a cock flopped out and I crave suckin on it till getting its juicy cum reward no matter where I'm at or who the cock is attached to, as long as they are disease free.

The most 'romantic' and deeply personal kiss for me is sharing a deep french 'snowball' type of kiss w/a beloved girl I'm in a relationship with just after we've both orally shared a cock by 'swapping' his cumload.. I felt so incredibly close emotionally with my last, 'now passed' beloved wife whenever we shared a deep french kiss in this way after she had a few cumloads from others [or even my own] covering her lips and in her mouth.

[shameless agitator]

comes down to: some will, some won't, so what?, NEXT!
You a salesman? That was something of a mantra in a couple telemarketing rooms I worked in.

[csrakate]

I honestly dont' think there is a hard fast rule about whether or not you kiss a man....I think that depends on the two men together and the chemistry they create....yeah..I do think it is hot...but would I force that on someone..hell no...no more than I would expect them to conform to my ideas of what is normal....and hey..I am a straight woman from GA..so be glad LOL!!! I could have you eating grits and sopping up gravy with your biscuit before you kissed a man!!

Hugs,
Kate

[warmpuppy]

You can't snowball without kissing, guys. :tongue:

[suegeorge]

I've done a long post about this on my blog, if anyone's interested.
xx

Bisexuality and beyond (http://suegeorgewrites.blogspot.com)

[Azrael]

I've done a long post about this on my blog, if anyone's interested.
xx

Bisexuality and beyond (http://suegeorgewrites.blogspot.com)
Very insightful. I recommend the rest of you check it out.


In particular, the fact that men in general look down on femininity and prize masculinity has not changed at all. This is key to the way many bi men see gay men: they equate "gayness" with a lack of masculinity, and this seems to them to be a direct attack on their sense of self.

This is pretty much my take on it.

[clubber]

I consider myself bi after having been together with a few men over the last couple of years and have found it extremely exciting to kiss the other man. It seems that it was almost a given right from the first meeting and very erotic, even moreso then the oral sex that followed.

[hottrodd]

I am in my mid 50's and came into my bisexual side fairly late after fighting it for a long time. Now days I love to kiss men if it's the right man and his breath is fresh. It hasn't always been that way. I got comfortable with it as I got comfortable with my sexuality.

[biecnal]

I am a bi married guy and dont mind kissing guys at all :) Jess thinks it's hot to watch 2 (or more) MOTSS kissing, and I agree.

:-)

Lance & Jess :three:

[jack6two]

I think, i'm a married guy too. To kiss my wife is wonderfull and exciting! And i could imagine to like other gays to touch, suck and fuck - but to kiss, i don't know - would say sooner no! :female: :) :male:

[photogr]

I suppose by kissing you mean the lips. I wouldn't again 'cause the ones that tried it had bad breath and stubble. There are other places to kiss, the neck, the back, the chest, the nipples, the thighs they are good to kiss.

[Seeker72]

I think that if you want to suck another mans cock, what is it to kiss them on the lips?

[ackjae01]

as a bi married cyber bi the only thing sexy about a guy is the cock...

not even the balls...

[bim4mmf]

Personally, I have always felt this was strange abouit me until I found thi site. I have no desires to kiss another guy, but love kissing women. However, i would giver a blowjob, more then likely to the same guy.

[NJpantyboy69]

If I suck your dick, kissing you doesn't bother me.

In fact I like to kiss and cuddle with my man and my woman.

:) :three: :flag3: :flag2: :tongue: :tongue: :tongue: :cowboy: :rotate: :rotate: :love1:

[ukmale32]

I'm a good kisser. Any uk people (london area) want to try me and see? :)

[mannysg]

I've never kissed another man, and to be honest I don't care for the idea of kissing another man. I like to suck cock, but kissing a guy is something that kind of turns me off. But with the right guy, I'd be willing to try it.

[Doggie_Wood]

:tongue: Although I feel that kissing can be and is an integral device of stimulation, in most cases, it can be and has been for me a turn-off. I think when two (or more) are together traveling down the lane of lust or love, depending on the chemistry that exsists, kissing can be quit the simuli to really juice things up.
I have kissed guys (not all of them) I have had sex with. Some were sensual kissers who knew how to reflect their passion with the tounge and lips. And there were several that were too over bearing and aggressive. But for the most part, I would have to say that I would rather kiss a woman over a man.
Male to male kissing is not for everyone - it really depends on the chemistry at hand and desires of those involved. :doggie:

[Biboz49]

I like to kiss men too. It's just as hot as kissing women. :wacko:

[TobyB]

I think that this question really highlights the difficulties raised by trying to put labels on people's sexuality. Everyone on this website at least responds to the label "bisexual" in some way, yet people seem to have clearly divided views on the fairly simple act of kissing. Many of the responses claim that kissing is a foundation of intimacy, yet others, including myself, have no interest in kissing another man, but are extremely aroused by oral and anal sex.

Quite possibly, kissing is about intimacy, while the other acts are about sex.

[SatyrGuy69]

I've kissed guys before when I was younger, but I didn't enjoy it as much. I love kissing girls a whole lot better,being emotionally romantic with guys is not my thing.It's nothing personal,but I do love the sex with guys. :bigrin:

[wss30152]

I have no prolbem sucking a dick or any kind of ass play but would never kiss a guy. Its just seems to be too personal. However if i was with a shemale i might kiss.

[Tocowboycub]

I'll kiss almost any man (and pretty much have)
LOL
:bigrin:

[Chickpea]

It really is quite different and that is one of the things that is a turn on for me. When kissing a woman she always becomes submissive and I kiss her. When kissing a guy it sometimes almost feels like a competition for control. Sometimes we are both on the same level, sometimes I submit to being kissed by him, sometimes he submits to being kissed by me.

Try kissing a strong, tall, gorgeous bi woman you are in love with. Yummy. I submit sometimes and sometimes I don't. It is absolutely fantastic. Chickpea

[Mysteryx]

I kiss other guys, if they're clean shaven.

[twosides]

Kissing for me is an intimacy builder. I much prefer kissing women, but have used it with guys to find out if I want to go to the next level. Sometimes yes, sometimes no. It's like being really attracted to someone, worshipping them from afar, but when you actually get to sit down and talk with them, there's just something missing.

It was mentioned about the roughness of the male; skin and technique, and I don't like that much myself, I guess I like to be the male. I think that people have an idea about the way a kiss should be at certain times. I try to be sweet and gentle with my kisses, but my ex-gf still complained about the way I did it. I was trying to show her that I wanted her to be a little more agressive with her style and she was showing me that she wanted me to be a little softer. One of the reasons we may no longer be together.

[twodelta]

Maybe I'm just wierd, but I really don't enjoy kissing either guys or gals. I'll spend lots of time kissing, nibbling, and licking head to toe(guy or gal), I'm just not much into lip to lip contact. Now, with that being said, I'll kiss either gender if I know it is something that is very important to them, it's just not something that I will initiate. :flag1: Dave

[maturebibottom50]

Well, I disagree with that entirely! I'm a married bi in a relationship with a younger man. It's purely sexual but we love to kiss, kiss, kiss.
Why should bi men not kiss other men? We cuddle, hold each other and kiss until we fall asleep...that means whenever we can sneak out from home.

[mannysg]

Why should bi men not kiss other men?

The only reason for 2 men NOT to kiss is if one of them doesn't like to kiss men. If they both like kissing, then they SHOULD kiss.
I didn't see where anyone said 2 men kissing is wrong. But for some of us, it's not something that we enjoy.

[John67]

For me personally, no. Most of the time as it were. It really depends on the place, who I am with and what we are doing.

I do enjoy sometimes kissing men dressed as women. I know that is also not for everyone. John

[azza4165]

I used to dream about kissing guys and when i tried it was diffrent but still great. It is part of having the sex be it male or female. Nuthing is wrong if you like to kiss other males as i think it is a part of being bisexual. :bigrin:

[sennex]

Kissing the man I'm with is essential to me to gain full satisfaction during sex, without it it's just too impersonal,

[Blondguy007]

I like to kiss a man, it's turn me on and makes me so horny, that's the same by a female! It's a choke for a goodtime of sex :eek: .

:bigrin: :bigrin: :bigrin: :bigrin: :bigrin: :bigrin: :bigrin: :bigrin:

[deremarc]

I think for some men, struggling with being bi, it is compartementalizing. My mate says he has let guys give him head or f'd them, but he doesn't kiss, he doesn't touch their c***. I just think it seems "less gay" to him that way. A way to make himself feel better. And, I find it just as strange that he has received oral or performed anal on guys and still does NOT identify himself as bi.

I know it is a whole coming out to yourself thing...but if I had sex with a women, and liked it, and liked lesbian porn, and fantasized about women, I would have a hard time convincing myself I was straight.

I have always been brutally self-honest though. Sometimes, I wish I could bury my head in the sand, but it is not part of my personality or character traits or whatever.

[smokey]

Sometimes, I wish I could bury my head in the sand, but it is not part of my personality or character traits or whatever.

Life would be so much easier if my parents hadn't taught me to think for myself, something they have regretted ever since.

Ahh to live life with blinders on and to see only what I am told to see.

Ohh to chew my cud happily on my way to the slaughter house.

To really believe what our leaders tell us and to believe our politicans are good and honest people...


NAH!!!

Better to look naked eyed into the sun and be blinded by its light than to know only that it exists by shadows cast.

[happyjoe68]

I've only had 1 sexual experience with a man. It was also the first time I kissed a man.

I had no compulsion about kissing him, and quite enjoyed the experience despite the fact that I didnt really fancy him that much, and tongue studs are a real turn off ...

Would I do it again? Well, I'll use the same rule men as I do for women - I'll only kiss you if I really fancy your brain as much as your body ... :tong:

Interested applicants should send an SAE for further details.

[SLIMES]

well, I don't have any same-sex experience yet, but I've known plenty of guys I'd love to kiss. I'm quite emotional about members of the same sex. on the other hand, now I think about it, I hate wet kisses so I can understanding someone not wanting that.

[kshotbiman]

well in all my few times....kissing was the last thing on my mind...mustaches are a down side..most guys are hairy lipped un like females....kissing is not what makes me bi....kinda like sprinkles on a ice cream cone....make mine plain thanks



hot dog to go ......kissing is like laugeree [sexy clothes] totally worthless and ends up on the floor....


oh well my 2 bits...

lonley in kansas


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[nonsequitur]

I feel that guys kissing is a personal thing. My first kiss with a guy was very much him trying to be dominating and it put me off male kissing for awhile. Now I consider it to be very personal in that different people attract you in different ways.

[pasco_lol_cpl]

Being ones who likes times in bed to be full of passion, eroticisim and fun, I love to kiss. men or women it doesnt bother me, so long as I can have that emotional context with someone Im sleeping with. I've never understodd people who dont like to kiss. but thats their business, not mine

[jamiehue]

For me kissing another man is as natural as kissing a women before making love with them.For me it is like having no foreplay and i like touching,holding,stroking,kissing etc. :male:
me too

[jkl21019]

Well, I do not really enjoy kissing other guys as well. I guess I should refer to the very first comment to this post. I look at sex with a guy as just that..sex. When I am with a guy it is not a relationship kind of thing. So, there is no need for kissing. Kissing is emotional to me, not physical. I am a married bi male, I kiss and love on my wife. Guys are more of a sexual physical relationship for me. So, that's why I don't.

[justmej]

I believe I am bi in the truest sense. Men and women are both wonderful lovers. I am equally happy being with either. Kissing and hugging and being close is one on the most important parts of true and deep lovemaking. Kissing brings a great intamacy that would be missing if we went straight to sex. I love to lie in bed and have long make out sessions be it with a man or woman. It is a way to truly get to know that person and share your feelings. If I just wanted a "quickie", my right hand would serve the purpose just fine. The botton line... Kissing is the greatest with both sexes....

[marriedbiwife4u]

So coming from a different perspective, I'm not a gay or bi male but I am a bisexual female. Kissing is a must when I'm with another woman. It breaks that ice so you can melt into the arms of passion. Kissing a woman is more sensual and gentle, kissing my husband is more passionate and raw emotion. I've met women who did not kiss other women and to be honest it's a turn off. Kissing stimulates you and leads to the more erotic things. Just putting my two cents in and adding a different view of things.

[animalat54]

Kissing is great,To me a kiss means Passion,and when you are with a lover be it male or female the kiss is what brings out that passion.Enough said.

[bigguy4u2e]

I have only kissed one guy and it was a great turn on. we both have goats and staches and it was very hot and passionate with our bodys together, cocks rubbing and us making out.

[AndrogynousLuv]

There are some really interesting posts on this topic and though I haven't read them all, I have had similar thoughts to many of you on this.
Though I've been bi all my life, I really don't have an answer as to why I'm not interested in kissing all the men I have encounters with. It would seem that it would be a given in passionate moments, but for me it isn't. So often my encounters with men are nothing more than raw naked lust and my only interest is to complete the cycle leading to orgasm making sure my partner reaches that point of completion and feeling at least sexually satiated. However, I have most certainly been in situations where my partner and myself kissed passionately as though lovers for years and in love though again, not a single bit of love for one another but love for just the moment of the incredible sensations that are bodies were sharing and feeding on. It is possible that inside a greater need on an emotional level might be triggering some of this.
I really do believe that the act of kissing does get more into the area of intimacy between two people and can and often does involve things on an emotional level. But then again, not always.
I do have a certain male lover who when we get together, we always without fail engage in kissing....and very sensually and passionately as though lovers for years.....and often, without sex....we will lie together kissing and and embracing and holding one another. Sometimes I hold him in my arms and sometimes he holds me. Sometimes we bring each other to a high point of stimulation by indulging sexually which usually only involves oral sex...but again, the orgasm factor is often not reached together.....why this is, I don't have a clue....and that's not to say that we never have reached orgasm together, we have....but it's not the goal.
On the other hand, I never hesitate to kiss women....for me, it's a complete natural. I only refrain when with couples and the boundaries are set that I am not allowed to kiss the female. Of course, that always tears into my overall experience with these women....my passion is somewhat compromised. But I can relate as why couples do set a boundary in this area with each other in that it is a most intimate expression of not only their passion but their love for one another. Again, however, this too can be argued. For if two people really are connected, then no one or no kissing can destroy what they have. Kissing always enhances the sensual/erotic effect for me with a woman....so, it really is a hindrance in my overall experience when not allowed to kiss. The fire is somewhat subdued.
Why I would not hesitate to kiss a woman and do with men has always been a mystery for me.....but I do know that I'm not attracted to this with men except in some moments. When I do cross a certain threshold of passion however, it matters not to me either way whether male or female that I am kissing when the passion is completely genuine. This has absolutely nothing to do with love or emotional attachment or security....none....it's blatant raw passion and love of the sensations that have overtaken my body and sexual energy to open and experience....
The area concerning love....that of the ultimate and the beloved in one's life....that is an area completely reserved. It's opening a dimension that no one else is allowed into.....
But that's for another topic.............

[tryneaux]

As a new bi guy, I feel that if you will kiss a woman during love making (which is an intigral part of love making) then you should not have a problem with kissing a guy. I haven't had a sexual experience with a guy yet, but I have "played"with one...Touched and kissed, it felt very natural to do as we were both very into what was going on, he just got cold feet when it came time to go all the way... We were both presumed "straight" , but when we had touched and carressed while listening to soft music, kissing was as I said very natural.... I hope that when it comes timwe to finally go all the way with a guy that he will feel the same...love making is love making whether it is with a man or a woman... it starts with passion...

[izzfan]

Hmmmm.... Kissing other guys, yes I have done it several times (never kissed a woman though so I don't know what to compare it to) and sometimes it can be good, other times it can be a bit dull. I don't like being deep-throated by someone's tongue when kissing.... that freaks me out a bit. But to answer the question I would rather suck someone than kiss them, I don't know why though... I don't know if this makes me more 'bi' or 'gay' though. lol

[LoveLion]

I haven't kiss a girl in a few years, but I recall that kissing a girl is about the same as kissing a guy for me.

[ramboan69]

I like my male partner to do the driving, so if part of his trick is to give me hot kisses, the FOR SURE! Just so he is good at it and kisses me as if he is out to please me. Most important, however, is that he does not have breath of tobaco or alcohol. Either one would turn me off...even before kissing.
My first time was loaded with kisses. First on my chest and kneck, leading to a long, deep french kiss as he got my shorts off and...well..that's another story.
KISS ME, YOU FOOL!

[Diana_TS]

A very good question. For a long time I too felt kissing another man was a no no. However was taken by surprise a long time ago by a gay friend, and found that his kissing me was one of the most erotic experiences I had experienced to that date. Now enjoy kissing both men and women. Yes they kiss differently, a man is more aggressive while a woman is more receptive. I guess I like kissing men, because I am a submissive feminine type especially when dressed as a woman, a practice I find myself getting into more and more. Love to be pulled into a man and kissed long and deep. But then that is just me. :love:

[sep237]

I personally think that kissing is a necessary part of sex..be it male or female. It turns me on quickly.

In my hetero experiences, I think kissing is a necessity. I love it... and two men kissing will quickly form a puddle at my feet. Meee-ow.

[CuteGeorgiaBoy]

I love kissing. I get really aroused, no matter if I am being kissed by a male or female. :2cents:

[cumbychance]

I have been in steamy chats with other guys and the subject of kissing comes up and suddenly I lose my passion for the encounter. This came up once in a real life situation and I kind of let him graze my lips with his but didn't respond to it. Once in a 3some, the other guy started kissing my gf and I found that I was jealous with this activity, even though minutes before they were in a hot 69 that made me very horny. I deduce from this that kissing for me is a romantic thing shared between men and women. But to each their own.

[BrownTag]

If I can suck his dick, I sure can Kiss the old boy.

I never thought that was an issue.

Anyone here want to trade spit?

[ajm_diesel]

I love it and could just kiss for hours. Followed by by great sex of course. :tongue:

[TonedBiGuyInLA]

Sex without kissing? Why bother? I truly doubt it's a function of being bi or gay. I think it's a function of a willingness to feel intimacy.

[swans]

I agree. When I am feeling Bi all I am interested in is the cock, balls (shaven) and cum bit. The other stuff is to "faggy" for me and does nothing for me.

[tommyswing]

For me it depends on the guy and the situation, if I'm sucking a nice cock, or he is kissing my neck or fucking me, kissing can be really hot. The problem is some men are lousy kissers and that can be a turn off.

I used to think that kissing was faggy, but over time my attitude changed. It occured to me that that sucking a nice cock or being fucked is about as faggy as you can get. I would say most bi men aren't into kissing, I have noticed that over time ths can change also

[highorbit]

I really pretty much love everything about m2m sex, except nipple play and to a lesser extent kissing. I do kiss and am not adverse to it. It just doesn't do much for me in terms of hightening arrousal or response. I think maybe I haven't met the right kisser yet. Nipple play however i just find annoying. :)