Poll: Just the cock, or only the guy?

[whispering]

#1 Some guys love cocks and don't care much about the other qualities of the guy they are having sex with. Let's call them cock lovers.
#2-#4 In the middle are a lot of us who are mostly into sex, but also form friendships. Let's call them friends with benefits.
#5 Other guys are totally into the relationship, and sex is only a part of that. Let's call them bisexual lovers.



If pure cock lovers one on the scale, and bisexual lovers are five, where are you?

[Hendo]

.....But part of the very definition of being bisexual is loving cock. Overlap much? I guess I'm a 3: Yeah, I'm interested in having sex with guys, but I'd much prefer if the guy I'm sucking off is somebody whose company I enjoy (asides from the sex).

[ErosUrge]

Sometimes I'm a #1 and sometimes a #3; it depends. I have friends with benefits, but there are those who I only have sex with and friendship has nothing to do with it....as I certainly love cock to be sure.

[DiamondDog]

#4 on the poll. I have dated, had relationships, and live in partnerships with men and women. I avoid men who just want a man for his penis, or who only want to be nothing but a fuckbuddy or have a hook up or one night stand with a guy but won't actually date or have real relationships or partnerships with men or where a "partnership" with a man to them consists of a completely sexless "relationship" where they both just cheat on each other or are just fuck buddies and not really partners who just look for people on the side to hook with and move onto the next man. There are a lot of gay men who are like this.

[GirlyBoi4U]

4-5 here. Sex just for sex is too mechanical. Would much rather prefer have a relationship, be it friendship, lover whatever.

[DiamondDog]

#4 on the poll. I have dated, had relationships, and live in partnerships with men and women. I avoid men who just want a man for his penis, or who only want to be nothing but a fuckbuddy or have a hook up or one night stand with a guy but won't actually date or have real relationships or partnerships with men or where a "partnership" with a man to them consists of a completely sexless "relationship" where they both just cheat on each other or are just fuck buddies and not really partners who just look for people on the side to hook with and move onto the next man. There are a lot of gay men who are like this. I misread the original poll I am a 5 on it.

[bradf52]

Depends on the time of day! All the above!

[Realist]

I'd be a 3, 4, or 5, myself. I tend to gravitate toward relationships, whether it's romantic, or friends with benefits. Personality, mutual interests, and compatibility, are qualities that make any relationship viable for me.

[mikeyd270]

I am a 1, a pure cocklover. Love men from the waist down.

[DiamondDog]

I'd be a 3, 4, or 5, myself. I tend to gravitate toward relationships, whether it's romantic, or friends with benefits. Personality, mutual interests, and compatibility, are qualities that make any relationship viable for me. FWB ("friends with benefits") or being a fuck buddy with someone is not an actual relationship at all, it's just one small step up from a hook up or one night stand. If people want to do this it's not a relationship at all, and such consensual arrangements do not evolve into long term relationships or partnerships that last.

[scapegoat1987]

I'm not above a hook up or a one night stand with a guy. And I've been in several long term, intimate relationships with men as well. It's all good. However, I can't honestly say that any of those situations were ever just about a cock. I love and admire the male form, and all things masculine. I want a personality to interact with, even if the person is just a hook up. Sex is not just a mechanical act. I want some words, possibly kissing, touching, flirting, etc. There are time when I'm all about the thrill of the hunt and the actual sex is, well, meh. And there are times when I'm all about the familiar, easy friends with benefits that I can just say, "The doors unlocked and I'm in bed. Come on up, don't say a word and lets just do this thing, because I need release. There shouldn't be any shame in any of those situations. We are a complex and diverse people.

[leodecatur]

I guess I am about a 2 or 3 most of the time. But on occasion I have been a 1 for sure, depends on how horny I am.

[discreet727dl]

#1 I'm all about the cock. I like regulars as well though.

[jefferybimm]

I agree with Eros. Sometimes I am a 3 and sometimes a 1. Right now I am looking and I am a 1!

[Realist]

DiamondDog,

It must be fantastic, sitting on such a lofty moral throne, from where you can criticize and cajole inferior others with impunity.

It's wonderful knowing Bi.com has a resident intellectual guru, with moral litmus tests for our many short-comings!

I want to thank you, for myself and others, who have received your insightful guidance! Without your words of wisdom and advice, we would surely be rudderless ships at sea!


Also, thank you for giving me a reason to put you on ignore! Unlike most of the members, nothing you have to say is of any interest to me.

[readyass]

I'm a cock lover

[sterculius]

I'm strictly a cocksucker. I have no interest in establishing anything other than an oral sexual relationship with any of the guys that I blow, but I do like maintaining ongoing contact for the sake of repeat performances with those men whose cocks are particularly enjoyable to suck and who are able and willing to satisfy my personal predilection for being very aggressively throat fucked!!

[whispering]

Very well said....
I'm strictly a cocksucker. I have no interest in establishing anything other than an oral sexual relationship with any of the guys that I blow, but I do like maintaining ongoing contact for the sake of repeat performances with those men whose cocks are particularly enjoyable to suck and who are able and willing to satisfy my personal predilection for being very aggressively throat fucked!!

[beaverlqr]

Very well said....
Well said, I would be very similar. Relationships with women. Sucking cock on the side. Hard to resist a hot wet willing pussy(especially if its married to someone else and well used. I know I'm not the norm. Is there a norm?

[BILL DOUBLEU]

I used to be a 3 with my part time discreet lover, now I'm just into his big sweet, meaty cock. So I'm now a #1.

[Oborokybiman]

I'm a cock lover...only cock for me. Thats way if I see I guy fully clothed, I'm not interested! If I see a cock that is shorter than pube hairs....forget it. I want a guy to enjoy me sucking and worshipping his cock! And work him up enough to blow his load all over my face or in my mouth! Yummy...got me all ht and bothered! Damn....anyone ready to get swallowed?

[jonfranklin]

#1 here, now if I found a hot hung stud that wanted more, then I could be swayed ;-)

[Gearbox]

If (5) means that you'd be willing to go for years without a shag, then I'd be a (4). But if it means that you do get a regular shagging but it's the inbetween time that you enjoy too, then I'd opt for (5).

[scapegoat1987]

That sounds pretty mechanical to me. I always wondered what type of guy writes those ads on Craigslist that go "The door is open come on in and fuck me without saying a word, and leave." 'm a 5 as I prefer to date and get to know someone before he or she, and I have sex.
Being comfortable enough with a sex partner to ask for what you want sounds mechanical? Funny, it's what I strive for. :bigrin:

[Zangrilli]

I say I am a 4 I love me some pussy but a hard cock every once in awhile is not bad.

[scapegoat1987]

No. Telling them how you're all alone in a house with the door unlocked and how you want them to go in without saying a word and fuck you raw/bare and then shoot his load up your stretched out prolapsed ass, then leave so the next trick from the internet can come over is mechanical. Even if you're just with one person what you described with having some random fuck buddy come over and fuck you raw is mechanical.
For starters, I don't know where all that anger is coming from. I didn't say anything about a total stranger or raw/bare sex or some trick from the internet. I was talking about sex partners that I'm in a relationship with or friends with benefits who I know well and have sex with on a regular basis. I always have safe sex, but thanks for your concern. But, if I was doing what you're accusing me of doing, that would be my business and the business of my partner; not yours. This is a forum for discussing our opinions in a safe place, not some place for people like you to attack people. I'm just saying...

[whispering]

For starters, I don't know where all that anger is coming from. I didn't say anything about a total stranger or raw/bare sex or some trick from the internet. I was talking about sex partners that I'm in a relationship with or friends with benefits who I know well and have sex with on a regular basis. I always have safe sex, but thanks for your concern. But, if I was doing what you're accusing me of doing, that would be my business and the business of my partner; not yours. This is a forum for discussing our opinions in a safe place, not some place for people like you to attack people. I'm just saying...

Yeah, it sounds like fun to me (with a friend) :)

[BiCuriousVAN]

I'm definitely a 1. I love sucking and being sucked and would like to try anal, but I am not attracted to men, other than for sexual purposes. I am always up front about it. That being said, the guy I am with must have personality and be a nice person and as well and there has to be some physical attraction before I take off their clothes.

[NMCowboys]

#5 I have a partner and we live together.

[zenn7]

4.5... I want the intensity of some real chemistry ...with a substantial penis/ guy ..

[Deepthroat10]

ONE!!!

[Fzmr9t]

I would be a 4.5.

[NMCowboys]

I'm a 5 but I am in a longterm partnership with a man so I wouldn't be anything else or lower.

[magari]

I am NOT a 1, because I need some sort of personal connection. I want to know some background info and motivations...but not a 5 either. I have fallen in love with women, but never a man. Friends with benefits is the ideal, however I have made friends without the sex; just sharing and comparing experiences and intimate conversations about our sex lives.

Bottom line: The man behind the cock is important to me, but not gonna get married to him.

[goodtimr]

Friends with benefits as long as they have a nice cock to suck.

[gotlek]

I loved cocks since i was 13.22291

[Dskitten]

I'm not attracted to guys, say like in public..but I am turned on by an aroused male. I would like to meet a guy that I could be a friend with, take some time to explore and enjoy our excitement, get together more than one time...so on.
3 or 4?

[BiGuy07]

I can totally relate. I realized after watching porn, I was really turned on by the guys' hot meat, not to mention their gushing cum. So a relaxed friendship maybe a little mutual masturbation to start would be cool, maybe a hand job in the car... who knows.

[jem_is_bi]

I am not comfortable committing to anywhere on that scale. I very much care about my partner and have only had sex with him for many years But, I do not feel like a 1,2,3,4 or 5. We are much more than friends but, very independent persons that respect that quality in each other.

[Bipartisan1982]

I would say I'm definitely a one as I'm only attracted to men with big cocks. I really just want to be able to give head to a hung guy one day. Not interested in kissing, anal or any kind intimate relationship. Ideally I would be able to find a woman that's into bi guys or at least a bi couple. Nothing would be hotter to me than taking turns blowing a hung guy with my girlfriend and then both of us taking turns fucking her.

[notmacbi]

Ditto, ditto. Something about sucking off a big cock that is such a turn on.