Anal Training Tips..

[luvpies7]

I have recently began to explore my "Bi".. side. My ex-wife and I enjoyed "hotwifing" for a bit and I really enjoyed her coming home well used and enjoying her. Hence my nickname. Anyhow, the idea of having sex with another guy has really piqued my interest since my divorce. Possibly being a "bottom". I have perused the internet looking for "how to's" and such and have found little in the way of actual what works type info. Other than the obvious "lots of lube" "if it hurts" (if it doesn't hurt a little you will never get there lol).. What have you found that works? Toys.. Plugs? Dildo's? Lube (you use lots and the water based seems to "dry up") I am up to a medium plug and just picked up a 6 1/2 in dildo. As a "newbie" when should I be ready for the real thing? How "big" do I need to get?

[NMCowboys]

What is "hotwifing"? What do you mean by having your wife come home "well used and enjoying her"?

[luvpies7]

Hotwifing is allowing your wife to have sex with other men. Many times helping to set up "dates", helping her get dressed in provocative clothes etc. Well used related to her coming home after a "date". The smell of sex is intoxicating, at first t was protected sex, her pussy smelling of latex and open and wet as hell. Then she came home at 2 in the morning once, a little drunk, her hair all messy, I helped her undress. She layed back on the bed and I kissed my way to her pussy. As I started to lick her,I knew there was something different. Creamy, a little salty. Then she put her hands on my head and pushed it in further. "You like that don't you?" Eating another mans come out of my pussy.. And I really did.. You can read about Hotwifing at Ourhotwives dot org.. We would still be doing it if she didn't get hung up with one of her lovers.

[BiCuriousVAN]

I am up to a medium plug and just picked up a 6 1/2 in dildo. As a "newbie" when should I be ready for the real thing? How "big" do I need to get?

Good question and I wish I had the answer. I am where you are. I can easily get a medium size plug in my ass and after it has been in for awhile, when I remove it, I can easily get the medium size dildo to slide into my ass. It really enjoy the strange but good feeling with the dildo. I don't, what else I need to do to get ready for my first anal day. I guess part of it depends on how large your partner is. I hope to find somebody of average girth for my first anal experience.

[cw1860]

I usually start with a small vibrator to relax my ass, working my way larger always adding lube as I go. until eventually I am able to work a 9x2 inch dildo in and out of my ass with ease. the trick it never go larger until your ass is ready too, and relax. always relax. With enough practice you'll be able to relax your ass with ease.

[NMCowboys]

Hotwifing is allowing your wife to have sex with other men. Many times helping to set up "dates", helping her get dressed in provocative clothes etc. Well used related to her coming home after a "date". The smell of sex is intoxicating, at first t was protected sex, her pussy smelling of latex and open and wet as hell. Then she came home at 2 in the morning once, a little drunk, her hair all messy, I helped her undress. She layed back on the bed and I kissed my way to her pussy. As I started to lick her,I knew there was something different. Creamy, a little salty. Then she put her hands on my head and pushed it in further. "You like that don't you?" Eating another mans come out of my pussy.. And I really did.. You can read about Hotwifing at Ourhotwives dot org.. We would still be doing it if she didn't get hung up with one of her lovers.

That sounds disgusting and it's a very easy way for both you and her to get HIV or another STD.

[rickoyler1969]

This is to NMCowboys, you must think that everybody that has sex with more than one person has HIV &or STD. You have to have sex with someone that does have it to get it. If all parties involved are clean & DDF then they will never catch anything from each other. 10 Clean couples can have unprotected sex with any one of the other 19 people & never catch anything !!!!!!!!!!!!!! GROW UP & BUTT OUT OF THIS SITE IF ALL YOU CAN DO IS BE AN ASSHOLE ABOUT OTHER PEOPLE'S VIEWS OF SEX.

[matutum]

opinions are opinions, u have a different opinion than he does, so maybe what u say to him should be applied to you also
, also maybe re-reading about how one gets aids might be helpful to u both

[luvpies7]

I have a curved dildo and the first time I put it in it was amazing. Should have bought the 8" though. :~} The bigger stuff with astroglide seems to dry out if I want to leave it in for a while.