Help and advise needed

[bikurinpa]

My wife has numerous health issues, and now she is unable to drive very much, we are thinking about trying to find someone who is retired and can move in and help with taking her for her treatments 3x a week and any dr appts. Where could I begin to find someone who is decent and trustable, so many flakes and just untrustable people on CL, I would love to find a retired Bi man who we also can enjoy times together too when we can and someone who not push her to have sex for she has no sex desires anyway due to health. someone have any idea as to where I can start!

[Cherokee_Mountaincat]

I would start by asking her Dr if he knows of someone in the health care profession, Hon. Advertise in your local newspaper as well. Go thru a Thorough screening process and go from there.
Good luck..:}
Cat

[void()]

<joking> Go right on down to your local Bisexuals R Us store. I'm sure
they can hook you up. </joking>

In all honesty, I half way agree with StreetLady. Of course, I do not
know the full situation regarding your relationship with your wife. I do
not need to know it either. What is posted here is that she has
numerous medical issues. It does seem a bit callous to not stand by
someone you allegedly love.

On the other hand, I half agree with Cherokee_Mountaincat. You ought
to ask health care providers, check if your locality has a community
services board. The people there can offer guidance in locating others,
or maybe even provide a foot into support groups. And yes, there may be
a few whom are not all together, relax and get over it. There are fewer
whom are all together than you may realize. No need to judge before
hand.

Now to a disclaimer, I'm not a therapist nor any type of professional
help. Often you may find good advice in public forums. Other times you
may not find good advice. Recall that everyone has differing mileage/s
and exercising common sense, taking some with a grain of salt is healthy
and good to do. Hope I have been helpful, if not apologies.

[bigtime2013]

not sure but im in much same situation, wife unable to drive, dr appts., and no sex drive at all, any family to help u out? no im not a moron, help u with dr appts, as far as with sex, good luck