Dealing with ED

[thom2864]

How do you deal with partner that is dealing with erectile dysfunction? I can tell he is willing but his equipment just isn't responding. Tried various pills but side effects are bad. I am being understanding and all but he is just frustrated.

[jackbirdjay]

I have had trouble with it. I have low-t and was getting shots. The side effect with shots was my tits got bigger and my nipples got super sensitive. I use cialis daily a low dose. At times I still have trouble maintaining, but it's age in my late 50's. How old is he??

[thom2864]

He just turned 50. Even low dose cialis gives him migraines...I am trying to convince him I still like to go down on him even if he does not get hard. He feels uncomfortable. It could be a pride thing. I think he thinks he is disappointing me. Far from the truth. I like it. Get gets semi erect before he cums. And he still likes to return the favor.

[jem_is_bi]

You should have him talk to his doctor about edex (alprostadil for injection). It is injected, but with a very thin needle so pain is not a big issue and in the right dosage it is locally acting so should have less effect through out the body than oral medications.

[elian]

Well if it is true ED I think a doctor can help.

I have had occasions where I truly am tired, nervous, preoccupied, have a headache - we don't have a fluffer like the big pr0n studios, things slip out, ya get soap in your eye in the big shower scene, you want to please your partner so much you lose your own erection.. etc. What I usually do in that instance is reach over and give my partner a big hug as tight as I can - kiss them, tell them I love them and I am eager to be with them regardless of whether our bodies respond on demand or not. Usually about 2AM in the morning those issues kind of resolve themselves..

Maybe none of my business, but can your lover have a prostate/anal orgasm? They can be a lot of fun in their own right if you are both really horny..

[Cum1st]

Maybe with time and patience he'll be as comfortable with it as you apparently are.

[Realist]

jem-is-bi's right, those injections work, when nothing else will. It's scary to think of sticking a needle in your penis, but it really is almost unnoticeable.

Short of a penile implant, it's the best thing going.

[curmwm57]

Probably a bit too much information, but being a male of 50+ with heart issues and taking the usual meds for that on top of diabetes meds, I have issues as you described and thought maybe I could give you the male point of view as to what may affect his erections. As elian mentioned, there are a lot of mind games that go on in a guys head when this happens and as I have found, I worry so much about it that I avoid sex with my wife more times than not. I am able to get erect in most cases but it doesn't last long and that plays a big part on my feelings of inadequacy. Best I could provide is just to keep that in mind when discussing it with him and I hope you both find a solution.

Best of Luck...

[69luvr]

just tongue tickle his cock head. He will respond

[thom2864]

You should have him talk to his doctor about edex (alprostadil for injection). It is injected, but with a very thin needle so pain is not a big issue and in the right dosage it is locally acting so should have less effect through out the body than oral medications.

Thanks for the option. we are both married and he is on his wife's insurance and would have to explain and costs.

[elian]

Thanks for the option. we are both married and he is on his wife's insurance and would have to explain and costs.

He and the wife are no longer intimate?

..and an older friend of mine did say that other meds he is on cause this type of problem - high blood pressure medication for one.. I guess living is more important than sex but maybe doc can suggest something.

[thom2864]

No. his wife and him have slept in separate beds for most of their marriage. she says because of his snoring. and he is on diabetes meds.

[Jayne46240]

I know this will sound crazy, but when I had those issues,I had a man work me over real good and now I get as hard as ever. I still do like the MTM action, alot! Maybe a strapon would rock his world and show him you are cool with whatever it takes. The performance pressure gets to be huge as you get older.

[IllinoisGuy]

First of all, all of the ED meds can cause a headache(including a migrane). Usually what I have heard is that if you are going to take any of the meds, also take 2 Tylenol(or any other aspirin)-that will help to alleviate the symptoms. Second, try changing things up with your partner. If he seems to not be reacting the way he wants-try using something like a blindfold in your play. If he doesn't see what is happening, so he will have to depend on his other senses(meaning he should get harder)especially if he doesn't want to take the meds. Third, if you don't want to incorporate a strap-on, try sliding a finger in his ass. If you massage his prostate with your finger and suck him at the same time-it will give him the feeling of being taken front and back.

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[dowmass]

Some of us have ED issues of various degrees due to age or medical conditions. I am one too, that used oral medications and have tried a penile injection " TRIMIX" with good results.

If you are a bottom, your top doesn’t mind, and you can get great prostate orgasms, is ED a big issue? I enjoyed the last time with a top and it was heaven because I had mind blowing internal orgasms - these lasted longer than the regular ones where I would leak jizz.

[biwmtrucker44]

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[jacobbatalon]

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