Intriguing Offer

[TXLonestarTX69]

I belong to a couple of other sites and I just wanted to share an intriguing offer I received from a gentleman...

I am relatively inexperienced and have not had any MM contact in quite some time, and that that I have had was much more about me being sucked off than the other way around. Back in the day, I had a friend and we messed around and it turned oral. I sucked his cock three different times, but never had the courage to take him over the edge. He had no issues sucking me to completion and did it a dozen or so times. I've always kind of regretted that and have put sucking to completion and swallowing on my bucket list.

Fast forward...

I got an offer from a guy to go spend a weekend at his house some "intense cock sucking training." He says that he has helped many newbies become "talented cock suckers." From what I understand, his "training" is pretty one-sided...I will not be allowed a release until the end of the training, and that's only if he determines that my performance is up to his standard. He assures me that I will suck him off a minimum of 8 times over the weekend, but it's usually more like 10+ times. Swallowing is also required. He evidently has his "trainees" sign an agreement that they will eagerly and willingly perform at his discretion and that they will not cum until he allows it.

The whole thing sounds pretty exciting and I'm seriously considering it. I plan to get to know him a lot better and find out if it's for real, etc. I've been around long enough to know that most of what one hears on these sites is BS, but occasionally there are real people.

I'll keep you posted.

Cheers!

[elian]

Do you think you would truly enjoy being submissive, because this guy sounds like he is seriously into BSDM. There are other people you could be with that wouldn't mind you being submissive but also wouldn't -force- you to do something and they would be grateful you made them feel good rather than demanding.

You may really enjoy having a raging hard on until you finally make him cum, but what you are signing up for sounds a little extreme - do you know the person you are playing with is disease free?

People role play all the time, and if we got to know each other well and I knew what their limits were maybe it would be a different story but I've experienced enough abuse growing up that the thought of being "obligated" to suck a stranger's cock makes me unhappy. I'd rather do it because I wanted to do it, not because I'm obligated by someone else to play along.

[chances]

Id be wary of that "offer" if I were you, since you don't know this person, or their health status either, something about it just doesnt sound right to me. Id be very cautious, check it out more thoroughly, before jumping into something you might regret.

[2bi2Bboring]

Agreement or not, you need to be fully informed of what you're getting yourself into. Power relationships are fine and I am all for them in the right context. But I want to make the point that anyone who doesn't vet a Dom or a Sub before entering into a power exchange is getting themselves into a position where they can be taken advantage of. A "legal release" or any document you sign is not an excuse or a free pass for oral or anal rape. The fact is that you would need to set up a safety net for yourself. It works like this, you give your cell number to a trusted friend, one who you can trust with the information that you will be in this situation. The friend calls you at certain check in times, say every 6-8 hours or at agreed upon times. The phone calls can be brief and a code word is given for either " I' m okay" or " I' m in distress and need you to call the cops". If you miss a check in time, the friend calls back in 10 minutes, if you miss the friends call again, they call back 10 minutes later. That's 3 calls, if you miss the 3rd call, the friend calls the police with the address of the person involved and tells the cops you are in distress and need to be checked on. Code words need to be a single word agreed upon ahead of time so there is no doubt about their meaning. Don't use the word in a sentence. It's either green light or red light, so to speak.

The contract:
NEVER agree to allowing anyone to put you in a compromising position that you are not comfortable with. NEVER agree to let someone bind you or put you in a position you cannot get up and walk away from. NEVER give anyone your the keys to your car. Always use common sense. No one has to put you in stocks or restraints to get you to suck their cock, you obviously are a willing participant. No contract, no matter the wording is binding or permission to pass boundaries you are not comfortable with or permission to rape you. Set yourself up to be safe. Don't make the mistake of being too trusting, don't assume this person is operating in good faith. Protect yourself!

The partner:
INSIST on a STD test, we are talking about bodily fluid exchange here! If he is inspiring you swallow his cock and his cum then you need to know he's clean. If he is gonna make you sign a release, call him to task as well and insist on a STD and AIDS test.

Lastly, don't ignore your intuition, that little voice inside your head that says you need to leave is important and may save your life. This guy could be anything , any kind of sexual predator. He may be relying on the idea that because you're a guy and would be embarrassed to tell the cops he's raped you and then try to present the contract as consent to him doing all kinds of heinous things to you. This could be as advertised, it could be Buffalo Bill waiting to go all Silence of the Lambs on you. Unfortunately you won't know until you are on your knees with his cock in hand. Just use all your tools to protect yourself.

[NakedInSeattle]

The "agreement" is not worth the paper it's written on! You could always check out of the situation anytime you felt uncomfy and there's nothing he could do about it. It's just his way of making you more submissive.

I agree with 2bi...no restraints of any kind!