Women at Stripper Clubs?

[PeninAZ]

Premise:
Okay, so I'm frequenting clubs again, strippers, beer, all that good stuff. I went recently for a second time to the club nearest to where I lived (can't believe I didn't know of it sooner). While there, I saw at least two girls who clearly weren't employees, neither waitress or dancers, and the guys they were with were clearly their boyfriends. I took fascination in that thinking stuff like, "what, are the girls into it too?" or, "do they just let their boyfriends enjoy that, but are dying inside?" I guess I'll never know, but one scene caught my interest even further. One of the couples (young by the way) took seats at the poll stage, and the boyfriend was clearly having a good time playing with the dancer. Then the dancer moved on to visit to the girlfriend, and (from my view behind) gave a body gesture as if to say, "What the Fuck?!" but clearly in a good humored manner. Second past as she and the dancer chatted, then they hugged each other "nicely" (sexy). Can't remember much further as I was a bit tipsy that night.

Anyway, that was intriguing. Unless a woman worked at as a stripper, waitress, or bartender, I've never seen women at such places before. Have any of your guys out there encountered that? Any details revealing the nature of female's attendance at the club? And gals out there too, have you ever enjoyed female dancers at a club? Stage, floor, or VIP?

[Realist]

Years ago, I was dating a Korean girl, who was the divorced spouse of an American soldier. She was tiny, had a very slim figure, and very small breasts, but she was fascinated with women who had hour-glass figures and especially large breasts.

When her birthday was coming up, I asked her if there was something special she'd like to do?

She'd told me that there was a half black/half Korean stripper, who worked at a club in Louisville. She wanted to go see her dance.

My GF had never given any indication she had more than a passing attraction for other women, but she was serious about seeing that one particular stripper.

We went out to eat that night, then to the club. (I'd checked to ensure the Korean girl was working)

When the Korean girl came out and began her routine, everyone was amazed at her beauty, figure, and her style was nothing short of out of this world! She had the voluptuous figure and dark skin of an exotic black woman, with hair, and facial features of a Korean. I assure you, she was a exotic-looking girl!

My GF was totally hypnotized, watching every move. She squirmed in her chair, watching with her mouth open, through the entire show.

Afterwards, the stripper announced she was giving lap dances in a private room. I had to explain what they were, to my GF....and she wanted one!

I was surprised how long the lap-dance lasted and afterwards, the two hugged! I don't think any touching was allowed, but no one said anything when the stripper kissed my GF on the mouth.

On the way home, my GF was pretty quiet. I figured she was replaying the stripper's show in her mind.

When we got close to her house, I asked her if she had a good time?

She said, "Dat girl, she make me cum.... big time...I do'n wan sexy-time tonight!"

Usually, she was just beginning to warm up after 3, or 4 orgasms!

When we arrived at her house, I looked over at her...she'd been crying!

I asked, "Wow, was she that good?" (Had no idea what was going on in her mind)

She replied, "No, dat girl not good; dat girl make my husband leave me...now I feel ugly!"

I guess she just wanted to see for herself, the girl who took her husband away, then found she was attracted to her, too!

Soon after that, she moved back to Korea....she didn't say goodbye.

[jem_is_bi]

Realist, that was a really sad story.

[PeninAZ]

Realist, diddo from jem_is_bi , sad story, totally didn't see that coming.
My apology for bringing back any unwanted memories.

[JaredT77]

Really don't see women going to strip clubs where women are dancing on stage. I used to love going to strip clubs and the only women I saw there were the women that work there. Nowadays, strip clubs are waste of time and money. I hardly drink anymore and the strippers to me are like prostitutes. They get naked or almost naked except for a thong and they "dance" or rub up on your legs and just basically tease you. I hate it when they start dancing half way thru the song and charge you the full price for the song. Right from the beginning they act like your best friend until they sucker you back to the back to give you lame lapdances. They are practically prostitutes but without the sex. THERE IS NO SEX IN THE CHAMPAGNE ROOM! Chris Rock said that best.

I have heard of girlfriends wanting to go to the strip clubs with their boyfriends. I heard it was because the woman wants to see her man's face as he is aroused by the strippers.

[pole_smoker]

I'm not into strippers or strip clubs but; a lot of strippers are prostitutes and they do this because they make more money whoring on the side than they do from stripping.

I have never paid for a whore or prostitute of either sex but I know people who have and it's pretty obvious when a stripper is a prostitute since they'll let the person know very fast that they can have sex with them for money.

[Realist]

Nope, I didn't see it coming, either.

She never talked bad about her ex and I never knew the connection between her husband and the stripper. She was a very private person and deeply guarded about her innermost thoughts.

I was told by one of her friends, that he retired from the army, then one day while she was at work, he just walked out. He left their home to her, one car, and half their savings. He told her she could divorce him for abandonment, if she wanted to.

Even though she had a good job and made a decent salary, she always felt out of place, over here.

I liked her a lot, even though I'd normally go for a more voluptuous lady, but I liked her and we had a lot of fun. Her personality won me over.

I did have a feeling, in the back of my mind, that she was harboring some mystery.

At home, in her own surroundings, she wasn't shy. She was confidant, animated, and extremely sensual. And, she loved pleasing her man. It wasn't all for the man, though, because she got immense pleasure from the sensual interaction, too.

I wish she had hung around a little longer, but I didn't know she was harboring such angst over the loss of her husband. I certainly thought her reaction at the club almost went beyond comprehension....I've never experienced anything like that before, or since!

I hope she found happiness and peace.

[PeninAZ]

Really don't see women going to strip clubs where women are dancing on stage. I used to love going to strip clubs and the only women I saw there were the women that work there. Nowadays, strip clubs are waste of time and money. I hardly drink anymore and the strippers to me are like prostitutes. They get naked or almost naked except for a thong and they "dance" or rub up on your legs and just basically tease you. I hate it when they start dancing half way thru the song and charge you the full price for the song. Right from the beginning they act like your best friend until they sucker you back to the back to give you lame lapdances. They are practically prostitutes but without the sex. THERE IS NO SEX IN THE CHAMPAGNE ROOM! Chris Rock said that best.
I have heard of girlfriends wanting to go to the strip clubs with their boyfriends. I heard it was because the woman wants to see her man's face as he is aroused by the strippers.

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Clubs I go to are pretty honest, we sit and wait for the next. Today I was worried, seemed like two songs passed when I only wanted one so I asked, she told me not to worry, it was still one song. And those "they sucker you back to the back" stuff are unknown to me. Back there (VIP I think you mean) I get to on occasion make out, feel over, eat ass and pussy even, I never got a "lame lapdance." Only exception might be the so-called "champagne room," which is just the same as VIP except with champagne, but they advertize it like there "could be" sex (lol, I was idiot). Sorry about your bad experiences man.

[PeninAZ]

I'm not into strippers or strip clubs but; a lot of strippers are prostitutes and they do this because they make more money whoring on the side than they do from stripping.

I have never paid for a whore or prostitute of either sex but I know people who have and it's pretty obvious when a stripper is a prostitute since they'll let the person know very fast that they can have sex with them for money.

Yeah I get that, I have had some offer their number when going to the ATM machine (hate those machines). All in all though, not worth it.

[pole_smoker]

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Clubs I go to are pretty honest, we sit and wait for the next. Today I was worried, seemed like two songs passed when I only wanted one so I asked, she told me not to worry, it was still one song. And those "they sucker you back to the back" stuff are unknown to me. Back there (VIP I think you mean) I get to on occasion make out, feel over, eat ass and pussy even, I never got a "lame lapdance." Only exception might be the so-called "champagne room," which is just the same as VIP except with champagne, but they advertize it like there "could be" sex (lol, I was idiot). Sorry about your bad experiences man.
Why would you want to rim a stripper or eat her pussy? Or have her do this to you? They've been with 100s of men and have STDs. Plus it is paying for a whore.

I know a guy who is addicted to strip clubs, or I guess he gets a rush out of paying strippers for sex and using drugs with them if the stripper has any, and he does finger and get blowjobs from strippers but I wouldn't be surprised if one gave him herpes and he gave it to his wife.

[Melody Dean]

I've gone to strip clubs, and I liked it.

I don't sit at the stage or go to VIP. Frankly, as a woman at a strip club, I don't need to. I just like to sit back and watch, watch the girls dance (and critique them, lol!) and watch the interactions. It's less about the sex, and more about the people watching, really.

Except...

For the dancers who like girls themselves. One time I had one come over to me and basically started making out with me. Touching, squeezing, kissing my neck and chest (but not my lips), and man, she was good... Unfortunately, she got called away because it was her turn on stage, and the group I was with (I NEVER go to a strip club alone, that is asking for trouble) was ready to leave. As tempting as it was, I didn't go back.

[Waylon]

Way back in time, in my college days in Texas, there were no lap dances or special rooms but the women were usually very hot and talented. They would start their routines in very sexy evening gowns and gradually strip down to sexy lingerie, bras and panties and depending on the club and local ordinances, would go topless and eventually bottomless. On several occasions one girl I was dating would often ask me to take her with me when I went as she wanted to study their moves and then dance for me back at my apartment. Another girl I dated also was a go go dancer and would go with me on amateur nights and give everybody a show with her talents. Naturally it was very hot and when we got back to my place the sex was outstanding. I believe these women enjoyed it as much as I did. Besides the usual audience of horny men and college guys, it was not unusual to see more that one couple enjoying the shows.

[Wilm.Woman]

I frequent stripper bars with my SO. I like the atmosphere, the music, the dancers, the bouncers. I tip the dancers and have on occasion bought a lap dance. I love to dance and watch dancers. It is often great foreplay.