The most awkward meeting you've had..

[Tuffnuggies]

Many of us are very closeted. Obviously if our secret lives were to be outed, it could be a hornet's nest of problems.
I've had a few occasions where I've posted my need somewhere and either a relative or someone local has responded.
Has this happened to any of you? Either online, a club or an ABS? Being single, I wouldn't care, however married is a whole other issue. Most of the awkward ones are single, so they would hold the strings on me.
Are any of you afraid that someone could rat you out?
Interested in hearing this

[NjbiGuy01]

I revised my search methods and became more protective after a guy responded to a M4M ad on Craigslist. He lived literally right on my block !! He gave he his address and I could not believe it. Another time a guy responded who was my wife's former boss ! Sent a face pic and the address was the company. He was meeting guys after work in his office before he drove the hours drive home...small world. I've become quite guarded since then...

[Hypersexual11]

So far, I haven't been outed but a jealous lover once put a note in our mailbox outing me to my wife. I found it before she did. One time I put an ad in craigslist and a co-worker, a real 'ladies man' answered. I kept that secret for both our sake. One time I called a guy I had been seeing. I used my land line, he saw the last name on caller ID and answered with a very sexy hello to my brother! That one kinda shook me.

[BiTexasGuy85]

When my ex wife and I divorced she told all of my friends and my current fiancé (girlfriend then) that I was bi. Everyone would have believed her too, if she hadn't said that I was messing around with my best friend (I wasn't) who was a pretty big homophobe back then. At that point no one paid her any attention. That's the only issues I've had. I recently found a guy online who lives in the same town I do. But with over 360 thousand people here I'm not too worried about it

[cornholejoe]

3 years ago i was dating this women we have had a lot of sex together and she wanted me to meet her son well to make a long story short her son and me had been having oral and nal sex on and off for 2 years before i met her so it was awkward trying act like we did not know each other

[fredtyg]

Awkward, but pretty mild as far as being outed and causing problems, was one time I placed a Strictly Platonic ad in m4m Craigslist. One of the first responses was a guy I knew and considered a friend. He was nice enough to give his name in his reply which was how I knew.

That was awkward because I had no idea about him. In fact, he used to use the H word fairly often when it didn't have much to do with what we were talking about. I thought that odd at the time, but that he was bi put it in perspective for me.

I wasn't sure what to do about this as he was one person I'd really prefer not know I was queer, but felt it would be rude not to answer him. If nothing else, I didn't find him sexually attractive at all, and wouldn't have wanted him hitting on me if he knew about me. I ended up not answering him, rude though it might seem, but non- replies on CL is rather par for the course so I didn't lose any sleep over it.

With that same ad I received another reply right before the other guys. I knew this guy, too, although he was more of an acquaintance. He told me who he was the second day and that he knew me. No awkwardness in that one, though. He was a cutie and we ended up chatting pretty steadily for a week or so until we ran out of stuff to chat about.

[Bimmga]

Yeah, that's awkward. I don't blame your for taking Craig's out. CL is supposed to be anonymous until such time as you want to brop the anonymity. I ran into a friend at an ABS that was a well known gay/establishment. Awkward or not, there was no getting around it. He was cool and didn't out me. Just like you, though neither of us had any sexual attraction to the other.

[NakedInSeattle]

I was son my knees sucking a cock in this adult theater when I looked up and saw a friend I've been in chorus with for years! We both had a good laugh.

[NakedInSeattle]

Another! My wife and I were at a swing club and in walks a guy who looked exactly like my son. he turned and walked back to the entrance and I said to my wife, "it looks like we have to come to grips with this." I followed him and when I caught with him, it wasn't my son.

[Tuffnuggies]

What about meeting people if you live in a small town that everyone knows everyone? Do you take that risk of being outed?

[Outofthis99999]

3 years ago i was dating this women we have had a lot of sex together and she wanted me to meet her son well to make a long story short her son and me had been having oral and nal sex on and off for 2 years before i met her so it was awkward trying act like we did not know each other
That is kinda hot. How did that go?

[mtnmen2]

I was at an ABS one time and there was a booth with the door open and I could see the face of a guy that worked at a local business I go to sometimes. He seen me and I walked on past and went to a booth that didn't have a glory hole and set there for a while before I left. I've been to that business several times and have run into him but he has never said anything but made for some tense few times right after that happened though. Not sure if he's in the same boat as me and is not out or just cool with me not being into him

[guywholikesboth]

Iwent to a ABS at lunch time had an hour and went into a booth with a glory hole a finger went thru so I stuck my cock thru the hole and he started to suck me after a while I removed my cock and put my finger thru the hole did i get a surprize the guy had a huge uncut cock so I went to work on it it didnt take long for him to give me a big load I left the booth and hid near the booth so I could see what he looked like well I got my second surprize it was a guy I worked with we would have lunch and travel to Staten Island on the ferry only time we did anything he never knew it was me who took his load that day

[pole_smoker]

Neither myself or my husband had an awkward meeting like this as we are not closeted, and are out about being bisexual as we are not ashamed of being bisexual and it's not a secret or something to keep hidden.

[cuttin2dachase]

2 or 3 awkward experiences come to mind. Many years ago not long after my swinging slutwife and I split up, I met a guy online. I had moved out of our home and had gotten a nice apartment. We hit it off and after a week or so of chatting it was obvious that we had the hots for each other. We did not exchange any pics or names. The only time he could me was between 5 and 7 PM depending on when he got off work. I invited him over and when he arrived, I recognized him immediately. He was a doctor in the same practice as my regular doctor. I had actually seen him once in my doctor's emergency absence, but he did not recognize me. He was married and very hot ! After we finished our session in bed, he got dressed and we were already talking about the next time we could get together. When he left I said "I hope to see you again soon, doc". Puzzled and a little spooked, he asked how I knew he was a doctor. When I told him his colleague was my doctor, and I'd seen him before and that he need not worry about my being indiscreet, he seemed relieved. I realized then I never should have called him doc. Apparently it was too awkward for him because he didn't respond to my emails after that and I never saw him again.

Another time I met a guy I'd been chatting with in a parking lot of a public place. The plan was for him to follow me to my place if we hit if off. The scenario was opposite of the one above. I could tell by the look in his eyes that it was awkward for him. He said we had met before at a mutual friend's party. Then he said he couldn't go through with our meeting and abruptly got back in his car and left. I wracked my brain could not place him or remember meeting him. I suppose he was afraid I might say something to our mutual friend that would out him.

Another time I was to meet a guy at a tavern. I arrived early and was sitting at the bar having a beer when a guy I used to work with came in. He had left the company about a year before and I had not seen him since. We sat there chatting, not knowing we were there to meet each other. He and I both kept glancing at the door each time a guy walked in. He mentioned that he was there to meet a friend but it looked like his friend wasn't going to show. It was only then I realized it was us who were there to meet each other. He was good looking and very str8 acting at work and I would have never guessed he was bi and vice versa. I still debated in my mind whether to admit that it was me he was supposed to meet, but I was horny and finally told him I didn't know he was bi. When it dawned on him that I was was his date, he looked a little shocked and it was awkward, but we had another drink and decided that we could trust each other to be discreet. We went to his place and had a great time and saw each other twice after that. We would lie in bed and laugh and talk about what the people we worked with would think if they knew we were both bi cocksuckers LOL

[cornholejoe]

That is kinda hot. How did that go?

well we just acted like it was the first time we met each other later on i quit dating her but still see him on accasion

[olmizzou42]

I was using the alley entrance to an ABS and standing in the hallway was a guy I would see downtown everyday. He had his pants down to his knees, jacking a big hard cock. Apparently, he didn't know anyone could come in that way. When he looked up and saw me he jerked his pants up, stuffed that hard-on in and fled out through the shop. He used to smile and nod when we would meet on the street, but not after that. He nearly got hit by a car once as he crossed the street to avoid me. Very embarrassing for him. Not for me! I would have led him back into the arcade and sucked that nice cock.

[Realist]

When I was in high school, I'd had a falling out with a girl I'd been dating.

During a previous sharing-of-private-events session, we'd admitted to each other our deepest secrets. She told me of her first sex with her Sunday school teacher. Then, I'd entrusted her with my very first orgasmic encounter with a male neighbor.........which at the time, she took with aplomb. But, after our break-up, revealing myself would come back to bite me!

The next day at school, she knew people would be wondering why we'd broken up, so she told her friends she found out I was "QUEER!" That could have been the kiss of social death, in the South of the mid-'50s!

When I arrived at school the next morning. A couple of kids in my English class said they'd heard I was a "HOMO"!

Although I was scared shitless, I covered my shock. Replying, in a very exaggerated, flippant way, I said, "Why sure, EVERYBODY knows that!"

Apparently, that was the best thing I could have said, because my ex was well-known for being overly emotional and vindictive. No one, who knew me, would believe the girl's accusations, when!

Truthfully, though, my first three sexual experiences had been with other males!

After that (because of the lesson learned) I was much more guarded with personal information!

[darkeyes]

I was 15.. no virgin. The date with a nice boy whom, after coming out of the pictures where he had behaved impeccably, asked where we could go for me to suck him off and then have a good shag.. yep.. that's right up there as u wud expect.... and no.. he got nowt 'cept a flea in his ear...:eek2: