How do you feel about first timers? [Archive]

Tuffnuggies

Dec 30, 2015, 2:21 PM

Seems like every 4-5 ads placed online are by a supposed biwmm first timer. They start with statements claiming how they've thought about it for years, then move on to run off terminology that's used by regulars.
What I wonder is, do you feel trusting of a newbie? If someone genuinely hasn't been with a guy, do you worry about them freaking out? Had a conversation with a gent some time ago that told me of an experience he had with a biwmm, that was calm at first, but got very panicky and seemingly confused about if he made the right choice or not. As the guy began getting sucked off, he freaked out and started pushing the gent away, saying he wasn't a fag, etc.. Then begins wrestling with the gent when he started getting dressed. At some point, he began getting rougher, and said he was no pussy, and would show he was a real man by jamming his cock in the gents ass. The whole time he fucked him, he was ranting about how he shouldn't be doing this. After he shot his panic load, he quickly grabbed his clothes and left.
Not sure about you guys, but the thought of this concerns me. Because of that, I refuse to meet anyone that's never had a bi experience.

What are your thoughts or experiences on this?

sysper

Dec 30, 2015, 2:54 PM

borntosuckcock

Dec 30, 2015, 3:54 PM

Never had a bad experience with a first timer. Most are very nervous, some change their minds, some wanted to stop, many cum fast and leave as quick as they can. I see some a month or two later and they want to be sucked off again, they seem to be more comfortable then. Some become very comfortable and want to explore more and want to try sucking me. I always get a kick out of the repeaters who claim they are not gay or bisexual.

pole_smoker

Dec 30, 2015, 3:55 PM

i'm 1 of the 1st timers here......i've got my ideas of what i wanna experiance but when it comes down to it & i'm finally alone with a guy who knows? i know i'm not gonna get abusive but i might just freak out about facing acceptance of doing it & even liking it. though i have been bicurious for so long i think i would feel relieve more than anything. just to get it over with & move on whether i like it or not. this is why the right guy would be so important for me. 1 who would be patient & understanding & able to deal with my confusion. no offence u don't sound like the right guy for me at least the 1st guy. but ur being honest which i appreciate & respect. plus u have thought this through. i can see how ur concerned a person's 1st time can be confusing & maybe even scary. u have gotta know what ur getting into. i plan to be as honest & open about my feelings, expectations etc. as i can. i know not every guy will be for me & i know i won't be for every guy but i think as long as ur honest & open both can make a good decision to move forward or not.

Are you actually even serious about any of this? You've been here for over a year, and it's extremely easy to meet a bisexual or gay man to have sex with even if you are in upstate NY. If you were really serious about it you would have easily found a man that's bi or gay and had sex with him. Or maybe you have such high and unobtainable standards that you're just making up excuses for not going out and meeting bi and gay men and finding a man to have sex with?

NjbiGuy01

Dec 30, 2015, 6:13 PM

Are you actually even serious about any of this? You've been here for over a year, and it's extremely easy to meet a bisexual or gay man to have sex with even if you are in upstate NY. If you were really serious about it you would have easily found a man that's bi or gay and had sex with him. Or maybe you have such high and unobtainable standards that you're just making up excuses for not going out and meeting bi and gay men and finding a man to have sex with?

Or maybe your just an asshole Pole ?

The Galion

Dec 30, 2015, 10:38 PM

Newbies are very nervous perhaps. I was.

ml830

Dec 30, 2015, 11:03 PM

I've had bisexual urges for years, yet never experienced a relationship with a man. It's not fear that stops me it's guilt feeling of hurting those that "love" me. So if there is a first time, would want it to be with someone who has the integrity to understand all the emotions that go into a first imer.

BrunoGhia

Dec 30, 2015, 11:17 PM

Discouraging. I never have had an experience with a man. I would hope I would act better than that.

BrunoGhia

Dec 30, 2015, 11:29 PM

I am very clear about what I would like in a first time. Oral, giving and receiving, anal, giving and receiving, and lots of contact and kissing.

void()

Dec 31, 2015, 6:12 AM

... At some point, he began getting rougher, and said he was no pussy, and would show he was a real man by jamming his cock in the gents ass. The whole time he fucked him, he was ranting about how he shouldn't be doing this. After he shot his panic load, he quickly grabbed his clothes and left.

What are your thoughts or experiences on this?

The quoted scene to me reads nearly like rape. I hesitate saying it was
rape. Not clear if both enjoyed it, both consented. In my mind I hear
the freaking out guy.

"I'll show you faggot! I'm such a real man, I'll fuck your ass so hard
you'll never fuck again!"

To me that would infer the guy felt volatile in being insecure and
was attempting reassert his perceived control, power. Sorry if I am
misreading it. Hope I am.

Can agree it is difficult in first meetings, more so with someone who is
fully new. This may be indicative of why I prefer the process of having
emotional relationships in conjunction with the sexual ones. If people
take some time and get to know one another, a lot of life can go along
with more ease and less drama.

Although, I agree too, sometimes we all need a fuck for the sake of the
fuck. As concerning rape, it is unethical, immoral and flat out wrong.
I have difficulty even if someone suggests a fantasy rape. It's too
chilling for me to consider, being the submissive or dominate.

Well, that was my thought/s.

Tuffnuggies

Dec 31, 2015, 11:56 AM

The quoted scene to me reads nearly like rape. I hesitate saying it was
rape. Not clear if both enjoyed it, both consented. In my mind I hear
the freaking out guy.

"I'll show you faggot! I'm such a real man, I'll fuck your ass so hard
you'll never fuck again!"

To me that would infer the guy felt volatile in being insecure and
was attempting reassert his perceived control, power. Sorry if I am
misreading it. Hope I am.

Can agree it is difficult in first meetings, more so with someone who is
fully new. This may be indicative of why I prefer the process of having
emotional relationships in conjunction with the sexual ones. If people
take some time and get to know one another, a lot of life can go along
with more ease and less drama.

Although, I agree too, sometimes we all need a fuck for the sake of the
fuck. As concerning rape, it is unethical, immoral and flat out wrong.
I have difficulty even if someone suggests a fantasy rape. It's too
chilling for me to consider, being the submissive or dominate.

Well, that was my thought/s.

Your sentiments echo mine. My thoughts about the guy was he was wrestling with his emotions, and it did sound like a possible rape situation. But I think his issue was he wanted to,but was afraid to take the step.

The other thing I notice are guys that claim never having had bi sex, but are regular players.
Those seem almost as dangerous because you have no idea how many men they may have been with. Not that you don't have concerns with other guys but, if you have someone that thinks they can bareback with the so called "virgin" they are even more at risk.

olmizzou42

Dec 31, 2015, 12:29 PM

The only "first timer" I was ever with, who swore he'd never done it before, initiated passionate kissing, led me to his bedroom, undressed me, told me how he wanted to fuck me face to face with my legs wrapped around his back, lost the beautiful erection that I had sucked and then sucked me dry, swallowing every drop. First timer? Don't think so! He was also leanly muscualar, ripped would be the word and swore he never worked out. Right!!!

void()

Dec 31, 2015, 2:55 PM

The other thing I notice are guys that claim never having had bi sex, but are regular players.
Those seem almost as dangerous because you have no idea how many men they may have been with. Not that you don't have concerns with other guys but, if you have someone that thinks they can bareback with the so called "virgin" they are even more at risk.

I understand fully your approach and reasoning here. That aside, I can only think of maybe two occasions of condom use. Once was simply due to really having some odd gut feelings in mixed company. Knew a guy as a brief lived friendship, it had began to blossom into more with his mild insisting. He was arousing to be with both visually and personality wise. I kept feeling something was just amiss with him, with the environment we were in, could not place it.

We had sex a few times with us both using condoms and not exchanging any fluids aside from sweat, no open cuts. Found out a few years later he had been hospitalized for H.I.V., was gladly tested six months after learning that, tested a few years more at intervals. Real damn glad I used protection then despite not knowing why at the time. Another time was simply a gal was not into getting icky from cum. Aside from those, I go bareback. I do so aware of the risks. I am very selective. Scare me once, not again.

If asked, I don't mind condoms. At the same time rather enjoy all the sensations of flesh on flesh. Know that I'm disease free and can admit only a slight inclination to not really crave, but to appreciate a prescription pain killer rarely taken. I vape now so tobacco has no role n my life, down to maybe two cups of coffee day too. Like a little soda now and then but nothing too drastically unhealthy. In younger times, I was a bit of a drinker, outgrew that. I did enjoy some medicinal herb (without prescription) for a brief while, outgrew it too. Not a saint nor attempting to paint myself as one. Only sharing understanding and communicating.

So, when I tell you I understand, I do. You're right to hold that fear. Only the stupid abstain from any fear. The courageous? Well, they have fear but set it aside for what's of more value, and they temper it with knowledge, experience. Do I tell others to bareback? No. I can admit to a large part of dumb luck. Would I repeat? Probably, because you only get one run through, or so they say. Well, nice rambling a bit. :)

bob777

Dec 31, 2015, 3:35 PM

I understand someone being cautious about newbies or bi curious people, but if we never let a newbie in, then there will eventually be no old pros for us to play with. Some newbies are great fun. Since the experience is new, they are excited and ready to learn and want to try it all. I found you just need to be patient with a newbie and if he/she starts having seconds thoughts try to calm the situation and show them the door if they can't.

69luvr

Dec 31, 2015, 4:15 PM

biguy1940

Dec 31, 2015, 4:29 PM

"Are you actually even serious about any of this? You've been here for over a year, and it's extremely easy to meet a bisexual or gay man to have sex with"...who in the hell made you the sex police...when and if he decides to explore this aspect of his sexuality is ABSOLUTELY NONE OF YOUR BUSINESS IN ANY WAY SHAPE OR FORM...why don't you get a life and quit trying to tell others how they should live...what you sound most like is one of those republican, right wing, religious nut jobs that think it's their job to judge everyone, JUST LIKE ALL TROLLS...

Dskitten

Dec 31, 2015, 7:26 PM

Yes, because at some time, we were newbies too...

mnjack

Dec 31, 2015, 7:32 PM

Uhhh, biguy, as one of those who is republican, right wing, and religious, you seem to be pretty judgemental yourself. Projection, much? I certainly don't like pole-smoker's trolling and agitation, but if this is the best insult you can muster, you need to get more creative and, yes, judge everyone less.

bikurinpa

Jan 1, 2016, 10:36 AM

Most of them who claim to be their first are the ones who get more ass then a public toilet seat!

cuttin2dachase

Jan 1, 2016, 10:20 PM

I chat with men online before deciding if I want to meet. In the course of our chats, I will tell him that I am experienced and very comfortable with men. He will reciprocae by telling me about his previous experience. The majority will tell me they are either new to it or have little or limited experience. Many will go on to say they've gone years without mm sex and are ready to try it again. Some are even more experienced than me. The level of experience or lack thereof almost always comes through by the ease or lack thereof in which they are able to discuss their experiences, fantasies and desires. Although I prefer men with at least moderate experience who know what they want and know how to give me what I want, I enjoy being with a newbie or a man who has experimented before but was left feeling less than satisfied. As they say, the proof is in the pudding. Once he is naked with a man, an experienced man can tell from the get go just how experienced his partner is. But I have been with less experienced men and first timers to whom it came naturally. The way to tell is if he lets me take the lead and initiate various activities. If he projects himself as dominant or does the leading or inititating, it's more than likely he has a lot more experience than he told me he had. I would much rather have a newbie or less experienced man pad his resume and tell me has a lot of experience than to have a very experienced man lie and say he's new to it. That indicates he's careless, promiscuous and risky to be with. When I am with a true newbie or inexperienced man, I enjoy him trembling at my touch and seeing him sexually excited (and hard LOL) at the possibilities that are in front of him.

averagejoe33

Jan 2, 2016, 7:54 AM

I am one of those first timers and all I have to say is everyone was a first time at some point. Sure I will be a little nervous but weren't you.

apantysnatcher

Jan 2, 2016, 9:49 AM

Yes, we all were first timers at one point. I had my first time with I was in the 8th grade. Same year I have my first pussy. Went str8 for years till I was 60 before I acted on my desires to be with a man. My first as with a man my age. Loved it. I was oral only for the longest time. Now with the right man I enjoy all sex.

Hypersexual11

Jan 2, 2016, 10:04 AM

I've become quite skilled at calming the newbs. I remember the fear, self loathing, and excitement, all competing for your sanity. One thing for sure, once that hardon pokes out finally, it usually takes about 5 seconds to get it spewing. Newbs come really fast lol.

I look at the personals every day, because I have no life and lots of time. There is this one guy who has put an ad in every day for the last 5 years or so. He tries to change it up but if you read enough of his ads, it's obvious. Last week he put in an ad with the heading "virgin first time, be gentle" gawd.

whistle1

Jan 2, 2016, 12:33 PM

i'm 1 of the 1st timers here......i've got my ideas of what i wanna experiance but when it comes down to it & i'm finally alone with a guy who knows? i know i'm not gonna get abusive but i might just freak out about facing acceptance of doing it & even liking it. though i have been bicurious for so long i think i would feel relieve more than anything. just to get it over with & move on whether i like it or not. this is why the right guy would be so important for me. 1 who would be patient & understanding & able to deal with my confusion. no offence u don't sound like the right guy for me at least the 1st guy. but ur being honest which i appreciate & respect. plus u have thought this through. i can see how ur concerned a person's 1st time can be confusing & maybe even scary. u have gotta know what ur getting into. i plan to be as honest & open about my feelings, expectations etc. as i can. i know not every guy will be for me & i know i won't be for every guy but i think as long as ur honest & open both can make a good decision to move forward or not.

I can totally relate to this. I have not acted on my curiosity (and don't know if I ever will), but I often wonder how I would act if I ever did. Maybe I would be into it. Maybe I would be neutral. Maybe I would freak out and have to leave. If I ever did act on it, I would certainly appreciate being with someone who would understand that I'm inexperienced, proceed at my pace and respect my boundaries. As far as what others have to say about you taking so much time to act...it is your life. You can do (or not do) whatever you please. Some people are content with the fantasy - and there is nothing wrong with that...

DownBoy

Jan 5, 2016, 10:43 PM

I rocked it my first time with a man. I sucked his cock till it got hard and filled with pre-cum and he fucked me until he shot a big load in my ass. I wasn't nervous at all, and the experience felt natural.

I met a first-timer top at a bookstore. He was jacking off, and I told him I wanted to suck his cock. So I got on my knees for him and he shot a big load in my mouth within minutes lmao.

The trick to being a good first-timer is not admitting that you're a first timer. I wouldn't really hook-up with a first-timer top if they said it, but in that case he was already all worked up, he was kinda cute with his long beard and shaved head, and it didn't take me long to make him cum.

PLATO

Jan 12, 2016, 4:13 PM

Hello,

Hello,

I use to mow lawns in the summer while in Jr High, 7th grade, and this older gent would play with me in his garage.
Had my first taste of pussy that summer as well. Did both my entire life - after getting married,having two kids, normal life. Found a couple of ass eaters and loved getting sucked on the side.
let me know if you'd like to hear more.
fan in Seattle.

Rvdude05

Mar 30, 2022, 2:12 PM

I was a first time, years ago. I met a man on squirt.org and invited him to my place. When he arrived, I was a nervous wreck. We sat on the couch and I told him I felt like a young schoolgirl, excited and very nervous. He was older and very gentle, and started talking about his first time and how easy it was. I relaxed, and he very gently reached over and rubbed my cock. Tell me when it feels good, he said. Oh its feeling good already, I replied. Let's undress, he said as he removed his clothes. I watched closely, and his hard cock sprang into view. Don't be embarrassed, he said, I've seen cocks before. Soon we were both naked on the couch. He was very gentle playing with my hard cock, the pre-cum was flowing. He lowered his head and took me in his mouth. I was ready to cum when he stopped, and asked if I could be as gentle with his cock. I lowered my head and took his hard cock into my mouth. It tasted very sweet I told him, and he replied it's the pre-cum. Oh yes, he moaned, that's it, swirl your tongue around the head, and suck. I will fill you mouth with sweet man juice. I did as he asked, and he grabbed my head, pushing his cock deeper into my mouth and I felt him stiffen, and squirt his warm cum into my mouth. Swallow it, he moaned. I swallowed as fast as I could, but some dribbled out onto my face & chin. He licked it off. Clean my cock with your mouth now. And I sucked and licked until his cock was clean. He moved me into a 69 position, now I'm going to suck you dry, he said. I felt his warm mouth around my cock, sucking and swirlng around my cock. It felt wonderful, and I couldn't hold back, I came until I could cum no more. He drained me, and cleaned me with his mouth and tongue. He got hard again and told me that when he came this time, it was going in my man pussy. I sucked him slowly, until he got up, turned me around, put his cock against my hole, and I felt his slippery head enter my ass. He pushed deeper, throbbing now & fucking harder I felt several squirts inside and he was moaning loudly. We spent the afternoon enjoying each other. I told him afterwards that I enjoyed everything, and he told me no problem, we will meet again and it will be beautiful each time. It's been 10 years since, and we're still going strong....

KDaddy23

Mar 30, 2022, 4:16 PM

First-timers have always given me cause for both caution and concern, which is why I will take as much time as I think is necessary to get into a first-timer's head to see if it's in my idea of a right place. I want to know why they want to make such a life-changing step; I want to know what they've done - if anything; some guys "fooled around" when younger but act like it didn't count or mean anything but it really does. I'll even try to talk them out of it by telling them the real-deal problems I've run into. If a first-timer can get past this and I feel that he can handle it, he gets one more chance to "walk away" from this; it tests the guy's resolve and his confidence. I'm not "satisfied" with responses like, "I think I'll be okay with it" or stuff like that because I learned the hard way how a guy will say that... and the results were a disaster, either immediately or as soon as the next day or so.

Everyone has a first time in this. I guess being able to give a guy his first time will allow him to learn how to be bisexual "the right way" and not be an asshole about things. If we have sex, I don't expect him to do anything more than he thinks he can do; whatever happens isn't about me or what I want but I do want him to have this experience, get through it okay, and then be okay going foward.

jjourneyman

Mar 30, 2022, 4:38 PM

First and foremost, we were all "newbies" at one time. I was so young my first time, I didn't even think about it. I just saw a really nice cock and went for it, with no hesitation or real thought as to the consequences. As I got older, and would take a break from time to time, when I would jump back onto the pole, I had a lot of the same emotions and concerns... Is this guy clean? Is he here to rob or beat me? etc. Later, as my experience shifted from being an exclusive bottom to switch or top, I found that most of my partners were the ones who were nervous. I always try and put people at ease, usually with small talk. I think a lot of guys are serious and legitimately curious about sucking or getting fucked, but are too afraid to act on it.

I honestly love having a newbie suck my cock because it gives me a chance to test their limits and show them how enjoyable it can be.

chongster

Mar 30, 2022, 5:03 PM

My first time was with another first timer. It was really hot for awhile we were sucking and in 69 I wanted it to last forever! He told me he wanted me to fuck him, I was so turned on at the time I would have done anything. I put on a condom and lubed us both up, when I got the head of my cock in him he said it hurt to bad. Damn he was tight! I wanted to fuck him bad but I took it out and rolled him over to suck his cock some more but he went limp and lost all interest, got dressed and left.
So it was so hot for me I wanted more. He removed his profile and that was that. That was my only first timer but I've had plenty of "no shows" who were probably first timers

Jozyxt

Mar 30, 2022, 10:37 PM

My first time was with another first timer.

LOL Mine too.

I had been feeding for a while, so I was comfortable with the "game" as I call it and wanting to start sucking. I answered an ad on A4A. We clicked over a few email exchanges. He had never sucked or let a guy suck him. We agreed to meet at a motel, and I got the room.

He finally came in and was hesitant. So I told him to just undress. I did an laid down on the be. He laid down facing em and asked me what to do. I said that we were men and this wasn't a date so no foreplay was required I am not much into kissing. Then said he should turn around. so he turned his back to me. LOL Then I said in a 69 position and when he did I started sucking my first cock.

He is younger that I am and got hard right away. He started sucking me too. I worked hard but couldn't get him to cum so I relaxed and let him finish me. The first spurt of my cum hit his mouth and he jerked his head back. After I finished my orgasm I tried again to get him off, but he wouldn't cum. So I asked him to help and he couldn't make himself cum either. I was very disappointed as I really wanted mu first taste of another man's cum from that cock.

He gave me half the money for the room and we agreed to try it again soon. He stayed active on A4A but would never agree to get together with me again.

I still want to taste his cum and would suck him again if he would.

My comfort from starting as a feeder and experiencing several different cocksuckers (gus that came to my house and just dropped to there knees to suck me) made it a whole lot easier to finally take the plunge so i guess I wasn't a complete newbie.

Veryoralniceguy

Mar 31, 2022, 6:26 AM

I always hear comments after I give first timers a blowjob about how good it was, but they could never suck another guys cock. Some ask if I really like sucking cocks, like they can’t believe anyone would enjoy it. Many of these same guys eventually decide to try it and some stop midway thru and others finish and taste my cum. A lot seem to be scared about how cum will taste.

Neonaught

Mar 31, 2022, 11:24 AM

I don't mind mentoring as long as the guy allows himself to be led and doesn't get pushy or demanding. We all started somewhere and at some point needed to be shown the way.

Footstep40

Mar 31, 2022, 2:02 PM

Fell in love with a first timer. He was recently divorced after 20 some years of marriage, finally had the nerve to tell his ex he was gay, and she was banging their neighbor.
We had a lot of fun in and out of the bedroom, and on the couch, the kitchen, out camping… he was certainly happy to be free and looking to live out years of fantasies!

willingcumdump

Mar 31, 2022, 2:41 PM

I would say I’m still a first timer. I’ve only been with two guys. One in high school and the other in my late 20s. Met him in a chat room and he came over while my wife was at work. He was in his mid 40s. I was really nervous and thought about not answering the door. I’m so glad I did. He gave me the best blowjob I ever had. He deep throated the entire time. I’m really eager to find a local buddy to meet with regularly. I met a guy in another chat room who lives really close to my house. Haven’t been able to find him again but I think he would be a good match. I miss playing with guys.

csreef

Mar 31, 2022, 6:07 PM

One day I'll have someone for their first time. . .:rolleyes:

Roxxi

Apr 1, 2022, 2:58 AM

I enjoy being the first male to suck another guys cock. Many first timers have told me that it far exceeded their expectations. Many of them want to know when I am available again!

guywholikesboth

Apr 2, 2022, 10:55 AM

Since I was young I have had many first timers I love when I ask them to suck my cock and they return the favor

licyou69

Apr 2, 2022, 11:56 AM

1st timer here really just looking to give but not receive. My issue is pulling the trigger to get a cock in front of me, because I don't trust whoever I might be getting involved with. I have no doubt though if on my knees with a cock in front of me, I'll suck and swallow just fine.

tongueteaser

Apr 2, 2022, 3:35 PM

Its not good to be new or newer as I myself only sucked one married guy. I searched a few times for another guy with a bigger package and one that gets hard and not semi hard. I am honest and posted ads that I am seeking a second time and someone that does not have ED issues. I get the same asshole replies from same few guys that are having sex with dozens of guys and dont care. So I posted for a newer guy or little experienced and they flag or spam my posting. They are a bunch of used up has been idiots out there. Its hard to find a new curious guy for an ongoing thing it seems. I know there has to be newbies starting out or guys that just want one steady partner to feel safe with

Pete2014

Apr 2, 2022, 7:16 PM

Well said ml830. I feel I am the same. I am always nervous. Each time is nerve racking. I don?t want to disappoint, don?t want to meet an ass. Just want to enjoy another man

yearning2spread

May 12, 2022, 12:30 AM

This discussion reminds me of my first time hooking up with a girl. I was 19 years old--a late bloomer if you will--and visiting a co-ed's dorm room. She was wearing Daisy Duke shorts and somehow I started rubbing the inside of her thighs--her skin was so smooth! Before long she unbuckled my jeans, grabbed my cock and started stroking me. I came so fast. She wanted to cuddle, but I didn't want her roommate to find us in bed together and quickly fled the scene in a state of near panic. LOL. She must have felt humiliated because she avoided me for the rest of my time there.

Bear816

May 12, 2022, 4:28 AM

I know we were all first timers at some time in our lives but wouldn't want to be with a first timer. All the possible things that could go wrong start flooding my brain. The last think I want is some guy totally freaking out on me. Not that I can't handle myself but more the feeling of being the responsible party.

licyou69

May 12, 2022, 8:58 AM

I'm a newbie that's all in and ready to go, but want someone clean and mostly inexperienced like myself. Trying to sort through all of the players obviously pretending to be inexperienced makes it difficult.

marine20

May 12, 2022, 12:19 PM

a newbie doesn't bother me . i don't have men come to my house anyway , unless they are fb's. i have had newbies in video booths and bathhouses . i go slow with them and we both have a real good time.

Neonaught

May 13, 2022, 2:06 PM

A first timer who wants to be with someone more experienced and is willing to be led and follow instructions is fine with me. The one's who won't do any of the above and are singlemindedly pursuing the same experiences they saw in porn and are pushy, demanding and won't listen or take correction is an entire different matter. No thank you.

Grant_Norman

May 13, 2022, 3:40 PM

The first timers I've been with have been fine. As long as I make them cum nice and they have a good experience, it really doesn't matter to me. I have found they can't really hold back their load long and usually cum in 30 seconds to 2 minutes.

Grant

loves oral

May 13, 2022, 4:15 PM

Tight1-4u

May 13, 2022, 5:43 PM

first timers are just like any of the rest of us.. I over the years have been with quite a few first timers.. think of your first time.. I try very hard to go out of my way to talk and explain and answer all questions before hand.. spend some extra time talking our way through what is going to happen.. I have only ever had like two bad experiences..

KDaddy23

May 13, 2022, 6:08 PM

All of us have been first timers. I remember what that was like for me and I'll never forget it. As such, I understand what it's like for that guy looking to have his first experience in this and I do take care to make sure that their first experience is a good one because I've seen what happens with first timers when it doesn't go well... and no one should have to experience this like that. I like first timers because I get to... teach, for lack of a better word. Having sex with them is amazing and not just because we're having sex but because they had the courage to go for it when most guys would be shitting their pants and running away in fear.

If there is a downside to a first timer, it's that some guys just can't handle it; they can't resolve the conflicts in their mind that appear and that's never a good thing and if I dig around in a guy and see this, well, I won't have sex with them and will tell them to not do it until they can get their head around it. Otherwise, first timers don't bother me at all... because we all have a first time and we'd do well to always remember that when dealing with a first timer.

KDaddy23

May 13, 2022, 6:15 PM

I'd rather not. I know some guys really get off on the thought of being with a first timer, I'm just not interested in teaching. Too many things come up. Most haven't thought out if they are going to have you cum in their mouth or not so them you have to figure that out. It seems like it's either they cum in 2 minutes or are nervous and can't cum. The ones that cum real quick seem to be done right after they cum. Guilt gets to them and they no show.

I understand what you're saying. One of the funniest things I've experienced with a first timer is when they suck my dick, I'm about to cum and tell them that I am... and how surprised they look when it happens and I've had to say to them, "What did you think was going to happen if you kept sucking me... and didn't I tell you what was gonna happen if you didn't stop?"

Yeah... some guys. But I get it. In my first time, the man didn't tell me that he was going to cum and I had no idea about that to begin with. I'm sure that I got that look on my face to suddenly find my mouth full of cum. But what it also did was teach me that, yeah, it's better to "teach" a first timer about what he's about to get himself into because the outcome can be better than leaving them ignorant or with misconceptions that might do more harm to them than getting a mouthful of cum. I guess I'm just more tolerant and I do care that they have a good first time with me or whoever they eventually have it with.

plainguy

May 13, 2022, 8:14 PM

I am a first timer and would really like to try sucking a cock and swallowing.

Kip2june

May 14, 2022, 1:00 PM

Have Jerked off with a guy a couple of years ago, and he came on me. I really want to suck a cock and swallow cum, but it is hard to pull the trigger. I want to find the right guy to do it, but it is hard to trust someone that you don't know. Hoping to try next week when I am away from home in a hotel, but again it is just so difficult to find a guy to JO with who will let me try sucking if I am into it.

tongueteaser

May 14, 2022, 2:06 PM

I enjoy being the first male to suck another guys cock. Many first timers have told me that it far exceeded their expectations. Many of them want to know when I am available again!

Very Nice! I like am new myself. I was nervous as hell to actually meet a guy the first time to suck his cock. It was just like weird feeling to meet a guy and not a girl. I was actually so nervous that I was shaking. He understood as he was new also. We talked a few minutes just like friends and it calmed me down. He said go ahead and play with his cock. I went right at it and staring at it and caressing the head. I could not wait any longer and suddenly I needed that cock in my mouth. Oh boy the taste of cock flesh and feel. I swirled my tongue around the head as I sucked on him. I think I sucked for like three minutes maybe and he arched up and squirted cum all in me. I have always wanted more first timers to suck their cocks.