Would you have a threesome with your wife/girlfriend?

[bisexycouple16]

Needing advice here. I spilled the secret of having bisexual interests to my wife about two years ago. I told her about my experiences I had prior to meeting her. Basically I have only had oral sex, both have given and have received and yes, have swallowed. I really enjoy sucking a nice penis. I've blown four different guys, 2 of which was in a threesome with their girlfriends involved. Those were the hottest experiences I've ever had and enjoyed them so much I'd like to experience it again. My wife, who is usually a little shy on the sex stuff, has taken great interest and supports by desire to mess around with another man, so much so that she brought up the idea of having a threesome with a bisexual man about a year ago. We have talked about the idea since. Understand that she wants to be totally involved in this, sucking cock with me and her and the other sucking mine, plus having us both pleasure her orally and having intercourse with us both. I feel grateful that she is so supportive, but don't know how I'll feel performing in front of her and having another man perform on her. The thought drives me nuts, but in reality, I think it will be awkward at first. We have an understanding that we'll only play together and that works for us. Has anyone had similar feelings, and can any couples give us some advice to consider as we try to explore this together. Also where is the best place for us to find a candidate to do this with. We have no clubs around as we are in a rural area, so online stuff will have to be our avenue to find someone. Any input will be appreciated. Thanks in advance.

[NakedInSeattle]

A year ago and it hasn't happened yet? What's the matter with you? And another man having her is hot as hell...you'll both love it!

[rgscott501]

It is awesome. My ex and I used to have straight 3-somes all the time. I loved watching her with another man and when both me and the other guy would pay her all the attention she couldn't get enough.

[SilkyHoseLover]

I've been involved in several MFM threesomes, some MFMF foursomes and some scenarios could be described as MMF. We started out with straight play and I eventually started to test out the bisexual waters, and wanted to jump in the deep end right away, but my wife tended to keep my in water wings... In other words, I think my evolving sexuality may have frightened her a little, and she told me that she no longer wanted to participate.

But I loved every minute of our adventures! It was so hot seeing her with another man - if we could go back to it tonight, I'd be there in a heartbeat!!

[xp243]

I have came out to my wife about 6 months ago married to her for over 25yrs an I told her I would never cheat on her and the only way I would have sex with another man if we would have a 3way but she is not into it. So I would try it at least once to how it is and if you don't like don't do it again

[Neonaught]

When we first started out we had our first MFM threesome with a straight guy. He had a gorgeous cock but afterwards she was disappointed I had been left mostly just watching. We discussed it and decided to only have bi threesomes on that point on and it has worked well for us. We really love to see each other in action with others an this has allowed no one to be left disappointed. I HIGHLY recommend open discussion and setting a few ground rules a the outset!

[charles-smythe]

Needing advice here. I spilled the secret of having bisexual interests to my wife about two years ago. I told her about my experiences I had prior to meeting her. Basically I have only had oral sex, both have given and have received and yes, have swallowed. I really enjoy sucking a nice penis. I've blown four different guys, 2 of which was in a threesome with their girlfriends involved. Those were the hottest experiences I've ever had and enjoyed them so much I'd like to experience it again. My wife, who is usually a little shy on the sex stuff, has taken great interest and supports by desire to mess around with another man, so much so that she brought up the idea of having a threesome with a bisexual man about a year ago. We have talked about the idea since. Understand that she wants to be totally involved in this, sucking cock with me and her and the other sucking mine, plus having us both pleasure her orally and having intercourse with us both. I feel grateful that she is so supportive, but don't know how I'll feel performing in front of her and having another man perform on her. The thought drives me nuts, but in reality, I think it will be awkward at first. We have an understanding that we'll only play together and that works for us. Has anyone had similar feelings, and can any couples give us some advice to consider as we try to explore this together. Also where is the best place for us to find a candidate to do this with. We have no clubs around as we are in a rural area, so online stuff will have to be our avenue to find someone. Any input will be appreciated. Thanks in advance.
...I'm like the other guy...what the hell are you waiting on?

[DomBot61]

I would. However, my wife would not! We've already discussed it. I've learned, from experience, that I prefer one-with-one sex. Should I find myself in a three-some, I tend to focus on one lover and ignore the other.

[sysper]

that's kinda what i'm afraid would happen....especially if it turned out i was the 1 that was ignored! but it wouldn't stop me from trying it out to see :)

[man4girlgirl4man]

Oh yeah!! With a hot woman or with a cute black man with a 10 inch thick dick. I'd love to do both but never have done either - yet...

[Moxy1]

My wife loves to watch gay sex and has told me a few times how she would love to see my cock worshipped by another guy as well, she also thought that seeing a cock in my beefy bum would turn her on big time. As much as this turns me on, I have been somehow reluctant to explore it as I can't predict how she'd feel about me afterwards. I do have a lot of gay/bisexual fantasies myself, however, my only gay experiences were in gay saunas in London where I was sucked off and rubbed my cock against another guy's cock but no penetration. I had a great experience though with a hot shemale escort (I was so turned on by the boobs and cock), and My God it was amazing to fuck and be fucked. I wish I could share cock and boobs with my wife

[nikkijones]

I too just told my wife, 6 months ago about my bisexual desires.. I have been feeling this for a long time, years.. I finally got up the balls to tell her about it. I want to share another hot guy with her so bad, I want to enjoy his cock with her and receive anal from him after5 watching him have intercourse with her. the though of it drives me extremely crazy and it seems to excite her as well fantasizing about it, watching it and thinking about it. We have had the best sex we have EVER had since this has come to light, but I feel even though she seems to be turned on about it, she still is understandably unsure of actually physically doing it. I have let her give me anal with a strap on and have sucked on it with her making me do it, and it was so hot, she definitely enjoyed that for sure as I could hear her excitement as she forcefully entered me. I too would love to get some advice on how to go about actually making this fantasy of my wife and I enjoying another hot guy come to light!

[xxxcjs]

This is my biggest fantasy , but proving almost impossible to make happen .

[Mrpumpcock]

That's great that she is so supportive and turned on by your confession, but ask yourself this....would if it was the other way around (fmf) wouldn't you want to bang the other woman too? I would. She is willing to accomadate your fantasy shouldn't you want to accommodate hers? My ex-wife wouldn't let me fuck the other woman, only she was aloud to fuck her, I could only watch and jerkoff witch I felt that we had come along way at that point. I could understand her position and yours, but you guys are a team and be glad you 2 can be this honst with each other.

[OlderBC1]

We did a threesome for awhile back in our 20's. Buddy next door. We sucked each other's cocks & both fucked my wife, but he made sure I was the first one to fuck her cute little butt. He could really suck cock wonderfully. We were in the big garage working on my Cobra mustang once, under the rear, each of us facing the other's groin. We had to tighten bolts on opposite ends of something? Anyway, he mentioned we could suck each other off in that position. So I put down my wrench, unzipped his jeans, Pulled them down enough to suck his cock, & then he mine. Stuff like that was great in terms of male bonding. We got tight as three people sharing love equally & freely...

[bi4asplay]

My late wife got me started playing with other guys and using toys i my ass. She would often get off seeing a man in me and helping me suck him and sharing his cum.

[lucky.cucky]

Yes, we have enjoyed several threesomes of FMF, MFM, and MMF. All of them were a lot of fun. As you mention in your post, it can feel awkward at first. But very soon all people naturally become excited and more involved in the pleasures. It is wonderful that you and your wife can be so open and honest with each other about your deepest and most personal feelings. My wife and I find that with that extraordinary level of intimacy - all other issues in our marriage seem to fall into line…such as money issues, etc. An additional great benefit.


If you have already sucked a few cocks, and swallowed some cum, and told your wife about it, there is no need for you to be shy with your wife…your life partner, right? It sounds like she is really into this already and therefore you both will enjoy adding cream pie eating to your repertoire most likely. You may have some awkward feelings of jealousy and such when you first see another man stick his cock into “your wife” :girl:, but those feels are soon replaced by more pleasurable feelings than you ever imagined by seeing her pleasured so well by both you and your (plural) new boyfriend. Google the word “Compersion” for more good info on this matter.


As for the issue of where to meet someone. There are several opportunities. The 2 main ones being online or in person. Just be careful where you meet and who you meet with. Go with your gut feelings…if it feels bad it probably is bad. Having said that, we have had good luck at some clubs near to colleges or military bases where there are a lot of males and only a few females. Make it a nice weekend get-a-way for the wife by getting a nice hotel room, and give her flowers candles, wine, etc. Some men we have contacted online first, and sometimes my wife will just dress sexy, then flirt and dance with some men at a club until she picks a good one for us to enjoy with. I will come along later and join her and her new friend once she puts out the bait…so to speak, lol. Even when we walk in together, the way my wife is dressed so sexy is a signal to some smart guy that we are out to play and soon she is dancing with a nice gentleman. Sometimes when she is feeling especially randy, she will go sans bra & panty which heightens her arousal greatly.


So good luck to you all. Relax, enjoy, be careful, go slow and don’t do anything until you are comfortable with that step. But definitely start now to have fun. You control the situation so that you only do what you are comfortable with. Why wait?

[nikkijones]

For me, im not interested in having another woman, although if she wanted it I wouldn't say no lol. But my fantasy is for my wife and I and another hot guy.. I have no issues with her enjoying sex with the other guy as well. To the fullest, with whatever boundaries we set of course. But at this point in my life, those are the fantasies I have, Playing sexually with a hot guy, with my wife, both of us enjoying him, and him enjoying us, I think it would be amazing.. I wish all the best luck and happiness to you all and hope you all can enjoy your fantasies with this as well!

[altimer23]

my ex was fucking a latino guy in nyc for a few months, she told me he was bi and wanted a threesome with me involved, she said u do realize ur gonna have to suck his dick? i said, you can help me. she broke it off with him before we got the chance to do it. but i did to a threesome with a friend and his gf. after he fucked her, i went down on her, he says, u know i just fucked her? i said, is that why she tastes like that?

[OlderBC1]

That's like those threesom's we were doing back in the day. The first time, I was licking her furry young pussy, & brought my head up to see his semi-erect cock in my face. I licked the underside of that mushroom head of his, then sucked it into my mouth. It felt so natural, I really sucked on it but good! He fucked my wife & came in her pussy. Then she pulled my head down to her fur covered love hole, & made me suck & lick his cum out of her! That was erotic & tasty...

[Biintraining]

I have don this and was a lot of fun. It was a lot more to see then you expect. Because it is right there and hard not to interact with all involved. Once you cross the line it is easy to serenader and enjoy. If any one is the julus time don't try it you will not be happy.

[OlderBC1]

It just seemed natural to suck a close friend's cock. But had to learn to swallow faster when he blew his load in my mouth.

[cuttin2dachase]

I had many 3somes with my 1st wife and other bi men, so yes I would do it again in a heartbeat with a gf. I never plan to marry again, but if I did, I'd enjoy sharing her with other bi men. Therein lies the rub. I am 62 and there are no woman near my age who would be into the kinky stuff and also accept my bi side. I'll keep looking for my personal unicorn, though :) For now I have several bfs with whom I can enjoy mmm 3somes with other men.

[man4girlgirl4man]

i would love to...

[Waylon]

Wifey does not play anymore but I have a very hot (and sexually liberated) girlfriend who is open to just about anything. When I told her I was bi and enjoyed giving certain men oral pleasure she said she would get very turned on by watching, and if things were cool, would play too. When wifey was out of town, I invited a friend over and when she greeted him at the door in a tight short, low-cut red dress, the game was on. He took off his pants and came over to me and I started sucking him off. I told "Patty" to take off her dress and she sat on the couch and started playing with her pussy. He pulled out of my mouth and I told Patty to come over, kneel down and blow me, then told her to blow him. He was having the time of his life as we each took turns sucking his cock. Patty went back to the couch, continued playing with herself, getting really hot while I finished blowing him. When he came, I turned my head to Patty, opened my mouth to show her the cum and then gulped it down. She was very excited and when he left, she gave me a toe-curling blow job like never before and when I shot my load, she held it in her mouth and snowballed it back to me. All in all, it was a very hot threesome of fun.

[doorman2107]

I began dating my GF about a year ago and I told by our second date that I was Bi. She told me that she was also Bi. We talked about it and decided after much discussion that we both wanted to participate in a couple of threesomes as well as try out a couple of Swingers clubs in Austin. She told me that she would love to watch me suck another guys cock. While perusing Craigslist we found a guy that was looking to hook up with a couple like us. So after a couple of emails he came over. After a couple of cocktails to loosen up I pulled out his 8" cut cock and began sucking it. I looked over to see her playing with herself while watching us. I then got up and took her by the hand and he and I escorted her to the bedroom where we undressed her and crawled on the bed. I then continued to suck his cock and she joined in. After both of us taking turns sucking his cock, I told her to get into the doggie position and I 69'd her while he fucked her sweet shaved pussy. I would alternately lick her clit and his shaft while he was fucking her. After awhile I got out from underneath her to watch him fuck her good. He turned her over and started fucking her again, when he was about to cum he pulled out and came on her stomach. I then leaned over and licked the cum from her stomach swallowing some of it and gave her the rest. He then got dressed and left with her and I feeling a nice glow.
She and I are now trying to find an attractive Bi woman to have a Threesome with her and I. I want to watch the two of them eat each other out a trib with each other. as well as the both of them taking turns sucking my cock. Any local ladies interested?

[a2smith09]

I have had Threesomes with my wife, ex wife, and a couple of girlfriends. I love them myself. My wife is bi so she is usually up for sex with another female. She gets jealous though when I gave sex with her girlfriend so it doesn't happen nearly as much as I'd like. She also finds male to make sex to be a turnoff so that doesn't happen much either. I've had much more luck with mmff couples sex with her. Now my ex wife loved to participate in and watch mmf so it was good then.

[Abovobim4mw]

Girlfriend & i had 5 mmf's win the last two years. I told her about my first experience. She was a fake tho. And has said some really hateful things. I don't regret any of it but sharing it with a liar.

[monaohio]

yes i would have a 3 some with my wife and another girl

[rodeo]

hell yea in a heartbeat

[madtownbluesman]

That is my biggest fantasy is to have a well hung stud fuck the hell out of her, just so i could lick her juices off his cock.

[mr.beaver]

I'm still trying to talk her into letting a man in our bed for us we share and both get his cock.