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Mojo52
Nov 5, 2016, 5:33 PM
At this point im still more straight than anything but i have been experiencing some out of the norm sexual urges. I see cocks and all of a sudden i get hard. The same thing happens when i see or think about cum. Im not necessarily attracted to guys but i definitely get off to watching a cock cum. Can anyone share how they handled this phase or if they even went through it. I want to push myself and try new things i just dont know how to.
Kylookin4fun
Nov 5, 2016, 6:16 PM
I finally got up the courage and met a guy wasn't sure how I woulkd react when we got naked but when we did I still can't get over how fast I was on my knees sucking his cock when I realized what I was doing all I could think about was making him cum I wanted that hot salty too so bad and when he did and I had milked and swallowed every drop had that's when I knew I was a cock sucking bottom
charman
Nov 6, 2016, 7:57 AM
I can remember all the way back to when I was 6 or 7 getting together with friends and stroking each others clocks. Start sucking cock with a friend of mine in the 3rd or 4th grade. I think he moved and I didnt have any other buddies to mess with, just fantizised about when I jacked off. Then I discovered I could suck myself off and then could only do that when I traveled after I got married. She liked porn and I always got horny as hell and wanted to suck some cock watching cock sucking scenes.
After our divorce I moved to Charlotte, NC and that is where I started meeting guys online. I remarried but I still love sucking cock and do it as much as I can, which isn't much. Really miss my fuck buddy in Charlotte.
whistle1
Nov 6, 2016, 4:49 PM
I can relate. I check out women everywhere I go. By contrast, I never notice men. I am just curious about cock.
I have never done anything about it - for various reasons...
If that is something you want to explore, you should. If you're communicating with someone online, just be sure to be a specific as possible about what you want - and what you DON"T want. You will likely have a better chance of acting on your curiosity if you feel comfortable with the other person.
Good luck.
zigzig
Nov 7, 2016, 9:08 AM
Like Tera Patrick once said a person has 2 virginities. Before I was sexual with a male I also felt I could never go the whole way. With a woman it was the same. You might feel like you aren't able to be sexual now, but once you might have an opportunity it might change.
cuttin2dachase
Nov 7, 2016, 6:11 PM
I think for many men, especially those men with above average sex drives and those who are open and adventurous, bi-curiosity is a natural progression. It represents something new, naughty, secret and exciting to think about and fantasize about. It's unfortunate that fear, guilt, shame and homophobic upbringings prevent many men from acting on their secret desires. When all is said and done, it's just sex with a same-gender human being who wants to have sex with you. I advise putting yourself out there as you are doing on this website. Try some mm websites too where you can chat with experienced men and other inexperienced men as well. There are thousands of other predominantly straight men who are experiencing the same desires, feelings and hesitation you are experiencing. But there are 100 times as many men who have acted on their desires and discovered that it feels natural and liberating to be able to enjoy sex with either gender.
bw299
Nov 10, 2016, 3:27 PM
My curiosity about cocks started when I was 13 and in the group showers with my Jr. High School teammates. I was already well into puberty, had been jacking off for some time, and was curious about other guys cocks, my cum, and theirs. Most other guys my age were either just starting pubery or not quite there yet. They had hairless cocks and ballsacks and the smoothness of them was erotic to me.
I started tasting and eventually eating my own cum; also finding out that I was able to self-suck and feel my cock throbbing in my mouth when I came. It was addicting and I wondered if other guys' cum all looked and tasted the same. That summer I found out when I got to suck my 15 year-old cousin and take his cum. Boy was it different than mine! But I still loved it. After that I had to watch myself in the group showers because I would see a cock that I particularly liked, start fantasizing about it, and grow a huge erection. In those days being bi or gay was very taboo.
I didn't try anal until I was 18. Both giving and receiving did nothing for me. Although later I found that I liked a vibrator up my ass, especially when controlled by my wife. To this day I am not turned on by anal sex, but seeing a cock cum and fantasizing about it, let alone sucking one off, gets me hard as a rock.
InkDoc
Nov 10, 2016, 7:39 PM
Well said and damn good advice about putting yourself out there. There are a helluva lot of guys out there with the same desires. I might add that when I started again enjoying m2m sex, I was nervous as hell about it and fortunate to find an experienced guy who helped get me past that. I've done the same for one or two nervous newbies. Plus, they're fun to seduce.
I think for many men, especially those men with above average sex drives and those who are open and adventurous, bi-curiosity is a natural progression. It represents something new, naughty, secret and exciting to think about and fantasize about. It's unfortunate that fear, guilt, shame and homophobic upbringings prevent many men from acting on their secret desires. When all is said and done, it's just sex with a same-gender human being who wants to have sex with you. I advise putting yourself out there as you are doing on this website. Try some mm websites too where you can chat with experienced men and other inexperienced men as well. There are thousands of other predominantly straight men who are experiencing the same desires, feelings and hesitation you are experiencing. But there are 100 times as many men who have acted on their desires and discovered that it feels natural and liberating to be able to enjoy sex with either gender.
Clancy
Mar 30, 2017, 10:39 AM
Man you are so lucky! I've been wanting to suck my own cock for some time now and I just can't I've come so close but just can't. Then that's when I got the thought of wanting to suck another guys cock and wondering what it would taste like..the dick not the cum.bit I would eat the cum too! And I also want to feel the pulsating like my girl said she can. But I need some warning when the guy cums I don't want to drown!
sysper
Apr 2, 2017, 4:46 AM
wow just gotta say, that is a great answer! but then again, kinda expect that from u. i think it's describing alot about how i feel. also makes me feel good about considering guys. kinda makes me wish i could get togather with u so u could teach me somethings in person lol.
I think for many men, especially those men with above average sex drives and those who are open and adventurous, bi-curiosity is a natural progression. It represents something new, naughty, secret and exciting to think about and fantasize about. It's unfortunate that fear, guilt, shame and homophobic upbringings prevent many men from acting on their secret desires. When all is said and done, it's just sex with a same-gender human being who wants to have sex with you. I advise putting yourself out there as you are doing on this website. Try some mm websites too where you can chat with experienced men and other inexperienced men as well. There are thousands of other predominantly straight men who are experiencing the same desires, feelings and hesitation you are experiencing. But there are 100 times as many men who have acted on their desires and discovered that it feels natural and liberating to be able to enjoy sex with either gender.
csreef
Apr 2, 2017, 7:49 PM
I was lucky In that I was dating a nurse who , in addition to being Bisexual, was a Swinger... She told me to explore my sexuality, as not to have any regrets later in life...I took her advise, and I am happy that I did....Being fully Bisexual has balanced out my life in so many ways...:bibounce::flag3:
sysper
Apr 2, 2017, 8:17 PM
i need to be reminded of this too from time to time. even though it's not too late for me to try i still wish i had the courage to go for it when i was younger. i'd probably be under a little less stress now wondering what if?
I was lucky In that I was dating a nurse who , in addition to being Bisexual, was a Swinger... She told me to explore my sexuality, as not to have any regrets later in life...I took her advise, and I am happy that I did....Being fully Bisexual has balanced out my life in so many ways...:bibounce::flag3: