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borntosuckcock
Jun 6, 2017, 2:15 PM
I have always been a submissive cocksucker, but in my professional life and with females, I've always been dominate. I get so hot when a guy shoves me to my knees and forces his cock in my mouth and down my throat. I get so turned on, I usually try to resist a little to feel his power. Have any of you experienced the same submissive desires? I especially get off from verbal comments and insults.

thatcher29
Jun 6, 2017, 4:55 PM
I'm usually into pretty equal sex--I blow you and you blow me. But the one time I bottomed it seemed to bring out the submissive in me. It wasn't as much sexual as it was psychological. I was blissed out saying "fuck me" over and over. It surprised the hell out of me and made me wonder if I was a latent submissive.

softheart
Jun 6, 2017, 6:30 PM
For some reason, I'm as dominant as they come with females, but with men I'm submissive. But if I meet a guy I really like and he comes on to me, I'm pretty well emotionally defenseless. I like to be courted, and I like men who will take their time with me. I'm not one to just hop in the sack unless that's what I'm looking for.

In bed I'm a bottom, face up or face down, but can be versatile if my partner wants me to be. It's all about making him happy enough to want to stay in a relationship with me.

max617
Jun 6, 2017, 8:01 PM
crossdressing has really brought out my submissive sissy desires......i can't wait to give myself to the right man or couple

csreef
Jun 6, 2017, 8:25 PM
Maybe being submissive helps to "Balance" yourself, emotionally and sexually... The Yin (female energy) to your Yang (Male energy).

You may want submission as a relief from the stress of daily life...

I dated a guy, who when we first started dating, I told him that I can have very "Forceful Personality", at times. He closed his eyes, slumped in his seat,

and said " I am so submissive, both Sexually and personally", and that he had a big "Daddy Fetish." When I said to him "you're a good boy, right?" he

said "yes Sir", and almost melted in his car seat...

Lil Miss Understood
Jun 6, 2017, 10:24 PM
crossdressing has really brought out my submissive sissy desires......

I totally agree...:oh:...

Asspussy302
Jun 6, 2017, 10:38 PM
I'm definitely submissive. With men or women. And I Love it

rajones
Jun 7, 2017, 5:44 AM
I am submissive with both sexes. Makes me feel good knowing I have been able to use my body in anyway to make my lover happy. I have many fetishes and like to explore them with as many people as possible. There are very few things I will not do to make my lovers happy. The only limits I have are pain and toilet stuff, other than that it is all good.

hung4you
Jun 7, 2017, 6:55 AM
Cock sucking is a very equal thing, but when it comes to me being a total bottom, I like to be man handled and submissive. Even being a little rough is a turn on. The thought that my body has the ability to make a man want to fuck me is a turn on.

buds50
Jun 7, 2017, 8:05 AM
I love to be told come here boy and suck my cock , wow I get so turned on. first time I heard it I was 11 and this guy I would go see older farmer , would be in the barn watching his wife work in the garden or whatever out the cracks in the barn wall. his over alls down jacking his cock. id show up to do odd jobs. she would say he is in the barn , id go in to see him , he said that to me I had a dry cum in my pants.wow was it hot. I had to go suck it . sometimes it dint tast to god. he would laff and say here what puss tastes like I just fucked her.id lick and suck him to a cum. god I as such a lulol

jcuck
Jun 7, 2017, 8:46 AM
i love being sub ..even with my gf when she has another cock ..i go into sub mode..like to be used as part of her and his enjoyment. the sub side of me always takes over..even in one of our vids..my gf..tells me put the cam down while her and her x are going at it..and signals me to come over and help..love the submissive side most.

darkeyes
Jun 7, 2017, 9:58 AM
I am in the main a sexual submissive.. it is how I have always preferred me sex... always shall... being bossed...controlled. Yet shock of me life not so long ago when a partner who knows me well even tho we had never had sex b4, and knows my preferences asked me to boss the sesh... as I say, I am anything but a dominant individual sexually, but I do admit to occasionally playing the role and controlling the sex. This girl is almost 178 cms tall to me own 155... she works out far moren than I and is a powerful gel.. so with me own slight frame it was different.. fun no doubt about that and I enjoyed it far more than I imagined I would.. she seemed to and said so..

..however a lickle perplexing and maybe insulting is that she hasn't asked for a second helping of lickle ole me:eek2: wich I put down to her being aware of a ver nice gf I have picked up recently tho maybe I am just making excuses for me own lack of allure in her eyes.. she had nev shown interest b4, but then neither had I for her even if I do have a thing for tall gels.. o well. Ther r more fish in sea as me ole gran'pa wud say weneva I was spurned in me teens:impleased... and so it proved:cutelaugh.. and I still have ver nice gf who much prefers to boss me around in sack:tongue:...

Waylon
Jun 7, 2017, 11:45 AM
I too am more dominant with a woman but more submissive with a man. I feel the act of performing fellatio is by and of itself a very submissive gesture, offering and using your mouth for the pleasure of a big hard cock. I have a "blowjob" collar for my women to wear and I enjoy putting it on for a few special men from time to time, it sort of completes the sub role for me. If my man wants to be a bit rough, use my long hair as a blowjob handle and throat fuck me, that's very enjoyable as well as verbal dirty talk too. I even had one guy who really got off when I would beg him repeatedly to cum in my throat. When I am in the submissive cocksucking mood in a big way, you can bet the man is highly pleased.

thirstyfellow
Jun 7, 2017, 11:53 AM
I think it would be interesting to explore this a bit. As males most of us were brought up with a dominant, forceful image to aspire to, whether real or imagined. That's kind of a lopsided way to be; unbalanced. I can easily see how being a sexual submissive could create a lot of healing and relieve a lot of stress that comes from living an artificially built up ethos. Might be just what the doctor ordered for a lot of us, so to speak. Intriguing.

submissivebob
Jun 7, 2017, 1:25 PM
I`ve been called "bitch" "whore" "slut".

darkeyes
Jun 7, 2017, 1:54 PM
I`ve been called "bitch" "whore" "slut".
Haven't we all darlin'... and hoor (wich is only scots for whore), cow, wee hairy (wen I was younger in me teens) and me own personal fave.. tart!

coolbreeze69
Jun 7, 2017, 3:09 PM
This may sound odd....but when a buddy came over he bear hugged me into his hypnotized sub boy! At first I told him to stop and then something came over me and wanted to let him have his way. The odd part is that he was not fat but muscular and wanted to feel his power. But on the flip side a small guy with me and I want to dominate him. Lol

man4girlgirl4man
Jun 7, 2017, 4:53 PM
I'm the same as you. I have gay sex mostly to feel like I'm the girl taking on a guy and his dick. Total bottom, I love really big dick, and I love the role reversal that makes me his slut.

borntosuckcock
Jun 7, 2017, 9:48 PM
It's kind of odd for me, I started sucking older men when I was 8 or 9, I would seek them out in restrooms and public showers and we'd meet up in their cars. Looking back, I feel like I was a predator and in control of them. Wasn't until I got older that my submissive side developed.

verkit
Jun 8, 2017, 9:27 AM
Total ALPHA male here, in business, at home and generally speaking. BUT when I have a huge cock in front of me I become a sub cocksucker....I LOVE IT

middleagedinnj
Jun 8, 2017, 9:44 AM
It's funny that since I have given in to my curiosity and began to accept my bisexuality I have become more of a submissive with other guys. I get great pleasure in feeling the heat, hardness and power of someone else's hard cock in my hands and mouth. And getting my reward of a hot delicious load and knowing I caused that pleasure is something I love. Funny how I am totally different with my wife.

whispering
Jun 8, 2017, 10:04 AM
I'm a leader and boss in business and generally with women, but when I started playing with guys I quickly went on my knees and have stayed there. I'm also a crossdresser, and once a guy strips in front of me, I'm totally his girlfriend, whether dressed or not. I love the intimacy and surrender that comes with giving pleasure to a man, and receiving his sexual power.

csreef
Jun 8, 2017, 8:19 PM
In general it take a lot of courage to be submissive.

darkeyes
Jun 8, 2017, 8:58 PM
In general it take a lot of courage to be submissive.I wouldn't say that.... not at all... more a lot of rand and lust;).

csreef
Jun 9, 2017, 1:12 AM
I`ve been called "bitch" "whore" "slut".

Interesting. . .I've always been referred to as Sir, or Master.

querty
Jun 9, 2017, 8:02 AM
I think it would be interesting to explore this a bit. As males most of us were brought up with a dominant, forceful image to aspire to, whether real or imagined. That's kind of a lopsided way to be; unbalanced. I can easily see how being a sexual submissive could create a lot of healing and relieve a lot of stress that comes from living an artificially built up ethos. Might be just what the doctor ordered for a lot of us, so to speak. Intriguing.

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Thats a really interesting view.

csreef
Jun 9, 2017, 9:14 AM
I wouldn't say that.... not at all... more a lot of rand and lust;). I'm saying that because I was involved with the world of S & M for 15 years.

darkeyes
Jun 9, 2017, 9:40 AM
I'm saying that because I was involved with the world of S & M for 15 years.I thought the comment had summat 2 do with that.. but not all submission has a lot to do with S&M.. indeed most of it doesn't. I do accept that sexual activity has risks (and I don't mean health risks) but overwhelmingly, away from the S&M scene those risks don't require much more bravery than walking down a flight of stairs.. vigilance, alertness and wariness maybe, but for most of us not bravery.

friesbaconnekkid
Jun 18, 2017, 9:53 AM
I especially like being submissive, when a third party is watching. I find it humiliating to be seen sucking a man's cock, or him fucking me. I feel good that others know I suck and take cocks in my ass. I imagine that I gain a part of the man's masculinity when I take their semen inside of me.

Curiosity Satisfied
Jun 18, 2017, 12:18 PM
I have not had a chance to be submissive in front of others yet but next weekend maybe I will in front of two guys and one woman. The woman is a sub also.

Fred_Brice
Jun 18, 2017, 1:34 PM
I have not had a chance to be submissive in front of others yet but next weekend maybe I will in front of two guys and one woman. The woman is a sub also.

How sweet it might be!

Curiosity Satisfied
Jun 18, 2017, 1:56 PM
How sweet it might be!
A friend and I are working on getting with a Dom male who has a married woman for a sub. I've blown my friend once but he is still a little nervous about bi-sex and wants a woman involved. I think it would be so hot to be submissive with a woman watching. Anyway, the woman is not available this weekend but the Dom wants to get with me later today and get things rolling.Then next weekend all four of us will get together. If I do the guys good he might let me fuck his sub woman. Wish me luck.

Fred_Brice
Jun 18, 2017, 2:52 PM
A friend and I are working on getting with a Dom male who has a married woman for a sub. I've blown my friend once but he is still a little nervous about bi-sex and wants a woman involved. I think it would be so hot to be submissive with a woman watching. Anyway, the woman is not available this weekend but the Dom wants to get with me later today and get things rolling.Then next weekend all four of us will get together. If I do the guys good he might let me fuck his sub woman. Wish me luck.

I do wish you luck!

csreef
Jun 18, 2017, 3:14 PM
A friend and I are working on getting with a Dom male who has a married woman for a sub. I've blown my friend once but he is still a little nervous about bi-sex and wants a woman involved. I think it would be so hot to be submissive with a woman watching. Anyway, the woman is not available this weekend but the Dom wants to get with me later today and get things rolling.Then next weekend all four of us will get together. If I do the guys good he might let me fuck his sub woman. Wish me luck.

Let us know how things work out :suave:

sysper
Jun 18, 2017, 8:07 PM
A friend and I are working on getting with a Dom male who has a married woman for a sub. I've blown my friend once but he is still a little nervous about bi-sex and wants a woman involved. I think it would be so hot to be submissive with a woman watching. Anyway, the woman is not available this weekend but the Dom wants to get with me later today and get things rolling.Then next weekend all four of us will get together. If I do the guys good he might let me fuck his sub woman. Wish me luck.
definately hope it works out for u & everyone else :)

LovingLingerie
Jun 19, 2017, 9:30 PM
I'm in a sexless marriage and find myself becoming more and more submissive. I haven't acted on it or told my wife. I do indulge in wearing women's lingerie and makes me feel so submissive. I want to tell my wife I would like her to peg me, but pretty sure it would not go well. I would love to submit to a bi couple of transexual. I would be putty in their hands and would feel so good to pleasure them all. I'm glad there are sites like this that keeps mr hoping. XXOO Jaime

jem_is_bi
Jun 19, 2017, 11:53 PM
I fantasize about being submissive. But, only because in those day-dreams I am made to do what I want to do. In real life, I want to be in control because I get to do what I want to do.

Southasian55
Jun 21, 2017, 11:57 AM
what does it really mean, being sexually submissive? Never understood that!

al_atlanta
Jun 23, 2017, 1:39 AM
I've always been dominant and enjoyed it, but I think more and more of being humiliated by a dom guy. Having my face slapped then fucked, having my ass belted hard then dicked hard. It's strange because I've never done anything more than suck a few guys, although I've been sucked a lot (mostly by husbands in threesomes).

rockhard123
Jun 23, 2017, 5:53 AM
same here an the fact he made me wear panties

jackbirdjay
Jun 25, 2017, 4:42 AM
crossdressing has really brought out my submissive sissy desires......i can't wait to give myself to the right man or couple
Yes dressing makes me submissive. Love being dressed up for a man's pleasure. Love it when they take charge calling me names, ordering me around. Love it when they make me beg for a fucking or make me beg to suck them. I love it when I tease them to the point of no return they just lust to use my holes. Now I need a cock

BiPaoulo69
Jun 25, 2017, 5:43 PM
That very well describes how I feel.

Cock sucking is a very equal thing, but when it comes to me being a total bottom, I like to be man handled and submissive. Even being a little rough is a turn on. The thought that my body has the ability to make a man want to fuck me is a turn on.

HaroldSaxon
Jun 27, 2017, 10:39 PM
I love a strong man who knows what he wants.

indenver_indenver
Jun 29, 2017, 5:35 PM
My partner told me it turned him on to dominate me and be in control. After about a year he got to where he signed his emails to me as CockMaster and called me CockSlave. I discovered that when his cock was all the way in my throat that I felt owned by his cock and my submissive side bloomed. He often said in his emails that he loved feeling his semen leave his body and invade mine and that his semen would make bones for my body. That way, I'd have part of him with me for a long time.

He has a girlfriend and next time she leaves town he wants me to come stay for a few days and suck his cock every time he gets the urge. BTW, his cock is a beautiful 7+ thick inches.

Also he said he wants one day when all I will have for nourishment is his semen for 24 hours. He says it will be a ritual to show my complete devotion to his cock.

ohbimale
Jul 1, 2017, 3:24 PM
I am more submissive with men and get turned on by the man I am with taking charge. I get hard and turned on.