Level of experience you look for

[Tnstr8sucker]

This question is mainly for guys who like just getting sucked off by other guys. But anyone welcome to respond.

When you look for a bj online, what types of ads prompt you to respond?
Are you more into a newer or mildly experienced sucker, or a skilled expert?

I ask this because it sounds funny, but recently it actually dawned on me that while my insatiable desire makes it feel like I don't get much, in reality I've sucked and continue to suck a lot of dick.

Once I get ahold of a cock, there is no doubt that I really know what I'm doing and love it.

I tend to prefer married or straight guys that like to hit me up for a bj every so often. I have a few regulars and am constantly on the hunt for more.

When I post or answer ads, I don't pretend to be a newbie but I also don't play up my actual experience or skill.
I'm curious if I did, would that increase my response rate?

When you're looking through ads thinking about hooking up to get a bj. Would you be more inclined to respond to a "mwm that likes a little oral play sometimes" or an "experienced cocksucker who loves to worship, and throat your cock to completion and swallow?"

Both are accurate. I'm just curious if advertising my skills would increase or decrease response.

[KDaddy23]

Good question. There are two kinds of guys - those who suck dick and those who don't. Experience level if they do just varies; guys can say whatever they can about how experienced they are at it but the proof is always in the pudding. I've had guys tell me that they're the bomb at doing it but when they get my dick in their mouth, eh, not so much; some tell me they're not that good at it and I find that they might have understated their skill (instead of calling them a liar). So when searching for a cock sucker, the only thing that matters to me is whether he sucks dick or not; you just learn that you can't put a lot of stock in what a guy might say but if he's the real-deal, you'll meet, give him your dick to suck and whatever happens after that is what it is. I know I'm very good at it since I've been doing it damned near all of my life but "good at it" depends on what the other guy thinks; maybe he's wowed, maybe he isn't but either way, i sucked his dick and now it's a matter of whether I liked sucking him or not.

If a guy says he sucks dick, we just assume that he knows what he's doing and I've learned not to have that expectation. Since I'm very good with words, I can tell you in great detail how much I love to suck cock and that might get your attention enough to check me out - but I still have to deliver and in the hope of meeting an expectation you have that I probably wouldn't know of; there's my idea of a good cock sucking and then there's your idea and they might not be the same things so it's better to just confirm that a guy's a cock sucker - then see how he handles your dick. As a cock sucker, that's pretty much all I say - I suck dick and yes, I do swallow; anyone interested will just have to show to find out how good I am at it.

[Grant_Norman]

Don't know where to advertise...if I were, of course I'd prefer experienced. But, since I'm ED and can't cum any more, I am on the cocksucker side of it. Not sure if it matters to many, but I am very experienced and love to swallow nice loads from guys...I have had several multiple loads from same guys....usually 3-5 tines, but they have all petered out....would like regulars...could suck every day....but only still have two regulars that are too far away for every day...b ut swallowing loads each day wouldn't be bad at all

[KDaddy23]

Oddly enough, some of the best blow jobs I've gotten from guys have been from guys who didn't have a whole lot of technical skill or experience - but they made up for that by being very enthusiastic. So in my mind, the only thing that really matters is the other guy's desire to suck my dick and if he gives his best effort and I can't and don't appreciate it, I need to do a head check on myself.

[Tnstr8sucker]

I'm more curious about the initial contact than the actual meet. Once we meet, you'll know it's not my first time.

I'm asking what would prompt you to respond to an ad if you wanted a bj.

While I know nothing is risk free, personally I try to find guys who only receive head. Them giving is not a deal killer but if they're into fucking I'm not interested. I realize some don't tell the truth, but I don't advertise its a deal killer. And I tried to do a pretty decent interview so to speak. So far, it's worked. I started really young and I've had a lot. I get tested regularly, and I've never had anything.

I'm just wondering if the way I answer questions would make a difference in meeting. Currently, in my opinion, I am truthful. But that's because of my interpretation. Which is probably different than how others would interpret.

For example.

Do you do this a lot?
No.
To me, I don't think it's a lot. I would think a couple or a few times a day the qualify as a lot.
But I probably do one two three times a week. Some would say that's a lot.

Have you sucked a lot of guys?
Again. What's a lot? 20? 100? 500?

I say that I'm looking for a regular. Which Probably sounds like I'm only looking for one guy to service steady. In reality, I am looking for a regular. Want to add to the other 15 or so regulars that I already have. A couple are steady weekly. The others are hit and miss, but probably average seeing me once a month. I have a few others that are 3-4 times a year, for years. But I still have what I feel like is a lot of time when I'm free and nobody is around. So I'm always looking for another regular.

When have you last done this?
A while ago.
In reality it's been 2 days. Which feels like a while for me.

So what in saying is, not purposely trying to play it down, I realize that in chat, I probably come across as a married guy who likes a little side play every once in a while.

Which is what I feel like.

But in reality, by most other people's standards, I've probably got most pornstars beat with the number of cocks I've sucked and how often i do it.

I have a couple guys that find my experience a huge turn on. They love asking me about the cocks I've sucked since I've sucked theirs last. And how many.

Others might have the opposite effect.

So I guess to ask.

Would you be more or less inclined to meet if you knew that I'm as experienced as I am?

[SilkyHoseLover]

While I'm not in the specified target group, I look at this as a pretty generic topic, as it's pertinent to most of our experiences.

I'm pretty open-minded about the other guy's level of experience. To my knowledge, I've not been with a guy who I thought was exceptionally active, which to me would be multiple partners with very little time between adventures. I think most of the guys I've enjoyed were kind of like me -- a few times a year, maybe.

But I will say that I've had enough no-show experiences that I tend to be leery of first-timers who haven't yet convinced themselves that it's ok to enjoy this activity. I'm not against 'going slow' or nurturing/making someone comfortable, but I'm fed up with guys who can't commit to meet or just 'ghost' me after I've invested a significant amount of time communicating with them.

From that standpoint, I'd prefer that there's some degree of experience, just to have some confidence that he'll show up and not leaving me holding the (my?) bag... ;)

[csreef]

You want to know what level of experience your lover has ????

Everyone has their own level. Be grateful that somebody wants to have sex with you. That is the real Magic!

[KDaddy23]

What would prompt me to respond? The other guy sucks dick and wants to be sucked usually works for me unless, if we're chatting, I start to get a bad vibe from him. Everyone has different levels of experience, from this is their first time, first time in a long time, or they've been doing it since childhood and have gotten a lot of practice. So experience is fine - we can chat about experience from now until the cows come home and your "personality" might not really reflect your level of experience but if I find you engaging, okay, sure - let's get together and experience each other and let our actions speak to level of experience. Bottom line for me is experience is good but not really required - but your level of desire to suck and be sucked means everything to me.