Curious Question - How did your Bisexual Awakening Happen?

[Basin_Bouy]

Mine happened like this ...

I was 38 (20 years ago this summer) and trolling to hookup with a guy on the old Excite.com (https://excite.com/) personals section. Contacted a guy and he was interested, and about 12 years younger. I was very open that it was my first time with a man other than childhood curiosity. Met him at a local coffee shop and we went to my place together, he had the most dreamy Australian accent! Idle chit chat for the 25 min drive, got to mine, took him to the bedroom, he undressed totally (I wasn't paying attention), I undressed to my underwear. He used my ensuite and came out after relieving himself. I was on the bed in my underwear and when he came out my jaw dropped! I remember saying out loud "where are you going to put that!" The tip of his cock was down to the middle of his knees. He climbed in beside me, took my underwear of and we talked and cuddled. He was so gentle with me! He rolled me over on my side and played with me, I was scared shitless, and he knew I was terrified and he started to dry hump me. Eventually, he had cum all over my ass. We laid there, talked, cuddled for a half hour or so. He asked me to drive him home and I did. We we got to his place, he asked me to come in but I declined. A decision I have always regretted. Never seen him again, he moved away soon after. An hour later, I was in bed making love to a BBW FWB I knew. It was that point I realized I was totally guilt free and I loved sex both

[zbi73]

I was in denial for many many years. I almost got caught masturbating to gay porn when I was in my teens which made me suppress all same sex desire. Then one day out of the blue I got propositioned by a friend over the internet for gay sex. I turned him down but was physically excited at the prospect. This awoke the desires and I went back to gay porn. This lead to fantasizing about men when I masturbated, then same sex dreams started appearing and as I always had a fascination with my anus, I started to explore it. I tried to ignore the prospect that I was bisexual, put it down to a phase, boredom perhaps, but I enjoyed it too much to ignore. Finally, I started to do sexuality tests, truthfully (no point lying to yourself, you know you're lying). The tests put me in the bisexual range, which deep down, I already knew.

[Flypaper]

I’ve shared this before, either on the forum or directly with some members. I was completely hetero for 52 years, never even fantasized other than other tits and ass. A rather forward Thai masseur helped me realize that his sensual touch was more than clinical, until it led eventually to weekly oral relief.

I’ve had a bounce in my step for this new dimension ever since: I’m 58.

[jcuck]

my awakeningwas from my gf..who liked talking dirty on phone to other guys while i licked and played with her..then it graduated to meeting other guys and I would watch her with them..and stroke and get off seeing her with others.. and eventually she lured me into playing and pleasing other guys with her..including fucklicking while she enjoyed another cock..and cleaning her up..it started some very hot scenarios for us.

[Joboo]

After handjob play with the same guy years before I was 18 and we fooled around one night five years later. I had never been attracted to him or his cock just enjoyed him jerking me. That night when I saw his much larger dick I was so turned on by his size I sucked him to completion. We continued for five years after that.

[Christopher South]

Knew when I was a young teenager. While they were all commenting in tits and pussy I was staring at cocks. Never let on though. That would be a recipe for a beating. Kept it hidden until I was 53 and then tried sex with a guy. Kicked myself for not doing it sooner.

[eager4cum]

I was 12 yo and had been blowing my best friend and he was blowing me. we did this for a few years before he moved away. I love doing this and craved his cum, could never get enough. All the time though, I still masturbated while fantasizing about tits, pussy and cocks. This was all very confusing for me until my early 30's when I finally acknowledged that I was BI. Once I gave in to this notion, everything fell into place.

[xdoorb]

I was in junior high and had a neighbor the same age who would invite me over for "sleepovers" that were really an excuse for what he called "wrestling". We didn't really know what we were doing, but I did know that "wrestling" sure felt great. Once I discovered what bisexuality was, I knew that was what I was.

[SuckNSwallow]

I was 24, and had a difficult time getting women to go out on dates. I'm attracted to women, but for men, it's mostly the cock I'm infatuated with. I used to fantasize and dress up as a girl since I was 6. I think I might be trans, but I'm pretty masculine. I was just really curious to know how it would be like with another guy, so I finally did it through Craigslist (or something similar). The guy I met was going through a divorce with another man, and wasn't particularly attractive, but he was a gentleman. I was trembling with nervousness while I was talking with him, but I really wanted to just go through with it. I asked him to lead me to his bedroom, and we went upstairs to an attic room with quite a lot of windows overlooking outside. If any voyeur was watching via binoculars, they'd have a pretty good view.

I was still trembling as I got naked, and he noticed. He grabbed my cock, and I grabbed his. It wasn't long, but it was big. He told me to lie down on my belly, and he put on his condom and put some lube in me, and came within a few minutes. I didn't really get off on it, and my ass was on fire, but I was horny like no tomorrow. He tried to make me cum by rubbing me off, but it's hard for me to cum. While he tried, I was rubbing his cock, and got him hard again. He fucked my ass for about an hour, and afterwards, I couldn't walk straight for a couple of days. I knew then, that I'd always be open to having sex with men.

[guywholikesboth]

Up until I was 18 my sex life of sucking guys off and letting them suck me. One night I took 2 friends to go Barbra's apt she opened the door in her night gown and let us in she had a pullout couch and their was Vito the guy who forced his big cock into my mouth at 13 and fucked it till he shot his load and I was hooked on cock and cum. His cock was 11 inches. She got in the bed with him so I got undressed and got in the bed I was on the left she was in the middle and Vito on the right I played with her tits and sucked on them I lifted he night gown and fingered her pussy. I was hard as a rock got on top of her and started to fuck he Vito said I don't believe you are doing this and left I fucked her for 20 min. and came in side her pussy. I then left to take the 2 friends home they didnt want to fuck her. Next day went back and fucked her again I asked if she came and said no I asked what can I do she said lick my pussy so I did she told me what to do i had her pussy juice and my cum mixed it was great. She said are u lick up your cum said yes she went wild and she came I was rock hard and fucked her again and came in her. waited about an hour and fucked her again and licked her pussy clean and she came I knew the I was Bi. Found out latter she got pregnant I was their one day and someone asked whos the father she said I know and I bet he knows Never found out if it was mine

[Realist]

Kevin_C50...while not trying to be an opinionated horse's ass, here, I feel the need to inform you that your connection with the guy was GAY, not bisexual! Your activity with the BBW was heterosexual. (I love chubby girls too, by the way)

Now, you are probably bisexual and enjoy being with both, but a bisexual relationship would involve both genders at the same time.

My very first sexual experience was with a male, thus was gay. My first sexual experience with a girl was heterosexual. When I lived with a friend and his wife, we had a bisexual relationship....see that I mean?

I've often read stories of guys telling of "bi activities", where there's only males involved...sorry, that wasn't a bi involvement, but a gay one.

It's no big deal, but it's just something that I feel is often mislabeled.

No charge for the tirade!

[bibliss]

It was a long, long process, filled with ups and downs and sideways... For the entirety of my life, I've held this deep curiosity around all things sexual. I recall becoming incredibly aroused when I found and first laid eyes upon a stack of Playboy's as a 9-year-old kid.

I've been exploring my sexuality all of my life -- and, at 58, still I explore!

For me, when I stopped being so self-referential all the time, when I just let go and got out of my own way, that's when I started to fully embrace my erotic passions with both men and women... and the sex became so much better, so much more pleasurable and fun. It became more enjoyable being with men -- and with women too.

I still have more experience with women than men overall, but I truly enjoy both genders with equal zeal, men and women alike, as sex friends...

[whistle1]

Never had a single thought about cock while I was dating women. It wasn't until I had been alone for a while that I became "cock curious". I am not attracted to men - just fantasize about cock. Have never acted on that curiosity and don't know that I ever will.

[massbear]

My first sexual experiences from around age 8-14 were homosexual. All throughout, I never thought I was gay or bi, just kind of figured it was a discovery phase all boys go through (I'm sure more have than will every admit it). Through high school, college and early adulthood, that part of me went into hibernation but would wake up every once in a while in mastubatory fantasies. In my late 30s, I decided to try sucking cock again to see if I still liked it and discovered that I did indeed! For years, I still only considered myself "bi-curious". It finally took reading other guys stories on shybi-guys for me to realize that I am truly bisexual and have been all my life. If you want to read more detailed accounts of my bisexual encounters, I have an extensive blog about it here: http://nudistbiguy.home.blog/

[zbi73]

I think an interesting question would be, would've the awakening for some, myself included, taken so long if the world was more accepting of bi/homosexuality, especially in men?

[sysper]

i can confidently say yes. at some point in my life i started to get curious, but felt guilty about it. maybe i would of started to get curious earlier in life.
I think an interesting question would be, would've the awakening for some, myself included, taken so long if the world was more accepting of bi/homosexuality, especially in men?

[BigDanFL]

You're such a slut.

[delpark]

I think an interesting question would be, would've the awakening for some, myself included, taken so long if the world was more accepting of bi/homosexuality, especially in men?

If the world was more accepting of bi/homosexuality it would not have taken me so long to accept my homosexuality.

[nu2curious]

I think men have had the short end for quite some time when it comes to this subject. A majority says " how sexy " when they see two women together pleasuring each other but many find two guys gross. Go figure !
I think it's very sexy to see woman pleasuring another woman and personally I think it's very sexy to see a guy sucking cock especially if he's being sensual in technique . I just don't make any difference between the two, it's a beautiful thing.

[csreef]

How did my Bisexual awakening happen ? One day, when I was 15, I knew, that I "wanted to feel a man's hands all over my body". I felt very conflicted, as I wanted sex with women too. 16 years later, I met a woman who said she was Bisexual, and she encouraged me to explore my Sexuality.

When I became comfortable being Bisexual, it was as if the world had opened up to me. :flag3: