View Full Version : How did you discover masturbation?
zgay73
Jan 8, 2020, 4:18 AM
Let's be honest, we all masturbate and there's nothing to be ashamed of. How did you discover this guilty pleasure?
I discovered it by myself when I was 14. How? Big Mouth, Jay, ring any bells?
KDaddy23
Jan 8, 2020, 3:20 PM
I remember the day my frenemy - the guy that was that friend I'd wind up fighting - was in my room, we were doing... something and he said, "Hey, you wanna see something?" I said yes and he yanked down his shorts and underwear and used his fingers to make his ding-dong hard! He said, "You try it!" and I did - and, wow, did that feel good! He said, "You can do it anytime but don't get caught like I did - my butt still hurts 'cause I got a beating!"
Now we're both hard and pulling on our dicks and, man, that was tiring - so we stopped and sucked each other's dick until we got that "good feeling" - orgasm, no sperm at that point. A day or so after I busted my first nut, I had a brainstorm; I went in the bathroom, pulled my dick out and started pulling on it. Got real hard, felt real good then - eureka! A whole lot of the baby-making stuff came flying out and I almost fell on my ass; I made a note to myself to sit on the toilet the next time I did this (and that was like an hour later). Of course, I had to show my frenemy; he had heard through the grapevine that I was shooting the stuff and he got to see it - he was actually mad at me because I was shooting before him even though he was a few months older than I was. He then asked, "If I suck it, will that stuff come out?"
I said, "I dunno... let's find out!" Yeah... it comes out when you suck it, too.
GayGuy04
Jan 8, 2020, 4:01 PM
I think I started when i was a teenager it felt good abd obce i did it I liked doing it
Grant_Norman
Jan 8, 2020, 4:29 PM
While I did play with my cock a bit and suck some cocks, cumming was not involved.... didn't really learn about masturbating until watching my best friend. Was really hot...he stroked it real nice for about 10 minutes and then it shot this beautiful cum...looked so good and made me so horny. My cock was not ready yet, but I tried for a few months...always enjoyed watching him...then one day on our sofa..working at it hard..I finally shot a big load. Couldn't believe how great it was...from the, was jacking it every chance I could get...surprisingly, not too many months later I fucked my first pussy...only lasted about 1 minute before I shot...was hooked...would be another couple years before I swallowed my first load, then 49 years before swallowing another...love to swallow cum now and have swallowed well over 100 loads in last several years.
csreef
Jan 8, 2020, 5:36 PM
Lets see. . . I was probably 12, it was a very warm September day, and I just felt a stirring, something I couldn't explain:rolleyes:....I went up to my room, started to take off my clothes, noticed my erection, and started rubbing it. . . The rest is history.:rolleyes:
new day
Jan 8, 2020, 6:25 PM
I think I was 13. Much like csreef, I felt a throbbing and started to touch myself. It happened quite by surprise, I had no sexual knowledge to speak of. Once it did happen, I couldn't get enough.
nu2curious
Jan 8, 2020, 7:00 PM
One time bunch of guys were shooting the bull at work so one of them came up to me and asked " do you ever jack off " ? I said " you mean there's someone who hasn't " ?
Never been afraid to tell anyone I masturbate and I enjoy it.
RisingBi
Jan 8, 2020, 11:52 PM
My best friend across the street and I started that game, "I'll show you mine if you show me yours", when we were both 8. That steadily progressed to touching, stroking, kissing, licking, sucking, and eventually putting our cockheads against each other's assholes, with a little penetration, just taking turns back-and-forth multiple times per session. This went on until we were 13. We quit just before high school started. It was so wild: we just instinctively knew how to have homosexual sex, even though we had never seen any pictures or heard anything about it. But it was that play with him that introduced me to the idea of stroking my own cock.
After that, I was straight until 30, when much more powerful bisexual feelings and fantasies started rising. The masturbation from then on became more and more and more, even while having sex with men for the next 27 years until the present. I have masturbated for incredibly long sessions looking at gay porn, continuously edging my cock for up to 36 hours once, nonstop, a few times 24 hours nonstop, and countless times fewer hours than that. Yes, I'm a gay porn addict, realize it, and quit the porn entirely (other than engaging in reading and writing in forums like this) last month. But I still masturbate. Actually, to tell you the truth, I'd rather stop masturbating and just find one or more regular fuck buddies, initially guys only while I get over a break up with my girlfriend, but perhaps eventually female fuck buddies too. If I'm horny, I just want to have actual sex. My hand is getting tired, and my cock sore. Jack
cleves
Jan 10, 2020, 2:53 PM
When I was around 11 years old, an older guy jacked on my cock to show me how good it felt. I got off but no cum.
cornholejoe
Jan 10, 2020, 5:17 PM
13 a older woman jacked me off while i finger fucked her pussy
Biwolf
Jan 10, 2020, 5:56 PM
Early teens. I used to jerk off to the topless girls that were in the newspapers over here.
buds50
Jan 11, 2020, 7:45 AM
i was 10 seduced by 30 neighbour and shared for 5 years with many older men,i learned the joys of jackingoff that first day with him ,he always showed me the things he wanted me to do to him ,he did to me first, jacking off rimming sucking kissing he did it firs to show me how good it felt, I couldn't leave that little pecker alone lol jacked till it bled, 7 dry cums that firs t8 hour experience with him and I jacked off that nite , couldn't stop cumming
Christopher South
Jan 11, 2020, 8:06 AM
I had a weird fascination with self-CBT that I would do until orgasm. Didn't know what was going on. Felt good (the CBT) until I ejaculated, then I just went on with my day.
It wasn't until I was talking to a friend and he asked if I jerked off. I didn't know what that was and he explained it. He told me it feels really good, especially if you use some cream. He suggested that I use Ben-Gay. That was a huge mistake on my part.
Bisexual765
Jan 11, 2020, 2:37 PM
I just discovered that touching my private parts feels good. I did not know it was masturbation at first. I was like 9 and I did not understand why my parents didn't want me to do this
KDaddy23
Jan 11, 2020, 2:46 PM
@Bisexual765: By the time my parents told me not to play with myself - I'd go blind, grow hair on the palms of my hand, all that crazy shit - I was happily getting myself off like it was illegal.
Curious66
Jan 12, 2020, 8:25 AM
I was 14 as well and remembering just getting these massive hard-ons all the time. I had discovered my dads porn stash so knew what jacking off was. One day before showering my dick was hard and so I started stroking it. I kept stroking and stroking and it seemed to take forever and I was about to quit. Then I started feeling different down there and I could feel something happening. Before you knew it I was shooting jizz all over the sink and mirror. I was freaking out but man did it feel good. Of course after that I couldn't keep my hands off myself.
travelingman5000
Jan 12, 2020, 10:11 AM
I learned to masturbate and had my first orgasm when I was molested by my doctor. I think I was 10.
GolfNutt
Jan 12, 2020, 10:40 AM
I remember sitting on the living room floor at an early age and rubbing my cock through my pants because, well, it felt good. My mother walked in the room, saw me, and told me to stop because it wasn't nice to do that.
Years later I was at the house of a neighborhood friend of mine. We were in our early teens and had been touching, jerking, and sucking each other's cocks for a while. One day I was in his bedroom and he said, "watch this"! He started rubbing the underside of his cock with his fingers and shortly after this white, creamy fluid started shooting out onto his thigh. I asked him what it was, he smiled at me and said, "that's cum". Many months later I was lying in bed at night stroking my cock and the feeling started to change. Soon after I had my first orgasm and was hooked on the incredible feeling.
Unfortunately at that time I had also acquired a case of rosacea which made my nose swell and become very red (that's what caused WC Field's nose to become red, not excessive drinking). I asked my mother what caused it and she gave me this disgusted look and replied, "I don't know". Shortly after my father took me aside, informed me that my red nose was caused by me "playing with myself" and that "everybody knew about it". He also told me that if I didn't stop playing with myself he was going to take me to the doctor and "get me fixed" so I couldn't do it anymore.
My father's actions changed me and stripped away all feelings of confidence and self worth. I went from an outgoing person to an introvert because I was ashamed to have anyone look at me. My grades in school went from mostly A's to failing all four years of high school. I developed a stammer which stuck with me to this very day. Some fathers are assholes.
I never stopped masturbating.
travelingman5000
Jan 12, 2020, 10:48 AM
GolfNutt, I think your father being a dick head was more damaging than me getting molested by my doctor. And that makes since, parents always have the power to do the most damage.
19biman61
Jan 12, 2020, 11:15 AM
I started when I was 11 or 12. I looked at my older brother's Playboy and Penthouse magazines and I would get an erection. Once in a while like after a shower I would tuck my cock between my legs to see what I would look like as a girl. Once or twice every school year I would fake being sick and I would spend the day all alone. I would go into my parents room and wear my mom's wig, bra, panties and stockings. I would sit on the edge of the bed and cross my legs with my hard-on in between them. My erection was out of the panties through the leg hole and one time I noticed that if I moved my legs it felt really good. It felt so good that one time I didn't stop until I shot my load. I carefully undressed, put everything away except for the cum soaked stockings that I hand washed and hid in my room until the next day when I put them back. I would masturbate like that (usually naked) until I turned eighteen and went to the local adult bookstore. I sat in the theater and a man came in, sat next to me, pulled out his cock and started stroking it. I took mine out and before I could stroke it he reached over and did it for me. I took his cock in my hand and I guess I was a little too rough when he whispered "slow down and do to mine like I'm doing to yours". I came first and he licked the cum off of his hand and fingers. When he came I licked my hand and fingers too because I thought that that was what you were supposed to do. That day I learned how to stroke my cock, to stroke another man's cock and that I like the taste of cum!
bikurinpa
Jan 12, 2020, 12:23 PM
i was 10 seduced by 30 neighbour and shared for 5 years with many older men,i learned the joys of jackingoff that first day with him ,he always showed me the things he wanted me to do to him ,he did to me first, jacking off rimming sucking kissing he did it firs to show me how good it felt, I couldn't leave that little pecker alone lol jacked till it bled, 7 dry cums that firs t8 hour experience with him and I jacked off that nite , couldn't stop cumming
Today, this would be a very stiff prison sentence for the 30 yr old!
Roxxi
Jan 12, 2020, 12:39 PM
An older kid was doing it under a bridge. It freaked me out when he shot his load!
marine20
Jan 12, 2020, 3:20 PM
I learned to masturbate and had my first orgasm when I was molested by my doctor. I think I was 10.
you will have to give us more of this story. sounds interesting.
biwmtrucker44
Jan 12, 2020, 3:38 PM
I think I was about 12. I went to visit a friend he was maybe a year or so younger then me. He had gotten a hold of his Dad's Playboys and Penthouses.As we looked at them I got hard. He said he had heard about something called masturbation and he explained it to me and asked to do it while he watched . I gave it a try and shot my first load. Been hooked ever sense. That was more then 45 years ago. It is probably why I like people watching me J/O now. Side note His mom was in the next room.
borntosuckcock
Jan 12, 2020, 6:37 PM
Was 7 or 8, just seemed to be natural, I’d climax, but no cum.
GolfNutt
Jan 12, 2020, 10:13 PM
GolfNutt, I think your father being a dick head was more damaging than me getting molested by my doctor. And that makes since, parents always have the power to do the most damage.
How old were you when that happened?
travelingman5000
Jan 13, 2020, 8:19 AM
How old were you when that happened?
I was thinking about this last night, I had said 10 in my original post but I think I was 11.
travelingman5000
Jan 13, 2020, 8:38 AM
you will have to give us more of this story. sounds interesting.
I don't know how interesting it the story is. Not much to it. I was at school and I began to have very intense stomach pains. I went to the nurses office and they called my mother to come pick me up. My regular doctor must not have been available because my mother took me to see a doctor I had never seen before. We went into the exam room to see the doctor and I explained what was wrong. At this point the pains had mostly subsided. After a bit the doctor tells my mother that he would like to examine me and that it would be best if she left the room as I might be embarrassed to let him examine me with her in the room. The doctor was old, maybe 60. After my mom leaves he takes a seat in a chair and says something like lets have a look at you, come over here and stand in front of me. He asks me to remove my shirt and starts probing around my stomach a bit with his fingers, moving lower and lower. Nest he unbuttoned my jeans and pulled my pants and underwear down. He started playing with my balls gently squeezing them and moving them around, massaging them. My cock started to stiffen and he started massaging my cock. He said something like your pains are because you are entering puberty and this is going to make them go away. He continued massaging my cock until I had a massive orgasm, my first. It did feel amazing. He cleaned me up with a tissue and asked me to get dressed. Right before I left he told me that I should not go into detail about the "exam" with my mother , being a woman she would not understand.
NerdyBiGuy
Jan 14, 2020, 9:36 PM
By accident when I was 13.
GeekonFilm
Jan 15, 2020, 3:50 PM
Totally by accident. I was naked in my parents bed, liked the feel of their soft sheets on my body. Started rubbing my dick against a pillow and it felt good, so I kept doing it until I came. I didn't really know what happened, but knew it felt good. I think I rubbed against a pillow for about the next 15 or so times before I started to stroke it myself.
Dutch3
Jan 15, 2020, 5:05 PM
I was 11 watching "Fast Times at Ridgemont High". After watching the masturbation scene with Judge Reinhold fantasizing about Phoebe Cates, I gave it a shot. I don't remember any of the details, but I do remember masturbating pretty consistently after that.
Roddmann
Jan 16, 2020, 12:00 PM
In the bathtub, laying on my stomach rubbing my cock back and forth on the tub. I knew it felt incredible but this was different. Kept rubbing and th weirdest feeling hit me whe I came. I didn’t know what happened and was quivering all over but I knew I wanted some more of it!
delpark
Jan 16, 2020, 3:50 PM
I was climbing a rope in gym class when I felt a different sensation in the groin area. Not long after that I was hanging off a ladder in the garage when I felt the same sensation as the rope climbing, only this this time I came. My new favorite activity was with the ladder until a friend showed my what masturbation was and how to do it.
imariver
Jan 17, 2020, 8:50 AM
It was right around the time I was about ten, maybe eleven. It just happened by accident. I was in bed one night and just rubbing myself when I got this really strange feeling in my groin area. Then a white fluid came out of my cock and really scared the shit out of me. After a few mote times, I got the feeling that this was not a bad thing and started doing it all the time.
SlowNEZ
Jan 17, 2020, 4:12 PM
Late cummer here: At age 16, my high school girlfriend “handed” me my first orgasm while in her house, laying on the floor, watching TV. I have not been the same since. I want to continue to make up for lost time.
happymex
Jan 18, 2020, 3:18 PM
Age 15 1964 in one of the first adult theaters in Denver.
williamg
Jan 19, 2020, 1:31 PM
I was young not sure what age. I had no pubic hair so...
Anyway my best friends 17 year old cousin came to visit one summer. He took us into my friends tree house. We sat up there as he took all of his clothes off and began to stroke his cock for us. He told us to do the same. We were mesmerized! His dick seemed so big compared to ours. We both started stroking our little cocks. The more we did, the bigger his got. Soon he came. I'd never seen it before. We both sort of came but it was just clear still. We didn't touch each other though. From that point on, my friend and I would get together and masturbate during sleep overs. Fun times!
Blmbiguy
Jan 20, 2020, 12:02 PM
I was spending the night at my best friends house. His older brother, he was 16 I think, came home from a date with his girl friend and was horny because she did not fuck him that night. My best friend and his brother shared a bedroom. We watched him stroke his cock. We ended up playing around, which included him getting my anal cherry. We stroked him some and then watched him finish himself by shooting a huge load all over himself. The next day my best friend and I did a mutual Jack off session, both of us cumming. Life was different after that night/day.
BiEli
Jan 22, 2020, 10:09 PM
I was 10 or 11, and had been experiencing serious erections for at least a year. One afternoon when my mom was gone, I was going past my sister's bathroom and saw her toweling off after a shower around her tits and across her bush. I instantly got a hard-on that wouldn't go away. She didn't see me, got dressed and went out. I took my clothes off, sat down in her shower stall and started touching my cock. It got so hard it hurt and I had huge pressure on my bladder from it. I started rubbing the tip of my dick between my forearms because they felt so smooth. My cock turned purple and the pressure became unbearable. I started pissing and it went all over my belly, down my cock and around my balls. The hot liquid felt incredible! I started rubbing the top of my cock even harder and it suddenly started jerking down really, really hard, over and over again. I was too young to cum then, but the pressure was replaced with an intense euphoria that I've never forgotten. I ran my fingers over my dick and around my balls until I was soft and exhausted. Showered off the pee, used my sister's towel to dry off, got hard again and went to my bedroom to play with my dick some more. I didn't have another orgasm then, but I was hooked. Tried again after dinner without any luck and went to sleep. Kept trying whenever I could until I had another orgasm a few days later. That time, I was able to repeat the experience shortly afterward. Eventually, I blew a load all over my arms, cock and balls. It felt so awesome I tried to share it with some of my friends, but without much luck at the time. I finally found a jerk off buddy a few years later in high school to experiment with while checking out Penthouse, Club, International and Swedish Erotica. We tried mutual j/o, oral and I let him stick his dick in me once. We shared a lot of cum;-)! Eventually, I found a girl that was as interested in sex as I was, but I've always enjoyed having sex with guys too.
Homersfield
Jan 23, 2020, 12:25 AM
i put my hand down my pants, rubbed my cock and voila!