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Jamie19
Sep 19, 2020, 11:06 AM
Ok so I put my profile on a swingers site a couple of months ago and this seems to be a recurring theme: messages from women wanting a 'threesome' where they mainly watch and masturbate while their husband fucks me. Is this cuckoldry? lol I've met three couples like this now irl. They're predominantly late thirties and early 40s, and am wondering if this is the influence of 'shemale' pornography or something.
Anyway, I'm not complaining as some of the guys are sexy and it's a safe environment in which to meet someone new. I just was curious as to what the kick was for the women. One of the couples I met the husband started to cum almost as soon as he got inside me, which might be kind of weird for the wife? I don't know. I'm still learning the etiquette of this sort of thing because tbh I hadn't been with many people until this year.
All in all I'm just glad society has moved on from the repressive sexual rules of the past, because this is pretty cool if you think about it.
Anyway, I'm rambling :) xx
rukiddingme
Sep 19, 2020, 11:12 AM
Maybe reverse cockoldry, or the wife equivalent!
Jazminedress
Sep 19, 2020, 11:25 AM
first off, holy crap you are beautifal, I can see why he last a few seconds.
But back to the other topic.I think it has more to do with the taboo of what was once considered social norms, and other things. Some women like to watch their men have sex with others, basic and simple. I think others like to watch their mighty hunter man take someone else, and another guy, TS,TG makes it even more dominating
Then I think you have some that, they don't want to see them with a cisgender female, but can be okay with anything else.
Or maybe like you said, the influx of shemale porn /CD/TG. I read somewhere, those three are the most googled porn as of last year
Jamie19
Sep 19, 2020, 11:40 AM
Thanks you :)
I think maybe the lack of 'threat' from another woman could be part of it. Though, when they see their men getting off on hitting me from the back I'm not convinced it can be that reassuring haha
You're right that there's a ton of guys now especially with a 'shemale' fetish from porn. Most of the guys I've been with have been 'straight' and a lot were only concerned that their friends didn't find out (which is kind've offensive, but whatever they still fucked).
xx
MAcpl69
Sep 19, 2020, 11:51 AM
Jamie, wow your hot!! I would love to do a 3 way with you me and my wife with all 3 of us pleasing each other.
Jazminedress
Sep 19, 2020, 11:52 AM
Thanks you :)
I think maybe the lack of 'threat' from another woman could be part of it. Though, when they see their men getting off on hitting me from the back I'm not convinced it can be that reassuring haha
You're right that there's a ton of guys now especially with a 'shemale' fetish from porn. Most of the guys I've been with have been 'straight' and a lot were only concerned that their friends didn't find out (which is kind've offensive, but whatever they still fucked).
xx
Do you ever get those guys that say hello by sending a dick pic ?
It's like "Hey, I am jeff, here is my penis"
I got rid of instagram because it was like an hourly thing, not even a hello, just, here it is. Maybe we are in the middle of a sexual revolution like the 70's again
Jamie19
Sep 19, 2020, 11:56 AM
Do you ever get those guys that say hello by sending a dick pic ?
It's like "Hey, I am jeff, here is my penis"
I got rid of instagram because it was like an hourly thing, not even a hello, just, here it is. Maybe we are in the middle of a sexual revolution like the 70's again
Yeah and it's so annoying. It's ridiculous and I can't imagine it ever works. The guys I've ended up meeting up with from there actually made an effort with the convo: such a turn on.
Jazminedress
Sep 19, 2020, 12:02 PM
Yeah and it's so annoying. It's ridiculous and I can't imagine it ever works. The guys I've ended up meeting up with from there actually made an effort with the convo: such a turn on.
I know right, at least wait until after the appetizer to show your junk, maybe during the salad meal or something
bicuriouslondonguy
Sep 20, 2020, 7:29 AM
that kind of behaviour is what has scared me off from meeting guys in the past. too many guys message and want to jump right to hardcore bareback fucking with barely a hello
cornholejoe
Sep 20, 2020, 2:36 PM
years ago maybe 8 or so diid some 3 somes with married couples and the wifes loved watching me and their husbands buttfuck each other
KDaddy23
Sep 20, 2020, 3:18 PM
It's generally believed that women find men having sex with men disgusting but there are women who think it's anything but disgusting to just sit and watch two guys go at each other. They think it is so damned hot... and just like a lot of us guys do when we see two women going at it. And it seems more and more women are getting onboard with enjoying watching two guys getting busy.
querty
Sep 21, 2020, 8:23 AM
Definitely ony bucket list to be with transgender female oe shemale.
In my search for a new Bi partner its the same thing all the time, and a quick turn off...
"Hi, this is my dick. Oh and my name is...."
Jamie19
Sep 21, 2020, 8:41 AM
Definitely ony bucket list to be with transgender female oe shemale.
In my search for a new Bi partner its the same thing all the time, and a quick turn off...
"Hi, this is my dick. Oh and my name is...."
Lol, yes. I don't really know why men persist with this approach because it doesn't work.
Footstep40
Sep 21, 2020, 10:44 AM
It is always the “here’s my dick pic”, but it’s also the “Hi! send me a dick pic” guy that’s out there. Sometimes depending on my mood, I don’t mind, as it usually goes nowhere. I do like to get to know someone before hopping into bed with them, when I was younger, not so much.
I used to see a married guy, whose wife would love to watch and masturbate, then she started coaching her man and it was kind of a turn off.
Neonaught
Sep 21, 2020, 11:21 AM
My bi wife and I have enjoyed many MFM encounters with bi men and she gets really turned on seeing me top a man who is loving every minute of the experience. Seeing me top inspired her to get a strap on and it's highly erotic seeing her fuck a woman with it.