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bi-curious24M
Feb 9, 2021, 12:01 AM
I’ve had bi-curious feeling since middle school. Now that I’m 24, I want to get out and experiment. Where do I find a guy to hook up with? At a sauna? If so, is there anywhere in Georgia that I could go to?
chongster
Feb 9, 2021, 11:29 AM
I’ve had bi-curious feeling since middle school. Now that I’m 24, I want to get out and experiment. Where do I find a guy to hook up with? At a sauna? If so, is there anywhere in Georgia that I could go to?
I use a hook up site called squirt.org Has served me well over the years and gives me more of a choice of who I want to hook up with. I have never tried going to a sauna of ABS just to find a random guy as I'm pretty picky about the guys I choose. Good luck!
Rest85
Feb 9, 2021, 5:20 PM
I use a hook up site called squirt.org Has served me well over the years and gives me more of a choice of who I want to hook up with. I have never tried going to a sauna of ABS just to find a random guy as I'm pretty picky about the guys I choose. Good luck!
I have connected with a few guys through Squirt.org but never met up with anyone that I connected with there. I do like their feature that allows you to search for cruising locations by state and city. I think that may be of help to some.
Doublelist.com has been a good place for me. I've connected with 3 guys through them. However, I suppose the original question may be more about where to hook up rather than about how to find someone. Unless you or he can host, you are limited to what you both will agree on. I used to be fine with sucking in a car but my locations leaves very little choice of where we would feel safe to actually have our fun. About the only thing I can say is that you might try connecting with someone through a website then discussing it.
I know nothing about Georgia. Hope someone can help you.
Jozyxt
Feb 9, 2021, 5:57 PM
I have had good luck with Adam 4 Adam. With a well filled out profile, you will get several contacts a week without trying. With a bit of patience, one or more of them will work out. Double List also works if you are near a major city. The flake ratio is much higher on DL, that is guys that only answer questions with "OK."
Ydkit
Feb 9, 2021, 8:06 PM
I found 2 guys quickly on doublelist.com Hooking up with them soon
Rest85
Feb 9, 2021, 9:13 PM
I have had good luck with Adam 4 Adam. With a well filled out profile, you will get several contacts a week without trying. With a bit of patience, one or more of them will work out. Double List also works if you are near a major city. The flake ratio is much higher on DL, that is guys that only answer questions with "OK."
I hate when a guy ignores questions or answers comments with those one word replies. I will type at least a few sentences to a guy's reply to my ad to let him know what I am looking for. If I get a few emails with that 'ok' shit, I'm done. It makes me realize why many women complain about their man not communicating with them... lol. I'm offering to suck your dick and you can't be more forthcoming? Jeez.
Rezzonto
Feb 22, 2021, 2:08 PM
I believe nowadays every man should make sure that both he and his partner want it because you might get into trouble if you aren’t 100 percent clear that you and your partner are both giving clear, affirmative consent. Therefore mutual consent and mutual pleasure should be your guiding line when it comes to hooking up. Giving the fact that it is your first date, if you're planning it in advance, I would say getting her to your place would be the best choice because it is all about trust in the beginning. If you're in Istanbul, and you don't have anyone to hook up with, getting a Vip escort (http://vipgirlsistanbul.com)might be the answer for you as they are known for their ability to give you some unforgettable moments.
Leo Rabbit
Feb 22, 2021, 4:06 PM
I found 2 guys quickly on doublelist.com Hooking up with them soon
Anything to report? Any updates? How did it go?
gtxbim
Feb 22, 2021, 4:25 PM
I've not been to Atlanta since pre-COVID, but here are some of my go-to's:
- Sometimes gay bars such as the Heretic or Eagle would have jockstrap / underwear nights (back in the day they had their own bathhouse night, where all you wore was a towel) so it's pretty easy to hook up (and meet someone if you're looking for longer term)
- I've been to a few of the gay bathhouses, but the Flex was the best for me.
- in terms of hookup apps, I've had great luck with Tinder but haven't been active since pre-COVID.
Flypaper
Feb 23, 2021, 8:20 AM
gtxbim has location specific intel, but I can vouch for the simplicity of double list. I’m in a fairly small town area this week amd found four easy hookups immediately - I just didn’t follow through on them.
Ccmmss
Feb 23, 2021, 4:42 PM
I like squirt and adam4adam. But there are other apps that are out there. Bathhouses are fun places. Just uae your intinct and play safe.
NakedFun38
Feb 23, 2021, 10:24 PM
I’ve had luck with adam4adam. All four were bisexual.flakes are everywhere on all sites.
Rvdude05
Mar 17, 2021, 2:07 PM
Squirt.org is good for local sex. If you enjoy cruising, try your local pub, or hotel lounge. Bring up the subject of sex or lack of it and go from there.... tell them you're so horny from watching sex vids alone in your room, etc...
ClassicPaCpl
Mar 17, 2021, 4:10 PM
My first time was at a local ABS back in the early 80's
Mike29
Mar 18, 2021, 7:33 PM
Your first time…should be some place safe…as should be your 2nd, 3rd and every time afterwards.