Where are all the bi ladies???

[Rest85]

I know there are some ladies here but I do wish we could see as many posts from them as we do from Bi guys. I would love for my gf to have a female friend for sexual pleasures and more.

Please post, ladies!

[Modude]

Not sure but it would be nice if there were more on the site...

[GayGuy04]

I think their might be a few women but I think it's more men on the site

[Rest85]

I think their might be a few women but I think it's more men on the site

i?ve seen a few comments from women while searching through the forum. It?s just the nature of things for more men to be here But I sure would love to hear from ladies who want to talk about going down on other ladies, cucking their husbands, Or any fantasies or naughty behaviors they may partake of. I love sucking cock but that?s not all I enjoy. I love women and I love their bodies.

[wantotry]

I think the majority of those discussions are on https://www.shybi.com/forums/

[xdoorb]

Look at the thread titles in the discussion forum and then tell me why there are no women posting here.....

[KDaddy23]

I think that, for some bisexual women, it's not "that big of a deal" to be talking about. There are bisexual women who are members and, yeah, us guys tend to dominate the discussions and some of them do chime in at times but I also think that, again, they don't make that much of a deal out of being bisexual or, more likely, they're not of a mind to share all that much. I know some bi women who keep their bisexuality to themselves because some guys just lose their shit over the fact that she's bisexual and, as such, can draw attention to her that she'd rather not want to deal with... like the much-dreaded threesome, for example. The problem is that in order to find out why the bisexual women here don't post anything, you'd have to ask them... and then hope they'd be of a mind to answer and do so publicly and they're probably not feeling that at all.

[tenni]

Back in 2005 when the site was starting, there were quite a few bisexual women and wives of bisexual men. There was a very active number of women and men discussing bisexuality and how a heterosexual partner will work with biguys. Discussions often centred around talks on learning how to live as a bisexual etc. Advice was given. "Cliques" of mostly women had emerged and seem to keep things less graphic. (almost no hard cock images were published and women seem to appreciate that). Self disclosure stories were told that gave the impression of a social friendship. A lot of chat would end up on the forum and that gave it more of a "community" feel.

The tone was quite different from posts today. Many women and men began to leave the site when a nasty troll took over the site. The previous owner died and did not stop the trolls.

Things are less so again but yes, women have not returned. I know "Fran, CsKrate" and several other strong women are not posting. Cat was a strong poster but announced that she was stepping back.

[cfr50s]

Tenni told it like it is. After Igor died everything went to hell. He took an active interest in the site and was involved. The wife and I used to get on everyday until that all ended with igor. A good site gone to hell in my opinion.

[jem_is_bi]

I agree with every thing that tenni posted. When this site got nasty the women went elsewhere.
In my opinion, definitely a significant loss for bisexual.com.

[tenni]

I have wondered if people want women to come back to this site, if we can try to make more of the thread topics more appealing and inclusive to women?"

When I look at some of the topics they seem more for gay men. Threads like "Bottom Boy" and threads focused on graphic m2m sex have little to interest women. It is rare now for a man to discuss women that are in his life and how bisexuality impacts their life. M2m sex with/about children seems like pedophia and not a topic that would interest women imo.

[nu2curious]

I have wondered if people want women to come back to this site, if we can try to make more of the thread topics more appealing and inclusive to women?"

When I look at some of the topics they seem more for gay men. Threads like "Bottom Boy" and threads focused on graphic m2m sex have little to interest women. It is rare now for a man to discuss women that are in his life and how bisexuality impacts their life. M2m sex with/about children seems like pedophia and not a topic that would interest women imo. I couldn't agree more with you ! If bi-girls are wanted this site must be attractive to them, it's really as simple as that. I for one would love to have bi-women here and get their perspective on all things bi , after all they've been on the forefront of bisexuality while guys are playing catch up in so many ways in terms of public perceptions, acceptability and even the definition of " male bi " automatically connotes anal sex which couldn't be further from the truth. So IMO lets bring them in with a warm welcome because they have much to contribute.

[Rest85]

Look at the thread titles in the discussion forum and then tell me why there are no women posting here.....


Anyone can start a new thread subject after they sign up.

[void()]

Anyone can start a new thread subject after they sign up.

That is factually correct. That aside, when one sees only certain kinds of subject matter presented it portrays a dominance. This dominance often makes one feel posting any other subject matter is futile.

I write this a bisexual man. I'm not all about sex constantly being all there is to life. Come here and it seems that's all there is. And yes, I understand it is a site devoted to sexuality.

Sexuality though can also include seduction, romance, friendship/s. Sexuality is only an aspect of life and living. Sure, I enjoy talking of fucking and it's all well and good doing so in its time and place.

Not everyone comes here to post notches on bed posts though. Sometimes its the quality of the sex, the meeting, and enjoying the company of each other that everything is about.

Do I see much subject matter with such a bent here? No, I really don't. So what do I do?

I limit visiting. There's really not a lot going on here I can't see in some crappy Pornhub video. And usually I can just go be with my wife, real life is better than porn.

Please, understand I'm not challenging you. I'm merely expressing a different point of view. Not here to argue, debate, fight in any way. Will probably be gone anyway.

it is an openly public forum, any asshole can post what they want. So, guess I did. *chuckles* Sorry. :)

[csreef]

I think that one of the reasons for the women leaving the site is because chat first was broken, and then taken out completely. Also the fact that there was a Troll ( who, hopefully has been banished.) that would attack just about anyone, I think this made a lot of the female members feel not welcomed.

[jem_is_bi]

By VOID "it is an openly public forum, any asshole can post what they want. So, guess I did. *chuckles* Sorry. :) "
Don't be sorry your post was great!

By SCREEF " the women leaving the site is because chat first was broken, and then taken out completely."
That was definitely a reason for a lot of the most active females to leave the site. The troll finished pushing the women elsewhere.

[Rest85]

That is factually correct. That aside, when one sees only certain kinds of subject matter presented it portrays a dominance. This dominance often makes one feel posting any other subject matter is futile.

I write this a bisexual man. I'm not all about sex constantly being all there is to life. Come here and it seems that's all there is. And yes, I understand it is a site devoted to sexuality.

Sexuality though can also include seduction, romance, friendship/s. Sexuality is only an aspect of life and living. Sure, I enjoy talking of fucking and it's all well and good doing so in its time and place.

Not everyone comes here to post notches on bed posts though. Sometimes its the quality of the sex, the meeting, and enjoying the company of each other that everything is about.

Do I see much subject matter with such a bent here? No, I really don't. So what do I do?

I limit visiting. There's really not a lot going on here I can't see in some crappy Pornhub video. And usually I can just go be with my wife, real life is better than porn.

Please, understand I'm not challenging you. I'm merely expressing a different point of view. Not here to argue, debate, fight in any way. Will probably be gone anyway.

it is an openly public forum, any asshole can post what they want. So, guess I did. *chuckles* Sorry. :)

You make very good points, void, and I appreciate hearing them. Being a bi guy who is only interested in sucking cock, I am driven to look for more when I see the topics here. I realize that's not true for everyone.

I would love to hear about f/f sex and would love to hear women's perspective about m/m sex, cuckolding, et al. But, I do understand how the subject matter here might not draw many bi women into wanting to participate. Shame.

But...thanks for your perspective!

[void()]

I would love to hear about f/f sex and would love to hear women's perspective about m/m sex, cuckolding, et al.

Agree, it might be nice hearing a lady's view on stuff. Didn't say I wouldn't appreciate that. I see things as I see them. The subject matter here doesn't really drive me into looking for more. Sure I get the whole train wreck point of view. I can pass on by though. Doesn't seem it gets better.

Consider too, I've been here around the site around 13 years more than you. Think yours is about the twenty something or so call for more (excuse my typo) bi women to post here. There's a call, it might see a few step in and say basically the same I've said. Then poof, no more and those stepping up vanish too.

The site goes through such phases every so often. I've come to be able to almost set a yearly clock on it. September? Ah yes, we'll see calls for more bi women. Mid way through there's a call for more horny dick sucking sissies. The tides ebb and crest, on it goes.

I suspect there is an automated script used on the site what sifts through the subject matter (https://hadoop.apache.org/). This sifted matter is then categorized, filed for SEO (Search Engine Optimization) correlation (https://mariadb.com/database-topics/mariadb-vs-mysql/). The matter is then "pushed" onto the site, say for example in September we get calls for more bi women and cock sucking sissies.

That's only a hypothesis though. I've no real proof aside from seeing the same stuff year end, year out, year in. Only seems logical as with the site needing the advertisement revenue. Search engines such as google drive site impressions, clicks per thousands to advertisers. *shrugs* I dunno but just seems maybe, ...

And this site would not be/is not alone in running such scripts if it does. Other sites, using forums as well also run similar scripts for much the same reasoning. Advertising dollars help keep a lot on the Web and Internet free. They also are the cause of a lot of useless, empty content creation. Think along the lines of "reality" television and you get the general idea.

The links I point to offer two tools that can be effectively used in conjunction with say a programming language such as Python (https://www.python.org/), PHP (https://www.php.net/). Easy enough to see how it could be done rather simply. Not really out of the realm of possibility or plausibility.

If this site does it or not, I really don't care. As I said i just pass through once in a while and see the very few and far between "outlier" posts. I might post, might not. Usually just keep passing through. For me I see same old, same old and always more of the same, ... same old. *smh*