Do you like to be submissive to both men and women?

[Rest85]

I am closeted about my love of sucking cock and when I do it, I love being sub...telling him how much I love it...hearing him talk dirty to me and calling me a faggot or cocksucker...having my mouth fucked (not to the point of choking though) and whimpering and moaning when he spurts his cum into my mouth. I always thank a guy for letting me suck his cock and I am sure he knows that I am purely about letting him use me for his selfish pleasure. I love it.

When I with a woman I also love to have her dominate me, making me lie on my back for her to straddle my mouth and rub her pussy all over my face and lips...taunting me about what a pussy whipped guy I am and using me however she wants till she is satisfied...maybe making me wait till she tells me ok, that I can enter her pussy now...making me beg, etc.

Do most, or many of you bi guys also like being sub for both cock and pussy? Details welcomed, of course!!

[void()]

Being a natural switch, it depends. Don't ask for a list of what it is dependent upon. We'd be all day and night, then some. This is best expressed as I love pleasing, and being pleased, equally. For me being bisexual equivocates a sense of balance all through life. Sorry if this reads as a "cop out" response but it is me candidly, sincerely.

[Rest85]

Being a natural switch, it depends. Don't ask for a list of what it is dependent upon. We'd be all day and night, then some. This is best expressed as I love pleasing, and being pleased, equally. For me being bisexual equivocates a sense of balance all through life. Sorry if this reads as a "cop out" response but it is me candidly, sincerely.

I don't read it as a cop out at all. You are answering honestly and that's what I'd want anyone to do. I was just wondering how many are similar to me.

I have ED issues now due to surgery, but when I was 'whole' I could and did easily switch from sub to dom with both men and women depending of who was pleasuring who. I liked the role of being dominant as I stood to be sucked off, or after my wife rode my cock to orgasm and I'd get behind her. I was able to enjoy both equally.. Since my surgery and subsequent ED I find it incredibly arousing to serve as sub with no expectations of switching. I crave it and am still searching for the ideal dom guy to use me for his
oral pleasures.

[camelblue]

This picture sums up what heaven feels like for me. Being submissive is the best.

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[cornholejoe]

i have done it with men and women and a few times with a man and woman couple

[Rest85]

This picture sums up what heaven feels like for me. Being submissive is the best.

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[Jazminedress]

Not for me, I dot think I would enjoy being submissive, just not in my nature.Now, yes, there are times where I like to give with nothing in return, with both men and women, but its more about the power of being the one to give pleasure

[Cum1st]

Not really. To me, it's more putting myself into it without making the other person uncomfortable. The other person can contribute what the will. It gets better when likes and dislikes can be discussed and acted on. I do like to give the other what they want.

[Waylon]

No. When I am with a woman, I am in charge and dominate what and how she behaves, she will submit to my pleasure. However with a man, well, the act of actually putting his dick in my mouth to suck is very submissive right there. When he ejaculates his load into my mouth and I greedily swallow it down, that is submitting to his pleasure and I am pleased to be able to give him my oral talents. Just like the women who are my submissive cocksuckers, I am his submissive cocksucker.

[Rest85]

No. When I am with a woman, I am in charge and dominate what and how she behaves, she will submit to my pleasure. However with a man, well, the act of actually putting his dick in my mouth to suck is very submissive right there. When he ejaculates his load into my mouth and I greedily swallow it down, that is submitting to his pleasure and I am pleased to be able to give him my oral talents. Just like the women who are my submissive cocksuckers, I am his submissive cocksucker.


I definitely appreciate that perspective. Like I said, when I used to have an unquestionably hard dick I loved being dom as much as being sub. Now with my ED, I guess I realize that sub is the role that fits... and I have found that I love it.
I do missing using a cocksucker for my pleasure though...male or female.

[JeffT]

Definitely submissive and fem with a guy. A bit more assertive with women.

[Jozyxt]

I don't like being submissive with guys. I am very much looking for an equal. Someone that is enthusiastic about pleasing as he enjoys receiving pleasure. Though I am growing to enjoy a more dominant speech at least with cocksuckers. It seems to drive them to work harder.

For woman, my wife has flatly rejected any suggestion the she dominate me in any way. So I really don't know. I had one GF that liked being sub and I really enjoyed her but was hesitant to push it as far as I would today.

Either way, I generally don't enjoy physical domination like face fucking. I really prefer to relax and let a cocksucker just take care of me. Maybe that is something like bottoming from the top?

[Rest85]

I don't like being submissive with guys. I am very much looking for an equal. Someone that is enthusiastic about pleasing as he enjoys receiving pleasure. Though I am growing to enjoy a more dominant speech at least with cocksuckers. It seems to drive them to work harder.

For woman, my wife has flatly rejected any suggestion the she dominate me in any way. So I really don't know. I had one GF that liked being sub and I really enjoyed her but was hesitant to push it as far as I would today.

Either way, I generally don't enjoy physical domination like face fucking. I really prefer to relax and let a cocksucker just take care of me. Maybe that is something like bottoming from the top?

I still love a submissive woman. As much as I would love for my gf to be more dom with me, I loved the days when I'd be at the bar and connect with a shy girl who obviously wanted to be fucked. I loved taking 'advantage' of her and 'making' her do things. One girl told me flat out to make her do whatever I wanted. Drove me crazy with lust.
But..to your point about face fucking, I sucked a married guy off once...got on my knees while he sat in a chair for me to suck him the way I wanted. I emailed him later and asked if he would please mouth fuck me the next time because I got so turned on seeing that in porn. He did just that the next week. Turns out I very much prefer for a guy to let me pleasure his cock at my own pace. Sometimes fantasy is better than reality.

[dan.woodlawn]

yes and no. I bounce between servant and master and can switch back with different gender...I just like the play.
The power of bringing and orgasm...delivering satisfaction until they tell you its too much pleasure...yummy.

[Ashct22]

I love to be submissive with a guy, but I am also very attracted to strong, assertive women

[Tight1-4u]

I love being sub to men.. I love being used as a sex toy by aggressive men.. I love being manhandled.. I love him being in control., I love him using me to get what he wants.. I love being fucked like I am his slutty whore!!

[tongueteaser]

Oh yes being submissive for sure. I love to give oral and being told by a babe or a guy with a sweet cock to go down on them is hot. I had a few GF that would demand I lick their pussy and ass or eat my cum from them after sex. I did as told. Same as a guy telling me to play with his cock and then demanding me to put my mouth around it and suck the head. Telling me to swallow is hot too. I only had one guy partner so far and I sucked him as he told me. I like when he told me to french kiss his head and suck the rim and then....

[happymouthandtongue]

Like being submissive with guys and dominate with gals. I’m very oral with both sexes, like to suck cock and swallow cum. With gals, love to get them off with my tongue, love the taste of pussy, especially after I’ve cummed in it. Like to rim gals, but not guys.

[gcs2718]

I'll gladly suck a guy who just wants to get off but it's much more exciting when he's verbal and dominant. I get so turned on when a guy says things like, "You're a good cocksucker." or "You like that cock, don't you?" or "Yeah, suck my cock and take it all, cocksucker."

I've never been with a completely dominant woman but I don't mind a bit if they take control and let me know what they want because just like with a man, I enjoy pleasing them too. I love feeling a hot, juicy pussy thrusting and bucking against my mouth or riding my cock as she cums. I really love being pegged by a woman too, so I guess that's pretty submissive.

[Fred_Brice]

As far as myself, I am looking and usually for an equal. Someone that is enthusiastic about pleasing as he enjoys receiving pleasure. Normally it is not easy for me to be submissive, I do not think I would enjoy being submissive, just not in my nature. Often, I am very oral with both sexes I do enjoy sucking a nice cock and I usually enjoy swallowing their cum.

With women, love to get them off with my tongue, love the taste of pussy, especially after I have cum in their pussy. Sometimes I do enjoy rimming women, but seldom guys.

Though I am growing to enjoy, a more dominant speech at least with cocksuckers. It seems to drive them to work harder. I generally do not enjoy physical domination like face fucking. I really prefer to relax and let a cocksucker just take care of me. Maybe that is something like bottoming from the top?

Maybe in the future I might not mind, having another guy tell me to play with his cock and then demanding me to put his cock in my mouth around it and suck the head. Then telling me to swallow is warn load.

A few years ago, I had male partner, the first time that we spent the weekend together he told me that sometimes he enjoys being an Alpha type and the very next time we were together he told me, to drop my pants as soon as I arrived, after a long drive and arriving on his covered front porch and then he would insert his lubed fingers in my male pussy to losing me up and then added some lube to his head of his cock and he slowly insert his massive cock inside me and soon he was happy to have his way with me. I must admit that I did not mind him topping me and I knew that we both would enjoy a great long weekend together! His cock was around a full 8” or 9” full inches and somewhat thick and I sure enjoyed sucking every inch of his cock and often I enjoy swallowing his cock and keeping it deep in my throat. He also enjoyed sucking my cock and often he would start French kissing me and I knew that soon I would have his cock head in my male pussy soon!

[Leo Rabbit]

I am a switch so I like both sides of this equation. With men, so far, it's the submission that gets me most excited and the idea of someone being more vocal and a bit urgent or forceful (within reason) just intensifies the pleasure for me. With women for the longest time I was always dominant. Over the last couple years I have had a woman want to access her "inner goddess" so I let her run the show, command me to pleasure her in whatever way got her excited until she said, "now fuck me!" All depends on the partner and the vibe.

[Rest85]

I love being sub to men.. I love being used as a sex toy by aggressive men.. I love being manhandled.. I love him being in control., I love him using me to get what he wants.. I love being fucked like I am his slutty whore!!

I'm not into anal...and I like being a guy, but (like many guys) I'd love to experience what it's like to have a pussy and be fucked really good. I'd love to be a hot woman for a year. I'd ignore all the arrogant guys and would teach shy guys how to dominate me and use my pussy like I'm a whore.

[Blondeblowjob7]

To be perfectly honest, as a male cocksucker I don’t think that there’s any act more submissive than getting on your knees, and letting another man fuck your mouth with his penis. I think by nature the very act of giving a blowjob is very submissive. I think that’s especially true in regards to male cocksuckers.