View Full Version : How often do you have sex with a man
mwm60fr
Jan 18, 2022, 8:11 PM
For me I have one friend who I get together with but it's not as often as we would like because we have to wait until one of our wives go for any length of time.
Basin_Bouy
Jan 18, 2022, 8:28 PM
Before COVID, 2 or 3 times a week in the afternoon. Since COVID, once every few months, emphasis in FEW.
mwm60fr
Jan 18, 2022, 8:32 PM
Same here. Every few months and that sure isn't enough.....LOL
cornholejoe
Jan 18, 2022, 9:29 PM
a bout once a month sometimes more just depends
Sensualhunter
Jan 18, 2022, 10:08 PM
It's been a very long time. It is hard to find someone I trust is also a real MWM and that they are not fucking around a lot with other guys. I worry about bringing home a disease to my wife. Not sure how you all get around that?
I do wish it was easier since I would love to be in bed being passionate with another MWM!
Mmpmm
Jan 18, 2022, 10:36 PM
A couple of times a year. It's hard to meet guys from inside the closet.
Rest85
Jan 18, 2022, 10:57 PM
Well....since Covid it's been 1 year and 10 months for me. Hoping to connect soon with a guy I've been exchanging emails with.
However, if I had a regular, I suppose every couple of weeks would be just right for me. It might seem too infrequent to some but I like to have the craving like crazy before I kneel to serve. Even once a month would be ok for me. I do have a gf and also have ED issues so I try to retain as much sexual interest as is reasonable for my gf. If I was active with another guy even once a week it would likely affect my level and frequency of desire for sex play with my gf. I am only looking to suck, no recip, so an occasional fix is all I need.
Rest85
Jan 18, 2022, 10:58 PM
A couple of times a year. It's hard to meet guys from inside the closet.
Ain't that the truth!?
Rest85
Jan 18, 2022, 11:01 PM
It's been a very long time. It is hard to find someone I trust is also a real MWM and that they are not fucking around a lot with other guys. I worry about bringing home a disease to my wife. Not sure how you all get around that?
I do wish it was easier since I would love to be in bed being passionate with another MWM!
The last cock I sucked belonged to a MWM but after I sucked him off once, he kept emailing me detailing his subsequent and numerous encounters. It made me worry about how active he was and what he might pass on to me if I met with him again...so I didn't.
Ideally I would like to connect with a MWM who isn't getting sucked off at home...someone who doesn't play around and just wants a no recip sub cocksucker like me to be used for his pleasure.
dicktrobing
Jan 19, 2022, 3:13 AM
When I get the 'itch' to have cock fun I will make a hook up. Sometimes one meet is not enough and have to have several meets over a couple of weeks and then I may not have cock for several months
Tight1-4u
Jan 19, 2022, 8:38 PM
at present well before meeting Randy I was getting fucked 3-4 times a week.. that has been about average for the last 4-5 years.. since I met Randy every day at least once.. that includes my regulars.. he has now been fucking me 3-5 times a week.. at first my pussy was sore all the time with all the cock but after about 2 weeks I hit my stride and really enjoy it.. I love being fucked repeatedly and being full of cum all the time.. I spend so much time on my back with someone on top of me that my legs are used to being spread and pushed to my chest..this last couple a months has been amazing
jem_is_bi
Jan 19, 2022, 10:55 PM
Once a week (Saturday night) is when I have sex with my partner.
That gives us more than enough time to recharge our sexual desires.
Each sexual encounter with him last about 2 hours.
I could handle twice a week but my work makes that some what difficult to achieve on a weekly basis.
hung4you
Jan 20, 2022, 7:08 AM
Lucky me covid didn't effect me or my buddy at all, For us almost daily is our routine, In fact I can still taste his juice from this morning.
emerging
Jan 20, 2022, 8:08 AM
My FWB and I try to get together once a week. But that never happens, it is closer to twice a month. We do have periods when we cant get together for many weeks due to vacation/business. I was gone for 2 weeks and now he is away so I have not had sex in 2022:( When possible we rent a room. Many hotels have a business man day rate, 8-4.
Cdnbi
Jan 20, 2022, 8:55 AM
A few times a year. However given finding the right circumstance of an ongoing arrangement it would most certainly be more frequent.
Jozyxt
Jan 20, 2022, 9:53 AM
I have a cocksucer that I could feed every weekend. He can host, adores my cock an will make time for me. Since they opened a brand new branch of my gym in his area, I think I can get over there more often. But for the most part, once a month.
However It is harder to find a man that wants to swap so I haven't had a dick in my mouth for a while.
Guys that suck cock are such selfish cocksuckers. LOL
SilkyHoseLover
Jan 20, 2022, 12:58 PM
I never have been very active since discovering this side of myself, but am very interested in increasing the frequency. I played either 3 or 4 times in all of 2020/2021, in between periods of covid lockdowns and 'you're-all-gonna-die' warnings.
I also have to get a read on how much my wife would consider 'too much', given that I only play because of her good graces and consent. I'd like to play a couple of times/month.
Veryoralniceguy
Jan 21, 2022, 6:53 AM
Before Covid, I’d suck every chance I got, usually give at least 8 blowjobs a week. Now down to zero, just don’t want to take a chance. Odd, because over the years, I’ve sucked thousands of cocks, but never got an STD.
friesbaconnekkid
Jan 21, 2022, 2:58 PM
Before Covid, I?d suck every chance I got, usually give at least 8 blowjobs a week. Now down to zero, just don?t want to take a chance. Odd, because over the years, I?ve sucked thousands of cocks, but never got an STD.
I suck off 4-6 guys a week usually. Never stopped during the pandemic, if anything I was sucking more guys. I have one dependable fucker. He comes by every couple weeks. He uses Viagra58961, so I'm pretty well fucked before he's done.
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Fzmr9t
Jan 21, 2022, 3:02 PM
I could count on 1 hand the number of times I played last year. This year I?ve yet to experience the pleasure
bicckscker
Feb 9, 2022, 6:19 PM
Before COVID, my goal was to suck more than five different cocks a week. Some weeks I met that, some weeks I exceeded that, and some weeks I fell short. Since COVID, I am lucky to meet men once every couple months. Mostly because more people are at home, and in my area there are very few men who can host. Prior to COVID, I was home alone often.
Roxxi
Feb 10, 2022, 5:03 PM
As often as possible!
bikurinpa
Feb 10, 2022, 5:53 PM
Wpw! some are lucky enough to get it once a month or even couple times a yr! i am very damn lucky if I can get it once a yr!! Male websites are a joke, never any one local serious, just a lot horny guys who get of to chat then ghost out!
notsureif
Feb 10, 2022, 6:25 PM
Me and wife are swingers. We have had several bi couples . Through the years I've tried with several men. Unfortunately only one has ever felt good to me. We only get chance to see them few times a year. I'll top if asked but bottom for basically him only now. Do enjoy oral still.
Stumpjumper
Feb 16, 2022, 2:46 AM
I've only had fetish play with guys, which usually ends with us jacking off. Does that count?
Neonaught
Feb 16, 2022, 9:11 AM
On average about once a week. Since I have about 6-7 buddies you'd think it would be more.
ScottSwallows
Feb 18, 2022, 11:39 AM
I suck my friend's cock every day.
He fucks me twice a week.Mondays and Fridays.
Silvano1249
Feb 19, 2022, 10:19 AM
I never have sucked a cock but have been thinking doing it for a long time and want to do it so bad. Where are you located and can you please send me a pic of your cock at silvanobello696@gmail.com please?
Sensualhunter
Feb 19, 2022, 11:42 AM
Can I ask how you guys deal with the fear of getting STD's. That is what is holding me back. I would have them use a condom, but is that enough? Is it possible to get something, other then herpes, from sucking a cock? It seems for me in LA it would be easy to meet another MWM, but that fear stops me since I do not want to bring something home to my wife.
Neonaught
Feb 20, 2022, 11:46 AM
Can I ask how you guys deal with the fear of getting STD's. That is what is holding me back. I would have them use a condom, but is that enough? Is it possible to get something, other then herpes, from sucking a cock? It seems for me in LA it would be easy to meet another MWM, but that fear stops me since I do not want to bring something home to my wife.
First, educate yourself on the causes and symptoms of STD's so you may have a chance to spot them. Carefully vet your partner about testing. Most STD's can be home tested for using relatively cheap test kits from the pharmacy. If you have a healthy mouth ( no wounds) then oral sex is pretty safe and that includes swallowing cum. I know of no STD virus or bacterium that can surive stomach acid. Herpes (HSV2) is only infectious if the person who has it has active, fluid-filled blisters and they quite easy to see. When in doubt or he can't show test result use a high quality condom and put a bit of lube in the tip before rolling it on. Hope this helps
Sensualhunter
Feb 20, 2022, 12:03 PM
First, educate yourself on the causes and symptoms of STD's so you may have a chance to spot them. Carefully vet your partner about testing. Most STD's can be home tested for using relatively cheap test kits from the pharmacy. If you have a healthy mouth ( no wounds) then oral sex is pretty safe and that includes swallowing cum. I know of no STD virus or bacterium that can surive stomach acid. Herpes (HSV2) is only infectious if the person who has it has active, fluid-filled blisters and they quite easy to see. When in doubt or he can't show test result use a high quality condom and put a bit of lube in the tip before rolling it on. Hope this helps
Very helpful Neonaught. Thanks. I did not know there were home kits to test.
Latefordinner
Feb 20, 2022, 5:45 PM
Yes..trust is the most important issue..would love to suck cock but with another married guy I can trust.
Jozyxt
Feb 20, 2022, 11:30 PM
Since I found a new FWB, it has been once a week. Well for the last three weeks anyway. We seem to get along, so I hope to keep up that schedule. He is a good cocksucker, but not the best. But his cock fits my mouth better than any I've sucked.
twilde1952
Feb 21, 2022, 5:54 AM
Zero times.
Neonaught
Feb 21, 2022, 11:03 AM
Very helpful Neonaught. Thanks. I did not know there were home kits to test.
I use a home HIV test called Oraquik. The test usees a cheek swab and only takes 20 minutes. They sell for about $40 per test.59189
Rvdude05
Mar 1, 2022, 2:47 PM
About a month ago, while traveling with a friend, we watched a gay video, and we both masturbated together. The video showed some hot oral sex, and he asked if I ever done that. I told him that I have, and want to do it now. He fed me his cock and came in my mouth. He returned the favor, and now, I cant get enough of his cock, he feels the same. Nothing like a suck buddy....
dowmass
Mar 1, 2022, 2:52 PM
[QUOTE=Neonaught;363838]I use a home HIV test called Oraquik. The test usees a cheek swab and only takes 20 minutes. They sell for about $40 per test.59189[/is this available without a prescription?QUOTE]
RisingBi
Mar 2, 2022, 3:09 AM
It has varied greatly over the 29 years I've played with guys (from 30 to my present 59 years of age). In the first 21 years, it was only anonymous cocksucking in gay sex venues like bathhouses, etc. Sometimes it would be once or twice a week, with each visit yielding one or several cocks. Sometimes nothing for two months. But I accumulated probably over 200 cocks that were in my mouth and theirs in mine over that period.
Then, after I had the most extraordinary sexual experience of my life losing my gay virginity, as a top, in 2013, over the next three years, I got together with 8 guys in each other's homes for more intimate play, including one FWB for multiple get-togethers over several months. Then nothing for 3 years while I was together with my girlfriend, on and off. Of course, in the off periods, which were quite painful, I indulged in a massive amount of gay porn. But I don't know why I never had gotten together with guys during those breaks, since she definitely had.
When that relationship ended just before the pandemic hit, I was so ready to go wild and crazy with men, ready to go much more deeply into the gay part of myself, and express it with a lot of guys, or one special guy a lot of times. I was expecting that by now I would have a fuck buddy to breed each other's assholes multiple times a week, if not a boyfriend, if I met the right guy to finally have romantic feelings with. But so many guys flaked on me, and I've only managed to get together with 3 different guys over a total of 5 get-togethers. I can't begin to express how deeply disappointed I have been with those unmet expectations. Even the greater frequency is not as important as the deeper connection I am looking for with another man. I truly hope that those expectations will come true as we are beginning to come out of the pandemic, hopefully.
Neonaught
Mar 2, 2022, 9:57 AM
[QUOTE=Neonaught;363838]I use a home HIV test called Oraquik. The test usees a cheek swab and only takes 20 minutes. They sell for about $40 per test.59189[/is this available without a prescription?QUOTE]
Yes. It's sold over the counter at most chain pharmacies or can be ordered online. Kits are also available for most of the other STD's that don't require a blood test.
Blondeblowjob7
Mar 3, 2022, 12:41 PM
I have found that I’m definitely much happier and satisfied with my sex life giving at least one blowjob per week. So I normally give 2 blowjobs per week. However, before covid I was sucking dick about 3 to 4 times per week. Unfortunately, for several months during the pandemic I stopped giving head all together. That was absolute torture for me! I’m normally ready to tear down the walls to have a cock fuck my mouth if I go more than 2 weeks or so without giving a blowjob. I honestly feel kind of depressed if I’m not sucking cock fairly regular. I very strongly crave giving blowjobs and being a slut for cum on a regular basis.