I LIKE having to hide my sucking activities from my lady.

[Rest85]

I have made posts about how I'd like it if my gf wanted to watch me suck cock, and I've seen many posts/comments here and elsewhere from guys who either have permission from their wives to suck, or more rarely, some wives who will actively participate with them.

In spite of my fantasies of having my gf watch, I have to admit that I actually LIKE that I am totally closeted about my sucking activities. I find it highly arousing to sneak and hide my m/m lusty encounters. I find it edgy and exciting. A sizable portion of the arousal is based in the fact that I am being a submissive dick sucker in secret.

Are many of you the same, or would you honestly prefer to be out, with her support, to your female partner?

[Veryoralniceguy]

I prefer not to be out, I like sneaking around and her not knowing that just before I came home and kissed her, I was sucking another man’s cock and swallowing his cum. I like being dominate, until I have a man’s cock in front of my face, then I become a totally submissive guy.

[Rest85]

I prefer not to be out, I like sneaking around and her not knowing that just before I came home and kissed her, I was sucking another man’s cock and swallowing his cum. I like being dominate, until I have a man’s cock in front of my face, then I become a totally submissive guy.

Exactly! For most of my pussy chasing life I was dominant but willing to play sub pussy licker. When I started sucking cock I could switch roles depending who had who's dick in their mouth. Now, when I am presented with, and I fondle a cock, I turn to a quivering lust driven submissive slut. I've never been made to beg for it, but if a guy sat there and stroked it, denying me any contact, I'd beg like a wanton whore.

[atxbi]

My wife knows that I like to suck cock and doesn’t really care or have much of an opinion on if it turns her on or not. I asked her once what she would do if she came home from work to find me sucking a guy off when she walked in the door. She said she didn’t know. One of these days I would love to set this up and find out what she would do. I would be like, “ come over here and help me with this, would you dear?”. I would love to see what she does.

[Rest85]

My wife knows that I like to suck cock and doesn?t really care or have much of an opinion on if it turns her on or not. I asked her once what she would do if she came home from work to find me sucking a guy off when she walked in the door. She said she didn?t know. One of these days I would love to set this up and find out what she would do. I would be like, ? come over here and help me with this, would you dear??. I would love to see what she does.

I do like the secrecy factor. It works for me. But I have to admit, I think if would be damned exciting if my gf would catch me and would stroke his cock while I sucked on it, whispering in my ear, "You like sucking that good, hard dick, don't you? His cock feels so good. I want to see him cum in your slutty mouth. Some day when he comes looking for you, he'll find me instead and will fuck me while you're not here."

[KDaddy23]

While I've never hid the fact that I have sex with men, I do love doing something that a lot of people who knows me knows nothing about... or nothing they can prove (wink, wink). Not exactly being sneaky but, still. I've been with women who have been unhappy to be told that, yes, I suck dick and, no, I'm not going to stop doing it, which put them in that "I don't want to know about it!" mode of behavior as well as the "As long as you're handling your business with me, I don't care what you do!" way of things. I get a kick out of listening to people giving male cocksuckers the "Big Ew!" and I'm there smiling like I stole something and, well, what I've stolen is the cum of a great many men.

It's fun but it sucks to know people who can't understand that sex is way more than what they believe it to be...

[Grant_Norman]

An open cocksucker here. I really didn't mind closet activity a lot, but it was a pain much of the tome. Since my frigid wife cut me off completely from any intimacy in 2012, the fact that a few years later I became bisexual is, in my mind, partly because of no sex with her. However, I've really come to enjoy bisexual behavior, even though now out and in process of divorce, I still love and enjoy. Will be eating pussy a few days out and as always, ready for cock. Will be returning to USA shortly for few months then on Thailand for hopefully lots of girl/boy/lay boy sex. Openly bisexual IS way to go.

Grant

[DLazguy]

Sometimes I wish that I could suck cock in front of or with my wife, because that would open the door for more activity in the bedroom. But like you, I like the sneaking around behind my wife's back to enjoy a hard, smooth cock in my mouth. I've mostly been sucked, blow and go style, until recently I decided to open up so I could enjoy everything I can with a man. Right now I'm trying to find the right guy to play with. Nothing romantic, just pure physical fun. I want to let loose and do everything. I want to spend the night between the legs of a good looking guy and worship his long, thick, cut cock all night until he can't cum anymore. When I get home, I'll walk up to my wife and give her a deep kiss. She'd have no idea that just moments before, my mouth was full of warm cum.

I'm hoping to find a fwb so I can have more pictures and videos of me sucking and doing more.

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[SilkyHoseLover]

It's often the 'forbidden fruit' that we long to taste the most! I can see where it might be fun to keep on the down-low -- kind of a game. But I'd hate to have to adopt that as a way of life. For me, the bottom line is, my wife deserves better. She's entitled to my loyalty and fidelity, which she quickly earned and has managed only to strengthen during the course of our 50 years of marriage. I couldn't do anything to undermine that or hurt her. My guilt would be unbearable.

Of course, it's easy for me to say that, because I am one of the fortunate ones who has permission to indulge my bisexual desires and she not only approves, she occasionally joins in on the fun.

[Johnny o]

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