So many CD

[Jazminedress]

It's weird, in the past 6 months, I have noticed on doublelist, and other forums, an explosion of CD's.

Not just guys who like pantys or a little lingerie........but full blown cd's.
I am curious if it is guys who want to transition and trying it out, if the taboo is not such a stigma now or what

There is the standard guys with a full beard of course, but, so many more that really , well, they are freaking hot.

I get that some of it is youtube, so many tutorials where we can learn to put on make up and not look like bozo the clown, so thats one thing

any idea why so many now ? are we just in more of an experimentation age ?

[Hubie]

We spend a bit of time in Thailand. Around the entertainment areas, of course there are more "ladyboys". But you still spot many all over. And many are really hot!! In the last few days, I've had a hot woman catch my eye, only to figure out that she is/was a he. (and wondered how much fun they would be) Often I've wondered why here there are so many "ladyboys"

[Long Duck Dong]

Got some friends that cd, not trans......and yeah its interesting talking with them....

Some have the alt personality, with makeup and stylish dress, some are not as visible as they wear ladies jeans and tops... and what I find interesting is that when they dress as males, they ID as straight but in their alt mode, they ID as bisexual......something that does make sense to me, its a neurological thing, has a name that I can not remember but it does describe whose those CDs say.....they have zero interest and desire in other males, when they are in straight mode and the brain * shifts a gear or two * in female mode and they are attracted to males and females.....

While I have some trans friends there is a big difference in the way they come across, its as if the trans people can not identify or relate to the gender assigned at birth...and some develop an * hate * for the GAB aspects such as having a penis * and thats not something I find with the CDs, for them its more like acting but they become the role

what I find interesting, is that the CD do not make claims like its freeing or liberating to CD, it just feels right and comfortable.....until they are mistaken for, or called trans people, then the claws come out........and some have said that it feels like the trans community are trying to take over the CD community...

[Jazminedress]

Got some friends that cd, not trans......and yeah its interesting talking with them....

Some have the alt personality, with makeup and stylish dress, some are not as visible as they wear ladies jeans and tops... and what I find interesting is that when they dress as males, they ID as straight but in their alt mode, they ID as bisexual......something that does make sense to me, its a neurological thing, has a name that I can not remember but it does describe whose those CDs say.....they have zero interest and desire in other males, when they are in straight mode and the brain * shifts a gear or two * in female mode and they are attracted to males and females.....

While I have some trans friends there is a big difference in the way they come across, its as if the trans people can not identify or relate to the gender assigned at birth...and some develop an * hate * for the GAB aspects such as having a penis * and thats not something I find with the CDs, for them its more like acting but they become the role

what I find interesting, is that the CD do not make claims like its freeing or liberating to CD, it just feels right and comfortable.....until they are mistaken for, or called trans people, then the claws come out........and some have said that it feels like the trans community are trying to take over the CD community...

I can relate to a lot of that

[Jazminedress]

We spend a bit of time in Thailand. Around the entertainment areas, of course there are more "ladyboys". But you still spot many all over. And many are really hot!! In the last few days, I've had a hot woman catch my eye, only to figure out that she is/was a he. (and wondered how much fun they would be) Often I've wondered why here there are so many "ladyboys"

I have heard the ladyboys in Thailand are incredible, but, its also much more accepted there I think compared to anywhere else

[csreef]

I have heard the ladyboys in Thailand are incredible, but, its also much more accepted there I think compared to anywhere else

There is a member here who traveled to Thailand on business. He posted a pic of 5 or 6 Ladybois all lined up. They were so good looking!

[Take.it.Easy]

I dated one for a while, she was a total top with a beautiful sexy cock.

[Take.it.Easy]

What other forums?

[BiGuyinMA]

I've been CD'ing for about 15+ years (though my fantasies started much earlier). I started out, like a lot of others, as a moderately hairy panty wearer who just had a fascination for women's lingerie. However, I quickly discovered that cross dressing is a little like opening a bag of chips... once you've started it's almost impossible to stop! Over the course of the next few years I graduated from just panties to being a hair free, totally smooth, head to toe, lingerie clad, wig wearing, stiletto tapping diva. I even modified my exercise regime to get fitter and slim down, rather than bulk up.

CD'ind isn't something I just do, for me it's been a bit of a journey... I'm always striving to get better at it. Who knew make up was so hard?

I'm also fortunate in having a job that see's me overnighting in hotels fairly regularly which gives me the time and privacy to really indulge myself. And I make no bones about, when I dress in a hotel, I'm dressing for sex, with the intent of hooking up. When my partner for the evening arrives and I open the door, I make sure I present myself as well as possible, nice dress or skirt/blouse etc. I get a visceral thrill from the effect that has on guys. However, even when I know I won't be hooking up, I still dress just for the sensual experience of it.

Like other CD's on here I've also run afoul of radical trans activists accusing me of "just playing at it". I know I'm never going to transition, I like being a guy, albeit with an inclination to switch occasionally. If they have a problem with that, that's their problem, not mine. I know who and what I am and I'm content with it.

[Jazminedress]

What other forums?

Sometimes I just travel around the net and do google searchs on bisexual forums, or even something like silverdaddies. Off the top of my head (while not really a forum I lumped them together), grindr, doublelist.

Just seeing a lot more than I remember a year or so ago. I am for sure happy about it, as truth be told, it benefits me to a degree personally

[Jazminedress]

I've been CD'ing for about 15+ years (though my fantasies started much earlier).

CD'ind isn't something I just do, for me it's been a bit of a journey... I'm always striving to get better at it. Who knew make up was so hard?


Like other CD's on here I've also run afoul of radical trans activists accusing me of "just playing at it". I know I'm never going to transition, I like being a guy, albeit with an inclination to switch occasionally. If they have a problem with that, that's their problem, not mine. I know who and what I am and I'm content with it.

Who knew? anyone who has picked up a makeup brush, I still cant get the damn eyelashes on straight.....lol

I get what you are saying, for me, when meeting a guy and they get excited, I will admit, there is a certain power play thrill going on there, even if they believe they are in charge, I also sometimes dress just to sit and do paperwork when traveling, it's very freeing.

I haven't had as much issue with the trans community, maybe some looks or sneers or something, an errant comment of appropriation (that one makes me laugh) or playing dress up (yeah, I am).
For me it's the younger gay militant guys who seem to be the most aggressive and a-hole-ish. Older gay men seem to have the attitude of, hey, we have already fought our battles, you do you, I'll do me, kind of why I like the older men.

I always caution "Newer" cd's going out about married men, they seem to be the most aggressive with wanting to smack your ass and use degrading language, which isnt my thing

[BiGuyinMA]

Whenever I'm looking to play and I post an add, without being too overt about I try and put off the younger guys. I've generally enjoyed the sex much more with guys in the 45+ age group. Also, I enjoy it when a guy sticks around a little and we get to enjoy a drink and chat a little. With the younger guys they just want to turn up, stick it in, prematurely ejaculate then bolt for the door...

[KDaddy23]

Way back in the day, women were flexing their muscles and telling us guys to get in touch with our feminine side. What they couldn't have foreseen was how some of us would literally take their message to heart and from being bisexual to crossdressing. I haven't seen or met any CDs here where I live for a long time but I can go to Atlantic City and see them all over the place and especially in the casino areas (they might be hookers but that's not the point). The two or three CDs I'd met in the past told me that getting all dolled up was an amazing way to express themselves or, as one guy told me, it was his guilty pleasure.

If there's an explosive growth in the number of CDs, I'd hazard the guess that there are a lot more men getting in touch with their feminine side and letting their inner girl out to play.

[Jazminedress]

Whenever I'm looking to play and I post an add, without being too overt about I try and put off the younger guys. I've generally enjoyed the sex much more with guys in the 45+ age group. Also, I enjoy it when a guy sticks around a little and we get to enjoy a drink and chat a little. With the younger guys they just want to turn up, stick it in, prematurely ejaculate then bolt for the door...

I broke my own rule a few months ago, this guy was like 23, telling me how "daddy wants to fuck me with his huge cock" (For the record, it was like 3 inches). He was like banging away like one of those little taco bell dogs, while I was remembering lyrics to a def Leppard song. When he was done, he was "daddy fucked you good, it lasted like 5 minutes........yeah, I bet you want it again"

When he left, I laughed for like an hour

[Tight1-4u]

I broke my own rule a few months ago, this guy was like 23, telling me how "daddy wants to fuck me with his huge cock" (For the record, it was like 3 inches). He was like banging away like one of those little taco bell dogs, while I was remembering lyrics to a def Leppard song. When he was done, he was "daddy fucked you good, it lasted like 5 minutes........yeah, I bet you want it again"

When he left, I laughed for like an hour
jazz: those guys are everywhere.. I get them too in my racket.. I don’t know how they think that they are gods gift.. but they do.. I had one about 3 weeks ago explain to me that once he had fucked me that my pussy would be broke and only he could give me pleasure after that.. like you said he was like a chihuahua.. his cock was so small I hardly felt a thing.. he was thrusting away so fast it was comical.. he wasn’t in me long enough to even warm my pussy up.. then spent about 10 min wanting me to suck him clean.. after he left I was frustrated.. I know how females feel when they talk about some guys.. I was on my back legs spread he was standing at the edge of the bed.. I kept trying to get him to slow down a be in me longer.. he was going so fast I don’t think he ever got more than an inch in me.. when he cum he was trying to get it in me so it just ran down my ass!! Poor guy!!!

[Jazminedress]

I know how females feel when they talk about some guys..

I know right ?
Although truth be told, I prefer someone a touch on the smaller side............

[marine20]

i had sex with only one cd, but he was wonderful. he would get dressed in sexy lingerie which made me really hot. then i would slowly undress him , get him on all fours , with that hot ass sticking in the air. then i would lick his cock , balls , and tongue fuck his boy pussy. and i mean really tongue fuck him , til my jaws ached . i really loved eating his pussy. i think it showed him how much of a fag i really was . then he would ride me cowgirl style , til he came all over my chest , and i came in his cunt. i miss those days.

[jjourneyman]

As someone who has been dressing for more than 20 years, I can say with all honesty that there are a lot more CDs now. I think some of what we're seeing is a result of people having been on lock-down for the past two years. More men (and women) have been watching a lot more porn and surfing alternative websites, and they had the privacy to actually learn how to properly apply make-up, wigs, and experiment with toys. Now, we are witnessing a large cumming out party.

[Jazminedress]

Now, we are witnessing a large cumming out party.

Damn, I forgot to RSVP

[sweetnuts69]

You could be on to something is a faze or do they really want to experiment with there hiding female side ?? let me know what other tings on this subject you find thanks. I love CD's

[csreef]

Damn, I forgot to RSVP

As an Admirer, I never even got an Invitation! The nerve!

[Jazminedress]

As an Admirer, I never even got an Invitation! The nerve!

if you get one, just know you are required to put out

[csreef]

if you get one, just know you are required to put out

So put out or get out.

[Jazminedress]

So put out or get out.

yeah, you are totally going to get sexualized

[KDaddy23]

I have to admit that the first time I had sex with a CD, I was taken aback just a bit because, at first glance, I thought his wife had answered the door then realized that it was the guy I'd been talking to about getting together! He was dressed to the nines and as he invited me inside - and I kinda hate to say this because it sounds bad - I thought that he wasn't a "pretty woman" because I could see the man quite clearly. He had asked me if him being dressed like this bothered me and I admitted that it did because I didn't expect it but I was okay with it. Went to the bedroom and I got him out of his dress to reveal a teddy that I thought some women would kill for as well as a really nice boner.

Once we started, I forgot all about him being decked out as a woman and at the first break, he told me how he felt like himself to dress like this and how he got started by wearing his sister's panties and bras and I found it all to be highly interesting. After a few hours of sex, I went away thinking that just when I thought I'd seen it all, I always found out that I haven't!

[Tight1-4u]

[QUOTE=Jazminedress;371485]yeah, you are totally going to get sexualized[/QUOTE To think I never got invited either.. I have met a guy that has told me he I?d a sissy master.. he train?s sissies.. he will take me to new levels of being submissive.. thus far he told me that I should go shopping and buy panties.. I explained that I have a whole drawer full.. he told me to write and tell him my experience.. how I got started,, how being sissy makes me feel,, and sexually what I like as a sissy.. so I did very explicitly.. now he says we need to have a three hour session person to person.. that he is going to fuck me to evaluate my submissiveness.. that I need to tell him my thoughts on how I would like to e fucked.. I told him that being submissive and sissy he should comes and be in charge and control and fuck me the best he could and just see how it goes.. I find it amusing that he is going to make me more sub sissy by fucking me.. when most of it is a mental or physiological state of mind.. more how I see myself or feel about myself while having sex with men.. yes I am submissive and yes I take on the female roll during sex with men.. ie: I am the one getting fucked.. I am interested how he is going to improve my sexual skills

[Long Duck Dong]

I've been CD'ing for about 15+ years (though my fantasies started much earlier). I started out, like a lot of others, as a moderately hairy panty wearer who just had a fascination for women's lingerie. However, I quickly discovered that cross dressing is a little like opening a bag of chips... once you've started it's almost impossible to stop! Over the course of the next few years I graduated from just panties to being a hair free, totally smooth, head to toe, lingerie clad, wig wearing, stiletto tapping diva. I even modified my exercise regime to get fitter and slim down, rather than bulk up.

CD'ind isn't something I just do, for me it's been a bit of a journey... I'm always striving to get better at it. Who knew make up was so hard?

I'm also fortunate in having a job that see's me overnighting in hotels fairly regularly which gives me the time and privacy to really indulge myself. And I make no bones about, when I dress in a hotel, I'm dressing for sex, with the intent of hooking up. When my partner for the evening arrives and I open the door, I make sure I present myself as well as possible, nice dress or skirt/blouse etc. I get a visceral thrill from the effect that has on guys. However, even when I know I won't be hooking up, I still dress just for the sensual experience of it.

Like other CD's on here I've also run afoul of radical trans activists accusing me of "just playing at it". I know I'm never going to transition, I like being a guy, albeit with an inclination to switch occasionally. If they have a problem with that, that's their problem, not mine. I know who and what I am and I'm content with it.

Lol, I am not a CDer but I tend to run foul of radical trans activists, and LGBT+ activists on a regular basis......it comes across like they want to be the gate keepers and rule makers for their respective communities, and it does not matter who they shit on or piss off in their own communities, or outside of it....and I tend to be the type of guy that is happy to share the world with others but not live in their world where they think they are god.......

I have a trans son and long time friend who is trans, and they both have run foul of the radical trans for enjoying the harry potter books and movies and not hating on JK rowling.......

The trouble with radicals is that they can never be happy and content like you, they are always looking for the next fight.....should send them my way lol

[BiGuyinMA]

...it comes across like they want to be the gate keepers and rule makers for their respective communities, and it does not matter who they shit on or piss off in their own communities, or outside of it....and I tend to be the type of guy that is happy to share the world with others but not live in their world where they think they are god.......


I've had a few run-ins with trans activists over the years, the most recent on this very forum. I voiced an opinion that I thought the backlash against the trans 'community' was actually a self inflicted wound and the result of the unreasonable behaviors and demands of their self appointed 'leaders'.

I personally only know 1 trans person and she seems a thoroughly decent, humorous and well balanced person. She certainly seems to be a million miles away from the overweight, orange haired, shrieking harpies, coiled like springs ready to take offense at any perceived slight or accidental miss-pronouning. I don't think anyone with a modicum of common sense could interpret what Jo Rowling said as being anti-trans or whatever else they're alleging but therein lies the problem... these people are neither smart, reasonable nor sensible; They are self righteous, blinkered ideologues who believe this fight is a zero sum game. For them to win, EVERYONE else HAS to concede.

I know these radicals don't speak for the vast majority of Trans people but given that they jam their ugly faces in front of any camera they can find to spew their venom, means that the wider trans community is getting tarred with the same brush. Sad!

[Jazminedress]

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I know these radicals don't speak for the vast majority of Trans people but given that they jam their ugly faces in front of any camera they can find to spew their venom, means that the wider trans community is getting tarred with the same brush. Sad!

I think much of that is media "If it bleeds, it leads"

[Long Duck Dong]

I've had a few run-ins with trans activists over the years, the most recent on this very forum. I voiced an opinion that I thought the backlash against the trans 'community' was actually a self inflicted wound and the result of the unreasonable behaviors and demands of their self appointed 'leaders'.

I personally only know 1 trans person and she seems a thoroughly decent, humorous and well balanced person. She certainly seems to be a million miles away from the overweight, orange haired, shrieking harpies, coiled like springs ready to take offense at any perceived slight or accidental miss-pronouning. I don't think anyone with a modicum of common sense could interpret what Jo Rowling said as being anti-trans or whatever else they're alleging but therein lies the problem... these people are neither smart, reasonable nor sensible; They are self righteous, blinkered ideologues who believe this fight is a zero sum game. For them to win, EVERYONE else HAS to concede.

I know these radicals don't speak for the vast majority of Trans people but given that they jam their ugly faces in front of any camera they can find to spew their venom, means that the wider trans community is getting tarred with the same brush. Sad!

I know a number of trans, the majority are great people, friendly and good to talk with... but they also tend to avoid making everything about them or being trans.....and then there are the ones that make everything about them and only things they agree with, are allowed to be said.......

Where I tend to piss people off, is my middle of the road stances, like IF we have LGBT+ pride parade, then let the straights have their straight pride as well.....equal rights for all.... and the response is often get fucked, straights do not need pride because they are not targeted or discriminated against or denied rights.......and I just shake my head and wonder of those people ever stop to realise that they are doing the very thing they claim, never happens.....

Same as when we fought for same sex marriage rights in New Zealand, I stood for marriage equality for all regardless of race, gender or sexual orientation and got abused for not standing for gay and lesbians marriage rights.....ironically I have never married and never wanted to but it was never about me, it was about others having the right to marry and the choice if they did marry or not.......
Interestingly enough, a number of the radicals that went after me, got married and then divorced after a few years......

I semi agree with the backlash against the trans community is partly caused by radicals within the trans community itself......they can not go around rubbishing other people and just labelling everybody as phobic and think that there will not be a reaction.......and to be honest one thing that really gets me annoyed, is the stance that a trans person should be allowed to mislead me into thinking that they are a female with a pussy, when they are a female with a penis, and if I get annoyed with being misled, thats on me, not them........

[Sissy boy]

Im a cosplayer, so it only makes sense i would love to dress up!. But its only recent that im i started to wear ladies panties full time. Mainly cus mens underwear is so boring.

But later ive been trying to learn to bottom. So i can go to TG nights at a sauna. So i can fully dress up and be used by a man. I wanna suck a cock dry, and and have my pussy creamed. But alas im so paranoid everytime i go to a sauna of catching something. Yet i cant stop sucking cock, and would so get off while dressed as a slut with my fav bottomless thongs and fantasised about getting spit roasted.

[Jozyxt]

It's weird, in the past 6 months, I have noticed on doublelist, and other forums, an explosion of CD's.

Not just guys who like pantys or a little lingerie........but full blown cd's.
I am curious if it is guys who want to transition and trying it out, if the taboo is not such a stigma now or what

There is the standard guys with a full beard of course, but, so many more that really , well, they are freaking hot.

I get that some of it is youtube, so many tutorials where we can learn to put on make up and not look like bozo the clown, so thats one thing

any idea why so many now ? are we just in more of an experimentation age ?

I often see these and think they are mostly pros. a early twenties CD that is looking for guys my age (mid 60s) is almost sure to want me to be "generous" to her. if I were single It might be interesting for a novelty. But no way I could pay for sex as things are now.