Please, don't spit on my cock or ask me to spit on yours.......

[Rest85]

There seems to be a trend in porn towards having a cocksucker spit on the cock they are sucking. I see it more often in f/m oral sex but I've seen it in m/m too and I simply don't like it.

It's a turn off for me. Sure, I know there's going to be saliva on the cock anyway, but I don't find it erotic when a girl or guy spits on a cock. Just suck it. If you need to stop to re-wet your lips, fine.... but no spitting.

And, feeders...don't EVEN think you can spit on me while I am sucking your dick. I am your sub... yes, that's true, but that's crossing the line. Talk dirty to me...call me what you want. Do NOT spit on me.

Lol. Yes, I've been watching too much porn. It ruins the whole vid when people start spitting! Just my personal opinion.

.....Anyone???

[KDaddy23]

I couldn't agree more. I see clips of men and women spitting on the dick, in the person's mouth and, yeah, no, don't do that. I saw one the other day when the guy about to be sucked grabbed the sucker by the chin and spit in his mouth. I stopped looking at it. A shame because I wanted to see if the guy could suck all the dick the other guy had. It's not sexy or erotic.

[skuz69]

I don't really understand why most people seem to think the cocksucker is a sub to the suckee. I like to suck cocks, but I don't think of myself as a sub. I think of myself as providing a service that I enjoy so it's a win/win situation. In a 69 scenario, there's no sub.....both are sucking cocks because they want to. In fact, if I have your cock in my mouth, who's really in the power position?

[Jozyxt]

I don't really understand why most people seem to think the cocksucker is a sub to the suckee.

Becasue a lot of cocksuckers are subs.

I had one sub CS that would say his mouth was dry so I would spit into it. The more the better. He was a greedy ass eater too and wanted me to pee in his mouth but we never had a place to do this.

I'm not too much on being dom, but I try to give every sex partner something of what they want too.


In a 69 scenario, there's no sub

Sure there can be a sub power relationship. IME there are guys that want a daddy to tell them but recognize that daddy gets pleasure from sucking too.

[Rest85]

I don't really understand why most people seem to think the cocksucker is a sub to the suckee. I like to suck cocks, but I don't think of myself as a sub. I think of myself as providing a service that I enjoy so it's a win/win situation. In a 69 scenario, there's no sub.....both are sucking cocks because they want to. In fact, if I have your cock in my mouth, who's really in the power position?

You make very valid points. I don't mean to assume that everyone prefers the sub/dom dynamic. It's just what turns me on. I like perceiving myself as sub when I am pleasuring another man's dick and I would prefer that he sees me that way, too. I want to be in his 'control' so to speak. I want to feel like he's using me, having me serve him for his pleasure, with no reciprocation. That's what drives my lust the best, however if the guy prefers not to play that role, I am fine with that too.

Sex is best when both parties can be in the role they prefer....or no 'role' at all, just being themselves. I use the term 'role' because I don't see myself as sub to anyone in every day life. I find it incredibly arousing during m/m sex, though.

[Rest85]

I couldn't agree more. I see clips of men and women spitting on the dick, in the person's mouth and, yeah, no, don't do that. I saw one the other day when the guy about to be sucked grabbed the sucker by the chin and spit in his mouth. I stopped looking at it. A shame because I wanted to see if the guy could suck all the dick the other guy had. It's not sexy or erotic.

Yeah...I've seen that too, where a guy held the other guy's head and spit into his mouth. No! I would likely push him away and leave....at the very least. Don't even do that shit to me.

[SilkyHoseLover]

Not into spitting on another person for any reason, and don't want it done to me, either. I don't find it sexy at all -- if you need lube, we have some lube!

[KDaddy23]

When I suck dick, there's nothing submissive about me and I don't much care what the other guy is thinking but some have found out that, nope, I'm not that kind of cocksucker and I'm not going to tolerate being treated like I am. Okay. One of the things I learned - because I'm a nerd like that - is that one of the reasons "French kissing" is so hot is that our saliva, among other elements, also contains testosterone and, say, giving a woman a good "dose" of it has the effect of making her "hotter." But that's kissing and, yeah, it works on guys, too - just adds to the testosterone we already have.

But spitting in the cocksucker mouth can serve the same purpose but I was raised to look at spit at or on someone to be the epitome of disrespect and if you get your ass kicked, well, you should've kept the spit in your mouth. I understand that there are some subs who like the "humiliation factor" of being spit on, slapped around, stuff like that but this spitting thing is one of those things that I wouldn't want done to me and I wouldn't do it to a guy and no matter how much it turns him on. Sloppy blowjob? Okay. Messy but okay. Snorting up a loogy to spit on my dick? You'd better not. Not only do i find it unsexy, but it's also disrespectful. If, by chance, sucking dick gives you a dry mouth, try having a small piece of candy in your mouth - like peppermint, which really gets the saliva flowing - just be careful to hold it in your cheek!

But, yeah, whatever floats your boat. If this is part of what being submissive means to you, I got no problem with it but I won't do it. I know there are a lot of submissive cocksuckers and very submissive ones, too, but I also know that there are lot more guys who aren't and "dominant and submissive" doesn't mean anything to them but getting with a guy to suck each other off is the thing that has the most meaning. Yeah, we assume that if you suck dick, you're submissive and I beg to differ on that one because I'm not even submissive and I don't "play games" when it's time to suck dicks and like I've known some guys to do. But this is me. My spit - and yours - stays in your mouth and, yes, on my dick while it's in your mouth. Or else. You really don't want to know what that means. Of all the shit I've seen in porn, this is the one thing that bothers the shit out of me to see people doing it.

[licyou69]

Agree. I'm submissive with respects to pleasuring you, but none of that unless I agree to it

[Robtiti]

Total turn-off for me.

[sweetnuts69]

yes, you have a good point just lick it and suck it

[marine20]

spitting on my cock really doesn't do anything for me , but i have had this fantasy , of a beautiful woman spitting in my open mouth. i don't know why i want this , i guess it's just another real dirty thing i can do.

[Long Duck Dong]

I have sucked cocks that have dry skin that just soaks up any moisture in my mouth, and yeah I have spat on them.....cos for some reason that does not bother guys as much as me stopping to take a few mouthfuls of water, lol

I often find its because a guy has used soap to clean themselves, rather than something like shower gel or a moisturizing soap / beauty bar, and for some guys that does result in dry skin.......

but one big turn off for me, is a drooler cos it can get so bloody messy....the other is somebody who overdoes the sound effects while sucking,....slurping, slobbery sounds....I mean its a cock not a fucking iceblock....

[darkeyes]

It isn't just guys.. Women, in particular women from North America, increasingly seem to spit on the genitals of other women. Most still thankfully don't, but it is an increasing trend. Worse, they spit into the gobs of other women, and presumably men. There is a growing number of women, though thank God still small in number from the UK and Europe who take pleasure in it, or think others do.

I know that in oral sex there will, by definition, always be a sharing of saliva. Even in the simple act of kissing. I can live with that comfortably and enjoyably. Spitting, whether on genitals, into mouth or newhere else? Not on ur Nelly. It isn't my thing. What other folk do consensually is their affair, but gobbing on my genitals, or in my face or mouth or ne where else is asking for trouble, the immediate termination of nookie, a serious ticking off, and shown or asked the way out.

[Warmnsalty]

TOTAL turn off, whether MF or MM porn, spitting is totally a no go for me.

[Modude]

TOTAL turn off, whether MF or MM porn, spitting is totally a no go for me.

Same here, I don't care for it AT ALL.....

[Rest85]

I'm glad to hear most everyone agrees. I can't figure out why it has become so common in porn. The need a feedback button for each vid. Thumbs down on spitting.

[KDaddy23]

I'm glad to hear most everyone agrees. I can't figure out why it has become so common in porn. The need a feedback button for each vid. Thumbs down on spitting.

I suppose it's supposed to be sexy, shows dominance/submission, something. Oral sex involves a lot of saliva "all by itself" and porn... takes it to the extreme.