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Flounder1967
Jul 30, 2023, 12:10 AM
My wife and I met a nice guy through people we know and some apps. We started and few conversations with him. About being intimate with me first. We got together and found each other very pleasant and loved touching eacher. Then he met my wife and had small breif play session. He saaids hes ok. We got a note saying he now want to step back and reevaluated where he wants to go steady with anyone. Just when we all were to point of intimate 3 person play time.
I know he's is having a hard time being with my wife. I understand that. He says he had very time with wemon that now only dates men.
What are the bihusband and straight wife going to do.
KDaddy23
Jul 30, 2023, 2:42 PM
Keep looking. Methinks that when you have hard times with women, trying to be intimate with one is, indeed, difficult for some guys. So the answer is to keep looking for a guy who won't find it difficult and is willing to engage with her and as much as he's willing to engage with you.
Flounder1967
Jul 30, 2023, 4:45 PM
Keep looking. Methinks that when you have hard times with women, trying to be intimate with one is, indeed, difficult for some guys. So the answer is to keep looking for a guy who won't find it difficult and is willing to engage with her and as much as he's willing to engage with you.
I know it's just frustrating with the long courtship then falls thru. Were still looking and in love with each other.
Mrs.F and I are still looking.
KDaddy23
Jul 30, 2023, 5:39 PM
In this, I learned that some people think that they can be a part of this because it "sounds good on paper" but to actually do it and be engaging? A whole different thing and one they find that they just can't handle. My first wife and I went poly and with a woman that I wanted to have sex with... but my wife did, too, and wound up falling in love with her. Okay, fine... but now I have two very horny women to deal with and I wanted some help and, specifically, from a guy who was bisexual and willing and able to not only engage with the girls but with me, too, and... shit, I must have interviewed close to fifty guys and some of them said that they'd have a problem having sex with a woman or a problem openly and freely having sex with me and they all got rejected and I was on my own with the girls.
There are guys out there who'd qualify and could meet your needs... and finding them is a frustrating process and one that you just have to stick with in order for you and Mrs. F to be the way you want to be with each other and someone else. Never give up!