Advice for a 1st Timer

[fly723]

I hope to try anal for the first time soon, (very soon) and need some tips on the best way to receive anal for the first time.

It seems like on your back would be the easiest but some suggestions would be great!

Also, any tips on bareback vs. condom? This relationship has been tested for STD's so HIV is not a concern? The thought of an anal creampie is so damn erotic.

Thanks all!

[diamond_tether]

It really depends on your preference. The first time I tried anal we switched positions about four times until we found the one that was both most comfortable to me and conducive to slow and easy entry. Eventually I found that being on top worked best for me as I could control exactly how much was inside me at any given time, but the downside to that is that once your partner is in they're ALL the way in, lol. Being bent over something can be helpful if you're the type to want to push back or grab onto something during sex and going from behind also gives your partner plenty of room to maneuver - you just need to make sure they can hear you loudly and clearly enough to stop and go as you need. Being on your back has its benefits, but it can be difficult for your partner to hold up your legs while trying to penetrate since you'll likely be tight and they may need support from their hands about the head and base of themselves to get in. You can also get the prickly/fatigued sensation going through your legs if they're not used to being above your head for an extended period of time - especially with the new found actions going on down there.

On the intercourse itself - make sure you do whatever preparation you'll need to be sure you'll be as comfortable as possible in the moment (from multiple showers to enemas, etc). When you actually begin, go as slow as you need to; frequent stops will allow both your body and your mind to adjust to what's happening. There's no such thing as too much lube the first few times you do it. Again, relax as much as you can and trust that your body can handle what's going on. I, personally, prefer to masturbate while I'm being penetrated - it helps me relax overall as well as adding to the sensations I feel in the region overall. As always, start with fingers graduating in number as you get more comfortable. Once your partner can get three fingers (in a triangle/stacked/pyramid formation - not flat) comfortably moving in and out of you then you should be able to move on to other penetration.

On the bareback thing, if you're both comfortable and are both absolutely sure you're clean, etc and you're alright with a guy finishing inside you then there's really no reason not to if you both want to. The latex can make sliding in and out easier since it's a continuous, smooth surface, but enough lube applied (and reapplied as necessary) can make skin-on-skin contact run just as smoothly.

[Long Duck Dong]

diamond tether covered it very well lol

and the things i wanna add, is a safety signal..... a movement of the hand that indicates to stop immediately

i know this seems odd lol...but sometimes, its easier to do that, than try to tell ya partner what to do.....and my first few time, i had my hand raised, and if i opened my hand up, my partner knew to continue on slowly, and if i clenched my fist, he knew to stop and hold his position.....i did it with a person, that i knew was experienced, and somebody I trusted A LOT
my actual first experience, was not voluntary.....and so when i was ready to have anal by my own choice... i chose my friend, and he made it a experience and a half

you also may experience a lil bleeding......its referred to as ya anal virginity.....cos ya teaching the body to go against its natural functions and accept something rather that try to expell it....so ya anus can go into spastic mode for a few minutes until it shuts down and relaxes
the bleeding is generally very mild or not at all.... and its the result of stretching and very mild tearing.....however, if you get a lot of bleeding.... go to the hospital.... you may have ripped the rectum passage
but i wanna stress that the risks of doing that are very very slim.....and rectum ripping, only normally happens if the body is pushed, too far, too fast and with a lot of force

don't be surprised if your body fights the penetration.... some people may take a few times to accept anal intercourse

last but not least.... the ultimate experience..... cumming......
dude the first time i had anal and cum.... i screamed myself stupid....and cum ??? fuck..... it was a tidal wave.....so it pays to have a towel or sheet under you just in case.....

[Herbwoman39]

I know I'm not a guy, but I do have a little experience with anal.

Even if you trust the person you're with, using a condom makes clean-up easier afterwards. Plus there's the added benefit of lube already there. You'll also want to use more lube than you think you'll use.

The reason for the big release of fluids is that anal will stimulate the prostate gland, which will trigger more fluid release. It's also, according to hubby, a WHOLE lot of fun when the prostate is stimulated :bigrin:

Have fun, but be safe first.

[someotherguy]

Here are some undocumented tips.

1. When taking your pants off, pull them down and step out of them, not up and over your head.

2. Anal sex while boating should be performed with both people either in the boat, or on the dock.

3. It is not necessary to drop a bar of soap every time.