sex chat

[bigbiguy22]

how many of u people use this site for sex chat and that stuff? cuz i know that i do

[biwords]

I assume you mean apart from the lighthearted banter in the chatroom? Just once since joining last month, and that because someone initiated it and I thought, well, never done this...

[kitten]

I come to the site to relax, chat and get to know about myself through talking with others. I don't feel so out of place here. I have some mentors that have guided me through some cyber moments and those encounters have helped me realize my preferences and fantasies. I have some trusted friends that I am comfortable going to the bedroom with or pm-ing with and it has been truly enlightening and a release for my inhibitions.

So, yes, I do.

[bm_jim]

When I first joined I used the chat for cyber. It was nice to find a chatroom where I was not out of the normal. I have pretty much stopped though, now I prefer the forums and once in a while drop into chat but not to cyber really. I just enjoy the friendships.

[Daisy999]

Did you ever listen to the Janet Jackson album 'The Velvet Rope'?
It's one of my favorite CDs ever.

Here's a part that I like since it reminds me of erotic chat which I am a fan of.

Interlude: Speaker Phone

This interlude features one of Janet's dancers or "The Kids" as she calls them.

Shawnette Heard and Janet are having a normal conversation when Janet begins to moan. Shawnette then says, "Yo coochie is gon' swell up and fall apart."

"Speakerphone" is known for it's controversy and was able to show that Janet was no longer a good girl with it's masturbation refrences.

This was picked apart by media, particularly comedienne Sandra Bernhard who quipped in her one woman show, "I thought I said some crazy shit, but Miss Jackson...you so nasty!"

[InsaneTyga]

Personally, I don't cyber online I don't really see the point in it myself, though those that do I have nothing against. As a close friend of mine is fond of saying "My keyboard is not ribbed for my pleasure"

I'd just much rather chat and laugh....and in general make an ass of myself :tongue:

[deletetacount123]

I don't cyber online. Beside... how do you know if the person is REALLY playing with themselfs on the other end of the screen? Not just typying it while browsing other sites?? :tongue:

Cyber is ok if your parnter, bf/gf/spouse is away on a trip (vacation, business, hasnt moved in with you yet) and you want to cyber with each other, thats ok cause its more personal that way :)

Cyber with someone you don't know is like having a one night stand in a safe way. Loveless and means nothing.
Just not for me.

Tasha

[Solomon]

I don't really get into cybering online either. I can't see the person's face, or any expressions or hear anything, and I normally have no idea who this person is, and I know they don't know me from a hole in the wall. So I really don't understand the point of it.

It's sorta like coffee creamer, I just don't like the creamer without the coffee ya know? :cool:

but of course there are always exceptions to the rule lol.

[genera101.2]

I joined to be apart of a community of like mined people, which includes talking, sharing ideas, understanding others and myself, and I have had some cyber and phone moments. I liked them both a safe way to have a moment with someone else. Fantasies that we may feel embarrassed or ashamed of not sure if others really get turned on by what I get turned on by and then the fantasies can develop from there to being more intense. There really are bi’s out there who also think and like what I like it’s great to not feel so alone or weird.

[Herbwoman39]

When I was first involved with the internet on the old Prodigy site in 1993, I cybered everything I could get my hands on. I think I managed to cyber just about every legal male on the service :)

Now, cybersex does very little for me. Plus you never know if someone is telling the truth about their age, who they are, etc. For all I know that beautiful blonde who sent me her pic could be some middle aged guy in boxers in his basement.

I'd rather just hop into the chat rooms occasionally and laugh and flirt there.

[biwords]

I'm with herbwoman. Flirting is one of life's great pleasures and there are some incorrigible flirts in our chatroom, some so witty it's scary (you know who you are!).

[TaylorMade]

I'm still in the stage where I cyber on occasion,but I seem to restrict that to a selected circle of guys/girls. But, I admit I perfer phone if I have to choose one of the two.

*Taylor*

[Uneedhands]

[object Object]I havn't used this site for that. I'm not above it. I haven't spent much time in any chat rooms; they're a little confusing. So far I just stick to reading the forums. Isn't it hard to type with one hand?

[hudson9]

Guilty(!). Not always, but have had some fun encounters. What I like about this site is it's possible to have both a hot pm AND intelligent (well, actually more often just silly) conversations in the same place!

[Domino]

I don't come in here for sex chats at all.

[bi-robin-calif]

90% of all cybersex takes place between a 14-year-old boy pretending he's a woman so he can have lsebian sex with another 14-year-old boy pretending he's a woman.

Welcome to the wonderful world of the internet, where the men are men, the women are men, and the little girls are undercover cops.

[biwords]

bi-robin, you must be channeling Proust, who thought that every couple was in fact a foursome, since A's false image of B and B's false image of A were always participants. Both your comments have an underlying tragic feel...well, tragicomic, anyway...

[Spicy]

This is funny, but never tried cyber sex before, just love the real thing. Like to try cyber sex. if you like to too drop me a private message or email and we can get started. i have skype!!!

Spicy

[joxbear69]

I agree with hudson9---I cum here for some great sex chat/fantasy ideas as well as intelligent conversation. Best of both worlds...

[Uneedhands]

I have tried a few different cybersex sites since my last post in this thread. I hated them all. I got so sick of being called "Hey baby" ...and people would contact me and write a filthy phrase (usually less than a sentence with extremely bad grammar and no tact.) ...Of all the sex sites i have tried so far I like this one. Idon't even know anyone here, but the forums are fun. Does anyone want to talk dirty with me? ...I have a webcam.

[mrplayfuluk]

oh lordy chill out everyone.... the place to cyber is where you can see the other person and hear them as well. Of course its not as good as the real thing but it can be fun when the other person is up for a chat. On here there is no point cybering unless you are into retro cybersex or are big on text fantasy. Skype video, ichat (Mac) are where its at if you want to see/hear the other person - no under age there as you can veto them.. Also I have found one for the guys, www.mand8.com which has online video chat which is very popular especially with uk guys.....

[Skater Boy]

the place to cyber is where you can see the other person and hear them as well. Of course its not as good as the real thing...

I agree. I find it quite hard to get off just from typed words, probably because my imagination (OR the other person's typing/descriptive skills) are simple not up to it. Plus, its just not something I'm into... I'd rather do the real thing, if possible.

That said, I know some people get very aroused by erotic literature, so it does depend on the person.

[mannysg]

I've tried cyber and don't care for it. I enjoy "talking dirty" but don't like cyber-sex. The difference? Well, it's a fine line.

I like to talk about sex, talk about what I enjoy, my fantasies, etc. and enjoy other people talking about sex, hearing their fantasies, etc. I don't mean in a "clinical" way either. For example, if whoever I was chatting with and I were discussing oral sex, I'd much prefer to say "I like to kneel in front of a man, pull his cock out of his pants and feel it grow in my mouth as I lick and suck it, I also love to have a woman laying on her back and dive into her pussy face first to lap up her juices, teasing her clit until she screams in orgasm" as opposed to a more clinical version "I like to perform oral sex on both men and women."

I don't enjoy the "play-acting" associated with cyber. The same is true of phpone sex. I tried it and it was OK, but not for me. Again, talking dirty is fun, but the play acting isn't.

[bigregory]

Cyber sex here no.
But I have met some nice people here and even had some awsome sex with one .Maybe on day in the chats I will have some cyber sex,but I like the real thing better/.

[Caaveman]

I don't care for cyber very much at all. But I do sometimes like to look or check out other people through web cams. I like this place, for friends that I have made and friends that I havn't met yet. I'm not going to say that I will never do syber here, cause if I say (I won't) then something will happen just to make me out a liar. But I don't usually get very much out of it. And I have tried. But I usually just wind up trying to politley change the subject. I even liked one guy's adatude so well that I kept sybering with him til (he said) he got off. But again, I got nothing out of it. But I do like the people here, the friendship, the comrodary, and occasionally the help with a problem, or maby just someone to lend and ear so I can vent. But ifyou like to watch other people then you might want to go to www.jmeeting.com and check some of their chatrooms with cams out.

[cliffml]

I occasionally have gone to the chat rooms for cyber, but not often. I see nothing wrong with it if everyone involved is into it also. I do go to yahoo messenger where you can cam to cam with someone or a group. It's more fun to watch everyone getting off and at least you know their not lying about it.

[Uneedhands]

...Perhaps I haven't defined it as much as everyone else. I thought cyber was just basicly talking about sex acts with someone over the internet (with or without a camera). I don't know or really care, but I'll still do it. It's no big deal.

[DiamondDog]

I cyber with a friend but only because we do it whenever I feel like it, and his husband isn't into the same things sexually as he is.

[darkeyes]

how many of u people use this site for sex chat and that stuff? cuz i know that i do

Do Ya??? Gud luk 2 ya hun an enjoy..an allya partners.... sum do sum don... this site like life is wotya make it..if ya enjoy gud an so b it... jus don abuse it an becum a pain in arse!!!

[OcalaCouple683]

We use this site to try to find local people to make friends and more.. We really aren't into cyber sex type chat- just doesn't do anything for me!

[Tingly_Tickles]

robin is fairly close to right though that most of the time it does seem that people are just
not who they say they are I know this from chatting with many many different people and
then they finally come to the conclusion that they must tell the truth.

I'm not here for cyber it says so in my profile does that mean that I won't ever well not
unless I know for sure that it truly is the person that I really know on the other end.

[proseros]

I think Cybering is a good way of breaking ground with another and exercising your creative muscles. It's like a brief summer rainstorm that washes away little apprehensions and fears and clears a space for one to one communication without committing any overtly personal parts but those shared in a friendly social way.

The exception to this is facelessly popping in privately on another faceless handle with stats and things noone asked about and expecting instant karma to unite you with the love of your life -OR- cybering compulsively without any effort of really interacting with anyone being a consideration. THEN you need a therapist, not a computer with an Internet connection.:tongue:

[Jaxxxon]

Hullo all. I'll chime in with a bit of a different angle. From time to time I do like to visit the chatroom, sometimes for a little cyber. I know this'll sound strange, but it's what I do INSTEAD of cheating on my wife. I'm mad about her and want to be faithful to her. But the fact is (for evolutionary reasons I won't bore you with) men are drawn to multiple sex partners. And in my case the desire extends to men as well (something the wife wouldn't understand or dig). So a little cyber with a lady or a fella serves as a release and a relief. Fantasy can be a powerful thing. No doubt the real thing would be way better, but cyber can still be a fun outlet. And I really believe it helps me resist the temptation to give in...

No doubt some of you will regard this a "repression" that is not healthy, but "healthy" is exactly what I think it is.

[Not2str8]

When I first discovered a bisexual themed chatroom some 7 years ago, like many others, I simultaneously discovered cybering. It was fun....like when you have a new sexual partner in your life. But it got old fast. Frankly, most people, especially men, are not very good at it. They lack the creativity, imagination, and vocabulary necessary to make it an erotic experience. I rarely bother with it anymore. I find it more stimulating to actually get to know people.