Help me, to solve this

[chinesegirl88]

Im 19 this year. since my age 14 i have special feeling on female :) . I cant explain much, might be my hormon changed since i play sports alot, i play rough sports like basketball :flag1: ...my attitude turn to rough, hyperactive person..

i have feeling on girls since 14, i met a school girl who is dont know her well. but some how i always imagine we hug together, kiss together n have sex. but all these while i just imagined only. I didnt do any action until shes has graduated from my school. until today, i joined national cheerleading group because of her, shes of of the co captain in the team, i rarely talk to her, but some how i have the chance to know her, and now she knows me.

I still have the feeling with her, but some how i dont know whether she will accept me or not? i dont know how to start to express myself to her, to show that i love her and i wish i could be with her.


other then loving her, i have feeling on male friend too, but some how i just keep in friendship with him, never tell him that i like him.
im still single until today, i dont know who i should love with or be with...
recently my friend bring me to gay club, he brough his college friend who is lesbian...i dont know why i have the brave automaticly to tell her that im bisexual, im not comfirm yet. one of my male friend know that im lesbian, i have shared with him about my problem, his gay ACTUALLY, he encourage me to make friend with LESBIAN first, and may try out first then only comfirm.

bcos so far i have never have sex or action with any one.

i cant comfirm my self what i am.... :eek:
im always confuse, which gender is more suitable for me... ive been kissed with some one that i dont really like, im just anxious try out KISS WITH TOUGE, but some how no feeling felt disgusting...

i kissed with one of my school male friend before, just recently...i cant feel anything...girl i have never try... :eek:

but one question is, if im having sex with girl,when we're naked , how we gonna make each other satisfy with sex,...hows the end? if a normal sex, normally male will CUM, and girl will very exhausted on bed, thats the end....


but girl with girl.. HOW??? :eek:


siewling :flag3:

[Herbwoman39]

Think about it hon. When you have sex with a guy is all you do standard penis-in-vagina sex or do you do other things like oral sex? Does a guy ever use his fingers to make you orgasm?

Sex is a whole lot more than a penis and a vagina.

[jem_is_bi]

I can remember having the same conflicting feeling at your age and even younger. It is possible that the conflict will never go away. However, this is not bad. The conflict has never gone away for me. But with time, I have become happy with who and what I am. Everybody has some kind of conflicts they must eventually accommodate and live with. Mastering your feelings and eventually establishing a relationship (male or female) can build strength of character and be a foundation for a happy life. Probably your first love will not be fulfilled. Nevertheless, it is a good learning experience toward finding the eventual love of your life. When you eventually experience sex, (male or female), you will know when both your sexual appetites have been satisfied. It is like knowing when you have had enough to eat.

JEM

[the sacred night]

If you're not sure about this girl accepting you, maybe you could subtly flirt and see if she flirts back. Also, pay attention to the way she talks about gay people or lesbians, to see if she has a problem with it or not.

As far as the sex part, correct me if I'm wrong anyone who has more experience than I do, but I think with two women generally it takes the form of oral sex.

[chinesegirl88]

Hows oral sex! kissing only? hugging each other?

to be frank i really appreciate all of u comments! its would be helping me alot!

continue for reply pls!! thx


regards
coolant world girl :)

[DiamondDog]

Try reading some lesbian erotic fiction or watching lesbian porn that's not made by men.

[mariersa]

Will be in Macao 5-15 through 5-20 if you want to "discuss" :yinyang: this

[spartca]

Hows oral sex! kissing only? hugging each other?

to be frank i really appreciate all of u comments! its would be helping me alot!

continue for reply pls!! thx


Oral sex is stimulating the genitalia of the other person with your mouth and tongue:

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Oral_sex

Specifically, oral sex performed on a woman is called Cunnilingus:

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cunnilingus

I'm not sure about the laws where you live, but here in California it's illegal for a 19-year-old to be having sex with a 14-year old. Just a little something to keep in mind.

Hope that helps you and good luck! :)

[Curmudgeon]

Hows oral sex! kissing only? hugging each other?

to be frank i really appreciate all of u comments! its would be helping me alot!

continue for reply pls!! thx


regards
coolant world girl :)

Oral sex is using the mouth to stimulate a partner sexually, especially using the mouth on a partner's genitals.

[DiamondDog]

chinesegirl:here is an online safer sex guide about how two women have sex.

http://magazine.goodvibes.com/girlfuck.swf