View Full Version : Fisting? anyone into it?
tjwaters
Nov 20, 2007, 12:01 AM
Anyone into fisting? An ex girl friend of mine could do it and wow when she came it was very intense! Anyone tried it? interested in it?
Tingly_Tickles
Nov 20, 2007, 12:16 AM
Even if some people are they prolly won't admit it but I do sure why not it's
too damn good not to love it.
DiamondDog
Nov 20, 2007, 12:39 AM
Yes but I'm not into being a fisting bottom at all. :)
CHOCOLATECITY32
Nov 20, 2007, 3:49 AM
i have seen it done b4.....this girl had done it and at first it was weird she had stuffed almost her whole arm all the way to her elbow...i was impressed and was like wow...
12voltman59
Nov 20, 2007, 4:12 AM
For all of the questions above-one word works well:
NO!!!!!
the mage
Nov 20, 2007, 9:11 AM
I've seen it done, not a turn on.
HighEnergy
Nov 20, 2007, 9:47 AM
I've was surprised to find it to be an extraordinarily erotic bonding experience. Now I look at the size of potential partners hands...
centralpaguy
Nov 20, 2007, 9:53 AM
I fisted a woman once and it was incredible. Years ago an ex girlfriend tried to fist me but she couldnt get past the thumb knuckle...It was an AWSOME feeling
Cesca
Nov 20, 2007, 10:36 AM
I assume you mean fisting both orifices. All I can say to that is - forget it.
warmpuppy
Nov 20, 2007, 10:52 AM
A guy once tried to fist my nose. I expressed my displeasure with his efforts in a deliberately violent way. He went away.
pasco_lol_cpl
Nov 20, 2007, 11:19 AM
I've was surprised to find it to be an extraordinarily erotic bonding experience. Now I look at the size of potential partners hands...
I'll have to agree with this. It just sort of happened and I found it to be extremely erotic and pleasurable.
darkeyes
Nov 20, 2007, 2:41 PM
Bout fistin me has lots 2 say..but won... wot me hasta say is neitha nice or polite!
anne27
Nov 20, 2007, 6:17 PM
Vaginal, I have tried. My ex f/g wanted to try it on me and I went along thinking "I am sooo not going to like this", but surprisingly it was a rather intense pleasurable experience. The woman I am seeing now is very much into it as well, both in giving and receiving, so I got to be on the giving end recently. It was quite memorable and we both enjoyed it immensely.
It's a rather vulgar name for such an intimate experience, I have to add.
DiamondDog
Nov 20, 2007, 11:14 PM
Vaginal, I have tried. My ex f/g wanted to try it on me and I went along thinking "I am sooo not going to like this", but surprisingly it was a rather intense pleasurable experience. The woman I am seeing now is very much into it as well, both in giving and receiving, so I got to be on the giving end recently. It was quite memorable and we both enjoyed it immensely.
It's a rather vulgar name for such an intimate experience, I have to add.
How is the term vulgar?
Would you prefer handballing? It is also called that. :)
meteast chick
Nov 21, 2007, 2:02 AM
Trust me when I say vaginal fisting, when done correctly, is FABULOUS!!!
luv and kisses,
xoxoxoxoxoxo
meteast
kinkybarebottom
Nov 21, 2007, 6:32 AM
I have been fisted and love it so verry much done right,some get in a hurry and tend to force which causes a lot of discomfort. Done right taking the time to open up it is the most erotic and fantistactic feelings i can't even explain or say about it. I do love being fisted and always will.
anteak
Nov 21, 2007, 8:53 AM
I have fisted one lady. Her and her guy were playing with me and another guy. during the party her guy said "you can put your hand in her cunt", I tried it and sure enough I had my entire hand in her pussy, no problem at all. I still have a pic of him with his hand up her lovebox. Later on during a session with another Biguy that arranged for guys to fuck me I found I loved having things in my ass, the bigger the better. He was playing with me and sucking my cock, I don't know where the idea came from as I had never heard of it but I asked him if he would put his hand inside me. he made a feeble attemt to talk me out of it but finally tried and with lots of lotion and a little work soon had his hand and arm up my butt. I loved it:-) So far I have been fisted by two men & two ladies.
Mysteryx
Nov 21, 2007, 4:16 PM
No, but I have considered it.
tjwaters
Nov 21, 2007, 10:54 PM
wow lots of replies, personally I've never had my hand completely in any hole, to the knuckles a few times, another ex girl friend total could have on me but she chicken out :rolleyes: guess she was not into it, she had small hands so it was easy for her but wow it did feel good.
haha anyone into this in my area please let me know ;)
jem_is_bi
Nov 22, 2007, 12:17 AM
I am not qualified to comment on the pleasures or pain of vaginal fisting.
Obviously some men like it.
But, KEEP YOUR FIST AWAY FROM MY ASS!! :eek: Pain!! Trauma!! Medical Bills!!:(
JEM
kitten
Nov 22, 2007, 2:01 AM
not tried it and have other things I am interested in experiencing first.
good to read other experiences tho. that is the best aprt of belonging to this community - I have learned so much!
hugs,
darkeyes
Nov 22, 2007, 4:43 AM
I am not qualified to comment on the pleasures or pain of vaginal fisting.
Obviously some men like it.
JEM
Yea.. no doubt they dus!!!
jonybangbang
Nov 22, 2007, 9:17 AM
did it to a gal once,or for her,not shure which.wasnt my idea,dont think it was realy hers either,just kind of happend.how did it go?well once i got my head around the fact that it was actually hapening (i was wondering if i would ever be adiquate agian) didnt particularly turn me on or off except for the fact that i always enjoyed turning her on.like someone mentioned it took a while,slow and easy but when we got there,man she was far gone.with out a doubt one of the most intense orgasms ive seen.cant really say that i quite understand it, but thats the way it was in april '73
guycurious
Nov 25, 2007, 9:43 AM
My wife does it to me on occassion (not often enough). Still haven't gotten her hand totally inside me but we're almost there. :eek: The feeling is so intense !!! I feel like my head is going to explode. :bigrin:
Her limit is one finger from me.
musqrat
Nov 25, 2007, 11:26 PM
I've never had anyone try more than a couple fingers in me, though I'd like to try that sometime. As for fisting a woman's pussy, I've had four fingers in, but never more than that. Again, I would like to explore that further, but haven't found a partner who was interested in pursuing that.
YOUNG_CURIOUS_MALE
Nov 26, 2007, 11:39 PM
I would like to try it, i have had my hand in a x gf, but couldnt get past the thumb.. and i took alot of time.
I would like to try fisting on myself as well.
tomishere
Nov 28, 2007, 11:19 AM
I went with a women that was really into it. She was on the tight side so it would take awhile. She had mind blowing orgasms when I did it. The turn on for me was her reaction to it. She told me being streched like that was out of this world and it also had a nasty aspect to it that turned her on.
innaminka
Dec 1, 2007, 8:15 AM
Trust me when I say vaginal fisting, when done correctly, is FABULOUS!!!
meteast
I concur totally here provided the emphasised words are adhered to.
I must admit that I've only ever allowed another woman's fist inside - my hubby tried and: TOO BIG!
But as was written, done propely, with time and understanding........ :tong::tong::tong::tong::tong:
Oh My God. The sensation, once the fist is snuggly inserted, is just way out.
newbie40
Apr 11, 2009, 2:22 AM
Tried vaginal fisting on my wife but could not get past 4 fingers (she is still very tight).
She did complete anal fisting on me recently. She has big hand but WOW! No pain, a fantastic feeling, and a little blood though. She likes things vanilla, so that was a big stretch for her (no pun intended) and she freaked a little bit when she saw her hand in me past the wrist; but for me it was all pleasurable... til next time.
12voltman59
Apr 11, 2009, 2:25 AM
My answer is still NO
But to each his or her own, I say--and if that floats your boat--go for it!!
Lonewolf76
Apr 11, 2009, 2:30 AM
No thanks! Not for me.
Georgie_Girl
Apr 11, 2009, 3:08 AM
I'd like to try it sometime. :)
aheatseeker
Apr 11, 2009, 3:48 AM
i would like to try fisting a woman but havent found any women into it yet near me. any volunteers?
Hephaestion
Apr 11, 2009, 6:58 AM
Size ratios are obviously important.
With that perspective, since I lost a horse and cart with the practice, I now shout first and wait for the echo. Anything longer than 0.5 seconds is considered too dangerous to attempt without first alerting the rescue services.
What is more frightening is the suggestion / request for the insertion of a serpentine live animal. "At which point our reporter made an excuse and left".
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BiJoe696
Apr 11, 2009, 9:17 AM
I remember meeting a couple via a Swing Mag ad 25 yrs ago. First thing when she and I "shook hands" meeting the way she put her hand around mine like checking the size, I knew, even though I had never successfully done it all the way before, that it was going to happen that nite, and it sure did, very intense. She sure enjoyed it a lot.
( and it was never mentioned in the letters{ ( yes, writing with pen and paper and sending thru the mail ) we exchanged or phone call before we met}. .
curious44
Apr 11, 2009, 12:22 PM
Size ratios are obviously important.
With that perspective, since I lost a horse and cart with the practice, I now shout first and wait for the echo. Anything longer than 0.5 seconds is considered too dangerous to attempt without first alerting the rescue services.
What is more frightening is the suggestion / request for the insertion of a serpentine live animal. "At which point our reporter made an excuse and left".
.
That had me laughing for several minutes!!! :) :)
My wife tried to fist me a couple times after my begging broke her down. Never quite made it, but she wasn't really in to it. She claimed she just couldn't go any further and her hand was getting tired. I never really felt any terrible pain and think if she had more of a "can do" attitude we could have succeeded.
A good friend of one of our daughters-in-law can put her whole fist in her mouth and is proud of it. I sometimes fantasize about her doing the same to my backside.
As far as me fisting anyone, I don't think it's ever going to happen. Even if I were lucky enough to ever have the opportunity my hands are too big. They're not really long but are pretty wide. I have trouble finding gloves that fit. Many 2x gloves are still too tight to be comfortable. When I find a pair that fits I buy them whether I need them or not and try to make them last.
JohniBi
Apr 11, 2009, 1:59 PM
I love porn with fisting in it:
http://www.redtube.com/505
curious44
Apr 12, 2009, 9:06 AM
Thanks JohniBi. That's a good one.
I haven't seen it before but that might be the famous fisting scene from "Tampa Tushy Fest" that got Seymore Butts (aka Alan Glasser) in all that trouble with the law about 7 years ago in CA. I know Alicia Klass was in that video and that's Alicia doing the fisting in your clip and the male voice in the background is Seymore Butts. If I remember right he beat the rap and the video is available on the market. I've seen it in adult stores but haven't bought it because no one can confirm that the scene hasn't been cut from the one they are selling.
Realist
Apr 12, 2009, 9:07 AM
The first I heard of this was in the '60s. A bisexual girl I dated told me of her experience with a friend in college. The friend told Fern that she craved being fisted, but if she asked anyone (with small hands) to do it, it usually grossed them out. Fern was open to just about anything and agreed to share the experience with her friend. She told me that the orgasms the girl achieved were extremely intense and powerful....the strongest ones she had ever observed. Although, Fern was unable to be fisted, herself, she got great pleasure from giving her friend what she desired.
gwizm
Apr 12, 2009, 2:40 PM
I myself would LOVE to be fisted but finding someone to do it is extremely tough. I may have to resort to doing myself for now. Any suggestions as to the best lube to use?
veganbigmac
Apr 13, 2009, 3:26 AM
I'd try it, but as with trying anything new, there's a certain level of risk assessment that has to go into the whole shebang. I mean, I've heard some urban myths about fisting ending in a lifelong need for adult diapers. While I doubt the validity of such myths, I am reluctant to "put my ass on the line" for pleasure. Perhaps I just need more information regarding the relative safety of it.
Now this might sound like a dumb question but here goes anyway....Is there some sort of technique to mitigate the pain and/or discomfort mentioned in some of the previous replies to this post?
Hephaestion
Apr 13, 2009, 6:58 AM
I have seen video of several fists and arms up to the elbow going in at once and also the use of feet to the ankle. I have seen images of extrememly large dildos being used. All of these in vaginas and into the anuses of both genders.
However, the one that has me curious is the poor video I have seen of a man putting his entire head into a woman's vagina. In this time of pushing boundaries and graphics manipulation one cannnot help but dwell on the veracity of the clip (sadly I do not have it anymore).
Anyone offer a clue?
pawned79
Nov 10, 2009, 4:52 PM
I am a huge fan of fisting and gigantic toys! I'm into anything that general society would consider to be unnaturally large for penetration. I have fisted and double fisted women vaginally, and I have fisted and double fisted men as well. I have never fisted a woman anally. I also am into receiving. My wife fists me regularly, and she also uses my giant toys on me. I own many gigantic dildos. :male:
roy m cox
Nov 11, 2009, 5:09 AM
um no :eek:
twntexas
Nov 11, 2009, 1:05 PM
I myself would LOVE to be fisted but finding someone to do it is extremely tough. I may have to resort to doing myself for now. Any suggestions as to the best lube to use?
When I was younger I could fist myself. But from the type of work I've done since then my hands have grown to large. The best lube I found was something greasy like Vaseline or Crisco. The best approach I found was reaching back between my legs as opposed to reaching back around my ass. Once you've got the large joint at the base of your thumb to go thru you've got it made :-) My hand would be lubed up with butt moisture when i took it out so I would use it then to to jack myself to a rather powerful orgasm.
tommyswing
Nov 11, 2009, 6:21 PM
I was with a women who loved it. It happened by accident. I used to finger her with 4 fingers, one night she opened up and my whole hand slipped in. It was a very intense experience, she had mind blowing orgasms. It became a regular part of our sex life. about 3 x per week. She came so hard one time. she pulled a muscle in her back. As others have stated it was a deeply erotic experience
jamiehue
Nov 12, 2009, 11:11 AM
hell no.
BobSF
Sep 13, 2010, 6:43 PM
I see most of the posts focus on vaginal fistin. Love it. Was playing with a couple, the wife took my fist in her pussy and had me work her butt with a dildo. He husband was busy taking video and still photos. Fun time. Later I fisted him as she took over the cam duties. If you saw the size of toys they both could take my hand was no big deal.
Me, I've had both women and men's hands in my ass. Fisting is really more in your head as it is in your ass. When done right you can be taken to new levels of pleasure.
Of course it's not for everyone but please stop judging it as many of you've done in this string. Remember, how many of your neighbors would judge and be freaked out with what you do in your bedroom.
Peace, be free, enjoy
Bob
Avrgguy01
Oct 2, 2011, 7:42 AM
Its one of the most erotic things I've ever done. I have fisted and been fisted by women, no men yet. It's a mind blowing experience every time. I'm able to fist myself, but its just not as satisfying as I can't get my hand in as far as another person can... :impleased
tommyswing
Oct 4, 2011, 3:10 PM
I've done it on a women and found if to be very erotic. She would have me fist her for a half hour or so, built up my arm muscles. She would have the most intense orgasms and soak the sheets. The funny thing was we would have fuck afterwords and she was only a little bit looser, pussy is so amazing.
ckman314
Oct 4, 2011, 4:15 PM
Never been fisted but I would try anything before I said i didn't like it
jokersadface
Oct 8, 2011, 4:57 AM
while getting ready to play with one of my bigger toys I almost got my whole hand in my ass. It felt great
Driver57
Oct 8, 2011, 11:31 PM
Had a girlfriend do me once...oh it was so intense...:tongue:
jcuck
Oct 9, 2011, 8:36 AM
I was with other girls..Met a married housewife that absolutely loved my hand in her pussy..but my gf now its impossible..tried on several occasions but I love it and found the girls I had fisted loved it also..I have kind of avg small hand if anyone wants a try..lol
Leo james
Oct 9, 2011, 8:51 AM
have fisted several pussys in past. never got much deeper than my wrist. used lots of lub. They alll would have POWERFUL orgasms. yes their pussys were not much bigger than normal almost immediately. Never had more than fingers or hard cocks in mine.[/B]
mboobs
Oct 9, 2011, 5:41 PM
quite a few guys have tried but no matter how relaxed i am they have never got past the top knuckles. a couple of women have done it to me and that was more succesful. i have allways enjoyed the trying though.
LoveBothWorlds
Oct 9, 2011, 5:57 PM
Okay, once you get your fist in, what do you do? Do you manipulate it in circles, like rotate it to provide further stimulation. Do you just remain stationary and not move at all? Someone, please, please advise - I want to try this but need further direction. Thanks !!!!
Avrgguy01
Dec 28, 2011, 1:49 AM
Peruse xvideos.com and search for fisting videos. Some "pump" other twist other clench their fists while inside. You just take it slowly and enjoy figuring out what you like.
LionTamer7
Dec 28, 2011, 5:15 AM
I'd be very interested if I had more practice in it. I get 5 fingers in but can't get any further than the carpals. Help on how to get further?
Trinity-Fl
Dec 28, 2011, 1:26 PM
My fem partner has enjoyed this activity for many years. And I find doing it to her very erotic. (I have relatively small hands.)
Slowly with liquid lube and saliva. Once inside, she uses her fingers to expose her clit for me to lick until she cums.
Gentle withdrawal while she's still cumming. By then I can hardly wait to enter her. She usually grabs my hips and holds me against her until she cums again.
She's also handled my cock and one significantly larger vaginally at the same time.
Personally, I've had her fingers and a couple of average size cocks but I don't think I could take someone's fist.
We don't do it often but it's satisfying activity.
Nice discussion. Thank you all.
CC
want2havefun
Dec 28, 2011, 4:37 PM
I'll add to this necro thread revival...
I think manually pleasing a woman vaginally with fingers is great fun...IF she likes & wants it too. Whether that includes 2, 3, 4 or 5 fingers or a balled up fist is up to the desire of the receiver for me. Most gals I have been with prefer a couple or three fingers to a balled up fist.
As for ramming a fist into an ass...no thanks.
tsmvb45
Dec 29, 2011, 8:00 AM
Yes I would like to do it. I am sure that I would orgasm because I am a versatile bottom. It will be some time in the future because my partner is str8 and she will not let me play with other people so now I can only dream.
westphillyguy
Nov 12, 2012, 11:18 PM
I'm a fisting bottom. I woud love to meet a couple that would like to work me over. Pics on profile if you're interested.
Cherokee_Mountaincat
Nov 13, 2012, 12:50 AM
lol If fisting is done properly, and the fister has small and good hands, it can be extremely delightful. Back when I coulod have it done(Not anymore, waaayyy too painful nowdays) it was verry nice. Key words: Lots of fore-play; LOTS of lube and clit sucking..lol
Cat
allbottom
Nov 13, 2012, 9:15 AM
the wife & I are both into fisting giving & receiving. you need enormous love & trust in your partner (not to mention plenty of lube) for me my entire body orgasims, totaly love it. My wife loves the feeling of being filled & stretched & has multiple squirting orgasims. we now make fisting a reg. practice in our love making
BiJoe696
Nov 13, 2012, 10:21 AM
I remember first meting a couple thru an ad in a Swing Mag many years ago and when we first met the way she took my hand to shake it I thought I knew what she wanted. The way she held my hand I could tell she was checking out the size of my wrist and the area just between the wrist and fingers. I was correct as I found out soon enough on a very hot meeting. I have since done it with just a few women, gotten almost there with a few more.
daddio3311
Nov 13, 2012, 2:40 PM
I once watched my wife fist a friend of hers vaginally and boy, was it hot. We both tried fisting my wife after but she couldn't relax enough to open up. She gave it a good try though.
tenncuriousforfun
Nov 16, 2012, 7:29 PM
I've tried it but her fist would not go in, mostly because it hurt her wrist too much.
zigzig
Nov 17, 2012, 1:57 PM
Never tried it before, but would want once at east.
Kinkybiguy7
Nov 17, 2012, 11:54 PM
I fisted my ass a time or 2 (maybe more) I would get my whole hand up to my wrist in my ass. It felt great, and I work construction and have big hands.
Solar
Nov 18, 2012, 1:18 AM
After a 9 month absence, my wife wondered why I wasn't getting off. I don't know. Maybe a prostate massage? In your butt??? Yeah, there. She did. She loved to watch her whole hand disappear and she said by the look of bliss on my face, I enjoyed it too. Regular part of our lovemaking too nowadays. Funny thing was, it never hurt.
Apleasureseeker
Nov 19, 2012, 5:11 AM
I love fisting pussy! I'm not sure it it's even a good idea to do it anally, but some people love it. It's similar to cocksucking--a person's experience is going to depend on their first-time experience. If it's slow and gentle, and they see there's nothing to be scared of, and they aren't losing control, they will really enjoy it. (Even girls who like pain and being controlled don't really want it to be out of control--they just want the feeling of being out of control). Besides, vaginas are built to accommodate babies and they usually dilate as they get stimulated.
Fisting is part of my sexual repertoire, so I'll include it and not make a big deal of it. With a new girl, I'll save it till we have a lot of time to be together, half a day of a whole day, so there's lots of foreplay and sex first. At some point, after an hour of play, I might start fingering her or going down on her. I'll also start stimulating some other part of her body at the same time (kissing, breast-play, mouth fucking if we're in 69) so she's not as focused on her pussy. Usually one finger leads to another, and it happens pretty naturally. The part that causes pain is the muscular ring at the opening of the vagina--like any muscle, it cramps if you over-stretch it, but it you stimulate it right, gentle stretching and massage, it feels wonderful. If the girl is very petite, or sexually shy, I often don't tell them what I've done to them for the first few times. It's wonderful for a girl to look at you after you've given her a screaming, squirting orgasm, and beg "wow, what did you do to me?"
A lot of girls' resisitance is a fear of getting a loose, stretched out "wizard's sleeve" but it actually strengthens and tightens the muscles if you don't force it.
For pleasure fisting, when you have stretched the pussy-mouth as wide as it's comfortable going, stop, pull back a little and massage it till it dilates a little more. It sometimes takes a couple of sessions before you can fully penetrate it. Just give it as much as it can handle. If you or she wants to introduce pain-play into the fun, you still have to be as careful. When you find the point that it's not comfortable stretching, just add a little more. For most subs, the psychological fear is a bigger turn on than the physical pain, so you don't need much to get her there.
Bi_Druid
Nov 19, 2012, 9:02 AM
I'm a fairly recent convert, in that I always used to be adimantly against the idea, but then got curious. And thanks to being lucky enough to have someone who actually knew what they were doing introduce me to it, I now rather enjoy it and can see the appeal.
The trick is to relax and take your time. And I'd say that goes for the fister as well and the fisted.
Aquaous hand cream, pittence cheap but not strictly condom safe (but after being fisted you'll need time to rest before having anything up there again any time soon) makes for fantastic fisting lube. And moisturises your back side in the process :)
Bishyguy1958
Nov 20, 2012, 10:11 AM
First time I saw saw fisting in a XXX video, I thought "NO FRIGGIN' WAY". But, now I'm open to trying it at least once. Giving and receiving. I've tried doing myself, and I've worked my way up to just the 4 fingers, and it does feel good.
12voltman59
Nov 20, 2012, 11:48 AM
Boy--someone brought back a moldy, oldy thread!! :tongue: I posted on here in both '07 and '09--my answer both times was NO--and guess what---my answer is still: NO Not interested! :yikes2:
ExSailor
Mar 15, 2013, 11:58 PM
I fisted a man once it was hot to do at the time but this was at an orgy decades ago. I have no desire to bottom for it but I am sure that as a bottom 12voltman easily could take a fist and would love getting his asshole stretched out!
barebum4
Mar 16, 2013, 12:33 AM
Have to say that I get hard watching fisting videos. I love a cock in my ass but don't think I could ever be on the receiving end of a fist up my ass.
easilyused
Jun 1, 2013, 8:22 PM
I've been fisted before. He was able to get up to his wrist inside me. While it felt good, it wouldn't be my thing to do it to anyone else. But, it did make me wonder how big of something I could take. Saw a video of a man taking the fat end of a baseball bat and made me wonder hhmmm.
Kinkybiguy7
Jun 1, 2013, 11:56 PM
I've fisted my own ass several times. I can get my whole hand up to my wrist in my ass, and it feels great. I love playing with my ass. Would love to have someone fist my ass.
Dead Account
Jun 2, 2013, 11:07 PM
Sounds unemotional, disconnected, brutal, non- intimate, as well as physically damaging- so NO!
James72
Jun 3, 2013, 10:34 AM
Beeb fisted a few times and just love it.You have to be very careful and do it very slowly at first.Use a lot of lube.