Need Advice

[halifaxguy619]

I just ame out as bi to my wife.I need someone to talk to about what I'm thinking and how I'm feeling!

[csrakate]

Halifax.
So glad you decided to post a thread. Since we talked in chat...I won't repeat my comments to you...Just wanted to wish you luck on finding the help you need. And if ever you have a question...feel free to ask...

Hugs,
Kate

[halifaxguy619]

Halifax.
So glad you decided to post a thread. Since we talked in chat...I won't repeat my comments to you...Just wanted to wish you luck on finding the help you need. And if ever you have a question...feel free to ask...

Hugs,
Kate


Thanx Kate

[binbi42]

Hi Halifax..have walked that path as well ...happy to chat and offer what I can .

A :)

[Lyon1369]

Yet another shoulder to lean on and ear to talk to.
I am a married bi male and I am out to my wife.
So feel free to hit me up too.
Best of luck to you, be well
Lyon

[halifaxguy619]

Thanx everyone!I appreciate the help!

[Mrs.F]

Hi Halifax,
My husband is bi and I just found this out about him a few months ago. Glad you came out to your wife!! To me it's important to be open and honest with your spouse. I know he feels better than I know. If I can help with anything, just ask!

Take care
Mrs. F :)

[Trek7200]

Hi Halifax. Another bi married guy here who is out to his wife. I'll offer you any advice from my experience. Take care!

[Trek7200]

Hi Halifax,
My husband is bi and I just found this out about him a few months ago. Glad you came out to your wife!! To me it's important to be open and honest with your spouse. I know he feels better than I know. If I can help with anything, just ask!

Take care
Mrs. F :)

Mrs. F - It's amazing what a little honesty with someone who loves you can bring you. ;)

[csrakate]

You are so right Trek! The key, however, is to continue to keep being honest and to not get into a comfort zone where you believe that anything and everything goes. One should never assume that something is OK with said spouse unless it is discussed openly and discussed without hidden agendas. Just because you tell a spouse, don't assume that you have been given carte blanche to act or speak at will on their behalf. Keep the communication open...the actions true to your words...and the intent of your actions true to what is understood by the spouse.

And as I said before Halifax...I'm here if you need to talk more.

Hugs!
Kate

[Trek7200]

You are so right Trek! The key, however, is to continue to keep being honest and to not get into a comfort zone where you believe that anything and everything goes. One should never assume that something is OK with said spouse unless it is discussed openly and discussed without hidden agendas. Just because you tell a spouse, don't assume that you have been given carte blanche to act or speak at will on their behalf. Keep the communication open...the actions true to your words...and the intent of your actions true to what is understood by the spouse.

Kate - so true! I consider myself fortunate that my spouse understands. I would never betray that trust. I think that would hurt her worse than if I had never told her.

[halifaxguy619]

Kate - so true! I consider myself fortunate that my spouse understands. I would never betray that trust. I think that would hurt her worse than if I had never told her.


you know what!Despite there beng a lot of trollers and jackasses on this site(as well as other sites I'm a member of),its great to see people taking this seriously and logically!You both (as well as a few other people I've chatted with) rule big time! ;)

[halifaxguy619]

Well,after a lot of soul-barring and talking last night with my woman,i came to the honest realization that I am not bi,after all,I'm just a straight guy who likes getting it in the ass from a woman wearing a strap-on,which has always been a fantasy of mine....and come Christmas,the fantasy will actually be a reality!
So thanx for all the advice,i really appreciate it and i didn't mean to come off a a phony or poseur in anyway!