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Promising Galahad
Jan 8, 2008, 8:29 PM
Have any guys ever cum while NOT engaging in sex? I had my toes sucked and came. This has never happened before. I was wearing jeans and t-shirt and it was on the sofa at night watching the news. I wasn't horny or really even in the mood. My lover just started and I just relaxed and enjoyed it. This has happened before while dry humping and even kissing. All times I've had my clothes on and sex wasn't on my mind. Just curious if other have had this happen.
proseros
Jan 8, 2008, 8:35 PM
Well as long as it is NOT something that persists well before you've gotten past go, then I envy you.
Although... I once almost experienced auto-emission while fervently praying.
TaylorMade
Jan 8, 2008, 8:38 PM
Happens to me while driving.
There is a series of curves that if I hit it at just over 40. . .Ooooohhhh, I cum very nicely.
Or maybe I'm just happy to drive. :)
*Taylor*
Promising Galahad
Jan 8, 2008, 8:40 PM
No, they take awhile. I've been in relationships in the past both with men and women and I have been aroused. But I have a new lover now and she really makes me feel different. Just the scent of her drives me wild. Just a touch on my shoulder almsot makes me go faint. Since this has never happened before, I think its her. Yeah, sucking toes and dry humping will do that. However, I am amazed at how it happenes when I'm not trying to be arroused. I've been on make out marathones before where I've kissed for long periods of time but we kissed for maybe 10-15 minutes one day. Off and on but still constant kissing. I had to change my shorts. Anyway, I am pretty sure on the cause,I wasn't sure how common this was.
OcalaCouple683
Jan 8, 2008, 8:42 PM
I WISH! lol :eek::tongue::female:
Skater Boy
Jan 8, 2008, 8:44 PM
Well as long as it is NOT something that persists well before you've gotten past go, then I envy you.
Yeah, "premature ejaculation" was the first thing that popped into MY head. Can't say I'm that easily pleased though, unfortunately...
Cherokee_Mountaincat
Jan 8, 2008, 8:46 PM
*Embarrassed chuckle* I have this problem with someone kissing and biting on the back of my neck and rubbing my thru my pants. If its someone I am greatly attracted to, I can cum this way. Used to be Very embarressing when I was younger..lol
Guess the right person and right stimulation can cause all kinds of delightful cummings. ;)
Promising Galahad
Jan 8, 2008, 8:50 PM
No, its not premature. Theres way too much of it! Sorry to gross you out, but its the real thing. Baby batter. Love Juice. Whatever you want to call it. :tongue:
Skater Boy
Jan 8, 2008, 8:54 PM
No, they take awhile. I've been in relationships in the past both with men and women and I have been aroused. But I have a new lover now and she really makes me feel different. Just the scent of her drives me wild. Just a touch on my shoulder almsot makes me go faint. Since this has never happened before, I think its her. Yeah, sucking toes and dry humping will do that. However, I am amazed at how it happenes when I'm not trying to be arroused. I've been on make out marathones before where I've kissed for long periods of time but we kissed for maybe 10-15 minutes one day. Off and on but still constant kissing. I had to change my shorts. Anyway, I am pretty sure on the cause,I wasn't sure how common this was.
Sounds like you've found yourself a keeper...:cool:
OcalaCouple683
Jan 8, 2008, 8:55 PM
:bigrin::bigrin:awwwww! :)
No, they take awhile. I've been in relationships in the past both with men and women and I have been aroused. But I have a new lover now and she really makes me feel different. Just the scent of her drives me wild. Just a touch on my shoulder almsot makes me go faint. Since this has never happened before, I think its her. Yeah, sucking toes and dry humping will do that. However, I am amazed at how it happenes when I'm not trying to be arroused. I've been on make out marathones before where I've kissed for long periods of time but we kissed for maybe 10-15 minutes one day. Off and on but still constant kissing. I had to change my shorts. Anyway, I am pretty sure on the cause,I wasn't sure how common this was.
Promising Galahad
Jan 8, 2008, 9:07 PM
"Sounds like you've found yourself a keeper"
I swear, I pinch myself everyday! What she's doing with a guy like me, I'll never know. I'm too old for her, I'm bisexual, and this girl can have any guy she wants. For some reason, she likes me. She kids me and says 'I've kind of grown on her like a puppy.' She's funny too!
Yeah, I think I'm gonna keep this one.
roadtriper58
Jan 9, 2008, 1:47 AM
Yes it is possible to cum while not having sex. When one of the erogenose zones are stimulated just right, it can cause you to cum. Both male and female. I've had my toes sucked many times and returned the favor. The feet are one of the zones. VERY STIMULATING.:tong::tongue::bigrin:
HighEnergy
Jan 9, 2008, 9:59 AM
Some of my strongest orgasms have been long after the sex was over and I was thinking about how wonderful it had been.
Uneedhands
Jan 9, 2008, 11:19 AM
...Sex is the only time I can't blow; I do it everywhere I go all the time. I wear a diaper to hide the wetspots, and I walk a little funny sometimes....
vittoria
Jan 9, 2008, 4:59 PM
Yes.
'Nuff said!
V
Doggie_Wood
Jan 9, 2008, 8:21 PM
Uh - is this a trick question??
Well my answer is - - - -
<<<<< drum roll please >>>>>
(we really do need a drum roll emoticon)
YES!
When I Masturbate:bigrin:
thinkfree39
Jan 9, 2008, 11:05 PM
I did from a massage one time. A legitimate one. After the deep tissue back and leg work, she did this flutter thing with her fingers. I wasn't aroused but out of the blue an erection started, and bam! I'm glad I can clamp down and stop it. Would have been embarrassing.
warmpuppy
Jan 10, 2008, 10:30 AM
I did, the first time I kissed a guy. The feelings of that kiss were so intense that shockwaves went through my body and triggered a big O.
the mage
Jan 10, 2008, 5:45 PM
Have any guys ever cum while NOT engaging in sex? I had my toes sucked and came. This has never happened before. I was wearing jeans and t-shirt and it was on the sofa at night watching the news. I wasn't horny or really even in the mood. My lover just started and I just relaxed and enjoyed it. This has happened before while dry humping and even kissing. All times I've had my clothes on and sex wasn't on my mind. Just curious if other have had this happen.
...................Well ....ahem,,, how to say....oh well..
PAIN correctly applied can cause an immense orgasm, no sex act required..
Had more that a few of those...
.
I'm personally not a foot guy..
Bluebiyou
Jan 10, 2008, 8:44 PM
Sir Galahad,
need I say the obvious?
You're in the rare position of 'falling down the bottomless pit of love'.
Give up all your possesions to stay there, you'll have no regrets.
Look her in the eyes and tell her that she is your treasure in life.
I was there (falling down the pit) for two full years with a girl... it made all the years and pains I've ever suffered worthwhile.
There's not an instant in that two years that I would not have left my job and burned everything I had - if that's what the relationship required. She felt the same way. It's a rare magic.
I even experienced multiple orgasm/ejaculation (not just for girls anymore), so I know what you're talking about.
Nurture it. Don't be afraid of it. Follow it fearlessly. Every worldly treasure is rubbish in comparison - don't hold back. I doubt you will ever regret it. I never have.
For God's sake, place no value in the future, money, job,.... etc. There is only the love you share at this moment.
My very best wishes.
Skater Boy
Jan 10, 2008, 8:53 PM
Sir Galahad,
need I say the obvious?
You're in the rare position of 'falling down the bottomless pit of love'.
Give up all your possesions to stay there, you'll have no regrets.
Look her in the eyes and tell her that she is your treasure in life.
I was there (falling down the pit) for two full years with a girl... it made all the years and pains I've ever suffered worthwhile.
Indeed. I've never had the good fortune to fall in love, but I'm not so cold and blind as not to recognise it when I hear of it. Savor every last minute of it. THESE are the days of your life, and you'll remember them fondly on your death-bed as the time when you felt most complete.
:2cents:
Doggie_Wood
Jan 13, 2008, 2:44 PM
I did, the first time I kissed a guy. The feelings of that kiss were so intense that shockwaves went through my body and triggered a big O.
Who is 'this guy' ? I wanna big O when we kiss :tong:
:doggie:
wyldguy
Jan 13, 2008, 3:33 PM
I still have nocturnal emissions on rare occasions, but can also auto-ejaculate if I just mentally focus and concentrate.
Most unique observation of someone who came was an older woman who came over to visit my room mate, who was not at home at the time, but I let her come in and visit
Started making a pitcher of margaritas, next thing I know, we're both on the couch and she has me concentrating on just her ears.....both of us remained fully clothed.
Next thing I know, she's into wave after wave of full mind blowing orgasms.....and I mean screaming at the top of her lungs.
And although I probably could have, I never touched her nether regions, just her breasts, head, neck, back, arms and kissing. :cool:
parkerbi
Jan 22, 2008, 1:02 PM
Yes it is possible to cum while not having sex. When one of the erogenose zones are stimulated just right, it can cause you to cum. Both male and female. I've had my toes sucked many times and returned the favor. The feet are one of the zones. VERY STIMULATING.:tong::tongue::bigrin:
YES. I have the same experience but it seldom happen to you. It's hard to find the right ZONE on my body.:flag2: