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stec16
Feb 13, 2008, 5:41 PM
I wonder how many of you share a fetish of mine?
I love kissing with my partner while we both masterbate our selves.
This can be so intense. I have enjoyed this with both males & females.
Let me know if you enjoy the same.

cockNballs
Feb 13, 2008, 6:49 PM
Very much so.
Sometimes we use it as foreplay, and soemtimes there is nothing hotter then watching your partner get off while you get off.

innaminka
Feb 13, 2008, 7:03 PM
not really a fetish. I would call that practice pretty mainstream and common.
(That wasn't a put down, either. :) )
I think most couples do it.
Its the sort of thing you do when you've got lots of time. :female::female:

DiamondDog
Feb 13, 2008, 7:30 PM
I love doing it with other men, and I've been doing it with the male gender for awhile.

I'm not that into masturbating women.

Tha Thickness
Feb 13, 2008, 7:48 PM
i love to masturbate wit my partner i love to see them touch themselves and nut on me

lonelygirlintx
Feb 14, 2008, 11:20 AM
Well, now that you mention it, I remember only one time that my hubby and I masturbated together, but it didn't work out, it was very early on in our relationship and it was pretty awkward, so we just did other things. But I would love to try it again sometime and hopefully it'll work out this time, does anyone have any advice on how to make it fun since I pretty new to this?

marcelloNYC
Feb 14, 2008, 3:03 PM
It could be called a fetish, because probably a lot of "vanilla" couples don't do it. I have always loved it, and there is no better way of seeing how your partner gets pleasure.

Try this if you like:

Get a full length mirror and sit in front of it, have your partner sit in front of you and lean back into your arms. Watch him/her masturbate in the mirror, then change positions.

It is so romantic, hot and such a f'ing turn on.

Ciao,
m.

bediddle
Feb 14, 2008, 4:00 PM
Yup. We do it. It's good fun :)

sdnaustin
Feb 14, 2008, 9:19 PM
When I do it with a male partner it usually moves beyond self pleasure pretty fast. But it a great start!

biupstateny
Feb 14, 2008, 11:39 PM
Oh yes very much so , we do it alot. Such a turn on to watch my partner get off at the same time.

FalconAngel
Feb 14, 2008, 11:48 PM
We've only done that a couple of times.

bisexualinsocal
Feb 15, 2008, 1:24 AM
I wonder how many of you share a fetish of mine?
I love kissing with my partner while we both masterbate our selves.
This can be so intense. I have enjoyed this with both males & females.
Let me know if you enjoy the same.

Not really my thing. C2C is definitely hot though.

parkerbi
Feb 15, 2008, 2:18 AM
It depends on the situation:three: I explored the fetish several times, but not often do so.

marriedbiguy4
Feb 15, 2008, 11:00 AM
my wife likes to watch me and another guy rub our cocks together while she sits back and plays with herself - does this count?

stec16
Feb 17, 2008, 9:13 AM
It counts in my book.
In fact i would love to be there waching the three of you.

stu_42
Feb 17, 2008, 10:08 AM
My wife and I have enjoyed this on numerous occassions. We normally start by rubbing each other but it soon leads to us each laying back and pleasuring ourselves. Another variation is to sit facing each other (ass to ass) and masturbate.

allbimyself
Feb 17, 2008, 11:30 AM
OK, maybe this will give some of you ideas.

An exGF asked to watch me. She really enjoyed it. Then I asked to watch her but she didn't seem to enjoy that, so I didn't ask again. A few weeks later she got out our bondage stuff and tied me up, another thing she said she didn't enjoy so I was a bit surprised, but what happened next surprised me more. She squatted over my face, keeping herself just out of my reach and masturbated. Was one of the hottest experiences of my life. The frustration of not being able to touch her only heightened it.

tigerlily110
Feb 17, 2008, 12:20 PM
I do not have a partner at the moment however I think it is hot watching your partner touching themselves and seeing the pleasure wash across their face. Not only that it has a practical purpose as well. You find out what places your partner likes to be touched, the kinds of strokes, the speed, how soft or how hard they like to be touched and what gets them off the best. Very hot and educational! LOL
I also love to masterbate my partner while he/she does the same for me...ahhh I think I am getting tingly just thinking about it...LOL
Dunno if that is a fetish but I do know it is something that turns me on a lot! hheee

T

Cesca
Feb 17, 2008, 12:36 PM
Sometimes I lie in close to my partner with her arm around me and resting my head on her shoulder. We talk quietly and stroke. We both find it an erotic loving experience and begin to masturbate ourselves gently. We love coming together but its not essential and often after having come on our own enjoy watching and listening to the other bringing herself to climax. Its not unusal either for the other to have begun masturbating again, and so it can go on quite a while.

roadtriper58
Feb 17, 2008, 12:56 PM
Both with male and female. Very hot

TaylorMade
Feb 17, 2008, 2:23 PM
Yeah... I enjoy that ALOT....

*Taylor*

Tom41bimwm
Feb 17, 2008, 3:01 PM
i've done it with the wife alot...and have done it with one of my guy friends...i really get into watching him cum. that excites me more than watching the wife!

flbimale4cpl
Feb 23, 2008, 7:14 PM
I have done this on numerous occasions with other men. I have also masturbated in front of men (which I also love). It is very pleasurable to share this with someone who knows what only a man knows. Very fun to experience!

stec16
Mar 18, 2008, 9:21 PM
Thanks to every one who left a posting.
I really enjoyed reading them all, in fact, some got me exicted.

cliffml
Mar 18, 2008, 9:29 PM
Yes when i'm with another guy. Sometime as we are kissing it gets more intense to point we both end up exploding all over each other while kissing hard.

notsojung
Mar 19, 2008, 2:10 AM
Absolutely love it with females and/or males. Watching each other, maybe with helping hands. Love watching people being really uninhibited and getting themselves off and cumming. It can be soo intimate. :tongue:

ambi53mm
Mar 19, 2008, 9:29 AM
Seriously one of the most erotic and sensual experiences we share together. An awesome way to relax as well. Sometimes lying next to one another of on a sectional sofa across from one another, We incorporate various toys..some nice music and a lot of lube /sensual oils. Sometimes we'll close our eyes and create a fantasy that now incorporates bringing others into the picture as well and participating lucidly in various ways. We've gone for hours just riding that wave and having mutiple oragasms as we practice our tantric techniques before finally bringing everything to a grande finale'... sometimes sigularly and sometimes together.

Eventually over time we'd love to incorporate another couple or two and see what a group experience would be like...difinitely make for an explosive and erotic experience lol. We're in the process of creating a website that focuses on this very thing called Circlesof Intimacy...it's still not up as of yet but we're looking forward to using masturbation as a tool to explore with..both individually and as a group. Masturbating with your partner approaches the surreal sometimes and it's safe...considering we're near blind anyways:)

Ambi:)

capricornx22
Mar 19, 2008, 8:33 PM
It's great fun with either sex and whether I do myself or them while they do the same. My old gf would get turned on if I shot on her breasts and face.

DiamondDog
Mar 19, 2008, 9:08 PM
It could be called a fetish, because probably a lot of "vanilla" couples don't do it. I have always loved it, and there is no better way of seeing how your partner gets pleasure.

Try this if you like:

Get a full length mirror and sit in front of it, have your partner sit in front of you and lean back into your arms. Watch him/her masturbate in the mirror, then change positions.

It is so romantic, hot and such a f'ing turn on.

Ciao,
m.

Why would you need or want a full length mirror to watch someone else masturbate especially if you're that close and holding each other?

Have you seen one too many early/mid 1980s homosex porns? :)

Biboz49
Mar 19, 2008, 9:12 PM
We do it all the time and love it.

sometimesitbethatway
Mar 19, 2008, 10:52 PM
I wonder how many of you share a fetish of mine?
I love kissing with my partner while we both masterbate our selves.
This can be so intense. I have enjoyed this with both males & females.
Let me know if you enjoy the same.

it sounds really hot. I've never tried it or really even thought of kissing while. that's the part that sounds hot.

bigregory
Mar 20, 2008, 12:12 AM
Just this morning!!!
She needs the vibrator but I just need my hand..
:)

onewhocares
Mar 20, 2008, 4:33 AM
I have never really been part of a couple where I was able to watch a man masturbate..I so want to experiacne that. Hoping someday. I have never been able to get into myself much. I guess I need a man to help.

Marcello, I happen to think your suggestion of a mirror is highly erotic....love the thoughts of it.

Belle

Lorcan
Mar 22, 2008, 2:27 AM
I've asked many boyfriends to masterbate for me. I enjoyed it. Even enjoyed it to the point of pain, because i didn't touch myself or join in. But i've never done it in front of any of them. I do want to....someday.

catalinaa
Mar 22, 2008, 8:02 AM
i enjoy it