Anal sex

[nicco413]

Ive been orally bi since I was 11 and was wanked by an older boy when I was 11. I love 69 but was in a threesome recently when one guy fucked his friend while I gave a bj. I really want to try anal.
Can you advise me of the preparations necessary>
We were too shagged out for me to ask them!
Nicco

[eddy10]

1. Take an enema about an hour or so before.
2. Use plenty of lube.
3. Go slow and easy at first. You need to learn to relax your ass ring muscle.
4. Always play safe.
5. Relax and enjoy the ride.

[pasco_lol_cpl]

another tip I learned. If you get on top and lower your self on him you control how fast and the angle. It really does help. After that position for a bit you can move on to other positions. As for anal, what can I say, I love to bottom.

[2Hoteez4U]

Also, get a couple of different sized dildoes & train yourself to take them. This will help with the real thing.

[the mage]

Go slow,, use a condom..

[smltownbiguy]

Enjoy the ride! Use a condom:2cents:

[cliffml]

First time I did it I was really nervous. I used a few different toys to get my ass ready for the big day. Use lots of lube, be safe and go slow. The first guy I was with was only about 6 inches, which was more than enough for my first time. Don't try taking it all at once, ease it in. By the end you'll be taking it all the way and you'll be cumming hard...enjoy it.

[anteak]

Gotta get in on this one. It's entirely different whether something is going in or coming out of your ass. Comming out no prob, usually. Going in is different, don't know why??? There is usually some discomfort till your ass gets used to being stretched. I've been penetrated at least 100 times or more not counting dildoes and fists. would love to do it a 100 times more. It started when my HS buddy and I wondered what it was like to stick our always hard cocks into another person, preferably a girl, but none were available so we did the next best thing and used each other. We weren't gay or Bi, just currious. We didn't suck each other, just played with ourselves and fucked each other. I told another buddy what I was doing and he wanted to try it also. Now I had two guys that loved to stick their cocks in me. This ended when the war started and didn't happen again for about 25 yrs.

In my 40's I met Ray. He was bi I found out later. I used to stop by his place and look at porn, get hard. Once he asked, "Do you want me to take care of that for you"??? He gave me the first complete BJ I ever had. He would arrange to have guys at his place mon. AM's I would stop by, get hard, get on the bed, get fucked, then Ray would suck my cock and swallow. Once after a guy fucked me and had cleaned his cock he was standing by the bed watching Ray suck me off. I looked up and saw that wonderful piece of meat hanging there, raised my head and took it in my mouth. The real first time this happened. Didn't really get into sucking cock for some time but curriosity finally got the best of me. Had to find out what it was like to really have a cock in my mouth, went to a gay bath, picked out a guy, sucked his cock. got him hard and let him fuck me. Sometime later on I let a guy cum in my mouth and eventually I tried swallowing. It's all good as far as I'm concerned as long as it's clean and no one gets hurt. If I had a choice of eating a pussy or sucking a cock I'm afraid the pussy would win. I've had a reasonably good sex life. tried lots of things. One thing I fantasize about is watching a gal get fucked til they cum, when he pulls out and the cum is oozing out of her cunt I would love to clean up the creampie. Any cauc. couple interested in making this cum true let me know.

[jonybangbang]

just giterdone

[jttx3]

The advice I can give:

Use toys to stretch yourself a lot the few days before you get the real thing.

The angle that works best for me is me on my back and my legs up on his shoulders and doggie style. The fact that it is going in towards a more upwardly angle is best for me so try it.

Lot's of lube, cannot use too much.

ALWAYS use a condom, never without.

Don't be surprised if he comes early, if you are that tight he cannot help himself.

[aheatseeker]

do enema about 5-6 hours in advance. poop is still leaking out even a couple hours later. i fucked a few people, men and women who did enema a couple hours before, and after i fucked them once, i was cleaning shit off the condom and the sheets. so i advise you to do more in advance. unless you like shit, thats another story.
:)

[Audioslave]

do enema about 5-6 hours in advance. poop is still leaking out even a couple hours later. i fucked a few people, men and women who did enema a couple hours before, and after i fucked them once, i was cleaning shit off the condom and the sheets. so i advise you to do more in advance. unless you like shit, thats another story.
:)

Ive just laughed myself silly at the end of this posting!:tongue:

[darkeyes]

do enema about 5-6 hours in advance. poop is still leaking out even a couple hours later. i fucked a few people, men and women who did enema a couple hours before, and after i fucked them once, i was cleaning shit off the condom and the sheets. so i advise you to do more in advance. unless you like shit, thats another story.
:)

*Boaks violently*

Do ya mind?? Jus bout 2 get me tea!!!! Gross!!!!!

[warmpuppy]

I prefer the position where my legs are over his shoulders. Then we can kiss as he fucks me.

[DiamondDog]

do enema about 5-6 hours in advance. poop is still leaking out even a couple hours later. i fucked a few people, men and women who did enema a couple hours before, and after i fucked them once, i was cleaning shit off the condom and the sheets. so i advise you to do more in advance. unless you like shit, thats another story.
:)

Did you have sex with someone who had diarrhea, irritable bowel syndrome, a spastic colon or something like that? :eek:

Enemas aren't needed as long as everything works normally the way it should, you eat lots of fiber/stay hydrated, eating yogurt helps too, and you can go to the bathroom without problems.

Spacing out your meals and not eating a huge meal before doing anal sex helps too.

Douching/enemas cause more problems than they solve and doing the above and washing your butt on the outside in the shower with soap and water works fine.

As far as dealing with a small amount of fecal matter goes (If you actually encounter it, the few times I've done anal sex alone or with others I didn't have any problems with santorum/fecal matter at all, and my friends that have anal sex everytime they have sex don't have any issues with it either and they do it without condoms since they're in a monogamous relationship and are clean) as my friends who are a lot more anally inclined than I am say, "It's an ass. Deal with it!".

Also use lubes that are OK to use with condoms. Cocoa butter isn't.

[CafeRaquel]

def worth trying, try getting fucked in yur pussy at the time. def worth it. best lube= cocoa butter (the pure stuff)

[thesea]

I'm really surprised by the enema thing! What happened to spontaneity!? If you are working in a healthy way then even if they is anything in your rectum its is solid and will stay as it is. Possibly it's my nursing background but shit don't scare me, if its in the way pull it out! Haha I bet you lot think I'm a bit strange now!

I have the joy of IBS and have surprised an ex but he had the same attitude as me and laughed. Actually I think it just reminded him that we were ding something dirty, yeh fair enough.

I have never prepped for anal, before my first time the biggest thing i had up there was a pen (teenager), ok it was sore to start with but my partner was in tune with me and went slow till I asked for more.

I'm kind of jealous that guys have a g spot up there! Oh yeah highly recommend getting to know the anatomy up there of your male partner, great to find the spot that makes his legs shake, it's a lot like fingering a woman, always a plus :D

[Sapphrodite]

Okie Dokie, in the interests of not having to repost all things anal, here are the available threads dedicated to anal sex:

http://main.bisexual.com/forum/showthread.php?t=5126
http://main.bisexual.com/forum/showthread.php?t=4914
http://main.bisexual.com/forum/showthread.php?t=4881
http://main.bisexual.com/forum/showthread.php?t=4762
http://main.bisexual.com/forum/showthread.php?t=4605
http://main.bisexual.com/forum/showthread.php?t=688
http://main.bisexual.com/forum/showthread.php?t=4103
http://main.bisexual.com/forum/showthread.php?t=3822
http://main.bisexual.com/forum/showthread.php?t=4012
http://main.bisexual.com/forum/showthread.php?t=3542
http://main.bisexual.com/forum/showthread.php?t=1647
http://main.bisexual.com/forum/showthread.php?t=3240
http://main.bisexual.com/forum/showthread.php?t=2724
http://main.bisexual.com/forum/showthread.php?t=3074
http://main.bisexual.com/forum/showthread.php?t=3065
http://main.bisexual.com/forum/showthread.php?t=2614
http://main.bisexual.com/forum/showthread.php?t=2616
http://main.bisexual.com/forum/showthread.php?t=2434
http://main.bisexual.com/forum/showthread.php?t=1178
http://main.bisexual.com/forum/showthread.php?t=2232

Don't get me wrong, I like anal as much as the next person, but it's a topic that already has lots of coverage (given the type of site we're on - LMAO)!! Try using the Search options and keywords to find topics that are of interest to you; if you get too many results, try using the Search Titles Only option in Advanced Search.

One more reason to have the Forums divided into Forum Topics ~sighs~
Good Luck!!
Sapphy

[runewlf]

I prefer the position where my legs are over his shoulders. Then we can kiss as he fucks me.
My favorite position as well.

[BlackRose67]

When you are relaxed enough to go for it definitely try riding a cock first. There is nothing like it. Not only can you control the speed and depth, but it is perfect for massaging the prostate and you will cum in buckets.

For preperation take it slow, if you find a person who likes to rim you even better, because the feelings you will get from someone rimming you will help you learn to relax your anus and enjoy the feeling. For lube, find a product called Gun Oil, it is the best and the most non invasive, so you don't have that gone to the doctor for a physical squishy feeling afterwards.

The main thing is relax and find a partner that you are comfortable with and who is going to take it slow and let you enjoy it.

Happy Playing.

[thesea]

When you are relaxed enough to go for it definitely try riding a cock first. There is nothing like it. Not only can you control the speed and depth, but it is perfect for massaging the prostate and you will cum in buckets.




*taking notes*

[chook]

I've said it once and I'll say it again........no matter how you look at anal sex it is still a pain in the arse :yikes2:


Cheers Chook :bigrin:

[darkeyes]

*taking notes*

Soz babes..no gud 2 u the advice..ya don hav a prostate 2 helpya out.. tear up ya notes....

[darkeyes]

I've said it once and I'll say it again........no matter how you look at anal sex it is still a pain in the arse :yikes2:


Cheers Chook :bigrin:ooo...chookie...riginal... tee hee:tong:

[thesea]

Soz babes..no gud 2 u the advice..ya don hav a prostate 2 helpya out.. tear up ya notes....

Notes were more for bfs benefit ;)

[darkeyes]

s'ok hun..me thot that..wos havin a giggle wivya thats all...:bigrin:

[lilme]

As far as for me, I don't care for it at all, but then i'm a female. know guys like to do it, but I never have cared for it, but i love everything else.

[darkeyes]

As far as for me, I don't care for it at all, but then i'm a female. know guys like to do it, but I never have cared for it, but i love everything else.

U an me both Lilme hun...can thinka lotsa much nica things 2 do than hav sum gr8 clumsy hairy lummox fumblin away at me bootie ta...

[darkeyes]

... an sure as hell don won sod all 2 do wiv ne of thers...:tong: