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smurf111978

Jun 13, 2008, 7:52 AM

Many of you have been following the posts about HoneyPot. It is with great sadness and sorrow I have had news from her family that she passed away peacefully this morning at 00:40 BST (GMT+1) Friday 13th June. Her family was by her side with many others having been to see her throughout the day.

Although it was expected as you will know from previous posts, I'm still stunned at the moment and cant find the words she was like a soul mate to me I feel like my heart is ripped apart. The only comfort is that she is now in a better place free from hurt and pain and with those she loves.

The funeral is due to take place on Sunday if any one wants to pass a message to her family please send me a PM and I'll email it on.

With love big hugs and tender kisses to the friends I know will be upset
Smurfie
xoxox

csrakate

Jun 13, 2008, 8:04 AM

Doggie_Wood

Jun 13, 2008, 8:09 AM

I am at a loss for words as well - Huney has finally begun the traverse to peace, may the purple arora of love follow you Huneypot.

:doggie:

vittoria

Jun 13, 2008, 8:28 AM

Wasnt expecting this... this is so tragic :(

My heart goes out to you smurfy, and to her family

jamieknyc

Jun 13, 2008, 8:31 AM

I did not know Huneypot, but I have been following this tragedy through the pages of this forum.

May her family be comforted in their time of loss.

kitten

Jun 13, 2008, 9:02 AM

with deep sadness, all I can do is give hugs and wish for the family to find peace and comfort.

kitten

gfofbiguy

Jun 13, 2008, 9:45 AM

I did not have the pleasure of knowing Huneypot, but I have been following the threads and I'm so sorry to hear this. My heart goes out to you, Smurfie, her family and everyone who loved her.

Michael623

Jun 13, 2008, 9:52 AM

Blessings to you on your path back home, Huneypot. Your spirit lives in us all.

FerociousFeline

Jun 13, 2008, 9:59 AM

I am sorry to hear that Honey's current form did not recover. But Honey isn't gone, she'll be back in a newer sexier more beautiful body. (if she wants to that is, she may just opt to be our guardian Angel for a while)

The good news is that she will be closer to all of us than she has ever been before!

GodSpeed Honey.....and thankyou for sharing your beautiful heart with us.

FF

**Peg**

Jun 13, 2008, 10:05 AM

I did not know the lady either, but my heart is aching for all my new friends here who loved her and to her family.

>>>hugs for all <<<

Peg

darkeyes

Jun 13, 2008, 10:14 AM

Huney.. we knew each other but little
But upon the world and in so many hearts
You have not gone unnoticed
But have left touches and footprints such as I would wish for me
You who have given so much to us all
Deserves so much more in return
You are loved by so many
As long as a single memory remains
The merest sweet shimmer of Huney
You will never be gone...

onewhocares

Jun 13, 2008, 10:24 AM

Dearest Friends...........................

I write with tears streaming down my cheeks on this morning filled with sadness, rememberance but in reality.... ultimate joy for our beloved Honey. Our sweet lass has been taken from this earth but her legacy to us all are the many wonderful memories, down right bellie laughs, words of encouragement, and artist treasures are our solice. Heart breaking as her death is, let us never loose site of the joy she brought into our lives and hearts.

To Smurf, Bear, Rachelle.....look within your hearts and to us to comfort you, for you know the sassy spitfire would want you to smile, laugh and be glad she came into your lives.

Belle

curious married m

Jun 13, 2008, 10:52 AM

One Night, I was here talking to many who are special to me online. And I will always remember the the sunrise halfway around the world backlighting this angel we called Huneypot. It seems today, I hear that that same sun has set and and her spirit has been has been ubridled from the suffering and burdens of the last few months. And I pray that all who knew her can find the peace I will always have when her special ray from those sunrises sent by God will warm my soul and remind me to be a better person and touch others the way Huneypot has touched us.

CMM

FalconAngel

Jun 13, 2008, 11:21 AM

Many of us have experienced the loss of people close to us and our hearts go out to you at this time of mourning.

We never knew Honeypot, except from seeing her posts. But we know that she was a unique and special person. It showed in every word.

With her passing, we are all poorer, for the ingredients that she brought to the stew that we call life are gone.

May she find an even better life in her next incarnation.

arana

Jun 13, 2008, 12:54 PM

I'm so glad her sister let you know and I hope that you are ok ((((((( smurfie ))))))))) I know you're heart is breaking as mine is. She was a wonderfully creative, witty, charming woman that will be greatly missed. I'm just glad she's finally at peace.:grouphug:

12voltman59

Jun 13, 2008, 1:21 PM

I had a notion that perhaps she had passed in the past day or so---I guess I was correct.

Thank you for passing on the news Smurf---pass along to her family that I am one more person who wishes to offer my condolences.

It is so sad that Huney could not find her place and some sense of peace in this world----if there really is something beyond this life--I hope she has found a place of peace and rest.

jamieknyc

Jun 13, 2008, 1:38 PM

It is so sad that Huney could not find her place and some sense of peace in this world----if there really is something beyond this life--I hope she has found a place of peace and rest.

Of course she has. And for those of us who remain behind, the memory of the righteous is a blessing.

BreeIsMe

Jun 13, 2008, 2:55 PM

OMG
I don't know what to say or think
Honeypot was such a wonderful human being

I can't imagine what her family must be going through. I will definitely miss her and her incredible kindness

Bree

ladydelanie

Jun 13, 2008, 3:59 PM

For all of us that love her....oh and there are so many!!
May we find peace in the thought of her laughter.
All the jokes we all shared......Allbi,Bear,Kate,Smurfie,CMM....and many others.
Remember all those wonderful,fun loving days.! We all know she would want us to.
I too am in shock and my heart is heavy with sadness.
Blessings to her family,her friends and to any stranger that was blessed enough to have crossed paths with Huney.

Our little Angel is now at Peace.

Godspeed our little Irish lass.........
Ladyd

usedbear1950

Jun 13, 2008, 4:08 PM

Words are failing me right now....I just want hugs and to give hugs....the pain is immense but the love of friends will sustain us at this time!!!

Rest in Peace, my precious friend! Know that you were loved and will be missed!

{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{Rachelle, Kate, Smurf}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}
I will forever be blessed having heard her laugh and her making me laugh.
I will forever be honored for her calling me her friend.
I will miss her...but not forever for one day we will be rejoined and then...
heaven watch out.

My dear sweet Belle gave me a statue of two hands clasping...she was afraid to give it to me becuase it would remind me on the drawing huney did of our hands clasping...be not afraid dear Belle...I have the original drawing sent all the way from Ireland and I cherish that and your gift which is displayed on my living room table as the drawing is hung up in my den.

Rest in peace my dearest Donna...
I love you dearly, I love you forever and I thank you for loving me.

for the last time
her ever luvin
used

Karmacoma

Jun 13, 2008, 4:09 PM

I never knew her but rest in peace.

DouxVixen

Jun 13, 2008, 4:48 PM

I'm sorry smurfie *hugs* I'll keep you and her in my thoughts.

still_shy

Jun 13, 2008, 6:20 PM

My thoughts are with all of you. I wasn't fortunate enough to know her, but I do know many of those affected by her passing. Please accept my sincerest condolences. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

tatooedpunk

Jun 13, 2008, 7:04 PM

I never got to know hunny, but when i first joined this site she made me feel more than welcome.
Hope you are in a happier place

bigirl_inwv

Jun 13, 2008, 7:04 PM

I never had the pleasure of meeting her. But I do know that many of my dear friends are hurting right now. My heart goes out to each and every one of you. I love you all. ((((((((( hugs for all )))))))))

meteast chick

Jun 13, 2008, 7:11 PM

I'm glad I didn't have to read this to know. Thank you Bear.

I'm pretty certain I've already said my goodbyes and those who were following my thread I'm sure know that as well.

It's with a gloriously heavy heart that we all say our final goodbyes to this wonderful woman. She will remain with me and those she touched for always (and there are SOOO many of us).

luv and Irish kisses,
Rachelle
XOXOXOXOXOXOXO

texasman6172003

Jun 13, 2008, 7:36 PM

Hey y'all,Well as i have said before i don't have the words to describe how i really felt about our Huney. I want to send my thoughts and prayers to her family. I know some people think of Texas people as brash,arrogant,egotistical,and to some uncaring. Well this big ole Texan has a heart as big as Texas,and right now it is heartbroken over this loss to our little Family.Is getting hard to finish this,as i even have a couple of tears rolling down my cheeks. As Ferocious Feline said,Godspeed to you Huney..... God bless Huney's family,and many friends...

nicco413

Jun 14, 2008, 2:31 AM

Very sad at least her suffering is now ended, She would have been proud at her friends here and how they now feel.
Nicco

Cherokee_Mountaincat

Jun 14, 2008, 4:52 AM

Even though I didnt know Honey, I pray that her Walk on the Path was smooth and tranquil, and that all of you that knew her will still feel her smile upon you know and then.:}
Cat

smurf111978

Jun 18, 2008, 12:14 AM

usedbear1950

Jun 18, 2008, 12:39 AM

onewhocares

Jun 18, 2008, 12:58 AM

The words of a famous song rings true tonight when I read the comments form the man from Texas........

"Deep In the Heart of Texas" is a fine man with huge heart for his friends.

Thank you for your heartfelt thoughts.

Belle

Delilah

Jun 18, 2008, 2:02 AM

Honey Pot, we will miss you so much. There will be a big void in the chat room and in the forum. WE LOVE YOU!!!

julie

Jul 2, 2008, 10:37 PM

Thanks to every one for all your kind messages it really means a lot. I'm still to lost for words to describe what I feel for Huney I guess time will help but it wont ever heal the sense of loss I feel right now.

Love & hugs
Smurf

for many and varied reasons i rarely visit bi.com anymore but i do know how much pain my precious friend smurf has experienced since donna was first taken ill. her and smurf were soul mates.....they loved each other.

you are never far from my mind dear smurf....... and i know donna will remain in your heart forever.

with love and prayers for you smurf and all of this unique community who are grieving for the loss of the irrepressable donna...

julie

Damon

Sep 4, 2008, 12:38 PM

I must first apologise for bumping this thread but I have been away for a long time and just heard this news today so in my sadness I need to get this message set where it belongs..

Anyone who knows me will tell you that I'm almost cold in my views on death.. The only reason for this is that as a young teen I could never supress the tears when someone passed away and I vowed never to allow myself to suffer through empathy again so began to condition myself in order to keep this promise..

Ten years and a few funerals later, I have kept my promise and not allowed death to affect me the way it used to.. But when I heard the news today that Donna had passed, I felt sadness for the first time in a long time.. I met her when I was coming out, and we shared many a laugh together including plenty of late night IM sessions.. While we had planned to meet, as she lived very close to me, it never happened and my life took a few different turns and I lost touch with her..

But regardless of our brief few months together, I still feel sad.. Because she held a special place in my password-protected heart.. She hacked into it and planted a virus of love and I miss her so much now that i know she's gone..

She was a great person and a wonderful friend and I want to pay tribute to her for her great accomplishment as a human being..

I hope I never forget you and I hope I see you again some day..

Your boi

Damon