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jessicaa
Jan 12, 2006, 2:48 PM
Last night I came out to my boyfriend Rick and it went well.I told him I am Bisexual.My boyfriend told me that he accepts this 100% and will always be by my side.He did ask if my parents know this and I said yes.I told him my parents are supportive after I came out to them.He did ask me when I discovered this also and I told him when I was 20 years old.I am relieved that my boyfriend did not get mad and accepts this.

huneypot
Jan 12, 2006, 4:29 PM
big congrats jessica, i glad it went well for u and hope it continues to
xxx :)

jessicaa
Jan 12, 2006, 7:36 PM
Thanks,I did tell him that I do get intamate with a friend of mine,Nicole who is also Bisexual twice a week.My boyfriend does accept that and will let me do this.

bishavedmale4u
Jan 12, 2006, 8:34 PM
Congrats, glad it went well. I told my girlfriend that I am very bicurious last weekend. She was very turned on. We watched some bisexual movies on three pillows together. She was breathing heavy fast, it did really turn her on.
Later that night she fucked me with a vibrator and had me lick my cum off her tits. We both came like never before. I am so glad I told her.

Driver 8
Jan 12, 2006, 10:36 PM
I'm glad it went well for you! My personal policy is to always tell people I'm dating that I'm bi well before anything sexual happens - if it's going to bother them, we might as well find out right away and cut our losses.

I usually bring it up by telling some anecdote about an ex who was whatever sex my current date isn't (not "psycho ex" stories, just something friendly and amusing.) It seems to me I get a better response from the "I've dated men and women" approach than from the word "bi" - I am by no means ashamed to call myself "bi," but it's such a loaded word for people that aren't! People seem more willing to talk about what that might mean for any relationship we might end up having if they aren't thinking of all the stereotypes they might have.

:2cents:

3naib
Jan 13, 2006, 2:46 AM
That's wonderful Jes!!! SO happy for the acceptance, support and deeper understanding your received. Very couragious- and what a reward!

Driver8: WELL SAID!!! I like your idea abouts about the b-word- it does possess a hell of a lot of neg stigma/misconceptions.
Bravo... Honesty IS the best policy.

:bibounce:

jessicaa
Jan 14, 2006, 11:11 AM
I met Rick a month ago and I knew to tell him then now before having sex with him when it is time.He did meet my friend and female lover Nicole and that went well,they get along.Nicole told him accepting this was the right thing to do after I told her that came out to my boyfriend.

bishavedmale4u
Jan 19, 2006, 7:37 PM
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A couple weeks ago I told my girl about my bifeelings and she loved it, tonight I told another girl that is a very close friend of mine and it turned her on as well. I am starting to think that more women are turned on by the idea. am i wrong or right?
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eyelinerprincess
Jan 19, 2006, 8:06 PM
congrats. :)

my current boyfriend was told by someone else :-/ but he's a friend of a friend, so it was bound to happen. He doesn't really care anyway, I've got a "weekend girlfriend" about 30 miles away, we end up kissing when we go out, and he's pretty turned on by it

open2both
Jan 19, 2006, 8:25 PM
Lucky you. My "revelations" to some ladies haven't gone so well. And even worse, I'm always upfront with new dates and sadly that is a "deal breaker" from the get go. Oh well, so much for honesty, right?

Mrs.F
Jan 19, 2006, 11:32 PM
Congrats Jessica on everything. Glad it went well. :)

I'm thinking you have just gotten lucky bishavedmale, with your gf and friend getting turned on by this. :rolleyes: I'm happy for you though. I wish I could have been as excited and turned on as they were when I found out. It would make all this much more easier for me to accept. :( However, I think I am doing pretty good in accepting him and now we just learn and grow together as a couple. Honesty is the always the best policy!