Older Bi's

[Lake_Bi_Guy]

Just wondering as an older bi (56) if any special considerations needed for those of us who are no longer ..young pups. Of course, nature being what it is.... not able to perform like a 20 year old. Can still drive nails..smaller nails, and still hold up towel..smaller towels, but still get that great special feeling when with right person or persons. Sex isn't less enjoyable..just different now. Not all that bad if it takes longer, also can enjoy longer. Have met a few great people that are 70 +:cowboy:

[eddy10]

I am 73. No special considerations needed that I can think of. Not real sure about what kind of considerations you might be referring. Care to expand on that?

[innaminka]

I'm also not quite sure what you mean by special considerations: but I think as we get older, everyone is aware that certain performances that went so quickly in our 20's do take a little longer, but are probably more enjoyable.

What I do know, as an active bi in her mid 40's is that as i become more mature, there seems to be an ever growing number of people like myself, which is just fantastic!! :tong::female::female::tong:

[jem_is_bi]

I am 61 yrs old and having some of the best sex ever in my life. I just need a little more time to recover before I can give what I really like to get.

[anteak]

Hi Kid's

Interesting subject. I've past my 85th BD and still have the same urges I've had since puberty. I would love to fuck a lady again, lick her pussy til she has a cummy. Suck a cock. get fucked. It all appeals to me. Unfortunately sex seems to be reserved for the young. I last fucked my GF in 02. She lost her intrest in sex because it became uncomfortable from lack of natural lubrication. Of course we tried various lubes none of which were satisfactory. again very unfortunately she passed in 03. Today I satisfy myself each day by masturbation. Due to prostate surgery I no longer ejaculate but do have very intense orgasms. I do have a younger friend (in his 60's) that stops by when he's passing thru and we trade blow jobs. Wish it happened more often but he lives 200 mi. away and has a wife also needs attention.

[Biboz49]

Just wondering as an older bi (56) if any special considerations needed for those of us who are no longer ..young pups. Of course, nature being what it is.... not able to perform like a 20 year old. Can still drive nails..smaller nails, and still hold up towel..smaller towels, but still get that great special feeling when with right person or persons. Sex isn't less enjoyable..just different now. Not all that bad if it takes longer, also can enjoy longer. Have met a few great people that are 70 +:cowboy:

I'm 53 and all those things have happened but sex is always great and still getting better. I don't think I need any "special consideration". I guess if I did then it would be feeling more comfortable being with someone older, like us, who shares and can appreciate these same physical attributes. That's always been my preference anyway. But it's all good. One thing though, I hope I'm still going like anteak when I get to that age. ;)

[anteak]

Thanks Biboz49:-)

I've wondered if anyone read my postings.

[**Peg**]

stchas_bi : well... I'm older (does it matter that I'm str8?) but yes... I need special consideration due to breathing problems. I ADORE older men who know all about how sensual slow can be. I never was in much of a hurry for anything, truth to tell.

I don't have the physical stamina now that I had back then... I find the slower I go the more intense the emotion <grin>.

anteak : you are my hero: ROCK ON ! (ps: I read all your posts).

Best lover I've had to date was in his mid-70's when we met and I hope HE'S still rockin'.

[butchandberta]

Hi,
It,s very important not to have preconcieved ideas about how things are going to go when you hop in the sack. Just let things happen. Remember, loving, happy foreplay makes plain sex great sex. It's best to fuck the one you're with. One more thing: If you aren't feeling real energetic why not just plug in the old Hitachis and Reach Easys and buzz away in mutual masturbation. It's hot and ralaxing too.
Love,
Butch and Berta

[Cherokee_Mountaincat]

Well at 53 also, I have one philosophy: It may take me all night to do what I used to Do all night, but once you get this Old kitty purring with lots of nice, slow, sensuous lusting, then I can still be a wildcat for a few hours.. (Shup Rich) lol
A man that takes his time and treats a lover with slow wonderfully erotic pleasuring isnt a fuck in my humble opinion, he's a great Lover.
Kudo's to all you older lover wherever you are!
Cat

[Lonewolf76]

Great Question! - I'm 51 and naturally I have noticed changes in my body. But I think all things balance out - what I lack in the energetic fervor of my younger days - I make up for with the slow sensuality - that so many have mentioned already. I prefer slow and long over hard and fast. Brings to mind the joke a an old bull and a young bull on a hillside. The farmer brings in a trailer full of new cows. The young bull turns to the old bull and says "Hey! Let's run down there and screw one!" The old bull smiles and replies "Son, Let's walk down and love em all". I'm proud to be an old bull!

[Mmonty]

I just turned 54. I don't think there is any lack of potential partners at this age, in fact, possibly more. As far as performance, everything works fine except takes a bit longer for the 2nd time, if that comes up. LOL
There are alway's the ED meds available to help if you need them.

[DrPlease]

How great it is to learn that at age 72, I may yet again find love and companionship. :)

[Cherokee_Mountaincat]

Its Very cool Dr. Keep on keepin on, Darlin!
Cat

[Kermit Jagger]

I'm just as horny at 62 as I was at 22. What's different is that I'm now more sensous, more into foreplay and more interested in pleasing my partners. Special considerations? Yes. I'll leave the great bods to the 22 year olds. Give me the great lovers.
Kermit

[rissababynta]

I'm just as horny at 62 as I was at 22. What's different is that I'm now more sensous, more into foreplay and more interested in pleasing my partners. Special considerations? Yes. I'll leave the great bods to the 22 year olds. Give me the great lovers.
Kermit

i'm 22, where the hell's my great bod damm it :bigrin:

[DrPlease]

Its Very cool Dr. Keep on keepin on, Darlin!
Cat

You are making me smile with your encouragement! :flag4:

[Lonewolf76]

You are making me smile with your encouragement! :flag4:

Hey Doc,

You should be smiling! My 91 Y/O grandmother (who is STILL so active - you have to make an appointment to visit her!) would still call you a "Youngin". Remember it's not over - til it's over! Bless you and keep on enjoying life and truckin on! All the best! LW

[DrPlease]

Hey Doc,

You should be smiling! My 91 Y/O grandmother (who is STILL so active - you have to make an appointment to visit her!) would still call you a "Youngin". Remember it's not over - til it's over! Bless you and keep on enjoying life and truckin on! All the best! LW


Lonewolf - Thanks! :)

[Mr. Magick]

i'm 22, where the hell's my great bod damm it :bigrin:

I just looked at your Pics (for the 99th time) and I have news for ya.
You have A GREAT damn Bod!!

Still smilin' from it.

[noabody]

I'm 37 which makes me older than a kid but pretty young. I was a little overzealous with anal sex and eventually I had a mass removed from a blood vessel in the colon. The doctors didn't understand how I could have such an injury but I knew what caused it.

I think age is about respecting your body. I don't have anal sex anymore, which is depressing, but with care and caution there are a lot of things that people can do at any age. Masturbation is probably no more prevalent. The fear of disease and complications of finding a partner are always present, at any age.

I'm thinking yoga, along with a good diet and exercise will keep the sex going for a long long time. At least I hope so because I'm starting now :).

[graytwo]

How great it is to learn that at age 72, I may yet again find love and companionship. :)

Hi anteak and DocP, At age 72, like why bother? :cool: You've earned the rights to do as you please. I'm a younger type, age 60, and am going through the same things you talked about. I totally understand love and companionship, since those are needs you, me and everyone else want. I think, for what it's worth, that males have generally been stereotyped as non-performers once they move into their late 40's. I know personally, I don't have ab's of steel, can't recycle in less than 10 minutes or less, and don't want the "get it up, get it in, get it on, then a big bang" theories of my youth. Drather take it slow and easy. I figure, if we're a one shot cannon like most males are, then time is on our side. Heck, being an old dude means you have more time available to please your partner than those younger types scrambling off trying to cover all the "same bases" we did then. The really rotten part about getting older is our minds seem to be still locked into a 20-40 yr old concept yet our bodies show the wear and tear.

Actually, for those younger please don't be offended. Us older types have more "slap and tickle" than you and generally takes more time which is well worth it.

To sum it up, younger types can't believe that older types still enjoy the sensual. Guess it comes from that Dad/Mom actually had sex to make me and they were young once view?

Don't get frustrated, since at any age above 65 you've got at least 20-40 years more of sensual "slap and tickle" ahead of you.

just my thoughts

[Orlando157]

In wine age brings maturity and complexity ...... we can savor the flavors with the appreciation that only time and experience can bring

If you need any help ...... well I know how to work a cork :tongue:

[andy65]

Well I guess I am not alone in this world,I am 66 life is good sex is great but I tell you what at 55 or 56 I started to lose my want for sex my exwife didn't understant it she loved to fuck .Well we split I was single for 10 years jackoff alot didn't go out just staied home. Then I meant the gal I am married to now,she is the love off my life she got me into the BI thing and I could not beleave how great it could me,I like to get sucked my a guy and love to suck aguy and like to fuck some to with a guy. Saying all that and now my wife and I have better sex ,hell great sex.When we have a couple over we have lots of fun,but when they go home we fuck like kids. I don't know what is going on but won't stop now.:three:

[alegrias]

I'm 48 and compared to most responding in this thread, I'm just a kid. But my body has been going through some changes. The only "bad" thing is that I sometimes need to use extra lube, but that hasn't really been a problem since we keep a bottle of KY in the nightstand.

Other than that, my sex life has never been better! My husband and I have started to become more adventurous and have learned that there are many ways to please each other, in addition to regular intercourse (which we still enjoy, btw).

I expect that with a healthy diet and regular exercise, we'll be enjoying ourselves for years to come too.

[repmaaa]

and now the old does? old as i am , i still love sex and get off at least once a day. so many beautiful people in the world. perhaps i am not attractive to them, but i am young in thought. what can i say, except the urge never dies!

[jazzer]

The Beatles asked "will you still feed me will you still need me when I'm 64". Well I have reached that Golden Age and I still love sex with guys and gals,

Peg "straight" is fine honey, most women are I think. I have always been puzzled why so called straight men want to see two women going at it but the idea of a two guys going for it freaks them.

I asked a young guy online once why he was sexually attracted to people in their sixties and he replied they are considerate lovers, are discreet, know what they want, are non judgemental and are fun.

Mature age sex is fantastic, no wonder younger people want some of the action lol.

I prefer to be with men and women 50 and over and have been very fortunate in meeting some really wonderful people. :)

[magari]

52 here and learning more and more online. Being able to share opinions and experiences and meet others who can speak freely through this medium is a tremendous help. I feel so much more at ease about my bisexuality, knowing how many more guys like me are out there.

I can only imagine that a great percentage of older people who havent had the internet experience live in ignorance and isolation.

Thanks for sharing...all of you.

[PolyLoveTriad]

I just looked at your Pics (for the 99th time) and I have news for ya.
You have A GREAT damn Bod!!

Still smilin' from it.

Hehe shes Rissa is Hawt isnt she? :)

I feel like the young pup even though Im 40. I have noticed in the last couple of years I dont have the desire for sex as often, but when I do its far more intense and kinky than it was when I was 20.

[Fred_Brice]

Many say that middle age is when broadness of the mind and narrowness of the waist change places. I am what many would call a season individual. I have experienced much and I have travel to many places on this earth and I have seen many things during my lifetime. If I had to choose, one of Society’s Labels, it would probably be “Bi” (“Bi-Sexual” or “Bi-Gendered”). I am a middle aged “Bi” guy that has been married for many years, and I was very fortunate to discovered that I enjoyed being “Bi” and I really liked being with men as well as women. To me, bisexuality is mostly about just being open to totally loving people without caring about superficial things such as gender, you tend to really look at the true person, and their spirit, and being able to express that love physically without worrying about social expectations of appropriate behavior. I am attracted to the love are ultimately genderless that can be enjoyed, and celebrated with and between members of both sex without having to worry about Society’s Label. I do enjoyed being physically intimate with other people and I no longer feel confused or shame or guilt. I consider myself a "Sexual Person". I can enjoy the company of both women and men! Before getting married, my true preference was to be with a woman, but now there are times that I prefer some good old Male Bonding without the emotional hang-ups of being with a woman. I still do love women, and I am surely able to make love to people of both sexes with equal desire and pleasure is true sexuality. I find that liberated and sexually open-minded partners are great fun and can lead to many new discoveries and many new pleasures. I do not regret the pleasurable things I have done in the past, but only those pleasures that I did not do. I now have enjoyed many of life’s pleasures as it was, meant to be! I have enjoyed cross dressing, to various degrees, since I was very young lad and being curious about both genders, and having had some experiences with both genders, I now ignore many of society's prejudices. I only admitted these things to myself late in life, even though I have experienced a few experiences for a long time before and since those younger years. The do enjoyed the feeling of woman's clothing to include things like nylons, hose, heels, dresses, skirts, bras, etc. Many men do find it very appealing because of the sensual silky feeling and the look they provide, not to mention the sexual turn on factor.

[Hoosier Sam]

I am 65, and I have a 92 year old friend who still can enjoy sex play, and since his wife died it is all with other men such as I.


How great it is to learn that at age 72, I may yet again find love and companionship. :)