Bi guys help how can you know and tell a guy is into it !?

[parkerbi]

a bit disparate though , how can u grab a guy into your home , make sure he is into it , how to start saying you are into it ? the first move?
any thoughts are appreciated

[terri]

the million dollar question

[Realist]

A bi lady taught me this: When she is into someone, she tries to find a subject relating to a "friend" who is bisexual and watches her intended paramour's eyes/body language closely as she relates a situation, thought, or incident.

One she uses is a scenario like: "I know you are an intelligent and thoughtful person and I'd like your opinion about something. It may be a little controversial, but you seem to be cool-headed and I wonder if I may run what she's dealing with by you?"

If they respond positively, she continues, "A girlfriend is feeling a crush on another girl and is interested in an intimate relationship with her. If that were you, how would you handle it?"

She says if they are against that type of relationship/encounter, they will usually say something negative, then. If not, she will know that at least they may be open to the idea.

Apparently, it worked for her on several occasions. When the person reacted negatively, she just backs off.

[welickit]

The "fake friend" routine seldom does more than make you suspect. That went out during the 1970's.
Try a bit of honesty. It works far better.

[tg Shannon]

I trust my (for lack of a better term) "Gaydar" its usually pretty accurate, but I also have a bi female friend who also posseses this and if I'm not sure I fall back on her to tell me, unfortunately I dont know how to tell you to learn the "gaydar" thing, I must have it from being bi for years and interacting with alot of people........maybe call it Bidar