First Meet

[Tearfold]

I am going to meet someone tomorrow for my first ever bi encounter. I have always been curious about this and finally got the nerve up to meet someone. We have already meet on Sunday in a neutral area and nothing happened, but I felt a lot at ease with this individual. Anyone have any suggestions of how I should act or help to ease the doubt what I'm feeling now. Thanks

[aut17umn]

I would say just be yourself. Since this is your first time, you are going to be very nervous and this is natural. I dont know if your friend has a lot of experience but usually the one who has more experience, helps things move along. Also, dont give into peer pressure, do what you want to do and not because someone else wants you to do it. I had my first experiences only last month, and both were pleasant. The guys made me feel comfortable and did not expect anything beyond what we had talked about. Hope you enjoy yourself.

J

[rumple4skin]

I would have to agree with aut17umm. Be yourself and only do what you feel comfortable doing. If you want to you can have more experiences later. If you do not know this person well than safe sex is something you should think about. Good luck and I hope you have a great time.

[billy_campbell]

I agree with has been already said so I won't repeat that. You say that you feel at ease with this person when you first met. So it seems like your gut feeling is this is someone you might want to go further with sexually. I always trust first instincts about whether or not I trust someone or feel comfortable with the person, male or female. If you are both new at this then it may end up being like that first school dance where all the guys are on one side of the gym and the girls on the other side and the guys are too scared to cross the gym floor. You can let him know you are interested simply by how you look at him and the fact that you move closer to him. Body language says a lot. I had the same concerns with a lady friend that I have off and on sex with because I was never sure how to decide if she wanted to have sex. I quickly learned from her the best approach was to just ask. She would let me know whether she was interested or not. The answer was yes more often than no.

[open2both]

I'm soooo proud of you!
Nothing ever is as thrilling as your "first" time! You'll do just fine. Be aware, this will change your life...FOR THE BETTER!
Let me know how it went.

[codybear3]

Hope your first experience is a fulfilling and amazing encounter. Everyone thus far have given good advice. Do only what you want to do. Try things and if its good, do it again. If not, don't forget to use the word "NO" and "STOP" and if needed, "THATS ENOUGH"...I do not know how well you know this person but keep your eyes open and keep your "survival" instincts on at all times. I don't mean to sound like this person will kidnap you and hack you to pieces, but better safe than lifelessly sorry...I do really hope all goes well with your bi-deflowering. Your world is about to change.... :rotate: :wiggle2: :bounce: :paw: :paw: