red_rose129
Apr 2, 2009, 11:27 PM
http://www.lesbilicious.co.uk/community/why-do-lesbians-hate-bisexuals/
this is NOT my article. In coming out to myself, I decided to do a lot of research about the glbt community. I ran across this article..which i found very interesting. But after reading some of the posts, I felt the need to put my two cents in. these are my own personal feelings. Please understand I do not dislike any group of people...I just wanted to state my peace. here are two of the posts I wrote in response to the post I read: (keep in mind this was a lesbian article and this is in response to the lesbians who commented on the article):
I would like to know who made lesbians scholars on sexuality! I would LOVE to read their thesis on lesbianism!! IF they had one, and actually believed it, they would find it is very similar to bisexuals and heterosexuals. You see, the idea is to be who you are. A lesbian saying a bisexual doesn’t “technically exsist” is the same as a het saying lesbianism doesn’t exist… When I started doing my research concerning the glBt community, I only wanted to involve myself with a community who not only allowed you to be who you are, a community who fights for the rights of people (not just lesbians), a community who accepts you for who you are, a community who is compassionate and loving, but also a community who understands how it feels to be attracted to and love beautiful women. a community where it’s ok to be able to say how much you admire women and their beauty, their intelligence, their strength, their love, their style, their hair, their bodys,
their struggles, and their determination to be greater than the role society has put us in. Yet, in my research, i’ve only found a divided community who spews just as much hatred as the people they are fighting against! Lesbians become outraged when someone [christians for example] tells them they can’t naturally be a lesbian [or they are not born gay]…yet they turn around and tell bi’s they can’t be bisexual. very hypocritical! To discriminate and say, I’ll have nothing to do with those “bis”, is the same as a het saying i’ll have nothing to do with “the gays” or a racist saying i’ll have nothing to do with those (insert race here). This type of thinking breeds ignorance. Just as it is ignorant for a heterosexual to speak on homosexuals’ behalf, being they have true knowledge of being homosexual, it is ignorant for homosexuals to speak “truths” on bisexuals.
there is a lot of ignorance within the lesbian community concerning bisexuals, I agree with previous posts there are different types of bisexuals but, in my opinion, a true bisexual is the the epitome of the lgbt movement. the whole point of the movement is to not be defined by any group of people, to be who you are, and live love. bisexuals are not forced into categorization! we love because we love a persons soul. to know it’s ok to love a woman. its ok to love a man. its ok to be who you are. to not be bound and restricted by “titles” . We have the right as women [humans] to love whoever we want. all this talk in the lesbian community about cheating bisexuals…. go and read your own blogs!!!…i do and let me tell ya, there's a lot of cheating going on in the les community. the fact is their’s cheating in EVERY type of relationship! it’s not exclusionary to one group. there are also long term relationships in these groups as well. to ASSume bisexuals' main objective in life is to trick, use, and abuse lesbians is ludicrous!! lesbians who think like this need to get over themselves! notice i’m not using absolutes….that’s because i know not all lesbians feel this way. It’s completely hilarious to me to see a community (glbt) who fight for the same freakin causes be sooo divided and discriminatory!!! lol!! oh…if you use a strap on your not a real lesbian…why not get the real thing….. oh…if you still have your genital parts…your not a real transexual…..oh if you like men and women…ur just a greedy slut… oh..ur a femm….ewww ur a butch..ur not a lesbian..u just wanna be a man…. this type of thinking by anyone is disgusting and it makes me sick. people, mind ur own business and take care of urselves. the true fight, in my opinion, should be:
THE RIGHT TO LIVE YOUR LIFE AS YOU SEE FIT WITHOUT BEING JUDGED BY PRICKS WHO HAVE NOTHING BETTER TO DO WITH THEIR TIME THAN JUDGE & CATEGORIZE OTHER PEOPLE! AFTER ALL…IT IS UR EFFIN LIFE!!!!!!!!
red rose
this is NOT my article. In coming out to myself, I decided to do a lot of research about the glbt community. I ran across this article..which i found very interesting. But after reading some of the posts, I felt the need to put my two cents in. these are my own personal feelings. Please understand I do not dislike any group of people...I just wanted to state my peace. here are two of the posts I wrote in response to the post I read: (keep in mind this was a lesbian article and this is in response to the lesbians who commented on the article):
I would like to know who made lesbians scholars on sexuality! I would LOVE to read their thesis on lesbianism!! IF they had one, and actually believed it, they would find it is very similar to bisexuals and heterosexuals. You see, the idea is to be who you are. A lesbian saying a bisexual doesn’t “technically exsist” is the same as a het saying lesbianism doesn’t exist… When I started doing my research concerning the glBt community, I only wanted to involve myself with a community who not only allowed you to be who you are, a community who fights for the rights of people (not just lesbians), a community who accepts you for who you are, a community who is compassionate and loving, but also a community who understands how it feels to be attracted to and love beautiful women. a community where it’s ok to be able to say how much you admire women and their beauty, their intelligence, their strength, their love, their style, their hair, their bodys,
their struggles, and their determination to be greater than the role society has put us in. Yet, in my research, i’ve only found a divided community who spews just as much hatred as the people they are fighting against! Lesbians become outraged when someone [christians for example] tells them they can’t naturally be a lesbian [or they are not born gay]…yet they turn around and tell bi’s they can’t be bisexual. very hypocritical! To discriminate and say, I’ll have nothing to do with those “bis”, is the same as a het saying i’ll have nothing to do with “the gays” or a racist saying i’ll have nothing to do with those (insert race here). This type of thinking breeds ignorance. Just as it is ignorant for a heterosexual to speak on homosexuals’ behalf, being they have true knowledge of being homosexual, it is ignorant for homosexuals to speak “truths” on bisexuals.
there is a lot of ignorance within the lesbian community concerning bisexuals, I agree with previous posts there are different types of bisexuals but, in my opinion, a true bisexual is the the epitome of the lgbt movement. the whole point of the movement is to not be defined by any group of people, to be who you are, and live love. bisexuals are not forced into categorization! we love because we love a persons soul. to know it’s ok to love a woman. its ok to love a man. its ok to be who you are. to not be bound and restricted by “titles” . We have the right as women [humans] to love whoever we want. all this talk in the lesbian community about cheating bisexuals…. go and read your own blogs!!!…i do and let me tell ya, there's a lot of cheating going on in the les community. the fact is their’s cheating in EVERY type of relationship! it’s not exclusionary to one group. there are also long term relationships in these groups as well. to ASSume bisexuals' main objective in life is to trick, use, and abuse lesbians is ludicrous!! lesbians who think like this need to get over themselves! notice i’m not using absolutes….that’s because i know not all lesbians feel this way. It’s completely hilarious to me to see a community (glbt) who fight for the same freakin causes be sooo divided and discriminatory!!! lol!! oh…if you use a strap on your not a real lesbian…why not get the real thing….. oh…if you still have your genital parts…your not a real transexual…..oh if you like men and women…ur just a greedy slut… oh..ur a femm….ewww ur a butch..ur not a lesbian..u just wanna be a man…. this type of thinking by anyone is disgusting and it makes me sick. people, mind ur own business and take care of urselves. the true fight, in my opinion, should be:
THE RIGHT TO LIVE YOUR LIFE AS YOU SEE FIT WITHOUT BEING JUDGED BY PRICKS WHO HAVE NOTHING BETTER TO DO WITH THEIR TIME THAN JUDGE & CATEGORIZE OTHER PEOPLE! AFTER ALL…IT IS UR EFFIN LIFE!!!!!!!!
red rose